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Ezennia101:
I rebuke the devil in you, useless riddance to evil

Ezennia101:
I know a man who can help you and he can do all things, you have to learn how to pray and cry to God. Try praying by 3am for 7days with fasting and make use of psalm 51,28,126&127. God will surely help you Amen.

Ezennia101:
Honestly it pains me the way adults throw insult at each other at the slightest chance, it's very childish and timid. If you don't have something good to say don't say anything at all, stop showing so much bitterness life has enough troubles already.

Ezennia101:
you're a daft

Ezennia101:
Mr Man don't be a big for nothing bizaga, just listen to your empty self shameless anumpama

Ezennia101:
onye eri ru eri......Nye Nye Nye Nye onye oshi nwa like you.

Stephench:
Most men are not satisfied with one woman. Especially when that woman is your wife with kids and not quite good looking. Or maybe she used to be good looking but after having kids she's no longer sexy with fallen breasts, sagged tommy and stretch marks. In that case, most men have girls outside.

It's very rare for a man that has choice of good looking women to masturbate

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technicallyrich:
People pass through worst in masturbation,don't think he is liaring.

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

And what makes you all think Masturbation is a bad thing

First you have to have this mind set that Masturbation is not a bad thing
You know the funny thing when you begin to see Masturbation as a normal thing that is when you start limiting it without knowing

Angelfrost:
It is not M@asturbation that's 'killing' you...!

It's idleness and lack of life direction.

This has nothing to do with that habit... It has everything to do with you as a person.

You lack ambition and you really have issues with work and focus.

Even if you eradicate that 'handjob', something else will step in to further 'kill' you.


You need to seek counselling... And you need a real JOB!

You need a career that will keep you occupied and focused... You also need mentorship.

Zonefree:
weYour case is beyond comprehension.

Loverboi2cute:
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EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,


I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.

It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.

I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.


Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.

I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.

It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.

From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.


This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.

I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.

Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.

I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.

Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.


Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.

Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.

Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.

Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.

Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.

I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.

This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.


It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.


Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……

Please nairalanders, help me.

triple996:
Mastubation is hell
Only addicts will understand
We have literally lost hope on stopping
..........but I dont mastubate with women pants or get attracted to my sister. That's a whole new level

cyrus888:
Join the Catholic Church for there is no salvation outside the Catholic Church. There you will receive the sacraments of baptism, confirmation and the Eucharist.
Regular confession
Regular mass attendance and as you receive the Eucharist ask the Lord for the grace of purity.
Pray the rosary daily
Pray the Jesus prayer
Self flagellation once in a while will help especially when the passions are strong.
Fasting is good but not really effective.

IconsConnect:
There are 3 layers to Masturbation.

— Physical effect.
— Mental addiction
— Spiritual subjugation

Masturbation begins as casual fun on the physical level. At this level, you see it as a mere activity that leaves you tired.

You gradually get hooked at the mental level. This is the point where you can no longer resist your cravings. You become addicted.

Subconsciously, this addiction establishes a connection to your spiritual being. You become spiritually rooted and enslaved to this addiction. At this stage, each ejaculation leaves you physically and spiritually weak. (You get to a point where you can barely remember your spiritual activities once you gain physical consciousness. This is a topic for another day.)

To quit masturbation, you need to, firstly attack it at the spiritual level.

You start with self awareness, then self discipline and finally self-intuition on your spiritual life.

cyrus888:
Join the Catholic Church for there is no salvation outside the Catholic Church. There you will receive the sacraments of baptism, confirmation and the Eucharist.
Regular confession
Regular mass attendance and as you receive the Eucharist ask the Lord for the grace of purity.
Pray the rosary daily
Pray the Jesus prayer
Self flagellation once in a while will help especially when the passions are strong.
Fasting is good but not really effective.

EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,


I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.

It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.

I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.


Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.

I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.

It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.

From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.


This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.

I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.

Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.

I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.

Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.


Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.

Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.

Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.

Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.

Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.

I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.

This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.


It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.


Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……

Please nairalanders, help me.