₦airaland Forum

tomdon:
How else is he going to be able to show the world that he has a grown-up child and has money to buy a brand new car for an 18yo. Bloody attention seeking is the game

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Sleekfingers:
How is buying a car for your son a big deal? Even parents in Europe and other civilized countries buy cars for their kids .
Do you know how he is raising his kid?

Yes, all college students drive. They fuel their cars too. They pay phone bills. Oh yeah, they pay tuition too.

Una go just post,come think say some of us no sabi the abroad.

Congested Europe, e no even lie sufri sufri talk America wey big, na Europe

[quote author=HgsMediaPlus post=132368587][/quote]Yahoo man under the cover of Nollywood.

The man just dey answer his name "Ninalowo"-"Money is meant to be spent".

papyjaypaul:
You can do whatever with your money but never fund their lifestyle they never worked for. That's the fastest way to crash their work ethic.

Kids turning 18 should be taught how to take care of people, work for people and serving people. They need that humility reset to understand how live works.

His money his business.

Everything after that is rùbbish

He is spending his money anyhow now instead of investing it somewhere.When he falls sick he will start begging people.

papyjaypaul:
You can do whatever with your money but never fund their lifestyle they never worked for. That's the fastest way to crash their work ethic.

Kids turning 18 should be taught how to take care of people, work for people and serving people. They need that humility reset to understand how live works.

His money his business.

They consider the damage they're making as "LOVE"

Olamideayomide:
God bless me too so that I can do more than this for my children o

Amen. But you will do so in a sensible way and off social media.

MadPolitician:
I'm not teaching my son "how to work for people" or "how to serve people"! Not happening, No way!
I'm not raising a serf. It's not my job to prepare him for servitude.
Teach him how to work? Yes! Teach him how to be a good citizen? Yeah! But teach him how to be comfortable under others? NO! CAPITAL NO.

You lack understanding of what he wrote, it's deeper than you can comprehend. You're a typical Nigerian, so it's hard to understand.

Offpoint1:
You lack understanding of what he wrote, it's deeper than you can comprehend. You're a typical Nigerian, so it's hard to understand.

There is nothing deeper there. It is as simple as he wrote it. Stop trying to intellectualise nonsense. Your problem is that you are just a victim of your re-tarded cultural environment, but you are too shallow minded to know this.

You most probably come from a place where there must be somebody to bow to. Someone to greet the same way you greet a God. In your traditional environment, the elders must always be correct and must never be challenged. That is fatally wrong! There is a huge difference between being respectful and being a willing slave. What he explained is the best way to mentally prepare a child to be taking orders. It is wrong.

In Asia, most of the company managers you see are in their 20s and mostly ladies. In Nigeria, we have to defer to the senile octogenarians, because it is the culture, whether they're right or wrong. Webhave over-dramatised "respect for grey hairs". That's how you ended up with buhari and Tinubu. Because "they're more experienced". I am all for training a child to ask questions and to be rebellious in the face of nonsense elders. My choice! We are different!

MadPolitician:
There is nothing deeper there. It is as simple as he wrote it. Stop trying to intellectualise nonsense. Your problem is that you are just a victim of your re-tarded cultural environment, but you are too shallow minded to know this.

You most probably come from a place where there must be somebody to bow to. Someone to greet the same way you greet a God. In your traditional environment, the elders must always be correct and must never be challenged. That is fatally wrong! There is a huge difference between being respectful and being a willing slave. What he explained is the best way to mentally prepare a child to be taking orders. It is wrong.

In Asia, most of the company managers you see are in their 20s and mostly ladies. In Nigeria, we have to defer to the senile octogenarians, because it is the culture, whether they're right or wrong. Webhave over-dramatised "respect for grey hairs". That's how you ended up with buhari and Tinubu. Because "they're more experienced". I am all for training a child to ask questions and to be rebellious in the face of nonsense elders. My choice! We are different!

There's no need to further elongate your lack of comprehension of what he wrote.

I still maintain my stand, you lack a deeper understanding of what he wrote.

Offpoint1:
There's no need to further elongate your lack of comprehension of what he wrote.

I still maintain my stand, you lack a deeper understanding of what he wrote.

You're just suffering from the cultural equivalent of the "Stockholm syndrome".
You're traumatised by the prospect of questioning the status quo.

You lack the emotional ability to extricate yourself from the cultural chokeholds that has defined and limited your ambitious cravings in life.

As a result, in your warped mindset, training kids to bow like slaves is the best way to get the best out of them.
My message is simple to two of you; you dont have to be a slave to be deemed respectful.

Yes o my oga

blowjohn:
Amen. But you will do so in a sensible way and off social media.

papyjaypaul:
You can do whatever with your money but never fund their lifestyle they never worked for. That's the fastest way to crash their work ethic.

Kids turning 18 should be taught how to take care of people, work for people and serving people. They need that humility reset to understand how live works.

His money his business.

You can teach them these and still fun their lifestyle. I'm sure nino knows this and also knows capacity of his son before handing him such a gift. Don't guilt trip people from spending on their family. Life is short already.

Na them

papyjaypaul:
You can do whatever with your money but never fund their lifestyle they never worked for. That's the fastest way to crash their work ethic.

Kids turning 18 should be taught how to take care of people, work for people and serving people. They need that humility reset to understand how live works.

His money his business.

Never take a screenshot of a comment before, I did with this.
U, my friend are one of the most intelligent guys on here

wizod:
Misplaced Priority. This is not the right Way to groom a child or son who is still eating mama thank you

There is no wrong or right way to show your children love

papyjaypaul:
You can do whatever with your money but never fund their lifestyle they never worked for. That's the fastest way to crash their work ethic.

Kids turning 18 should be taught how to take care of people, work for people and serving people. They need that humility reset to understand how live works.

His money his business.

You're a very wise person
Feel good to read stuff like this in here.

He can decide to do whatever he likes with his money and also be ready to bear any consequence that results from his action. He should not come to the social media and be disturbing us. S boy of 18 years old should concentrate on his studies and not on frivolous lifestyles because your father has money.

He can decide to do whatever he likes with his money and also be ready to bear any consequence that results from his action. He should not come to the social media and be disturbing us. S boy of 18 years old should concentrate on his studies and not on frivolous lifestyles because your father has money

Show of wealth

on car auction?/

MadPolitician:
You're just suffering from the cultural equivalent of the "Stockholm syndrome".
You're traumatised by the prospect of questioning the status quo.

You lack the emotional ability to extricate yourself from the cultural chokeholds that has defined and limited your ambitious cravings in life.

As a result, in your warped mindset, training kids to bow like slaves is the best way to get the best out of them.
My message is simple to two of you; you dont have to be a slave to be deemed respectful.

Dude! It's obviously clear you want to flex/showcase your elocution and oratory skill of the English language.

It'll be of greater interest to fine-tune your comprehension skill instead.

Maybe na Pidgin you wan ma take explain gi you

Offpoint1:
Dude! It's obviously clear you want to flex/showcase your elocution and oratory skill of the English language.

It'll be of greater interest to fine-tune your comprehension skill instead.

Maybe na Pidgin you wan ma take explain gi you

No be sooo
I'm just dragging una round. No bad feelings. Just catching cruise on this one.
But seriously, i disagree with the initial guy i quoted. Parents dont seem to understand the net effects of raising hyper obedient kids. This can work out badly.
Maybe on another thread..

I hope that boy will not go & do fast & furious with Paul walker.

This car is so generous and beautiful that even people who have no knowledge about cars have to say, "Wow, it's awesome." I am a car enthusiast but I was surprised that this man could give his son such a valuable gift. I looked at many car models at tai xiu online but this is the newest and most beautiful model I have ever seen.

congratulations

MadPolitician:
No be sooo
I'm just dragging una round. No bad feelings. Just catching cruise on this one.
But seriously, i disagree with the initial guy i quoted. Parents dont seem to understand the net effects of raising hyper obedient kids. This can work out badly.
Maybe on another thread..

What his message mean is "To be a great leader, you must serve first else you won't understand what it means to be a lead" if you don't sweat to get money, you won't know the value of it. Reasons why internet fraudster can spend 5 million in a night club, while a businessman who's 10x richer than that internet fraudster can't do such.

That's his message, he's not telling anyone to bow to anyone.

papyjaypaul:
Yes, all college students drive. They fuel their cars too. They pay phone bills. Oh yeah, they pay tuition too.

Una go just post,come think say some of us no sabi the abroad.

Congested Europe, e no even lie sufri sufri talk America wey big, na Europe

All you wrote still don't make sense to me.....

Sleekfingers:
All you wrote still don't make sense to me.....

That's okay, my 9 can be 6 to you. Let's all do what works for us. I wish you the best. Shalom

oluseyiforjesus:
Hope it's gas n not petrol

Thats the United States so either Gas, petrol or electric it doesnt matter. He will be ble to afford it.