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Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by omooba969(m): 2:56pm On Oct 05, 2024
advanceDNA:
Sigh.....
How am I insensitive?? Please explain??
Incoherent?? Are u sure thats the word u want to use or u don't just understand my comment
Or context??

I couldn't communicate?? Lol....this is funny.. u asked me for prayer point and I told u to do what u would expect others to do to you... How is that being insensitive or couldn't communicate??

Prayer is not hard... asking my for prayer point when u can pray the prayers u would want someone else to prayer for you is why I said u were trolling....

Nairaland is tiring ...u will comment and still have to explain ur comment...
In your intellectual mind, this is meant to be the prayer point right?

How have you addressed the poor man's plight by your type of prayer point?

Phew! 🥴
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by advanceDNA: 3:10pm On Oct 05, 2024
omooba969:
In your intellectual mind, this is meant to be the prayer point right?

How have you addressed the poor man's plight by your type of prayer point?

Phew! 🥴
He ddnt ask me..so I wasn't responding to him

.u did....And I responded to you....if that's not good enough...sorry I can't help you further
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by EreluRoz: 6:21pm On Oct 05, 2024
advanceDNA:
He ddnt ask me..so I wasn't responding to him

.u did....And I responded to you....if that's not good enough...sorry I can't help you further
shut up mtcheww
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by advanceDNA: 7:28pm On Oct 05, 2024
EreluRoz:
shut up mtcheww
Lol....Ur schizophrenic prescription has finished again.??...why are u always coming into my mention like a rabid dóg?? grin grin
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by AmalaAtiEwedu: 7:34pm On Oct 05, 2024
advanceDNA:
Lol....Ur schizophrenic prescription has finished again.??...why are u always coming into my mention like a rabid dóg?? grin grin
no mind ereluroz ... cool e be like say she dey on her period cool
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by Free2Fly: 1:14pm On Oct 06, 2024
ibechris:
Meet her to undo those curses now but thank God it wasn't ur Dad that cursed u.

U for dey cry by now.


In all just dust off and restart ur life.
grin You again.
No human alive has the power to alter/influence anyone's life through curses
Curses are a waste of time and do not work.
Blessings too do not work.
If they did, poor families would have used excessive blessings to propel their children into affluence without suffering to train them
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by happney65: 4:56pm On Oct 13, 2024
Kill her. lipsrsealed. Guess when that is done,your body go calm down. No be so?
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by koyeni(m): 4:58pm On Oct 13, 2024
Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to him! undecided
It works actually
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by Image123(m): 4:59pm On Oct 13, 2024
Ammmy:
Growing up, my mother did a lot of terrible things to me even till I became an adult. I'm 40 now and she's aged.

She's trying to be kind to me now and I've forgiven her or so I thought. My life didn't turn out well the way I wanted because of her curse and evil mind towards me.

She regrets everything now and I have moved on but the memories fail to leave me. I've tried as much as possible to forget those things but I can't and each time I remember them I feel this rage inside of me.
Simply forgive, forget may come or not come. You do yourself a big favour when you forgive.
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by Catechizm: 4:59pm On Oct 13, 2024
Ammmy:
Growing up, my mother did a lot of terrible things to me even till I became an adult. I'm 40 now and she's aged.

She's trying to be kind to me now and I've forgiven her or so I thought. My life didn't turn out well the way I wanted because of her curse and evil mind towards me.

She regrets everything now and I have moved on but the memories fail to leave me. I've tried as much as possible to forget those things but I can't and each time I remember them I feel this rage inside of me.
Do you know Eminem? But before you answer that, has she reversed the curse?
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by occfx: 5:00pm On Oct 13, 2024
Ammmy:
Growing up, my mother did a lot of terrible things to me even till I became an adult. I'm 40 now and she's aged.

She's trying to be kind to me now and I've forgiven her or so I thought. My life didn't turn out well the way I wanted because of her curse and evil mind towards me.

She regrets everything now and I have moved on but the memories fail to leave me. I've tried as much as possible to forget those things but I can't and each time I remember them I feel this rage inside of me.
I am still thinking what can a mother do to her biological son so badly. It doesn't correspond... Can you share a little?
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by Catechizm: 5:01pm On Oct 13, 2024
occfx:
I am still thinking what can a mother do to her biological son so badly. It doesn't correspond... Can you share a little?
Very true too. Share a little more info OP
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by Kobojunkie: 5:01pm On Oct 13, 2024
koyeni:
■ It works actually
Not too long ago, I read a piece on a woman who said she was manipulated by her prophet into killing her own grandmother. How come all of the many prayers that woman said in obedience to that prophet never worked for her? undecided
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by nairalanda1(m): 5:03pm On Oct 13, 2024
Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to him! undecided
When we pray for someone, we get a glimpse of the love God has for us inspite of our sinful nature and his desire for us to follow in his example and love even those who hurt us.

Because as Christ himself said, if we cannot forgive, we are not worthy of God's own forgiveness.
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by CAPITALBEE: 5:03pm On Oct 13, 2024
Kobojunkie:
If you truly want to get rid of the problem, you need to get counseling from a professional therapist to help your properly work through those scars you have been carrying around with you. It is better to start working on it now than continue kicking that can down the road as you have up until now. undecided
@Ammmy 👌🏻
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by obataokenwa(m): 5:04pm On Oct 13, 2024
Ammmy:
Growing up, my mother did a lot of terrible things to me even till I became an adult. I'm 40 now and she's aged.

She's trying to be kind to me now and I've forgiven her or so I thought. My life didn't turn out well the way I wanted because of her curse and evil mind towards me.

She regrets everything now and I have moved on but the memories fail to leave me. I've tried as much as possible to forget those things but I can't and each time I remember them I feel this rage inside of me.
Better buy a gift and go beg and make peace with your mum to break those curses. By age those guys have lived so long on earth that the elements of the heavens and earth honour their words. She's old and have nothing to loose...but you have alot to loose when she dies. The cycle will rotate and watch out how it will repeat with your own children leaving u also. Just go make peace and ignore all this advices of move on with your life. Do quick before she dies
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by CodeTemplarr: 5:05pm On Oct 13, 2024
If the woman is the type with demonic powers to see into your future, it is on her to see and avoid what she wouldnt like in her old age too. No one owes such fellow forgiveness
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by lavylilly: 5:06pm On Oct 13, 2024
I'm so sorry to hear about the painful experiences you've endured. Forgiveness doesn't erase memories, but it can help alleviate the emotional burden. Considering therapy can be beneficial:

- Process trauma: Address unresolved emotions and develop coping strategies.
- Manage anger: Learn techniques to control rage when memories resurface.
- Self-healing: Focus on personal growth, self-care, and self-compassion.

Support groups or online forums can connect you with others who share similar experiences, offering understanding and validation.

To maintain emotional well-being:

- Set boundaries: Establish limits with your mother to protect your mental health.
- Practice self-care: Engage in activities bringing joy and relaxation.
- Cultivate gratitude: Reflect on positive aspects of your life.

Remember, healing is a journey. Be patient and kind to yourself.
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by abba190: 5:07pm On Oct 13, 2024
Ammmy:
Growing up, my mother did a lot of terrible things to me even till I became an adult. I'm 40 now and she's aged.

She's trying to be kind to me now and I've forgiven her or so I thought. My life didn't turn out well the way I wanted because of her curse and evil mind towards me.

She regrets everything now and I have moved on but the memories fail to leave me. I've tried as much as possible to forget those things but I can't and each time I remember them I feel this rage inside of me.
just forgive her, you have no other option. just forget the things she did to u
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by sacajawea(m): 5:07pm On Oct 13, 2024
Are you a Male or Female?
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by ICTspecialist(m): 5:08pm On Oct 13, 2024
Kobojunkie:
OP, Go to a typical church and you will find that all the people there are just as damaged as you are only many of them have learned to pretend well, all so they can say God is working on them . undecided

If you truly want to get rid of the problem, you need to get counseling from a professional therapist to help your properly work through those scars you have been carrying around with you. It is better to start working on it now than continue kicking that can down the road as you have up until now. undecided
Na real junkie you be
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by koyeni(m): 5:08pm On Oct 13, 2024
Kobojunkie:
Not too long ago, I read a piece on a woman who said she was manipulated by her prophet into killing her own grandmother. How come all of the many prayers that woman said in obedience to th
at prophet never worked for her? undecided
.

He's a false prophet
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by Lastmessenger2: 5:10pm On Oct 13, 2024
Have some,mental toughness bro. Nothing anybody ever,said will hold me,back
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by ilovewater89(f): 5:11pm On Oct 13, 2024
Just move on. No need to forgive anyone
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by koyeni(m): 5:11pm On Oct 13, 2024
Free2Fly:
grin You again.
No human alive has the power to alter/influence anyone's life through curses
Curses are a waste of time and do not work.
Blessings too do not work.
If they did, poor families would have used excessive blessings to propel their children into affluence without suffering to train them
You dont mean this? grin grin cheesy
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by Kinzo0000: 5:14pm On Oct 13, 2024
Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to him! undecided
What what makes you feel his opinion is not right?

U be real ogede
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by ArigatothankU: 5:14pm On Oct 13, 2024
Helinues is that you ?
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by israelmao(m): 5:14pm On Oct 13, 2024
Remember she carried you in her womb for nine months and labour pain she underwent.
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by GreatVocalist: 5:15pm On Oct 13, 2024
Ammmy:
Growing up, my mother did a lot of terrible things to me even till I became an adult. I'm 40 now and she's aged.

She's trying to be kind to me now and I've forgiven her or so I thought. My life didn't turn out well the way I wanted because of her curse and evil mind towards me.

She regrets everything now and I have moved on but the memories fail to leave me. I've tried as much as possible to forget those things but I can't and each time I remember them I feel this rage inside of me.
Ask God to help you forgive her sir. It's His will for us to forgive others, so He will surely grant that request if it is genuine.
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by iwaeda: 5:16pm On Oct 13, 2024
Ammmy:
Growing up, my mother did a lot of terrible things to me even till I became an adult. I'm 40 now and she's aged.

She's trying to be kind to me now and I've forgiven her or so I thought. My life didn't turn out well the way I wanted because of her curse and evil mind towards me.

She regrets everything now and I have moved on but the memories fail to leave me. I've tried as much as possible to forget those things but I can't and each time I remember them I feel this rage inside of me.
Forgive and forget. It is only God that rewards. Always remember this passage Matthew 18:21-35. To err is human, to forgive is Divine. grin grin grin grin
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by razzydoo(m): 5:16pm On Oct 13, 2024
Read Psalms. There are specific Psalms for scenarios like this. Make consultations, do research. Vengeance is mine, saith who?
Re: How Can I Forgive My Mother? by HeadNigga: 5:16pm On Oct 13, 2024
Ammmy:
Growing up, my mother did a lot of terrible things to me even till I became an adult. I'm 40 now and she's aged.

She's trying to be kind to me now and I've forgiven her or so I thought. My life didn't turn out well the way I wanted because of her curse and evil mind towards me.

She regrets everything now and I have moved on but the memories fail to leave me. I've tried as much as possible to forget those things but I can't and each time I remember them I feel this rage inside of me.
since you believe the cause of your problems is her evil mind towards you. Now that she is old and needs your forgiveness, tell her to have godly mind towards you henceforth and lift the curses
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