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Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by akinsmail51(op): 11:38am On Aug 23, 2024
Ibn al-Qayyim said:

“Know that the greatest of losses is for you to be preoccupied with one who will bring you nothing but a loss in your time with Allah – the Mighty and Majestic – and being cut off from Him, a wasting your time with the person, a weakening of your energy, and the dispersing of your resolve.

So, if you are tested with this – and you must be tested with this – deal with him according to how Allah would wish, and be patient with him as much as possible.

Get closer to Allah and His Pleasure by way of this person, and make your getting together with him something to benefit from, not something to incur a loss from.

Be with him as if you are a man who is on a road who was stopped by another man, who then asks you to take him on your journey.

Make sure that you are the one who gives him a ride, and that he is not the one giving you the ride. If he refuses, and there is nothing to gain from travelling with him, do not stop for him, bid him farewell, and do not even turn back to look at him, as he is a highway robber, regardless of who he really is.

So, save your heart, be wary of how you spend your days and nights, and do not let the Sun set before you arrive at your destination.”

[‘al-Wabil as-Sayyib’; p. 45]

Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by happney65:
Antlislaam:
You are right OP

Quran 5:51

O ye who believe! Take not the Jews and the Christians for friends. They are friends one to another. He among you who taketh them for friends is (one) of them. Lo! Allah guideth not wrongdoing folk
Exactly
That is what the Quran says about Jews and Christians. A very documented book talking about Hate to other people.

If I hadn't read the Quran before,I wouldn't have known. But I read it from the beginning to the end when I was trying to read "Who is this Allah" by GJO Morshay and comparing Notes

The Quran is like the Bible too,lifting off stories from the Bible. Like a Format,With the Quran changing its own Format too..

Awon werey.. grin
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by mmadu4: 12:25pm On Sep 06, 2024
I think this Muslim thread is discriminating how is it that a person must AGREE before posting on this type of thread its really a stupid idea and should be removed immediately ..
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by themosthigh: 12:25pm On Sep 06, 2024
Corinthians 6:14

Do not be friends together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by themosthigh: 12:27pm On Sep 06, 2024
AllahuAkbar99x:
You are right .
Corinthians 6:14

Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?"

Deuteronomy 7:2-4

And when the LORD your God has delivered them over to you and you have defeated them, then you must destroy them totally. Make no treaty with them, and show them no mercy. Do not intermarry with them. Do not give your daughters to their sons or take their daughters for your sons, for they will turn your children away from following me to serve other gods, and the LORD’s anger will burn against you and will quickly destroy you.

Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by cokeryusuf09(m): 12:28pm On Sep 06, 2024
Antlislaam:
You are right OP

Quran 5:51

O ye who believe! Take not the Jews and the Christians for friends. They are friends one to another. He among you who taketh them for friends is (one) of them. Lo! Allah guideth not wrongdoing folk
Read from verses 45 to 52
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by JIBO4REAL(m): 12:30pm On Sep 06, 2024
Antlislaam:
You are right OP

Quran 5:51

O ye who believe! Take not the Jews and the Christians for friends. They are friends one to another. He among you who taketh them for friends is (one) of them. Lo! Allah guideth not wrongdoing folk
Go and read what you are trying to copy again and write it the way it was written there and stop misleading people

Tell me your problem
Why do you hate Islam like this
Do yours let them do theirs
Or do you wanted to die miserable like your forefathers
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by Ejehhhh: 12:33pm On Sep 06, 2024
Igbo Amaka
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by schoolboymatt(m): 1:03pm On Sep 06, 2024
JIBO4REAL:
Go and read what you are trying to copy again and write it the way it was written there and stop misleading people

Tell me your problem
Why do you hate Islam like this
Do yours let them do theirs
Or do you wanted to die miserable like your forefathers
ok! easy now
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by doffman: 1:11pm On Sep 06, 2024
akinsmail51:
Ibn al-Qayyim said:

“Know that the greatest of losses is for you to be preoccupied with one who will bring you nothing but a loss in your time with Allah – the Mighty and Majestic – and being cut off from Him, a wasting your time with the person, a weakening of your energy, and the dispersing of your resolve.

So, if you are tested with this – and you must be tested with this – deal with him according to how Allah would wish, and be patient with him as much as possible.

Get closer to Allah and His Pleasure by way of this person, and make your getting together with him something to benefit from, not something to incur a loss from.

Be with him as if you are a man who is on a road who was stopped by another man, who then asks you to take him on your journey.

Make sure that you are the one who gives him a ride, and that he is not the one giving you the ride. If he refuses, and there is nothing to gain from travelling with him, do not stop for him, bid him farewell, and do not even turn back to look at him, as he is a highway robber, regardless of who he really is.

So, save your heart, be wary of how you spend your days and nights, and do not let the Sun set before you arrive at your destination.”

[‘al-Wabil as-Sayyib’; p. 45]
Nice one .

Enemy of Islam are evil people to be associating with .
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by MrDoGood(m): 1:16pm On Sep 06, 2024
SO, I NEED TO TAKE AN OATH IN ORDER TO COMMENT IN A MUSLIM THREAD.

Y'ALL NEED TO DO BETTER.
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by Chetas81(m): 5:18pm On Sep 06, 2024
I 100% reject entitlement friends
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by Chetas81(m): 5:20pm On Sep 06, 2024
Ejehhhh:
Igbo Amaka
see your tribal mark
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by femi4: 6:06pm On Sep 06, 2024
themosthigh:
Corinthians 6:14

Do not be friends together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?
unbelievers is a general term
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by themosthigh: 8:18pm On Sep 06, 2024
femi4:
unbelievers is a general term
One that covers every religion except Christianity.
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by femi4: 11:38pm On Sep 06, 2024
themosthigh:
One that covers every religion except Christianity.
You didn't get my point
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by JIBO4REAL(m): 5:44pm On Sep 09, 2024
Antlislaam:
Your problem is, you love persecuting Christians for allah and Muhammad




The hatred started with allah that asked you not to make friends with Christians and Jews



Did you let Christians breath? Killing us everyday for allah

.

The miserable death that ended the life of your number one ancestor who was poisoned to death because of food and puci might be your portion if care is not taken slave
You are fed of hatred and ignorance by your parents
And the more you grow up the more your brain dementia becomes, I don’t have nothing to argue with educated illiterate like you
Knowledge is very cheap now but you choose to be ignorant
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by JIBO4REAL(m): 5:58pm On Sep 16, 2024
Antlislaam:
The expired camel urine you love to drink has affected your rotted skull and brain. Below is where allah fed you and all your ancestors with what is called hatred


Quran 5:51

O ye who believe! Take not the Jews and the Christians for friends. They are friends one to another. He among you who taketh them for friends is (one) of them. Lo! Allah guideth not wrongdoing folk


Your allah went further by calling you a moribund, ignorance, stewpid, uneducated, etc by telling you to make Bible your reference book that will save you from your confusion, ignorance, etc


Quran 10:94 Irving & Mohamed Hegab  

If you are in any doubt concerning what We have sent down to you, then question those who have read the Book (Bible) before you: Truth has come to you from your Lord, so do not be a waverer;

MASS ALARM
You are so dump like your teacher
Next time if you wanted to preach hate against someone or something you must have knowledge, don’t be stupid
A simple google search will help save you from embarrassment, search Quran 5:51 that you quote and see the real meaning
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by JIBO4REAL(m): 9:11pm On Sep 17, 2024
Antlislaam:
You are so silly, is google more detailed than your war manual book, Quran? The context of that hatred verse (Quran 5:51) allah fed you with is very clear.. So therefore, I don't need any google to tell me the meaning sogbo sufu
When I said you will died miserable like the way your forefathers died with hatred without knowledge you started crying, you are just nothing but a person feed with hatred, i wonder what you wanted to gain from all these hatred, what I know certain is that you can’t benefit anything from all these it won’t add money to your account non take you to paradise unless you work for it and repent
Note::
You was told the meaning of the Quran 5:51 but you don’t bother to check the Quran by yourself and stop embarrassing your family
Re: Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend. by JIBO4REAL(m): 12:37pm On Sep 18, 2024
Antlislaam:
I strongly believe you know how your number one forefather (Muhammad) died a miserable death? He was poisoned to death because of his hatred against the Jews and Christinas. You too will not escape this as you will be poisoned to death like a rat disturbing the peace of your mosque

Bible through Jesus Christ preached love even towards one's enemies, your messenger that died a miserable death instructed you to persecute Christians and Jews all because of islam. See how your fellow slaves are killing Christians everyday, but since you've been killing the followers of Christ, as it added money to your account? It shall never be well with you and all your ancestors for killing the children of God all because of 72 virgins in your allah's xxxx garden

Quran 5:51 is well detailed but the demonic spirit radiating in your useless life won't let you grab the context
Ignorance is a disease
I won’t reply you again
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