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A Sincere Question! by masham400(op): 5:58pm On Oct 03, 2024
Hi Guys,

This post is sort of a tricky one but not like am using it to believe what my instinct aint telling me but to have some sort of understanding on how some females react to certain situations. My gf of 4 years joined me here in the Uk 2months ago via COS, in which I know very well that her employer who is my friend wants to codedly F her. In this world oo for me, no woman can be 100% trust worthy, but since I have been dating, I can rate this girl 80% loyal, not by words but by her actions, be it in my presence and in my absence.

She got in, and in plenty occasions she revealed to me the moves the boss was making. But as a man, I just dey reason am sey its possible make this guy dun chop clean mouth, cos both go dey inside office together nobody else dey there, (insecure man right) lol…anything can happen, so I decided to use style to ask her if she has ever had any sexual thing to do with her oga if she ever raises any question of suspicion towards me cos obviously I wont raise such if there is no right reason for it, but my plan was, once I ask her I go just observe her eye contact and see wetin dey sup if she go comot face or sighs.

Oya na we dey together one dey she come carry talk reach where I now also had to ask if she has ever had any sexual intimacy with her boss while looking straight into her eyes, and I know for her for one thing, if she’s confident about a question, she answers me with a straight face eye contact without a blink, but as I ask her this one, her eyes went from looking straight into my face then looked side ways to my shoulder side..lol…I come ask sey why did u look away, she said it does not really matter, saying even if she wanted to betray me, is it that guy that has disrespected her sis and degraded her that she’ll screw, or someone that has not even paid salary for the work she did. Oh well, my question is, if u ask a woman that sort of question and she looked away that moment, is it a pure sign of suspicion or it can happen like that and nothing dun sup
Re: A Sincere Question! by thorpido(m): 6:35pm On Oct 03, 2024
she said it does not really matter, saying even if she wanted to betray me, is it that guy that has disrespected her sis and degraded her that she’ll screw, or someone that has not even paid salary for the work she did.

These words above mean a lot.
Re: A Sincere Question! by Babbyad: 6:46pm On Oct 03, 2024
Very weighty words...
thorpido:
she said it does not really matter, saying even if she wanted to betray me, is it that guy that has disrespected her sis and degraded her that she’ll screw, or someone that has not even paid salary for the work she did.

These words above mean a lot.
Re: A Sincere Question! by Namaster:
ORIGINAL fuccck up guy right here!

You acted as an anchor to BRING a GF to the UK.
That's a FOOLISH move of TITANIC proportions in and of itself.

As if that wasn't BAD enough, you got her a job with a "friend" who has expressed his desire to FUCCK your GF.

You basically FED your girlfriend to your "friend".
You are the PRIMARY instigator of your own CUCKOLDERY.

Now, ONLY the 2 of them are MIRACULOUSLY "working late" YET you are still too TIMID to address this head on.

Are you waiting until she comes home with the guy's cum in her mouth BEFORE you get sense?

Why are you worried about being INSECURE when your girl is doing things that makes you UNCOMFORTABLE?

Matter of fact, WHY are you friends with a man you know wants to Bleep your girl?

You are too SPINELESS!

In case you missed it, here's the summary:

The girl you BROUGHT to UK is FUCCCKING the man you call a friend.

You are her "HELPER" now. You've helped her onto another man's dick. I bet they'll both thank you for connecting them. grin

Also, the IDEA that you can tell when a person is telling LIES is STUPID!

A LIAR will look you dead in the eyes and tell you the SKY is YELLOW.

Look to their actions INSTEAD!

A guy is CONSTANTLY making a move on her YET she's spending time ALONE with him on a REGULAR basis.

Andthus putting herself in a POSITION where the guy can make MORE moves.

Speaking of positions, I bet they do it standing up. grin

DON'T be daft!

Leave the girl. Kick her OUT and let her rent her own place. Or live with her new dick.

Either way, BREAK it off. Take care of any LEGAL entanglements between the 2 of you.

And for Bleep'S sake, CUT that guy off!
He is NOT your friend.
Re: A Sincere Question! by Mood11: 7:30pm On Oct 03, 2024
No use your hand or wetin your mind dey tell you spoil your relationship.
Una go see person wey dey loyal una go still dey find imperfections
Re: A Sincere Question! by masham400(op): 12:29am On Oct 04, 2024
Namaster:
ORIGINAL fuccck up guy right here!

You acted as an anchor to BRING a GF to the UK.
That's a FOOLISH move of TITANIC proportions in and of itself.

As if that wasn't BAD enough, you got her a job with a "friend" who has expressed his desire to FUCCK your GF.

You basically FED your girlfriend to your "friend".
You are the PRIMARY instigator of your own CUCKOLDERY.

Now, ONLY the 2 of them are MIRACULOUSLY "working late" YET you are still too TIMID to address this head on.

Are you waiting until she comes home with the guy's cum in her mouth BEFORE you get sense?

Why are you worried about being INSECURE when your girl is doing things that makes you UNCOMFORTABLE?

Matter of fact, WHY are you friends with a man you know wants to Bleep your girl?

You are too SPINELESS!

In case you missed it, here's the summary:

The girl you BROUGHT to UK is FUCCCKING the man you call a friend.

You are her "HELPER" now. You've helped her onto another man's dick. I bet they'll both thank you for connecting them. grin

Also, the IDEA that you can tell when a person is telling LIES is STUPID!

A LIAR will look you dead in the eyes and tell you the SKY is YELLOW.

Look to their actions INSTEAD!

A guy is CONSTANTLY making a move on her YET she's spending time ALONE with him on a REGULAR basis.

Andthus putting herself in a POSITION where the guy can make MORE moves.

Speaking of positions, I bet they do it standing up. grin

DON'T be daft!

Leave the girl. Kick her OUT and let her rent her own place. Or live with her new dick.

Either way, BREAK it off. Take care of any LEGAL entanglements between the 2 of you.

And for Bleep'S sake, CUT that guy off!
He is NOT your friend.
Lol, i Knew i was going to see one or more bullying post. I go reply in the morning.
Re: A Sincere Question! by eniolorunfe: 4:05am On Oct 04, 2024
Is 4 years not too long to be doing boyfriend and girlfriend huh
Re: A Sincere Question! by IyaTola: 5:39am On Oct 04, 2024
grin
eniolorunfe:
Is 4 years not too long to be doing boyfriend and girlfriend huh
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