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Love800:
In life, one needs his/her private space.
Sometimes you just want to be alone. Allowing someone invading ur privacy dat moment will spoil everything.

Guy, my level of IQ is different from yours. I don't know how to explain this to you.
YOU were on your own one evening and a friend called you to hand out( and you're here telling me Space?) If he needed space why can't he go to the bar himself and prioritize his privacy??
If you hang out with friend(s) it means you want company!
In this scenario, security consciousness: I won't trust you either as my friend going behind my back to make calls. What are you hiding from me?? Why can't the calls wait till you get home in your privacy?
It's obvious there's trust issues BTW both of them and their friendship is just a mere face wash.
Well, just like I said. It depends on how people define the term friendship.

Bro, you supposed go thank God not writing on Nairaland.
Why didn't he drink that one he opened and pour for you?

The fact that he blocked you means he's angry his mission failed.

And thank God your instinct is strong for you to reject taking that drink, if not he for dey write RIP on top your head and disturbing everyone how you people planned to take over the world.

I celebrate your life bro.
Keep being vigilant, we've got one life and no one should take it from us on the platform of carelessness.

Akinpresident:
Bro, you supposed go thank God not writing on Nairaland.
Why didn't he drink that one he opened and pour for you?

The fact that he blocked you means he's angry his mission failed.

And thank God your instinct is strong for you to reject taking that drink, if not he for dey write RIP on top your head and disturbing everyone how you people planned to take over the world.

I celebrate your life bro.
Keep being vigilant, we've got one life and no one should take it from us on the platform of carelessness.

exactly, if he was a good friend, he would have demanded apologies and discuss the matter...not blocking

sonofsteven:
I no remember the last time I heard this kind talk

Me wey dey drink anything wey dey open

Na who wan poison you

Someone I know back then in the hood was poisoned when he went out with his guys.

Me sef dey leave my drinks with my guys and com back to continue drinking. Everything depends on the people involved

That is foolishness who ask him to help you to open it you do the right thing but if l am you I will tell him that I do not want cold one or the type of the beer again that means you have lost one of your friends let him know that you can do with out him

ruggedboy01:
Why hangout with someone you don’t trust in the first place, oh since he’s your friend, he doesn’t visit your house where he can poison you without anyone noticing

For your own good, never make that mistake. Your friend can be eyeing your babe or wife even.

Nor loose guard. The line between friendship and enmity is very thin. In fact, there are more frenemies today than true friends.

The Mr Opener friend should have said, "Ol' boy, na free beer you give me so" and drink it.

There are mature ways to handle things. Of course, after that, you have known that the trust is not that big.

afangide:
You could have told him to take a sip first

It will be better if he just give him the drink. Simple.

You did the right thing. Block that friend also.

Gbadugbakun:
You went out with your friend to the bar, you ordered for drinks, but before they brought the drinks, you went out to make a call. When you came back, your friend has already opened it for you and even poured it in the glass.

You asked him why he did that, he said the waiter wanted to use the opener for another customer so he said let him kuku open it for you.

You move the drink one side and order for another drink. Why you guys finished drinking, you paid for the drink he opened which you didn't drink along with the ones you drank.

When you get home you receive a WhatsApp from this supposed friend asking you what you see him as, that are you trying to say he was trying to poison you? You try to reply him but he has already blocked you on Whatsapp. You try to call him but it's showing busy meaning he has blocked your number as well.

Did I do something wrong. Why would you open a drink and pour it out for someone when he didn't ask you to do so?

What i mean by privacy here can be in anywhere. Whether in the bar, party, swimming pool, hanging out, etc. That moment you just want to be alone in the midst of all the noise.

Irrespective of the topic, in life, humans need lone times(boundaries) in which they use to process their lives or do critical thinking.

7demons:
Guy, my level of IQ is different from yours. I don't know how to explain this to you.
YOU were on your own one evening and a friend called you to hand out( and you're here telling me Space?) If he needed space why can't he go to the bar himself and prioritize his privacy??
If you hang out with friend(s) it means you want company!
In this scenario, security consciousness: I won't trust you either as my friend going behind my back to make calls. What are you hiding from me?? Why can't the calls wait till you get home in your privacy?
It's obvious there's trust issues BTW both of them and their friendship is just a mere face wash.
Well, just like I said. It depends on how people define the term friendship.

If any of your friends does anything suspicious, my advice is act accordingly - don't make the assumption that because you trust someone, it automatically means that they can't stab you in the back when the perfect opportunity shows up. Some people easily get envious of their close friends and they don't show it...

ruggedboy01:
Why hangout with someone you don’t trust in the first place, oh since he’s your friend, he doesn’t visit your house where he can poison you without anyone noticing

Do not out of loyalty or guilty feeling eat poison. You did the right thing. Many men are 6 feet below simply because they could not say no to a murderous friend.

To be honest, what do u guys see in drinking beer?

What is so special about it?

I really want to know.

Peskid147:
Boss u have no bad intention for your friend that opened the drink when you went to make a call so him blocking you makes him childish, so bro move on with your life.

Very simple very easy, I no dey do sentiment with my life. In the street, trust no one

Harp, I missed that beer

[quote author=Love800 post=130456131

Irrespective of the topic, in life, humans need lone times(boundaries) in which they use to process their lives or do critical thinking.[/quote]...but not in this scenario.
Let's leave matter for Mattias.

afangide:
You could have told him to take a sip first

He would have taken it if he didn't poison it but the outcome would have still been the same: trust broken

Ojagun:


@OP

E be like say you have never heard of the American homosexual serial killer Jeffrey Dahmer.

He would poison the drinks of his male victims,they would lose consciousness,he would r@pe them,chop them into pieces and...dinner is served

Your so-called "friend" was upto something untoward/nasty/despicable/rotten.

He is simply upset his plan failed.

Never apologize to anyone for being concerned about your personal safety/security.

Lol. Not everyone is out to get you. If his plan indeed had failed this time, there would always be another time. You can't be wiser than the person who is monitoring you.

ruggedboy01:
Why hangout with someone you don’t trust in the first place, oh since he’s your friend, he doesn’t visit your house where he can poison you without anyone noticing

Common sense. Thank you

You did well. Don't mind whatever he thought of you. Better to be alive than to be dead been stupid.

There's a Yoruba proverb that says


'Eni o ba tin barin ma funra si, eni a fura si lo ye ka yera'

which literally means

Don't suspect people in ur circle because once you start suspecting them, then its time to distance urself

Gbadugbakun:
You went out with your friend to the bar, you ordered for drinks, but before they brought the drinks, you went out to make a call. When you came back, your friend has already opened it for you and even poured it in the glass.

You asked him why he did that, he said the waiter wanted to use the opener for another customer so he said let him kuku open it for you.

You move the drink one side and order for another drink. Why you guys finished drinking, you paid for the drink he opened which you didn't drink along with the ones you drank.

When you get home you receive a WhatsApp from this supposed friend asking you what you see him as, that are you trying to say he was trying to poison you? You try to reply him but he has already blocked you on Whatsapp. You try to call him but it's showing busy meaning he has blocked your number as well.

Did I do something wrong. Why would you open a drink and pour it out for someone when he didn't ask you to do so?

find another phone and send him message. To hell with him, he should Bleep off, he's a killer

YouAreNobody:
Someone I know back then in the hood was poisoned when he went out with his guys.

Me sef dey leave my drinks with my guys and com back to continue drinking. Everything depends on the people involved

Even for hood, I never for once fear my guys wey we dey role.... everything depends on the kind friends you have

Real drinkers nor dey waste bottles like that.
The persin wey open am for drink am to settle misgivings before it even arise...

Today's makes it exactly 1 week my former hood boy was poisoned in a seat out in Lagos, man doing well for himself, owns 3 shops in Lagos, would be buried this Saturday in Imo state.
The fact that u can't kill someone, doesn't mean some other person cant kill you, never loose your guard, carelessness have led lots of people to journey of no return.

If there wasn't any foul play, why didn't he take a sip from the drink? Guy goan thank your God. You don't need such people in your life abeg

AS E BE SO YOUR FRIEND REALLY PUT POISON INSIDE THE DRINK OOOO CAUSE NA THE FACT SEY THE POISON WEY HIM SUFFER TO DO FOR YOU DON WASTE NA HIM DEY PAIN AM SO OOOOO

IF YOU EVEN CHECK AM WELL YOU GO DISCOVER SEY THE PHONE CALL WEY CARRY YOU COMOT NA HIM PLAN AM SO OOOOO

livinbygrace:
My brother you did well and thank God for your wisdom.You have done well.That your guy get bad intention and he is fake.No be every posion dey kill ooo..Dem dey use some to collect glory.
Once they put it inside your drink,you are gone.You will be alive and nothing will be working whereas your friend will be living large.He will even be at your mercy anytime you need help,but he has collected what he wanted.
So you never did anything wrong ,thank your God and move on.
No be all poison be death ooo..Infact dem dey bluetooth glory now self,as far as they call you on phone and you pick it,that one is common among Arabs....so be wise.

Lmao. So Arabs too don dey follow use person glory

Akpabio22:
oga you would have told him to drink from it. Did you know you embarrassed him. Just tell him oga sip from my own with joy he go sip if he didn't sip then you pay for another drink. Una no get orientation at all

Na u not get OT at all. If he had told him to sip the drink,he would hv aggravated the issue. It was the stupid friend that shud hv tasted the drink without being told to prove he's innocent.

Beer parlor problem and need beer parlor solution

he should have asked the so called friend to take the drink himself! he,obviously would decline and the truth revealed!!

Okay.

I appreciate ur every word.[quote author=7demons post=130456456][/quote]

donem:
Today's makes it exactly 1 week my former hood boy was poisoned in a seat out in Lagos, man doing well for himself, owns 3 shops in Lagos, would be buried this Saturday in Imo state.
The fact that u can't kill someone, doesn't mean some other person cant kill you, never loose your guard, carelessness have led lots of people to journey of no return.

Sad. Killed by his fellow ibo man. A typical ibo can be ridden with envy and jealousy. This op and his guy must also be ibo. Na dem dey use poison kpai people