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Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Basicend:
If her drama is genuine. . It's often due to character

Most guys are extremely calculative now.
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Zooposki(f): 8:04pm On Oct 14, 2024
Colonelswitz101:
It's very easy to identify the miserable ones. They never pass on any opportunity of deceiving the younger ones into becoming miserable like them. It's well with you and I pray you find peace

Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Zooposki(f): 8:04pm On Oct 14, 2024
Loveenthed:
Lol so you don't know Zooposkigrin

She is the definition of Real Independent Woman. She is a Mone Bag.

She is one of the Women i like on here.
kiss kiss kiss
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Arabk25(m): 8:07pm On Oct 14, 2024
You no get money you they find man
No be waiting unah they always tell guys
Without hookup majority of this gender can't make money for themselves it's a shame
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Inosky: 8:08pm On Oct 14, 2024
She even have a nose ring shocked if you know you know.
Now, she's learning her lesson.
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Zooposki(f): 8:10pm On Oct 14, 2024
Sapasenator:
You are a brilliant woman, as a guy, I totally agree with you. Money and career first. Those are the controllable and predictable success and most important in life. Then you can have one child for companionship after you are successful. Marriage or romantic relationships are overrated with lots of moving parts not under your control.
Thank you. At least someone that understands what I was trying to pass across. I make most of my posts deliberately harsh because most Nigerians get strong head. Shock and awe. lol.
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by richmond500: 8:11pm On Oct 14, 2024
Difrent:
Not all ladies that married late are lose, like I said most are tied up in studies or career.
Besides when you guys have this kind of thinking towards women, do you feel that way about your sister or mother ?..... Its insulting to believe all ladies are like that just because they didn't marry on time as a result of building a career or studying
I never said all older women are lose.
I said if I had to marry a older lady, I will know what she did with her flower age.
It will be disastrous if u get married to a society scum
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by JuanDeDios: 8:12pm On Oct 14, 2024
MadPolitician:
Start by removing that silly nose ring and leg chain and fukcing G strings and all that "i dont give a danm attitude". That may help. Nigerian gals have become increasingly unmarriageable. Karashikaas with a ton of Kardashians attitudes. The sense of entitlement and vain aspirations are suffocating. I blame their young mothers who always chose the role of being their daughters friends , instead of their daughters mothers..

Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by APOSTLECHUMA: 8:13pm On Oct 14, 2024
THERE IS NO SITUATION THAT GOD CAN NOT FIX, IF ONLY U CAN RETURN TO HIM IN REPENTANCE.
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Eriokanmi: 8:16pm On Oct 14, 2024
richmond500:
Eiya, my sister... ur not the only 30yrs old that broke, single and childless
People plenty like u, just focus on ur life, u will find ur happiness, meet people, go to weddings, funerals, birthdays etc, men go collect ur number.

As for me, before I marry a 30yr old broke and single lady, u go first explain to me wetin u use ur flower age do.

I no get time for drama
So, na talk be dis abi? Do you think every lady is olosho in their prime? I know of a girl back then who almost clocked 30 before she finally got married. She always broke up with any guy who wanted sex in a relationship before marriage. 99.9% of guys who dated her wanted to sleep with her and she kept dishing them until she kept her virginity for almost 30 years. She was an epitome of beauty, a yoruba girl from kogi but living in a north western state.

My wife was 27 when we met and I married her at 29, she was still a virgin very pretty. She had escaped rape attempts several times from the hands of randy guys who pretended to be in a committed relationship with her.

So, your last paragraph didn't add up.Its just like saying what were 35-40 year-old single guys doing with their life at their prime when you and I know they're being held back by bad leadership and poor economic situation in the country
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Sapasenator: 8:16pm On Oct 14, 2024
Zooposki:
Thank you. At least someone that understands what I was trying to pass across. I make most of my posts deliberately harsh because most Nigerians get strong head. Shock and awe. lol.
You are not harsh but just being a realist like myself. Life is too short to depend on others for your happiness. When you are successful, you have the power of choice to create your own happiness.
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Quebec91(m): 8:17pm On Oct 14, 2024
cheesy
Sparrk007:
Person wen don lost body count cool cool
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by omooba05: 8:20pm On Oct 14, 2024
[quote author=Zooposki post=132429786][/quote]To hell with you.. Go and get a life B****
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by richmond500: 8:20pm On Oct 14, 2024
Eriokanmi:
So, na talk be dis abi? Do you think every lady is olosho in their prime? I know of a girl back then who almost clocked 30 before she finally got married. She always broke up with any guy who wanted sex in a relationship before marriage. 99.9% of guys who dated her wanted to sleep with her and she kept dishing them until she kept her virginity for almost 30 years. She was an epitome of beauty, a yoruba girl from kogi but living in a north western state.

My wife was 27 when we met and I married her at 29, she was still a virgin very pretty. She had escaped rape attempts several times from the hands of randy guys who pretended to be in a committed relationship with her.

So, your last paragraph didn't add up.Its just like saying what were 35-40 year-old single guys doing with their life at their prime when you and I know they're being held back by bad leadership and poor economic situation in the country
what part of my comment suggests that I said "every single lady was olosho in their prime".
Oga go back and read my comment abeg, make I no use the economic anger face u grin grin
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by ceevee2003: 8:20pm On Oct 14, 2024
I wonder o!
FriendsAndFans:
She should forget about men and go and hustle. When she makes alot of money, men will be looking for her.
Why does a broke woman wants a man?
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Caleycash(m): 8:21pm On Oct 14, 2024
Beverlyjean:
I don't know how u people reason...so u think women don't also stress men... its easy to identify those that have been possessed by demons
Leave the werey!... reality is where the stable job even dey?, mtcheeww, she's just delusional!
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by franchasofficia: 8:23pm On Oct 14, 2024
Zooposki:
The most important for her is to be financially stable and then get a kid. The least important is a husband. Having a husband makes no difference. A man will not make her happy, only add to her stress levels. Married women with kids die faster than single women without kids while the opposite is true for men.
You are absolutely wrong dear, just pray to marry a wonderful husband like me.


I do envy my wife for marrying me seriously.


imagine getting married to a man:

1.) That's physically fit and not bad looking
2.) Sexually very active
3 ) Very classy and trendy
4.) Super intelligent, wise and smart
5.) Versatile, well read and exposed
6.) Financially successful
7.) Employer of labor
8.) God lover and dedicated Christian
9.) Not stingy
10.) Beautiful women admirer/lover
11.) A potential cheat that hasn't gotten much opportunity to cheat as his flesh desires
12.) A husband that takes care of 100% of your financial needs, your kids and more
13.) Does not drink alcohol, does not smoke
14.) Does not club
15.) Does not keep late night, at most 8pm he is home Monday to Sunday
16.) He helps with domestic chores whenever he can
17.) Does not complain about food




If you have a man like this as husband, tell me will you ever say being married as a woman is badhuh




And funny enough, there are millions of Nigerian and foreign men who are far better than me and offering their wives far more than what I am offering my wifey.
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Zooposki(f): 8:23pm On Oct 14, 2024
omooba05:
To hell with you.. Go and get a life B****
See your life? Mstchewwww
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Adakintroy: 8:23pm On Oct 14, 2024
So if you wan mourn you go put camera for your front come get ready....

You still never get sense. Continue to take your matter to public.
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by AmalaAtiEwedu: 8:24pm On Oct 14, 2024
Zooposki:
Thank you. At least someone that understands what I was trying to pass across. I make most of my posts deliberately harsh because most Nigerians get strong head. Shock and awe. lol.
There is one girl I want you to help investigating if her kpekus stinks cool
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by boxypane: 8:25pm On Oct 14, 2024
Who get her connect? I wan marry like this.
Hope she's not one of those orphans wey dey find who go be father to them?
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by femi4: 8:26pm On Oct 14, 2024
alphonsojaybaz:
On social media, a 30-year-old Nigerian woman sobs uncontrollably, sharing her troubles with being childless, broke, and single at her age.

She revealed this in a touching TikTok post where she was seen sobbing and attempting to comfort herself. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

The caption on the video read: “30 years old, no husband, no child, and I’m still broke. Life is too hard.”

In the video, she expressed her frustrations with her current situation, sparking concern from viewers.

As the video circulated online, many individuals flooded the comments section, offering their thoughts and support.

See some reactions below:

CuteMo: “Sis i understand your pain. May Joy find you ijn🙏.”

God’s favorite: “some are married and wish to be single again.”

Christian Ferdina915: “if you be man like this na motor pack for be your office.”

Ayloaded: “ur mate still dey wey no get phone talk less of TikTok account and Some don die without and on top nothing…..So just give thanks for life ❤️❤️.”

Danny kizzy 05: “i feel your pain because we are in same position presently 😭my dear the fact that you are breathing is enough to Thank God, don’t focus on what is not working focus on what is working and give thanks. 🍻.”

NOTHING IS NEW: “big congratulations 👏 ThankGod you’re still alive how wish money can bring back imole mohbad alive😭😭😭.”

Debull: “Let’s be patient, Almighty Allah will soon take control.”

https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/10/13/woman-breaks-down-over-being-broke-childless-and-unmarried-at-age-30/
Unfortunately, not everyone will be married.

Not every married couple will have kids
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Eriokanmi: 8:27pm On Oct 14, 2024
richmond500:
what part of my comment suggests that I said "every single lady was olosho in their prime".
Oga go back and read my comment abeg, make I no use the economic anger face u grin grin
grin grin. Small, small abeg. I just wanted to stress that, they're mostly not at fault to have stayed single up to their 30s. Many of them faced disappointment while others kept their dignity.
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Caleycash(m):
doggedfighter:
At just 30 ?



She broke down ?


It's all for content.
At just 30 indeed, make she double at 60!, ndi ara everywhere, make una continue deceiving una selves, body go tell all of una. Mtcheww
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Zooposki(f): 8:27pm On Oct 14, 2024
franchasofficia:
You are absolutely wrong dear, just pray to marry a wonderful husband like me.

I do envy my wife for marrying me seriously.

imagine getting married to a man:

1.) That's physically fit and not bad looking
2.) Sexually very active
3 ) Very classy and trendy
4.) Super intelligent, wise and smart
5.) Versatile, well read and exposed
6.) Financially successful
7.) Employer of labor
8.) God lover and dedicated Christian
9.) Not stingy
10.) Beautiful women admirer/lover
11.) A potential cheat that hasn't gotten much opportunity to cheat as his flesh desires
12.) A husband that takes care of 100% of your financial needs, your kids and more
13.) Does not drink alcohol, does not smoke
14.) Does not club
15.) Does not keep late night, at most 8pm he is home Monday to Sunday
16.) He helps with domestic chores whenever he can
17.) Does not complain about food

If you have a man like this as husband, tell me will you ever say being married as a woman is badhuh

And funny enough, there are millions of Nigerian and foreign men who are far better than me and offering their wives far more than what I am offering my wifey.
Most men are blind to their wife’s state of unhappiness. That is why they get blindsided when they are served divorce papers. They always think the marriage is fine, cos they are ok.
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by spartachico(m): 8:30pm On Oct 14, 2024
Kongaone:
T for temporary pain
are you sure the T is for temporary or torturous pain (deliberate torture)

We got 2 more years to go before 2027 campaign so if you think it's temporary under his regime then I don't know what to tell you
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Zooposki(f): 8:30pm On Oct 14, 2024
AmalaAtiEwedu:
There is one girl I want you to help investigating if her kpekus stinks cool
So you became my follower just to troll me. Just be careful sha because it’s not everyone you can troll and get away with it.
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by Caleycash(m): 8:31pm On Oct 14, 2024
abba190:
when you hit 30 even as a man Nigerians will force to depressed state. since when i reach 30 on april i have become depressed and kept thinking that i am a failure.
30 is a peculiar age, not only in Nigeria but worldwide, you ought to have certain achievements at that age, you're not a failure actually, but it's just 10 years gap to 40 years which is an age when one starts declining in life, hence the pressures, please double your hustle especially as a man, it's very rough and hard when one hits 40!
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by AmalaAtiEwedu: 8:31pm On Oct 14, 2024
Zooposki:
The most important for her is to be financially stable and then get a kid. The least important is a husband. Having a husband makes no difference. A man will not make her happy, only add to her stress levels. Married women with kids die faster than single women without kids while the opposite is true for men.
na why u and ereluroz never marry?
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by AmalaAtiEwedu: 8:33pm On Oct 14, 2024
Zooposki:
So you became my follower just to troll me. Just be careful sha because it’s not everyone you can troll and get away with it.
How much do u charge to sniff inbetween a females legs to determine the level of vagina odour? cool
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by boxypane: 8:33pm On Oct 14, 2024
Zooposki:
Most men are blind to their wife’s state of unhappiness. That is why they get blindsided when they are served divorce papers. They always think the marriage is fine, cos they are ok.
And you think it's always the fault of the man?
How about those women who get angry for no reason, never see faults in what they do, flout directives, avoid corrections? Na unhappiness go kill am o. You no respect person wey dey feed you yet you claim you are unhappy?
The movie just start.
Re: Woman Breaks Down Over Being Broke, Childless, And Unmarried At Age 30 by FriendsAndFans(m): 8:34pm On Oct 14, 2024
tctrills:
It's not everyone that hustles that makes money for all you know, she has been hustling since she was 15
Let her add 15more years grin
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