₦airaland Forum

cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.

I supposed the christian couples in the category are the black people, and the traditional wedding is black wedding to you abi, while the white wedding is Church wedding and not a traditional wedding,too, abi?
Isn't every wedding a traditional one?

A race lost in many identity of beliefs. Even some Muslim females now crave the western wedding gown. Confusing my confusion.

Where in your bible did any marriage take place in the church or synagogue or conducted by a prophet or pastor or apostle?

I don't know if you're a silly kid, or you're looking for attention or just a daft or all of the above

You people keep deceiving yourselves yet the church and mosque is the most immoral place that exists. Pastors, church members and workers share themselves. One man having sex with mother and daughters while some women are having sex with father and sons including the same sex acts happening in these places of worship. Not even talking about those happening in the alters during night deliverance.

I hate religion because I hate hypocrisy

FatimaAbubakar:
Altar of which god? Keep deceiving yourself. Na why Africans be like slaves for the world.

This discussion is for christians senior man. I think that should answer your inordinate question

Yes, as long as you've paid her birth price and done the traditional marriage.

We've been having sex before we got married. Dey there dey fool una self only God can judge me. Not humans

Christian couples can fu///ck each other anytime they want, married or not.

Curious345:
Hnmm.

Na person when Chop belleful nahim preek dey stand .

This current (confused ) administration is responsible for the exponential rise of ERECTILE DISFUNCTION (EDF) AMONGST Nigerian men today ...

Sex has no barriers. I'm currently having safe sexual relationship with 4 extremely cute and gorgeous ladies of different shapes ( not olosho please ,they're morally upright and working class ).. and I satisfy them vigorously

one is Ibo, one is urohbo, one is Yoruba
and one is delta ibo.

take note: safe sex.

Hope this your safe sex is also spiritually safe?

cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.

Confusionist...you can have sex after only traditional wedding

cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.

What is this bull crap? Even the Bible doesnt recognize a white wedding. Or where did you ever read in the bible where a prophet or an apostle precided over a wedding?
The only wedding approved by God is the traditional wedding.
You ignorant Christains will just be making life hard for your sense making up rules that are strange even to God.

The blessing of the parents is what God recognises.
If a man of God blesses your marriage and your parents didnt you are not married in the sight of God.... Go and read your bible

Curious345:
Hnmm.

Na person when Chop belleful nahim preek dey stand .

This current (confused ) administration is responsible for the exponential rise of ERECTILE DISFUNCTION (EDF) AMONGST Nigerian men today ...

Sex has no barriers. I'm currently having safe sexual relationship with 4 extremely cute and gorgeous ladies of different shapes ( not olosho please ,they're morally upright and working class ).. and I satisfy them vigorously

one is Ibo, one is urohbo, one is Yoruba
and one is delta ibo.

take note: safe sex.

Which of dem sabi pass

Slavery African world

Stop confusing yourself! Are couple allowed to kiss during the traditional wedding? Is kissing not sensual? Is there any religious law against such at traditional wedding? Do they not refer to the duo as couple after traditional wedding.

Legally speaking, notice of marriage is often filed and the marriage registry before the traditional wedding. Hence, once there is a formal consent of the coupe and their families in a forum as the traditional wedding, the union is sealed.

White wedding is simply a formality to fulfill and tick the religious boxes.

Blitzking:
Which of dem sabi pass

Urobo 1st she slim but busty
Delta Igbo 2nd chubby
Ibo 3rd chubby
Yoruba 4th chubby ( but she keeps asking and pleading for head .. and we having issues with that currently )

Once dowry has been paid. Just go ahead because the Bible mentione only dowry concerning marriage

Yes. That is the only marriage recognized in the Bible

cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.

Unscriptural. The traditional marriage is recognized in the Bible as legally binding if both families agree. Gen 24 vs 53

cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.

This one is mentally unstable

adams123:
Give us your prove from the bible... chapter and verses...pls...

They can't give you any scriptural backing because they are teaching as doctrines, the commandments of men

cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.

If you are putting up a Christian or religious write up, it's better you put up Scriptures to back up your posts. Thanks and God bless you richly.

dawnomike:
I think we should start from what is a 'Wedding' and when does 'Marriage' actually takes place.

Once a man pays the dowry, and the couple receives the blessings of the parents involved; the marriage is sealed already.

Every other thing is just Legal or religious validation.

So, once I pay the dowry and the two families agree and bless the union.... That's all!!!



#MyOpinion

totally agree with you, but it's bride price not dowry and do you know whites don't pay bride price?

Ishilove:
They can't give you any scriptural backing because they are teaching as doctrines, the commandments of men

Is there any scriptural or biblical backing concerning white/church wedding?

I mean, did Joseph marry Mary, the mother of Jesus the Jewish way, or the Christian way?

They should do it before traditional

Lashing can happen on or before white or traditional marriage. Meanwhile I'm yet to see white wedding come before Traditional(That should tell u white wedding na wash)

We actually have a lot to explain in terms of education in matters of marriage

Ordinarily, marriage involves two families coming together to becoming one. The only actors that should be involved in the processes is family, every other persons or thing is secondary

In Nigeria to be specific, we do more than two marriages

The day you pay your woman's dowry, that day, the journey of your marriage begins. You're entitled to everything and every part of your spouse, likewise your spouse, everything that concerns you

Marriage isn't founded on the bedrock of religion, it's founded on the bedrock of family

This is a rhetorical question.


TM is the main and real marriage.

Any other one is a reception.

White/Church wedding is doctrinal and not scriptural.

joseph1832:
Is there any scriptural or biblical backing concerning white/church wedding?

I mean, did Joseph marry Mary, the mother of Jesus the Jewish way, or the Christian way?

The Christianity came after the death of Christ, so Joseph married Mary the Jewish way. What we call white wedding is a Western construct. They marry according to their own customs

joseph1832:
Is there any scriptural or biblical backing concerning white/church wedding?

I mean, did Joseph marry Mary, the mother of Jesus the Jewish way, or the Christian way?

Traditional wedding is the hill Ishi will die and be buried on.

I wan tag her but I know she will be here sharp sharp

cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.

The Nigerian traditional wedding 💍 has more Christian scriptural standing and reference than the adopted Eurocentric cultural former pagan white wedding ceremony.

If you know the word of God you cannot be decieved.

If you don't know the word of God you are already decieved 😞 you just don't know it .

It boils down to the question, does the church recognize traditional wedding...
If they do, then yes... Couples can bang silly after traditional wedding but if not... Then it's after the church wedding but as Africans... I think the former should be the case...... Once u don pay dowry, everything else that comes after that should be formalities

Ishilove:
The Christianity came after the death of Christ, so Joseph married Mary the Jewish way. What we call white wedding is a Western construct. They marry according to their own customs

so what about after the death of Jesus Christ? I believe this was when Christianity came. Is there any scriptural backing?