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Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by Antoeni(m): 12:57pm On Jul 07, 2024
They Should Fire Down Immediately.
There is Nothing Like White Wedding in Africa
Traditional Marriage & COURT Marriage is The Only Recognize & Legal Marriage In Nigeria & African
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by FitCorper: 1:02pm On Jul 07, 2024
Righthussle:
na only African people prefer to worship their colonisers god wey dey collect 10% of their monthly income instead of the god of their fore fathers wey no need any percentage of their monthly income.
You are gradually heading for destruction. I pray God have mercy on your soul. Amen
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by Fuckyoumod: 1:07pm On Jul 07, 2024
Regardless:
Biblically or should I say according to Jewish customs, once the bride price has been paid, they are now husband and wife. Since sex is only permitted between couples in the sight of God, a couple can technically have sex after their traditional marriage however isn't also better if they take their vows before God and allow a Man of God bless their union?

Sex that you will have endlessly in marriage, what is a few days or weeks that you can't wait till you take your vows before God?
shut up you are talking nonsense!

The man, your (great grandfather) that gave birth to your grandfather was not a Christian, I know he did not do white wedding.

Are you technically saying that his marriage to his wife is null and void? Are you saying that your grandfather is a bastard because his father did not wed his mom in church?

You must to this nonsense!
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by Blitzking: 1:10pm On Jul 07, 2024
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Ibo 3rd chubby
Yoruba 4th chubby ( but she keeps asking and pleading for head .. and we having issues with that currently )
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Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by Khyrvxjzy: 1:12pm On Jul 07, 2024
cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.
why do Christian have issue about marriage, merely asking a girl will you marry me and she said yes is enough reason to have sex with her. wife was brought to isaac tent the moment she entered the village... secondarily if you do traditional wedding you are free to wipe her
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by Sleekfingers: 1:13pm On Jul 07, 2024
cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.
What's White wedding?
The British/french / Portuguese / really did some numbers on Africans
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by hopefulLandlord: 1:30pm On Jul 07, 2024
grandstar:
"Gloriousgbola, I was shocked you were sharing this.

Your username is worrying grin grin grin
I'm not gloriousgbola
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by GloriousGbola: 1:36pm On Jul 07, 2024
hopefulLandlord:
I'm not gloriousgbola
Of course you are not

Nano prick sneakerhead niccu tongue grin
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by SIRTee15: 1:37pm On Jul 07, 2024
Lovelydaisies:
Due to lack of money, stress, and abstinence before marriage involved, many Christians won't wait for the wedding or even do it at all.

They'll claim it's not in the Bible, Jesus never officiated one, it was 'imposed' on us, it's our tradition, blah, blah, blah.

Same Christians who did baptism won't celebrate their matrimony o, because it was imposed or the white man's belief or whatever nonsense they tell themselves.

If you are a Christian, observe your wedding: the traditional rites first, then the religious and court wedding, before consummation.

As a proud Catholic, you are not supposed to consummate your wedding before. Wed, then get intimate.

And it doesn't cost much - get your rings, your sponsors, follow your marriage course, do your clearance (if necessary), get your attire (not necessarily white wedding gown), and a priest.

Na you know if you go carry bridal limousine and groom shower.
Entertain people if you can.
Even the wedding Mass is not compulsory.


Abeg make I rest
All above is doctrine and not biblical. That's the point.
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by iramure(m): 1:37pm On Jul 07, 2024
Anytime the word "RELIGION" cuts across my way, I feel like shooting all naija pastors , imams and Alfas dead. They are all problems.
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by hopefulLandlord: 1:38pm On Jul 07, 2024
GloriousGbola:
Of course you are not

Nano prick sneakerhead niccu tongue grin
grin
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by Lifemanage: 1:38pm On Jul 07, 2024
cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.
Your opinion! Have sex steady
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by joseph1832(m): 1:41pm On Jul 07, 2024
Ishilove:
None. None whatsoever
👌
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by grandstar(m): 1:47pm On Jul 07, 2024
hopefulLandlord:
I'm not gloriousgbola
I'm sorry.

He will still receive the message
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by Sadeeqsabu: 1:51pm On Jul 07, 2024
From the word traditional wedding , it's something of forefathers and not of traditions , so doing traditional wedding does not guarantee sex but after the white wedding or church wedding ..... traditional wedding only deprive any man asking her hands in marriage or the man going up to sake hands of another woman's
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by Almunjid: 2:01pm On Jul 07, 2024
hopefulLandlord:
its a sin for a Christian to have sex at all, Jesus who we Christians emulate never had sex even though it was allowed at the time, he stayed pure and holy. He didn't even marry

Be a true Christian today by saying no to sex and marriage, its better to go to heaven with a frustrated and unused vagyna and dick than go to hell with a well used one, heaven is the goal my Christians, be Christlike
Na true say Jesus Christ no marry or have sex during him time on earth. But na carry overs him get, he's coming back to rewrite do them (i.e marry and have sex). So, he advised is followers not to get carry overs in them, since they'll only live on earth for once. grin
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by Ajsmart(m): 2:04pm On Jul 07, 2024
So, what you’re saying is that a man need two wedding (traditional and foreign) and the foreign one should be deemed more important? SMH, some Africans are sadly still mentally enslaved!!!

Just to re-educate you: The most important marriage is your traditional marriage where the bride and groom are joined together by their respective families and blessed by their parents and families!

cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by luluman: 2:07pm On Jul 07, 2024
dawnomike:
I think we should start from what is a 'Wedding' and when does 'Marriage' actually takes place.

Once a man pays the dowry, and the couple receives the blessings of the parents involved; the marriage is sealed already.

Every other thing is just Legal or religious validation.

So, once I pay the dowry and the two families agree and bless the union.... That's all!!!



#MyOpinion
very correct
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by Ajsmart(m): 2:08pm On Jul 07, 2024
Thanks grin for re-educating some of our modern mentally enslaved people.

Righthussle:
No.

As happy former slaves to the English people you need to do white wedding ( the official wedding of your former slave masters) so that the white man's god will bless your genitals and let you enter his white heaven when you die.

If my friend Femi hear this question, him go say Na Colonialism cause am. But I always disagree. no be Colonialism, no be only Africa English people colonize. Dem colonize India and China but

na only African people prefer to bear the names of their colonisers

na only African people wey, instead of to pour dry gin for ground to communicate with their fore fathers go prefer to kneel and drink the blood of a crucified man.

na only African people agree wholeheartedly say na god of Israel, their colonizers god na him create dem.

na only African people agree say the ways of their own fore fathers is evil

na only African people go give you the complete history of Israel and Saudi Arabia but them no know the name of the last king of their village.

na only African people prefer to worship their colonisers god wey dey collect 10% of their monthly income instead of the god of their fore fathers wey no need any percentage of their monthly income.
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by FatimaAbubakar(f): 2:08pm On Jul 07, 2024
Sec5:
This discussion is for christians senior man. I think that should answer your inordinate question
Go and sit down!!! This is a public forum. If you are not comfortable with it, then don't post anything online.
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by luluman: 2:09pm On Jul 07, 2024
Augustine2244:
Forget all the Christian bullshit.
Traditional wedding is the main wedding itself and without White wedding, the marriage is 200% valid through and through.
A couple who have done the trad can have sex anytime, anyday, because they are already married.
Marriage rites have already been performed between the two families and sealed.
White wedding is just a complementary ceremony, nothing more.
Just watch how foolish religious fanatics from all these useless Pentecostal churches would come to attack this concept and criticize it harshly, quoting the Bible or misquoting it basing on what their useless pastors churned out from their demented brains.
You are too dumb to call Christian activities bullshit& some denomination foolish. If you have a valid point say it without attacks on anyone.
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by Augustine2244(m): 2:12pm On Jul 07, 2024
luluman:
You are too dumb to call Christian activities bullshit& some denomination foolish. If you have a valid point say it without attacks on anyone.
And you are too dumb to attack like a Rottweiler dog on attack mode.
Did I mention your name or your church?
Do you need a choke chain to control your rantings?
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by favour32(m): 2:18pm On Jul 07, 2024
The major wedding na the traditional one and una fit shine con_go

Any other one na announcement!
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by CaptainGo:
cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.
cheesy Very funny take.


My brother, pay your wife's dowry and get her parent's blessing.
That's it.
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by qrymz(m): 2:25pm On Jul 07, 2024
You're married as soon as both parents gives their blessings. Anything outside this is just ceremony

cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by jetson06: 2:36pm On Jul 07, 2024
First of all, there’s no such thing as church wedding. Church wedding is a colonial construct that was introduced to Africa by the white man, to spread about the gospel of European imperialism. In the Bible, the wedding in Canaan that was attended by Jesus was not held in the church. It was more of a traditional wedding. What am trying to say in essence is that traditional wedding holds more value than church wedding. Matter of fact the payment of a woman’s bride price is the koko. Once you have paid her bride price you are allowed to take her home and do what the Bleep you want to do with her. Am I making any sense here?
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by PepeXKermit: 2:37pm On Jul 07, 2024
dawnomike:
I think we should start from what is a 'Wedding' and when does 'Marriage' actually takes place.

Once a man pays the dowry, and the couple receives the blessings of the parents involved; the marriage is sealed already.

Every other thing is just Legal or religious validation.

So, once I pay the dowry and the two families agree and bless the union.... That's all!!!



#MyOpinion
Gbam. Tradutional wedding is even more wedding than church wedding
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by zrocky: 2:39pm On Jul 07, 2024
wedding is wedding. the first wedding has always been traditional wedding. All this Christian wedding of church started with catholic church. now modern church are using it to scam members



cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by Nubian23: 2:47pm On Jul 07, 2024
Righthussle:
No.

Lol. This guy is something else, aswear.

As happy former slaves to the English people you need to do white wedding ( the official wedding of your former slave masters) so that the white man's god will bless your genitals and let you enter his white heaven when you die.

If my friend Femi hear this question, him go say Na Colonialism cause am. But I always disagree. no be Colonialism, no be only Africa English people colonize. Dem colonize India and China but

na only African people prefer to bear the names of their colonisers

na only African people wey, instead of to pour dry gin for ground to communicate with their fore fathers go prefer to kneel and drink the blood of a crucified man.

na only African people agree wholeheartedly say na god of Israel, their colonizers god na him create dem.

na only African people agree say the ways of their own fore fathers is evil

na only African people go give you the complete history of Israel and Saudi Arabia but them no know the name of the last king of their village.

na only African people prefer to worship their colonisers god wey dey collect 10% of their monthly income instead of the god of their fore fathers wey no need any percentage of their monthly income.
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by magzey: 2:59pm On Jul 07, 2024
Ask Davido he will show you the Answer sef grin grin

Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by GenFunction: 3:04pm On Jul 07, 2024
See why i call some Nigerians 'religious misfits'...christian follow xtian laws,traditionalists folo ur norms,simple! Which one be yen yen yen wey u ask if no be confusionist u be.
Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by TenQ: 3:12pm On Jul 07, 2024
cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.
Perfectly said!

Sex only AFTER the last marriage rite is concluded
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