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You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by WoeBetide666(op): 6:37am On Oct 11, 2024
If you're fluent in your ethnic/tribal language and you insist on speaking English to your children, in their formative years (zero to eight years), you should be arrested and tried.
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by Tayorshd87(m): 10:13am On Oct 11, 2024
U are correct and I guess thisostly.happen I'm the Yoruba race or can I say educated Yoruba's

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To the extent that their children can't speak their own language correctly
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by Mindlog: 10:46am On Oct 11, 2024
Tayorshd87:
U are correct and I guess thisostly.happen I'm the Yoruba race or can I say educated Yoruba's

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To the extent that their children can't speak their own language correctly
Mostly across Southern Nigeria.

Mentally, a child who can speak his or her native language is more likely to develop cognitive flexibility, stronger sense of self and helps the child with cultural identity as we all belong somewhere, no matter how some parents wants to blur it.

I recall writing on "mother tongue and cognitive development in children" for my term paper back then, during one of my undergraduate's units: Child and Adolescent Psychology. I personally know being bilingual/multilingual expands one's capacity and having grown up speaking Igbo, Yoruba and English language fluently, today I can confidently and professionally offer therapy sessions in those languages.......why limit your child?
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by JONSYN7154: 10:49am On Oct 11, 2024
WoeBetide666:
If you're fluent in your ethnic/tribal language and you insist on speaking English to your children, in their formative years (zero to eight years), you should be arrested and tried.
What is uou married from another ethnic group?

Which language do you expect the child to hear?
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by WoeBetide666(op): 11:03am On Oct 11, 2024
JONSYN7154:
What is uou married from another ethnic group?

Which language do you expect the child to hear?
You can speak yours and your partner will speak theirs.
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by WoeBetide666(op): 11:09am On Oct 11, 2024
Tayorshd87:
U are correct and I guess thisostly.happen I'm the Yoruba race or can I say educated Yoruba's

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To the extent that their children can't speak their own language correctly
It's very common amongst middle class people, and those living in urban areas.
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by Mindlog: 11:21am On Oct 11, 2024
JONSYN7154:
What is uou married from another ethnic group?

Which language do you expect the child to hear?
In inter-ethnic marriages, both parents should speak their native languages to their child/children as children have the capacity to learn and speak more than one language simultaneously.
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by Tayorshd87(m): 11:47am On Oct 11, 2024
Mindlog:
Mostly across Southern Nigeria.

Mentally, a child who can speak his or her native language is more likely to develop cognitive flexibility, stronger sense of self and helps the child with cultural identity as we all belong somewhere, no matter how some parents wants to blur it.

I recall writing on "mother tongue and cognitive development in children" for my term paper back then, during one of my undergraduate's units: Child and Adolescent Psychology. I personally know being bilingual/multilingual expands one's capacity and having grown up speaking Igbo, Yoruba and English language fluently, today I can confidently and professionally offer therapy sessions in those languages.......why limit your child?
We do see it as if , a child that can't speak English is an illiterate and can never be able to fit in the society or rather find his/her among the educated elite and successful people in life 🤔

My take
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by tensazangetsu20(m): 12:50pm On Oct 11, 2024
What's the economic benefit of speaking a Nigerian local language?
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by WoeBetide666(op): 2:56pm On Oct 11, 2024
tensazangetsu20:
What's the economic benefit of speaking a Nigerian local language?
How about the social or psychological benefit? The ostracization most children face for not knowing their language will shock you.
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by tensazangetsu20(m): 3:07pm On Oct 11, 2024
WoeBetide666:
How about the social or psychological benefit? The ostracization most children face for not knowing their language will shock you.
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Story for the gods. I can't speak my local language but I speak two languages very well. English and Spanish and I have gotten better opportunities for it. My children will also follow the same path and probably learn an Asian language like Chinese or Japanese.
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by Kobojunkie: 4:09pm On Oct 11, 2024
WoeBetide666:
If you're fluent in your ethnic/tribal language and you insist on speaking English to your children, in their formative years (zero to eight years), you should be arrested and tried.
Abeg get lost! undecided
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by We4all: 5:45pm On Oct 11, 2024
Nowadays, most kids (whether rich or poor) prefer to speak English or pidgin even if their parents communicate with them in their local dialect. Walk around your neighborhood, go to the local markets, and you will understand me better. Is it right or wrong? Well...I feel it doesn't really matter. Growing up, there were acquaintances who used to pretend that they couldn't speak their dialect because kids who used to speak English were treated differently and revered compared to those who spoke their dialects or even pidgin.
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by WoeBetide666(op): 6:37pm On Oct 11, 2024
We4all:
Nowadays, most kids (whether rich or poor) prefer to speak English or pidgin even if their parents communicate with them in their local dialect. Walk around your neighborhood, go to the local markets, and you will understand me better. Is it right or wrong? Well...I feel it doesn't really matter. Growing up, there were acquaintances who used to pretend that they couldn't speak their dialect because kids who used to speak English were treated differently and revered compared to those who spoke their dialects or even pidgin.
I doubt it's preference, I think it's the way they are raised. Parents have to be more deliberate in encouraging them, from a young age, to speak the language. And, teaching the child the language doesn't mean just speaking it. Parents have to tell stories, jokes, riddles, and sing songs to the child in the language.
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by Hilariousthiago(m): 8:24pm On Oct 11, 2024
What's the economical advantage? I would rather let them learn how to speak English and other Western languages so as to prepare them for global opportunities.
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by 1Sharon(f): 8:57pm On Oct 11, 2024
tensazangetsu20:
What's the economic benefit of speaking a Nigerian local language?
The child will learn English at school, so why not just speak the local language?
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:00pm On Oct 11, 2024
1Sharon:
The child will learn English at school, so why not just speak the local language?
It's not important. They are better off learning a second European or Asian language to prepare themselves for the competitive world ahead.
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by 1Sharon(f): 9:02pm On Oct 11, 2024
tensazangetsu20:
It's not important. They are better off learning a second European or Asian language to prepare themselves for the competitive world ahead.
Yeah you're right, but it's still nice to know their local language
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by Gerrard59(m): 10:42pm On Oct 11, 2024
Speaking the local language is good, but it depends on the area of residence. Better to grasp Chinese and Spanish before any Nigerian language. On the other hand, speaking the English language is sacrosanct.

Economics over everything else.
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by Kaczynski: 2:18am On Oct 14, 2024
tensazangetsu20:
What's the economic benefit of speaking a Nigerian local language?
What's the economic benefit of speaking Spanish?? grin
Re: You Should Be Locked Up If You Speak English To Your Young Children by tensazangetsu20(m): 2:53am On Oct 14, 2024
Kaczynski:
What's the economic benefit of speaking Spanish?? grin
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