₦airaland Forum

God1000:
This is bad mentality, where did our women get this orientation from? They should stop destroying our young girls


This is why men die early, because of too much responsibilities and not having a supportive partner

ItisWell22:
Before you start cursing and cussing, remember that, “An Odogwu, “Odogwu pounds and dollars” will marry her”.

Drink chilled water and accept the reality.

Thundafireseun:
Everything about the SE is money …

A doctor with this kinda mentality would sell her own kids for money

Modified: I’m Igbo from Asaba … my small research has proven that Igbo women are the most promiscuous….

A woman with this kind of mentality will sleep with all her husbands rich friends because of money

MrSly:
Ogbomosho male prostitutes how are your clients?

Sarcasmonly:
Don't u think u are the one not considering reality ... I mean...the ratio of odogwu to d average man or poor man in every location of the world is probably 1: 10,000,000....... So how u arrived at the flawed conclusion that an odogwu will marry her is weird..

. ...But then again, we can all be delusional that we will all marry a billionaire....

God1000:
“Your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself. She Can Only Share If She Decides To” — Nigerian Doctor, Obianma Onya, Tells Married Men


She wrote: “



Source: oriental times

Iamzik:
There is no scripture anywhere.

These girls are stuck in 1960/1970 mentality when the man worked and the woman was a full housewife...of course the man had to bear the entire financial burden while the woman took care 100% house chores... cleaning, cooking laundry for husband and children, raising kids etc.

In present day every woman wants to work and earn income which is fantastic...so they want to keep their money and pretend they are full-time housewives. It's laughable sha

I pity men who marry these kind of girls

MrLibrarian:
you reason like an illiterate

God1000:
“Your Money Is For The Entire Family. Your Wife's Money Is For Herself. She Can Only Share If She Decides To” — Nigerian Doctor, Obianma Onya, Tells Married Men


She wrote: “



Source: oriental times

Successtube:
I’m 35years old. The woman I married is same age with me. While we were dating, She lied to me that she was 29years. I only found out we are same age after the wedding. Like that wasn’t enough, she has same thinking with this Doctor.

Lanretoye:
so who doesn’t reason the what you reason is an illiterate then you are the most stupid person in life.

JobAndVacancies:
you're a frustrated man and a poverty stricken broke phone repairer

AlphaHakimi:
Dear men, it is NOT your duty to provide for any woman who is not 100% loyal and submissive to you.

Infact, you should aim to make yourself happy, after you have provided for yourself, then you can leave a little bit extra for her.

Your wife is an adult. She can work for herself. The only woman/women you owe your provision is/are your daughters and mother ( and your female siblings).

Dear men, if something happens to you, your family will survive. I've never heard that all the members of a family died because the husband/father died. Do not let any woman make you overwork yourself. If it's only garri and sugar that you can provide, please do so. If your wife wants chicken, she should go out and work.

Shalom

AlphaHakimi:
Dear men, it is NOT your duty to provide for any woman who is not 100% loyal and submissive to you.

Infact, you should aim to make yourself happy, after you have provided for yourself, then you can leave a little bit extra for her.

Your wife is an adult. She can work for herself. The only woman/women you owe your provision is/are your daughters and mother ( and your female siblings).

Dear men, if something happens to you, your family will survive. I've never heard that all the members of a family died because the husband/father died. Do not let any woman make you overwork yourself. If it's only garri and sugar that you can provide, please do so. If your wife wants chicken, she should go out and work.

Shalom

MYGODISNOTWEAK:
GOD did not create women to be burden on men. GOD created a woman as a help mate for a man. So according to GOD the Ultimate, women should be assisting men.
This means that a woman who does not assist her husband is a financial burden to the husband.

achimendy:
That's exactly why dey hardly get husband to marry them this days.

Ouchbabe:
How I hate to read that women keep their money. The reality is that most women of nowadays are even the bread winners. Most of them have been laden with the responsibility of providing food, and even paying school fees.
Gone are those days when women were Oriaku, they are now Okpataku

CONOR17:
Main reason I'll never marry Nigerian girls, currently dating a Filipino, y'all leave Nigerian girls go outside experience true love in other countries

Thundafireseun:
Im Igbo too from Asaba …. I didn’t want to mention Igbo in my statement because Igbos will attack me….

My small research has proven that Igbo women are the most promiscuous women in Nigeria because of their useless love for money

Alliswell248:
No Biafra terrorists or cownu miscreants would rule Yoruba land...
Go n develop your sad east.

Sarcasmonly:
Don't u think u are the one not considering reality ... I mean...the ratio of odogwu to d average man or poor man in every location of the world is probably 1: 10,000,000....... So how u arrived at the flawed conclusion that an odogwu will marry her is weird..

. ...But then again, we can all be delusional that we will all marry a billionaire....

Lanretoye:
Na why most of una Dey end up for una papa house after marriage,make una continue.the assistance most of you can not do for your husbands makes you end up shouldering more responsibilities alone when then pursue una commot.
You want everything on the table and add nothing to it,last last we go scatter the table ni cos no average Nigerian man can cope with an unlimited liability.
People like this one now na one man Dey collect all her finances,bleep her like a dog join.

Pastoshizzy:
Rubbish.
Right from the gitgo it's my relationship.. my terms.
If we're not compatible.. we move on (twasn't meant to be)

I'm the head of my home. Her support is inexhaustible, that means we go down together (to the last dime). She doesn't compete with me. I love her like Christ loves the church. Once again..our values are grounded in the Christian faith (the Bible as our moral compass)

Never let social media upset your preset values (marital values).

Years of exposure to oyinbo craze no fit change me and my boo. And I dare not share our differences (yes we have those) with ANYONE (especially not on social media), we work (or pray) our way around it.

Villa12:
men too no dey see woman marry them.. come my side con see 40+ men still single

achimendy:
No you're wrong, the men in your area are not married because they're too many wrong, indecent, and irresponsible women in that area.

No sensible man will have a useless, senseless and irresponsible wife as the mother of his children.


Hope you underdig🤔

Villa12:


Dey play

Men wey no get money

Which woman wan marry irresponsible men that can't take care of his family?

achimendy:
Responsibility is a mindset, an inbuilt character, not in money as you're seeing it. We have many men that have money that are not taking care of their families but spending recklessly outside their Homes.

I guess you're one of those youths that believe everything in life is all about money, change your mentality this new year 2025

Villa12:
so money isn't important in marriage? Money isn't an important factor in marriage?