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Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by BadBradley:
member13:
My point exactly. Black men are seen by them as sexual tools, nothing more. How many of them would introduce you to their family wholeheartedly? How many of those families would accept you? Do you think those women see Black men as top dogs? A lot of men all over the world also want to sleep with Black women; that doesn't imply that they value them. Black men are not seen as the symbol of masculinity. That is white men. White men are seen as conquerors and builders and inventors. Asian women worship white men. Even Black women do the same. And white women marry out the least. I don't know who deceived Black men into thinking that we are the symbol of masculinity. No inventions. No technology. No modern philosophy. Running to other men's countries when we don't build our own countries. Yet we are the symbol of masculinity? Really?
Black men are the symbol of strength, power, masculinity and most woman will pay their heart out for it.

The area of acceptability is cultural as families of a race , say white, will even discriminate against their daughter marrying an Arab or Chinese...it's normal.

But black women are not on the dating scale in any category at all.....not even for sex.
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Mindlog: 4:53pm On Sep 17, 2024
Veste:
I am about getting off the hook of this type of woman that only wants me because of her selfish gains.
Imagine someone you married legally telling me to spend on her before she will allow me knacking since April. I stylishly locked up despite the conji before person go accuse of rape in another man's land.

My advice is guys, if u are going abroad or living abroad single please stay away from naija women ooooo.
You legally married her based on mutual love for each other or "arrangee marriage" thus the transactional vibe in the marriage from her end?
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by cococandy(f): 7:15pm On Sep 17, 2024
member13:
And neither are Black men. Black men have been dominated by the whites and Asians and are at the bottom of the racial hierarchy. Every race has a first-world country except Black people. We cannot separate ourselves from Black women; if you think they are at the bottom, then so are we. Heck, you and I are conversing not in our mother tongue but in a tongue that was forced upon us. Folks from first world countries use their own languages and do not "japa" to already built countries.
Bradley someone typed something so riveting and thought provoking like the above to you and your response is that different types of women want to fvck you? That’s all you could come up with?

Jesu. We’ll never be free. O pari
BadBradley:
I haven't seen any race of women who doesn't want to fawk a black man.

Black men are the symbol of masculinity globally.
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by BadBradley: 7:23pm On Sep 17, 2024
cococandy:
Bradley someone typed something so riveting and thought provoking like the above to you and your response is that different types of women want to fvck you? That’s all you could come up with?

Jesu. We’ll never be free. O pari
don't take everything you read seriously
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by ABANGWABOI(m): 7:43pm On Sep 17, 2024
Veste:
I am about getting off the hook of this type of woman that only wants me because of her selfish gains.
Imagine someone you married legally telling me to spend on her before she will allow me knacking since April. I stylishly locked up despite the conji before person go accuse of rape in another man's land.

My advice is guys, if u are going abroad or living abroad single please stay away from naija women ooooo.
If you met her abroad pls tactically disengage from her..
But if na you bring am abroad from naija.. May your misery continue Amen.
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Maeve7: 8:27pm On Sep 17, 2024
BadBradley:
Black men are the symbol of strength, power, masculinity and most woman will pay their heater for it.

The area of acceptability is cultural as families of a race , say white, will even discriminate against their daughter marrying an Arab or Chinese...it's normal.

But black women are not on the dating scale in any category at all.....not even for sex.
Stop hyping yourself. If you are an ugly, short, pot-bellied guy, your skin color will take you nowhere. Let me not start talking about character, intellect and status.

But keep dreaming.
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Oshokhai69: 9:25pm On Sep 17, 2024
otherway:
Is she A Nigerian?
Which kind useless question be this? Did you read what he wrote? Did you see the last paragraph?
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by BadBradley: 11:08pm On Sep 17, 2024
Maeve7:
Stop hyping yourself. If you are an ugly, short, pot-bellied guy, your skin color will take you nowhere. Let me not start talking about character, intellect and status.

But keep dreaming.
your brain is struggling to cope with basic logic...don't do crack again
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Maeve7: 11:22pm On Sep 17, 2024
BadBradley:
your brain is struggling to cope with basic logic...don't do crack again
Says the hottest man alive. grin
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by BadBradley: 11:29pm On Sep 17, 2024
Maeve7:
Says the hottest man alive. grin
you're right
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by otherway: 12:07am On Sep 18, 2024
Oshokhai69:
Which kind useless question be this? Did you read what he wrote? Did you see the last paragraph?
My bad. I guess I skipped it.
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Sapasenator: 1:28am On Sep 18, 2024
La click, La Bendel state.
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Blackdisciple(m): 9:05am On Sep 18, 2024
Before I open the thread I already knew say na naija girl
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Gerrard59(m): 2:12am On Sep 24, 2024
member13:
And neither are Black men. Black men have been dominated by the whites and Asians and are at the bottom of the racial hierarchy. Every race has a first-world country except Black people. We cannot separate ourselves from Black women; if you think they are at the bottom, then so are we. Heck, you and I are conversing not in our mother tongue but in a tongue that was forced upon us. Folks from first world countries use their own languages and do not "japa" to already built countries.
This is something many black people are yet to come to terms with - there is no developed black dominated country with a population of 5> million. So, the narrative out there is that black men cannot, and have not, developed a functioning society. Apart from the famed big and long deek, nothing fascinates women of other races to PROCREATE with black men. There is no incentive whatsoever. The reception these women get when they get married to black men differ from when they marry white men. It is a reason once a black man marries a woman of another race, the family tends to reside in the woman's country rather than move to a black dominated society. Even within the black race, African American men are prized higher than black African men.
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Gerrard59(m): 2:17am On Sep 24, 2024
BadBradley:
Black men are the symbol of strength, power, masculinity and most woman will pay their heater for it. The area of acceptability is cultural as families of a race , say white, will even discriminate against their daughter marrying an Arab or Chinese...it's normal.

But black women are not on the dating scale in any category at all.....not even for sex.
That is not true, and it is actually laughable. Mascuility yet have no functioning country he built by himself? grin Chinese have such nations and a dominant country. Arabs don try get one such that educated Arabs born and bred in Europe now move there to work and live. Japanese men have theirs. Whites? They have theirs. Wetin we don develop with all the masculinity and power? Abi do you mistake brawn for brainy power? grin grin

Bros, we are not there and there is no point disparaging black women. In fact, women of other races would be disgusted when you do as that shows you don't respect the source you came from and would likely do worse to them. A wife-to-be would/should be scared if her husband-to-be maltreats his mother and sister. We have no leverage in terms of accomplishments, so why do it?
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Gerrard59(m): 2:19am On Sep 24, 2024
Veste:
I am about getting off the hook of this type of woman that only wants me because of her selfish gains.
Imagine someone you married legally telling me to spend on her before she will allow me knacking since April. I stylishly locked up despite the conji before person go accuse of rape in another man's land.

My advice is guys, if u are going abroad or living abroad single please stay away from naija women ooooo.
The gods forbid that at my age I beg a woman, married or not, for sex.

Tufiakwa!
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Gerrard59(m): 2:22am On Sep 24, 2024
member13:
My point exactly. Black men are seen by them as sexual tools, nothing more. How many of them would introduce you to their family wholeheartedly? How many of those families would accept you? Do you think those women see Black men as top dogs? A lot of men all over the world also want to sleep with Black women; that doesn't imply that they value them. Black men are not seen as the symbol of masculinity. That is white men. White men are seen as conquerors and builders and inventors. Asian women worship white men. Even Black women do the same. And white women marry out the least. I don't know who deceived Black men into thinking that we are the symbol of masculinity. No inventions. No technology. No modern philosophy. Running to other men's countries when we don't build our own countries. Yet we are the symbol of masculinity? Really?
They really do - from Indians to Vietnamese to Filipinos to Japanese and the big one - Chinese. They REALLY do. Whether the white man is ugly or fat, they don't mind. Just be white! It is as if they won a jackpot! Although, in some countries, they have to show extra "workings", but they are placed higher than black men. I recall a survey conducted in 2018 by an agency of the Singaporean government, Chinese men were ranked higher in desirability and black men last.
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Gerrard59(m): 2:26am On Sep 24, 2024
onlinestaff247:
If she denies you her kpekus, go get it outside without battling an eyelid. She's the one that would beg you for it with her entitlement mentality.
So, what was the point of getting married in the first place if a man has to beg for sex, especially less than a year into the marriage?
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Gerrard59(m): 2:27am On Sep 24, 2024
Inception:
Unfortunately, that is true. 1st is the white woman (Europeans/Caucasians). 2nd is the Asian women(mongols / Indians)
3rd is the South American (mexico/Columbia etc). 4th is African woman (From Africa o)
Finally it is Black American women at 5th position grin
Curious, where do you place black men in a male ranking?
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Kaczynski: 9:43am On Sep 24, 2024
Gerrard59:
They really do - from Indians to Vietnamese to Filipinos to Japanese and the big one - Chinese. They REALLY do. Whether the white man is ugly or fat, they don't mind. Just be white! It is as if they won a jackpot! Although, in some countries, they have to show extra "workings", but they are placed higher than black men. I recall a survey conducted in 2018 by an agency of the Singaporean government, Chinese men were ranked higher in desirability and black men last.
Not every asian women likes yt men
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Kaczynski: 9:49am On Sep 24, 2024
Gerrard59:
This is something many black people are yet to come to terms with - there is no developed black dominated country with a population of 5> million. So, the narrative out there is that black men cannot, and have not, developed a functioning society. Apart from the famed big and long deek, nothing fascinates women of other races to PROCREATE with black men. There is no incentive whatsoever. The reception these women get when they get married to black men differ from when they marry white men. It is a reason once a black man marries a woman of another race, the family tends to reside in the woman's country rather than move to a black dominated society. Even within the black race, African American men are prized higher than black African men.
Is Rwanda a joke to you ??
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by BadBradley:
Gerrard59:
That is not true, and it is actually laughable. Mascuility yet have no functioning country he built by himself? grin Chinese have such nations and a dominant country. Arabs don try get one such that educated Arabs born and bred in Europe now move there to work and live. Japanese men have theirs. Whites? They have theirs. Wetin we don develop with all the masculinity and power? Abi do you mistake brawn for brainy power? grin grin

Bros, we are not there and there is no point disparaging black women. In fact, women of other races would be disgusted when you do as that shows you don't respect the source you came from and would likely do worse to them. A wife-to-be would/should be scared if her husband-to-be maltreats his mother and sister. We have no leverage in terms of accomplishments, so why do it?
I understand the self loath and self doubt.....I understand that social disease but there's a medicine for it.

I understand you hate yourself but . ... masculinity does not necessarily measured by a country's status or advancement....there are many blacks who are citizens of first world countries and have contributed to their development ....it doesn't add anything to their masculinity.

Masculinity is purely physical and behavioural attitudes.

The physical appearance and stance of a black man is that of strength and symbolises power, raw strength, speed and physical dominance.

That's why they dominate in physical sports globally....his dark/brown skin represents impenetrable, indestructible nature.....the black man symbolise the VERY FORCE OF NATURE.

If you can't see that in yourself, then you're probably one skinny, diminutive, black male frightened of the world.
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Gerrard59(m): 10:41am On Sep 24, 2024
BadBradley:
I understand the self loath and self doubt.....I understand that social disease but there's a medicine for it. I understand you hate yourself but . ... masculinity don't measured by a countries status or advancement....there are many blacks who are citizens of first world countries and have contributed to their development ....it doesn't add anything to their masculinity.
Story. Why did they not apply the same knowledge in developing their dominant environments?

Masculinity is purely physical and behavioural attitudes. The physical appearance and stance of a black man is that of strength and symbolises power, raw strength, speed and physical dominance.
Use them to develop your societies. Masculinity does not start and stop when it comes to vagina topics. Use am upflit your economy to prosperous levels.

That's why they dominate in physical sports globally....his dark/brown skin represents impenetrable, indestructible nature.....the man man symbolise the VERY FORCE OF NATURE.
This is mainly genetics. But if it brawn is so cherished, why we never use am develop our societies? Most of the gold medals are even attributed to non-black countries. How many medals in the last Olympics did the most populous black nation cart away?

If you can't see that in yourself, then you're probably one skinny, diminutive, black male frightened of the world.
blah blah blah. Yet we have so-called masculine men crossing the desert and swimming in the Mediterranean Sea just to experience a better life. We had over 5K masculine men seeking asylum in Ireland. We have hundreds of poor black people scattered across the continent. Masculinity yet no African country can help Haiti to stand on its feet without the assistance of a white country.

Masculinity and nonsense!
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by BadBradley: 12:13pm On Sep 24, 2024
Gerrard59:
Story. Why did they not apply the same knowledge in developing their dominant environments?


Use them to develop your societies. Masculinity does not start and stop when it comes to vagina topics. Use am upflit your economy to prosperous levels.


This is mainly genetics. But if it brawn is so cherished, why we never use am develop our societies? Most of the gold medals are even attributed to non-black countries. How many medals in the last Olympics did the most populous black nation cart away?


blah blah blah. Yet we have so-called masculine men crossing the desert and swimming in the Mediterranean Sea just to experience a better life. We had over 5K masculine men seeking asylum in Ireland. We have hundreds of poor black people scattered across the continent. Masculinity yet no African country can help Haiti to stand on its feet without the assistance of a white country.

Masculinity and nonsense!
another jobless, unemployable, unengaged child probably from a single mother with movie addiction and fantasy fixation.

Your social disease of self-loath is incurable
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Gerrard59(m): 1:04pm On Sep 24, 2024
BadBradley:
another jobless, unemployable, unengaged child probably from a single mother with movie addiction and fantasy fixation.

Your social disease of self-loath is incurable
Typical. He could not answer the simple questions.

The bold is hilarious from a black man who hates black women, as well as his mother who gave birth to him. 🤣
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by BadBradley: 3:59pm On Sep 24, 2024
Gerrard59:
Typical. He could not answer the simple questions.

The bold is hilarious from a black man who hates black women, as well as his mother who gave birth to him. 🤣
hate black women ?

You're as cheap as a roadside filth.

Your questions lack basic logic and are mainly self-help.

When I was idle like you in 2016, I usually find time to quote a single post into several sections, breaking it down to fill that haunting void and insecurity.

Now there's no time, I'm saving the world and I see my past in you, the way you partitioned my post in your quote into several sections to gain a pointless point and make your life better only on the digital pages on Nairaland.

You live on Nairaland you define your self worth by its comment feed and quotes.

Your type will argue for argument sake just to kill that demon and silence that voice reminding you, you're nothing
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Gerrard59(m): 1:44am On Sep 25, 2024
BadBradley:
hate black women ?
When I was idle like you in 2016, I usually find time to quote a single post into several sections, breaking it down to fill that haunting void and insecurity.
Some of us have writing as a hobby and Nairaland is a great place to hone one's writing skills. Also, I have benefitted immensely from the information I gleaned from Nairaland, so I spend more time here than on any other social media platform. It is my way of giving back. Additionally, Nairaland is a written interactive FORUM, just like Reddit. So breaking down posts into sections enables readers and writers to understand the points discussed. If you have low attention span, that is your problem.

Now there's no time, I'm saving the world and I see my past in you, the way you partitioned my post in your quote into several sections to gain a pointless point and make your life better only on the digital pages on Nairaland.
blah blah blah. This prevailing belief that every Nairalander is poor or unemployed is mendacious. I have been fortunate to have parents who provided more than basics. I don ask you before for money? Abi I tell you to give me work?

The rest are ineffectual words from a man who loathes and downgrades black women on the Internet all in the name of black men are masculine. How can a masculine man degrade the woman he comes from and looks like him? Only ret@rded black men like you. In all my years of surfing the Internet, the men who lampoon their women publicly tend to be black men. I don't know why. African Americans and Black South Africans included.
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by Gerrard59(m): 2:15am On Sep 25, 2024
Kaczynski:
Not every asian women likes yt men
I have witnessed too many situations and read countless research papers conducted in racially diverse societies to believe that the majority (exceptions always exist) of Asian women, especially East Asians, LOVE white men.
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by BadBradley:
Gerrard59:
Some of us have writing as a hobby and Nairaland is a great place to hone one's writing skills. Also, I have benefitted immensely from the information I gleaned from Nairaland, so I spend more time here than on any other social media platform. It is my way of giving back. Additionally, Nairaland is a written interactive FORUM, just like Reddit. So breaking down posts into sections enables readers and writers to understand the points discussed. If you have low attention span, that is your problem.


blah blah blah. This prevailing belief that every Nairalander is poor or unemployed is mendacious. I have been fortunate to have parents who provided more than basics. I don ask you before for money? Abi I tell you to give me work?

The rest are ineffectual words from a man who loathes and downgrades black women on the Internet all in the name of black men are masculine. How can a masculine man degrade the woman he comes from and looks like him? Only ret@rded black men like you. In all my years of surfing the Internet, the men who lampoon their women publicly tend to be black men. I don't know why. African Americans and Black South Africans included.
I was just trying to make a simple honest point that YOUR mother still uses cheap cream to stretch her hair to look like a Caucasian and she can't go to the swimming pool or beach without wearing a hair cap like a surgery patient.

She can't even wet her fake hair when taking a shower or come to bed to your father without looking like a hospital patient in surgery ward with a hairnet

That's all the point I'm trying to make, to help them....now use your writing hobby to advise them to be their original selves because she would look like an adulterated oil from Okpuruma when standing side-by-side with a Caucasian.

You can channel your energy of writing as a hobby to make your mother and female friends believe in themselves instead of typing in vain hoping to get laid like a bleating sex starved mountain goat!!!!! grin you can title your next work " What The Black Woman Has Is Unique* start from there and progress to regaining your fast depleting male hormones.


I also observed you still type blah blah blah in your posts....you're one disgusting, irritable piece of drolling pussy or you just discovered the intent recently

Stupid attention seeking bozo with a vanishing self-esteem.
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by RodgersAkpafu: 12:05pm On Sep 25, 2024
member13:
My point exactly. Black men are seen by them as sexual tools, nothing more. How many of them would introduce you to their family wholeheartedly? How many of those families would accept you? Do you think those women see Black men as top dogs? A lot of men all over the world also want to sleep with Black women; that doesn't imply that they value them. Black men are not seen as the symbol of masculinity. That is white men. White men are seen as conquerors and builders and inventors. Asian women worship white men. Even Black women do the same. And white women marry out the least. I don't know who deceived Black men into thinking that we are the symbol of masculinity. No inventions. No technology. No modern philosophy. Running to other men's countries when we don't build our own countries. Yet we are the symbol of masculinity? Really?
What is this one talking about ?
Re: Why I Left My White Hubby And Lost My UK Visa After 4 Months With Him In UK by RodgersAkpafu: 12:13pm On Sep 25, 2024
Gerrard59:
That is not true, and it is actually laughable. Mascuility yet have no functioning country he built by himself? grin Chinese have such nations and a dominant country. Arabs don try get one such that educated Arabs born and bred in Europe now move there to work and live. Japanese men have theirs. Whites? They have theirs. Wetin we don develop with all the masculinity and power? Abi do you mistake brawn for brainy power? grin grin

Bros, we are not there and there is no point disparaging black women. In fact, women of other races would be disgusted when you do as that shows you don't respect the source you came from and would likely do worse to them. A wife-to-be would/should be scared if her husband-to-be maltreats his mother and sister. We have no leverage in terms of accomplishments, so why do it?
I am laughing at both you and Bradley
una talk dey make me laugh

However
While I will never disparage Black women openly or in private sef, I am THE LAST PERSON that walk defend Black women in matters like these cos according to many of them, "ni**ers ain't sheet"

so everybody carry your load
the disdainful and condescending way a good number of Black women (especially AA) speak of Black men, make everybody carry their load abeg

Even in this UK sef
my eye don see tire
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