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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Apostlenathan1(m): 6:30pm On Sep 08, 2024

May God forbid that I end up with a woman who has such a mentality.

It might look harmless now, but oh man... You'll regret it later when things aren't so rosy.

Cheers!

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Crucialgem(m): 6:31pm On Sep 08, 2024

Well I am not really a supporter of women but this is true a woman money is her money but a good woman will always support her man and a good man will Hustle and support the family

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by seunsmith1930(m): 6:32pm On Sep 08, 2024

God1000:
This is bad mentality, where did our women get this orientation from? They should stop destroying our young girls

This is why men die early, because of too much responsibilities and not having a supportive partner

Brother!! Don't bother stress yourself, this people agent of destruction from the west....they shall all end in hell with west lifestyle

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by emapeteum(m): 6:32pm On Sep 08, 2024

African mentally.this is the reason why women exploit me

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Munzy14(m): 6:33pm On Sep 08, 2024

Successtube:
I’m 35years old. The woman I married is same age with me. While we were dating, She lied to me that she was 29years. I only found out we are same age after the wedding. Like that wasn’t enough, she has same thinking with this Doctor.

If this is real, you have the legal rights to walk away from that bondage on the ground of deceit.

A woman for you cannever hoard her age from you..Because you need to know and understand her to a cool level from day one.

Nothing sweet pass an open minded human whether male or female...If meet a lady who is open minded you are in heaven already.. cheesy

But if you meet a cunning and very secretive one, everyday is too many thoughts..In other words no peace.

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by femi4: 6:36pm On Sep 08, 2024

God1000:
“Your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself. She Can Only Share If She Decides To” — Nigerian Doctor, Obianma Onya, Tells Married Men

She wrote: “

Source: oriental times

Not in this Emilokan government. Una go suffer together

Even if the money is coming from the children.....it's for the family

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by GrammarNazi1(m): 6:37pm On Sep 08, 2024

Namaster:
You can put her in a scrub and hang a stethoscope around her neck but a BIMBO will always be a bimbo.

A DOCTOR without commonsense!

Also, it's HILARIOUS that many women seem to think that men have a problem with being the SOLE provider.

Men DON'T!

What men have a problem with is being the sole provider for a woman that has seen MORE dicks than a 65-year old PROSTITUTE still in active service.

What men have problem with is being the sole provider to a woman who will talk to him and treat him like an EQUAL when it suits her and act like a damsel in distress when it suits het too.

What men have a problem with is expecting them to be the sole provider for someone that would NEVER do their laundry.

What men have a problem with is being the sole provider because of a vagina that someone FUCCKED with a Meatpie and Bigi Cola.

Problem is women want men to stick to the ancient masculine tradition of being a PROVIDER without satisfying the ancient feminine traditions of being sexually pure, submissive and generally helpful.

It's a kind of quid pro quo. But women want the QUID without providing the QUO.

Kolework!

Please what level of education have you got?

You are really intelligent, man!

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by drlateef: 6:38pm On Sep 08, 2024

So long as she is ready to submit to him, obey him and care for him and the children while he goes to work. If she is not ready to do that, then there will be problem. No woman should eat her cake and have it.

Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by JeffArmani234: 6:45pm On Sep 08, 2024

ItisWell22:
Before you start cursing and cussing, remember that, “An Odogwu, “Odogwu pounds and dollars” will marry her”.

Drink chilled water and accept the reality.

So how many Odogwu do we have huh

My Igbo bros girls can deceive themselves so much

As a lady if you can’t spend ur hard on money on d one you love and want to spend the rest of your life with then you shouldn’t be with him
Wait till you turn 45-50 then start paying younger guys to nack you and probably get you pregnant

Women are so myopic in reasoning!! Continue to live in fantasy all ur lives

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by bluefilm: 6:45pm On Sep 08, 2024

Nonsense

Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Iamiykeman(m): 6:47pm On Sep 08, 2024

Werey

Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by gotnel: 6:52pm On Sep 08, 2024

This mentality is the most common thing in today's relationships.
However, there are some exceptional ladies who are very keen to help make life easier for their home.
Naturally, man leads and the woman followed with all her heart and soul, with everything she possess.
Where a woman is hiding her possessions from her husband, the woman is dangerous to the husband. Such a woman is on exploitation mission. The man is not safe in such a marriage.
God help us

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by JeffArmani234: 6:52pm On Sep 08, 2024

Thundafireseun:
Everything about the SE is money …

A doctor with this kinda mentality would sell her own kids for money

I am Igbo, but I won’t deny the fact that plenty of ladies from that part of the country are waste of time!!!
Naturally a man wants to be the soul provider in the family as long as he has what it takes, but a woman with such mentality does not deserve a real man in her life, she deserves to be used and dumped at will!!

No matter how much I have in my bank account she’ll always disgust me anytime I see her face let alone touching her or getting intimate with her.

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Oladat(m): 6:56pm On Sep 08, 2024

So where is that "GENDER EQUALITY" that I keep hearing about?

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by AlphaHakimi: 6:57pm On Sep 08, 2024

Dear men, it is NOT your duty to provide for any woman who is not 100% loyal and submissive to you.

Infact, you should aim to make yourself happy, after you have provided for yourself, then you can leave a little bit extra for her.

Your wife is an adult. She can work for herself. The only woman/women you owe your provision is/are your daughters and mother ( and your female siblings).

Dear men, if something happens to you, your family will survive. I've never heard that all the members of a family died because the husband/father died. Do not let any woman make you overwork yourself. If it's only garri and sugar that you can provide, please do so. If your wife wants chicken, she should go out and work.

Shalom

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by lucianohase(m): 6:59pm On Sep 08, 2024

ItisWell22:
Before you start cursing and cussing, remember that, “An Odogwu, “Odogwu pounds and dollars” will marry her”.

Drink chilled water and accept the reality.

what she no come see the odogwu, or the odogwu come marry am, marry many others join who go checkmate her?? Even still dey marry dey go, ones wey go carry JuJu relegate am to English championship

Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by TOPCRUISE(m): 7:07pm On Sep 08, 2024

Kuku say a husband’s should submit his head for the wife to cut off because they are now one. While the wife’s should keep her head for herself by making it beautiful. angry

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Thundafireseun: 7:08pm On Sep 08, 2024

JeffArmani234:
I am Igbo, but I won’t deny the fact that plenty of ladies from that part of the country are waste of time!!!
Naturally a man wants to be the soul provider in the family as long as he has what it takes, but a woman with such mentality does not deserve a real man in her life, she deserves to be used and dumped at will!!

No matter how much I have in my bank account she’ll always disgust me anytime I see her face let alone touching her or getting intimate with her.

Im Igbo too from Asaba …. I didn’t want to mention Igbo in my statement because Igbos will attack me….

My small research has proven that Igbo women are the most promiscuous women in Nigeria because of their useless love for money

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Edusouls(m): 7:10pm On Sep 08, 2024

God1000:
This is bad mentality, where did our women get this orientation from? They should stop destroying our young girls

This is why men die early, because of too much responsibilities and not having a supportive partner

when our men travel abroad whitewomen support them with paperwork, money and accommodation in their struggles but here they make ur matter worse, black women are the worst to date and marry, cos they deplete a man’s lifespan like phone battery, blacks are terrible race of humans I swear

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by harmargedon: 7:11pm On Sep 08, 2024

God1000:
“Your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself. She Can Only Share If She Decides To” — Nigerian Doctor, Obianma Onya, Tells Married Men

She wrote: “ fool

Source: oriental times

Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by harmargedon: 7:11pm On Sep 08, 2024

God1000:
“Your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself. She Can Only Share If She Decides To” — Nigerian Doctor, Obianma Onya, Tells Married Men

She wrote: “

Source: oriental times

fool

Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Eraddray(m): 7:11pm On Sep 08, 2024

Iwa werey

Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Edusouls(m): 7:12pm On Sep 08, 2024

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by spiSeyi: 7:23pm On Sep 08, 2024

God1000:
This is bad mentality, where did our women get this orientation from? They should stop destroying our young girls

This is why men die early, because of too much responsibilities and not having a supportive partner

Nah person wey wan die early, the golden rule for all men is to marry their helper just like Adam did to Eve. Never marry a woman who can't willingly contribute to your life

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by James2nweke: 7:23pm On Sep 08, 2024

baba na wetin i dey face like dis

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by NOETHNICITY(m): 7:27pm On Sep 08, 2024

This is the Islamic position of marital contract

Even if the woman is a trillionaire she is not under any obligation to give financial support, unless she voluntarily decides to provide. No obligation whatsoever

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Omalicious1: 7:28pm On Sep 08, 2024

God1000:
“Your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself. She Can Only Share If She Decides To” — Nigerian Doctor, Obianma Onya, Tells Married Men

She wrote: “

Source: oriental times

Dear Men, whenever you see or hear a lady make such statement, mark that place and tell yourself that you have met someone that doesn't want you to succeed in life. I recommend that every man should read THE MANIPULATED MAN By Esther Villar.

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by naturefellow(m): 7:35pm On Sep 08, 2024*

ItisWell22:
Before you start cursing and cussing, remember that, “An Odogwu, “Odogwu pounds and dollars” will marry her”.

Drink chilled water and accept the reality.

that's how y'all end up with ritualists and fraudsters cheesy

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Dynamicboss: 7:35pm On Sep 08, 2024

They advocate for feminism but run away from responsibilities. Do they really understand the word?

Women from western society seems to understand how to keep marriage better than most of Nigerian ladies

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Cubeman: 7:41pm On Sep 08, 2024

That's why you end up becoming 'frustrated single mothers'. At that time, your so-called money is never sufficient anymore.

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Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by wany(f): 7:42pm On Sep 08, 2024

spiSeyi:
Nah person wey wan die early, the golden rule for all men is to marry their helper just like Adam did to Eve. Never marry a woman who can't willingly contribute to your life

Then you don't deserve to be respected. undecided

Re: “your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself- Obionma by Cj4charles(m): 7:50pm On Sep 08, 2024

Thundafireseun:
Everything about the SE is money …

A doctor with this kinda mentality would sell her own kids for money

Just like some from Sad Waste will MINE their kids SKULL for money 😔😔

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