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NewDea4:
She's a rug muncher

Say it with your full chest

The body is still stiff.

Zonefree:
See as nyash strong like drenched 50kg bag of cement

You are not a nice person at all. ...

EmekaBlue:
Be like boys still press her bress as a tomboy or wetin come fall d bress

So na pressing dey fall breasts abi?


Some breasts are natural looking at the ground. ....naturally pendulous. ....
Some women are gifted with slippers breast s

The highest level of stupidity is to be dressing or behaving as d opposite gender,no single reason or sense behind that shit

rock86:
What were you thinking of? Hormon@l imbalance

Yes. Specifically a mild variant of congenital adrenal hyperplasia.

MrLibrarian:
no she no gree because I no get money and I'm a private school teacher earning 30k monthly

private school teacher wey want marry c&b lawyer. How u want take maintain her?

@chitheo

Terrible disgusting things that stupid and misguided youths do from peer pressure Look at her she needs physiological adjustment to be a real woman.IT IS NO LAUGHING MATTER.Pity the guy that will date her.

DrAda:
Yes. Specifically a mild variant of congenital adrenal hyperplasia.

Are you a Peadiatric endocrinologist?

fman:
I know its you. U never changed.. Despite using different monikers.

You can’t name any other moniker to me

rock86:
Are you a Peadiatric endocrinologist?

Yes

Switinthemiddle:
I'm just thinking... Why is it right for girls to dress up/act like boys... They are called TOMBOYS
But if a guy dresses/acts up like a girl.. It becomes a crime.. Why
Ps. I'm nt supporting gays o

Hav u ever see a insecticide or any solution dats used to kill butterfly? Because butterfly and its activities are perceived to be harmless. Women ar like butterfly.

No b every play man dey play. Nature made it so.

Switinthemiddle:
if i may ask who branded us with this discipline carrying stamp.. Why is it that when a woman cheats either in marriage or relationship it is more frowned upon than men. I don't agree with ur view

As a Christian, my answer your question is that the responsibility was vested on men but God and Christ.

You said you did not agree with my view. Please post your view do that we can learn. Thanks

Psoul:
It's because women can be foolish and it will fit them, but a man is supposed to be a man. No room for a man to misbehave. Men are meant to be carriers of discipline. Your can't do that when you're behaving like a woman.

So in that case, your mother can also be foolish?
This is the misogyny that homophobia stems from, this hyper masculinity that's not serving you anything but only putting you in a box is the reason why society is a mess, it's the reason why men are the ones who commit suicide the most because you have created a dumbass version of masculinity that you think all men should live by. No man is a 100% masculine and no woman is a 100% feminine even in our biological makeup, we both have both the male and female hormone so when you shame or degrade feminity, you are definitely insecure about your own masculinity. You degrade and undermine feminity as foolishness and only praises it when it suits or turns the patriarchy on (the male gaze). It's a really shallow way to view women especially knowing the fact that women are outsmarting men in education at a faster rate and also almost out earning men and the dumbest part is that foolish men are the ones causing wars and chaos around but to you those men are wise because that's masculine, oga dumb dumb

EmekaBlue:
Good point. The world is unfair to men

Not society, mostly men. Men are the ones who put other men in a box and will condemn them for breaking gender rules because of society's hatred for masculinity, the problem starts with us because we created and molded the world to what it is now

Switinthemiddle:
why do we always lower and relax our expectations when it comes to females. If you check am gan some guys kind of like girl to girl sex (lesbianism) it turns them on... Including me.. But when it comes to guys to guys sex(gays) it becomes repulsive.. Even to me too

Men or the patriarchy created and molded the world to what it is now, from the achievements which are the science, arts, commerce etc to it's failures like wars, famine, inequality etc.

This is going to be a long rant but please bear with me and try to read it

Men were the ones who saw women as the fairer and weaker sex that needed to be guarded, controlled and cared for and in return women will be babymakers, nurturers, homemakers etc. Men were the ones that set that rule in place propagated by religion that men were in charge of, this was a huge advantage to both men and women until the dawn of the 19th and 20th century when science evolved and critical thinking came along with it, religion was loosing it's wane on society and the whole gender balance model wasn't working anymore because the industrial revolution already destroyed that model.

Society (mostly made up of men of academia) even realized that we needed that gender balance in ancient times but not today as the world has evolved and instead that gender balance was hurting us because society can't just dump everything on men and expects them to be fine while women do nothing and bask in their female privilege which came with it's own set of baggage. Just common sense should tell us that if someone is in charge of everything and you do nothing, that person becomes in charge of your life, that was the case with women, since men owned and did everything, they had no autonomy or self worth hence why I urge men to rethink following the ways of their forefathers because it can't work today as both times are two massively different times and it's killing men. Male friendships are at all time low as male friendships are mostly surface level friendships and shallow now because men don't have the time to spend building connections with one another and don't even plan on building one......I'm gonna ask you something, when was the last time you asked a male friend of yours how he's doing when you didn't need something from them compared to a female friend of yours? I'm gonna guess it was a long time ago because of how you view them both, you view one as being able to take care of themselves and you may even see it gay for asking such question to a guy while you must have asked a female such a question this week because that's how society raised men to be, it goes in line with the first question that you asked, why we expect lower expectations from women compared to men. Male friendships are also dying because of capitalism as men are out there providing for their families, male loneliness are at all time high, male depression and suicide rates are massively high today and it's because most men still choose to wear the skin of our forefathers in this century where everything is sky high, we choose not to be vulnerable and will laugh at our fellow men for showing vulnerability when it's first a human thing to be vulnerable not a feminine thing (Yep, statistics shows that men are the ones who will laugh at their male friends the most compared to women when they venture into sensitive subjects like if the man was raped by a woman as a kid or is telling his fellow man about his mental health which is really sad). To answer the bolded, looking at how we molded the world, why won't men lower our expectations of women when we literally gave them the hand in the first place? It's a damage we already did to ourselves, it's why we have women that demand to be taken care because we pushed for those gender roles on them and now that it's biting us in the back especially in this economy, we are complaining. All in all, we men should realize that we are human beings first before we are men and do better within ourselves and that starts with therapy because as men, we need help with our mental health than women and it's ironic because it's not the case as women are the ones getting help with their mental health compared to us men. The patriarchy is also hurting men because it was designed by elite men (men of the high class which doesn't include all men) to enjoy at the detriment of poor, labour working and illiterate men, it may have some benefits but even those are outweighed by it's disadvantages

As for the second question, it stems from patriarchal misogyny. Society only look for men's pleasure. Just look at porn, it's mostly made to satisfy straight men, the man orgasming is the end goal, no one cares if the woman orgasmed or not and also you are a straight man who's attracted to women so seeing women in lesbian scenes turn you on and no not all women like lesbian porn unless they have bisexual or lesbian bone in their body. Most straight women watch gay porn compared to lesbian porn because they are attracted to men even in Asia, yaoi manga and bara which are both forms of gay porn are marketed towards asian women, many women in the past couldn't admit this because of patriarchy (only things that men want and like matters so since women were under men, they were also forced to pretend they like these things)

Damn i have to give it to you... Flamemignon1 .This wasn't no long epistle, u actually educated me and impressed me. I swear most of what u said is true...especially that bit abt male friends. I like your way of reasoning. Its prob 1 of several reasons why i dnt keep much friends cuz we dnt vibe on the same wave length.
Please sir/ma if u dnt mind i would like to get to interact more with ya. I want to associate more with people that can impact my life more- educationally and in general. Contact me. Zero 9 zero two 1 nine two 5 one 4 eight. Thanks

Flamemignon1:
Not society, mostly men. Men are the ones who put other men in a box and will condemn them for breaking gender rules because of society's hatred for masculinity, the problem starts with us because we created and molded the world to what it is now

i like your views sir

meobizy:
Okay.

ma'am not every nairalander has multiple accounts

Flamemignon1:
Not society, mostly men. Men are the ones who put other men in a box and will condemn them for breaking gender rules because of society's hatred for masculinity, the problem starts with us because we created and molded the world to what it is now

True

Switinthemiddle:
ma'am not every nairalander has multiple accounts

One of the culprits.

Flamemignon1:
Not society, mostly men. Men are the ones who put other men in a box and will condemn them for breaking gender rules because of society's hatred for masculinity, the problem starts with us because we created and molded the world to what it is now

Hatred of masculinity or feminity? Pretty sure it's the latter.

meobizy:
One of the culprits.

nah miss/mrs was just intrigued by your name and decided to check thru your profile. U wrong on this one. It can only be sweet in the middle and nowhere else

Anny69:
Hatred of masculinity or feminity? Pretty sure it's the latter.

its none of that.. Just having a brilliant brain to utilize

Flamemignon1:
Men or the patriarchy created and molded the world to what it is now, from the achievements which are the science, arts, commerce etc to it's failures like wars, famine, inequality etc.

This is going to be a long rant but please bear with me and try to read it

Men were the ones who saw women as the fairer and weaker sex that needed to be guarded, controlled and cared for and in return women will be babymakers, nurturers, homemakers etc. Men were the ones that set that rule in place propagated by religion that men were in charge of, this was a huge advantage to both men and women until the dawn of the 19th and 20th century when science evolved and critical thinking came along with it, religion was loosing it's wane on society and the whole gender balance model wasn't working anymore because the industrial revolution already destroyed that model.

Society (mostly made up of men of academia) even realized that we needed that gender balance in ancient times but not today as the world has evolved and instead that gender balance was hurting us because society can't just dump everything on men and expects them to be fine while women do nothing and bask in their female privilege which came with it's own set of baggage. Just common sense should tell us that if someone is in charge of everything and you do nothing, that person becomes in charge of your life, that was the case with women, since men owned and did everything, they had no autonomy or self worth hence why I urge men to rethink following the ways of their forefathers because it can't work today as both times are two massively different times and it's killing men. Male friendships are at all time low as male friendships are mostly surface level friendships and shallow now because men don't have the time to spend building connections with one another and don't even plan on building one......I'm gonna ask you something, when was the last time you asked a male friend of yours how he's doing when you didn't need something from them compared to a female friend of yours? I'm gonna guess it was a long time ago because of how you view them both, you view one as being able to take care of themselves and you may even see it gay for asking such question to a guy while you must have asked a female such a question this week because that's how society raised men to be, it goes in line with the first question that you asked, why we expect lower expectations from women compared to men. Male friendships are also dying because of capitalism as men are out there providing for their families, male loneliness are at all time high, male depression and suicide rates are massively high today and it's because most men still choose to wear the skin of our forefathers in this century where everything is sky high, we choose not to be vulnerable and will laugh at our fellow men for showing vulnerability when it's first a human thing to be vulnerable not a feminine thing (Yep, statistics shows that men are the ones who will laugh at their male friends the most compared to women when they venture into sensitive subjects like if the man was raped by a woman as a kid or is telling his fellow man about his mental health which is really sad). To answer the bolded, looking at how we molded the world, why won't men lower our expectations of women when we literally gave them the hand in the first place? It's a damage we already did to ourselves, it's why we have women that demand to be taken care because we pushed for those gender roles on them and now that it's biting us in the back especially in this economy, we are complaining. All in all, we men should realize that we are human beings first before we are men and do better within ourselves and that starts with therapy because as men, we need help with our mental health than women and it's ironic because it's not the case as women are the ones getting help with their mental health compared to us men. The patriarchy is also hurting men because it was designed by elite men (men of the high class which doesn't include all men) to enjoy at the detriment of poor, labour working and illiterate men, it may have some benefits but even those are outweighed by it's disadvantages

As for the second question, it stems from patriarchal misogyny. Society only look for men's pleasure. Just look at porn, it's mostly made to satisfy straight men, the man orgasming is the end goal, no one cares if the woman orgasmed or not and also you are a straight man who's attracted to women so seeing women in lesbian scenes turn you on and no not all women like lesbian porn unless they have bisexual or lesbian bone in their body. Most straight women watch gay porn compared to lesbian porn because they are attracted to men even in Asia, yaoi manga and bara which are both forms of gay porn are marketed towards asian women, many women in the past couldn't admit this because of patriarchy (only things that men want and like matters so since women were under men, they were also forced to pretend they like these things)

I love you!!! You said it all.👏🏾

Switinthemiddle:
its none of that.. Just having a brilliant brain to utilize

Lol, it's funny the bolded is coming from you.

Anny69:
Lol, it's funny the bolded is coming from you.

i was actually refering to mr Flamemignon1. Your royal highness ma... Besides i'm about to read through your little diary. I think i find you a bit interesting

Switinthemiddle:
i was actually refering to mr Flamemignon1. Your royal highness ma... Besides i'm about to read through your little diary. I think i find you a bit interesting

🤣🤣 Lmao.

What

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Flamemignon1:
So in that case, your mother can also be foolish?
This is the misogyny that homophobia stems from, this hyper masculinity that's not serving you anything but only putting you in a box is the reason why society is a mess, it's the reason why men are the ones who commit suicide the most because you have created a dumbass version of masculinity that you think all men should live by. No man is a 100% masculine and no woman is a 100% feminine even in our biological makeup, we both have both the male and female hormone so when you shame or degrade feminity, you are definitely insecure about your own masculinity. You degrade and undermine feminity as foolishness and only praises it when it suits or turns the patriarchy on (the male gaze). It's a really shallow way to view women especially knowing the fact that women are outsmarting men in education at a faster rate and also almost out earning men and the dumbest part is that foolish men are the ones causing wars and chaos around but to you those men are wise because that's masculine, oga dumb dumb

Boy, shift for one corner. My comment is not for people of low mentality like you.

Wait till the time they want to discuss about topic you'll understand. Don't force yourself into this level of understanding.