₦airaland Forum

Eriokanmi:
. Small, small abeg. I just wanted to stress that, they're mostly not at fault to have stayed single up to their 30s. Many of them faced disappointment while others kept their dignity.

I didn't disprove that most girls are victim of circumstance and u are lucky to have a virgin in her late 20's.

Also I just want u to understand that some girls life will leave an unpleasant taste in my mouth, so I wish to know how they spent their youthful age.

Abeg if u no understand just leave me alone, make I no use pepper body face u, I just bought bread for N2100, I still deh vex.

alphonsojaybaz:
On social media, a 30-year-old Nigerian woman sobs uncontrollably, sharing her troubles with being childless, broke, and single at her age.

She revealed this in a touching TikTok post where she was seen sobbing and attempting to comfort herself. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

The caption on the video read: “30 years old, no husband, no child, and I’m still broke. Life is too hard.”

In the video, she expressed her frustrations with her current situation, sparking concern from viewers.

As the video circulated online, many individuals flooded the comments section, offering their thoughts and support.

See some reactions below:

CuteMo: “Sis i understand your pain. May Joy find you ijn🙏.”

God’s favorite: “some are married and wish to be single again.”

Christian Ferdina915: “if you be man like this na motor pack for be your office.”

Ayloaded: “ur mate still dey wey no get phone talk less of TikTok account and Some don die without and on top nothing…..So just give thanks for life ❤️❤️.”

Danny kizzy 05: “i feel your pain because we are in same position presently 😭my dear the fact that you are breathing is enough to Thank God, don’t focus on what is not working focus on what is working and give thanks. 🍻.”

NOTHING IS NEW: “big congratulations 👏 ThankGod you’re still alive how wish money can bring back imole mohbad alive😭😭😭.”

Debull: “Let’s be patient, Almighty Allah will soon take control.”

https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/10/13/woman-breaks-down-over-being-broke-childless-and-unmarried-at-age-30/

MAY GOD GRANT YOU YOUR HEART DESIRES. KEEP YOUR HOPE ALIVE. GOD NEVER FAILS. HIS TIMING IS PERFECT AND BEST.

FriendsAndFans:
She should forget about men and go and hustle. When she makes alot of money, men will be looking for her.
Why does a broke woman wants a man?

Which hustle she want do if not hook up

Babalola0920:
Which hustle she want do if not hook up

Isn't that the same line they use for men?

Zooposki:
Most men are blind to their wife’s state of unhappiness. That is why they get blindsided when they are served divorce papers. They always think the marriage is fine, cos they are ok.

You are right in some situations but in my own case, it's not true.


There are 4 major things that make a woman fade up of her marriage, and they are:


1.) Financial lack or poor provision from her husband. Once a man is unable to provide for his wife's needs, she will start to get tired of the marriage even if she earns fat salary. Every husband should try to provide at least 70% of his wife's and children's financial/material needs. In my case, I provide 100% but I don't expect all husbands to provide 100% but I provide 100% in my own marriage.


2.) Infidelity/cheating especially when the man cheat with reckless abandon and without any sign of remorse or respect


3.) Childcaring stress, homecare stress when combined with work stress

4.) Lack of sex; if she is not getting enough sex or good sex from the husband.



There are other issues but these 4 are the top 4 issues why women desire divorce and as odd as it may sound, 3 are completely out in my marriage, the only aspect I am struggling to control is the cheating aspect cos I have a natural likeness for pretty endowed ladies and my wifey know about this and always use it to throw jab at me lol

After soo many bodyCounts.

Oloshi..!!!

You know if she is barren and cant conceive

Zooposki:
The most important for her is to be financially stable and then get a kid. The least important is a husband.

boxypane:
And you think it's always the fault of the man?
How about those women who get angry for no reason, never see faults in what they do, flout directives, avoid corrections? Na unhappiness go kill am o. You no respect person wey dey feed you yet you claim you are unhappy?
The movie just start.

The money you are feeding her with is not enough to compensate for all the free labor she does for you.

Eriokanmi:
. Small, small abeg. I just wanted to stress that, they're mostly not at fault to have stayed single up to their 30s. Many of them faced disappointment while others kept their dignity.

These are some sad realities most Naija guys have failed to realize.


Most girls dated one guy for years who later disappointed them with one flimsy excuse like:

My mom said I should not marry outside our tribe

My mom said I can't marry outside our Church or Religion.


I want to travel abroad first before I can settle down.


My job is not good enough to start a marriage, so if you see any serious man, you can marry him.



Plus issue of genotype, those trying to keep their virginity because guys refused to stay with them as they refused to have sex.



Some their first boyfriend they wished and planned to marry after years of dating went to jail, traveled abroad and stopped communicating, died untimely, etc



Life sha, may God forgive my shortcomings and continue to show me and my generation mercy is all I always pray

seanery:
You know if she is barren and cant conceive

Let her adopt na.

Life is more than the things that concern you personally

Treat women kindly.
They are the mothers of the world. You owe them comfort and love!
Whenever I see a pregnant woman I feel the weight of what she's passing through.
The man is supposed to provide for a woman.
For the good of the family, women must not work!

Zooposki:
Let her adopt na.

Adopt as a kidnapper?
Which kind bastard adoption is that?
No father, no husband?

[quote author=Zooposki post=132429843][/quote]Who get time to read your evidence of self delusion

FriendsAndFans:
She should forget about men and go and hustle. When she makes alot of money, men will be looking for her.
Why does a broke woman wants a man?

They want men for poverty alleviation

DonMaxxy:
U never see anything ...

The day u dey burst that your nose, if them ever told you that this day will come you no go ever believe ...

You lots never knew that Tpain will come and dwindle the booming klitocurrency economy that was booming under Good luck and Buhari time...

Now all man dey save, no free money anywhere anymore

Guy, you are on point

FriendsAndFans:
She should forget about men and go and hustle. When she makes alot of money, men will be looking for her.
Why does a broke woman wants a man?

To become liabilities on poor man she will marry. Man suffered a lot.

Zooposki:
The most important task for her is to be financially stable, and then the next step is to get a kid. The least important task is getting married. A husband will not make her happy, only add to her stress levels. Married women with kids die faster than single women without kids while the opposite is true for men.

Married women with kids die faster..
Single men die faster..
And yet you lot are the ones praying and fasting for a husband..
Looking for who to transfer your brokenness to..

MadPolitician:
Start by removing that silly nose ring and leg chain and fukcing G strings and all that "i dont give a danm attitude". That may help. Nigerian gals have become increasingly unmarriageable. Karashikaas with a ton of Kardashians attitudes. The sense of entitlement and vain aspirations are suffocating. I blame their young mothers who always chose the role of being their daughters friends , instead of their daughters mothers..

You got it!

alphonsojaybaz:
On social media, a 30-year-old Nigerian woman sobs uncontrollably, sharing her troubles with being childless, broke, and single at her age.

She revealed this in a touching TikTok post where she was seen sobbing and attempting to comfort herself. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

The caption on the video read: “30 years old, no husband, no child, and I’m still broke. Life is too hard.”

In the video, she expressed her frustrations with her current situation, sparking concern from viewers.

As the video circulated online, many individuals flooded the comments section, offering their thoughts and support.

See some reactions below:

CuteMo: “Sis i understand your pain. May Joy find you ijn🙏.”

God’s favorite: “some are married and wish to be single again.”

Christian Ferdina915: “if you be man like this na motor pack for be your office.”

Ayloaded: “ur mate still dey wey no get phone talk less of TikTok account and Some don die without and on top nothing…..So just give thanks for life ❤️❤️.”

Danny kizzy 05: “i feel your pain because we are in same position presently 😭my dear the fact that you are breathing is enough to Thank God, don’t focus on what is not working focus on what is working and give thanks. 🍻.”

NOTHING IS NEW: “big congratulations 👏 ThankGod you’re still alive how wish money can bring back imole mohbad alive😭😭😭.”

Debull: “Let’s be patient, Almighty Allah will soon take control.”

https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/10/13/woman-breaks-down-over-being-broke-childless-and-unmarried-at-age-30/

How come a broke dam looks so pretty?
Shows that even in her dark hour(which everyone encounters), light is evidently on her. Have faith and be hopeful

alphonsojaybaz:
On social media, a 30-year-old Nigerian woman sobs uncontrollably, sharing her troubles with being childless, broke, and single at her age.

She revealed this in a touching TikTok post where she was seen sobbing and attempting to comfort herself. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

The caption on the video read: “30 years old, no husband, no child, and I’m still broke. Life is too hard.”

In the video, she expressed her frustrations with her current situation, sparking concern from viewers.

As the video circulated online, many individuals flooded the comments section, offering their thoughts and support.

See some reactions below:

CuteMo: “Sis i understand your pain. May Joy find you ijn🙏.”

God’s favorite: “some are married and wish to be single again.”

Christian Ferdina915: “if you be man like this na motor pack for be your office.”

Ayloaded: “ur mate still dey wey no get phone talk less of TikTok account and Some don die without and on top nothing…..So just give thanks for life ❤️❤️.”

Danny kizzy 05: “i feel your pain because we are in same position presently 😭my dear the fact that you are breathing is enough to Thank God, don’t focus on what is not working focus on what is working and give thanks. 🍻.”

NOTHING IS NEW: “big congratulations 👏 ThankGod you’re still alive how wish money can bring back imole mohbad alive😭😭😭.”

Debull: “Let’s be patient, Almighty Allah will soon take control.”

https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/10/13/woman-breaks-down-over-being-broke-childless-and-unmarried-at-age-30/

You go calm down? I'm a 50 yrs old lady not married. It's a painful thing but life goes on. God is still on the throne forever so there is hope.

MadPolitician:
Start by removing that silly nose ring and leg chain and fukcing G strings and all that "i dont give a danm attitude". That may help. Nigerian gals have become increasingly unmarriageable. Karashikaas with a ton of Kardashians attitudes. The sense of entitlement and vain aspirations are suffocating. I blame their young mothers who always chose the role of being their daughters friends , instead of their daughters mothers..

but if you see white wearing it,will w be so happy with yourself abi

Zooposki:
The money you are feeding her with is not enough to compensate for all the free labor she does for you.

And that's where the mistake is... Most women believe they are most responsible for the upbringing of a child because they are probably present almost all the time, forgetting that the father figure is irreplaceable, that man whether wealthy or not that ensures food on the table, clothes on the body, bills are paid, security is assured or the battles he has to endure out there, is not really that important. Then you guys claim stability!!! What good is stability when a woman is a shrew? what exactly do they Instill in a child when they disrespect the husband...
Aunty because them teach us to man up no mean say we no dey cry deep inside. Of course their are good women out their, that's the reason most men probably cheat. When you're looking for home while you're home. let us just keep it that way.

DarkJeddi:
Married women with kids die faster..
Single men die faster..
And yet you lot are the ones praying and fasting for a husband..
Looking for who to transfer your brokenness to..

Social conditioning by men. That’s why you guys are quick to call women evening newspaper and mock their singleness.

Eaglesence:
You go calm down? I'm a 50 yrs old lady not married. It's a painful thing but life goes on. God is still on the throne forever so there is hope.

The bolded above made u wait till 50 when u are 35 heading to 40 you should have at least allow a guy to impregnate u and forget about marriage but at least a child to spend time with haba.

The Bible too testify to it that not everybody or everyone will get MARRIED 🤔
but for a child u need at least one to create ur self happiness 😌

Everything is not religion ☯️
Everything is not spiritual 🙏
MANY PRBOEMS HUMAN ATE FACING TODAY IS DUE TO THE LACK OF INSIGHT TO CREATE SELF AWARENESS AND HAPPINESS 😌.

BUT.RELIGION WILL ALWAYS SAY GOD IS IN CONTROL 😢 UNTIL U WILL TURN 80 😡

UET DEPRESSION WILL BE SHOWING YOU PEPPER 😢😭
Sorry to say it's not too late though just get a man to impregnate u and forget Abt marriage .

It's well ❤️‍🩹

Zooposki:
The most important task for her is to be financially stable, and then the next step is to get a kid. The least important task is getting married. A husband will not make her happy, only add to her stress levels. Married women with kids die faster than single women without kids while the opposite is true for men.

You're just looking for a way to continue your promiscuous life while you keep the child you got out of wedlock as a future investment.

Tayorshd87:
The bolded above made u wait till 50 when u are 35 heading to 40 you should have at least allow a guy to impregnate u and forget about marriage but at least a child to spend time with haba.

The Bible too testify to it that not everybody or everyone will get MARRIED 🤔
but for a child u need at least one to create ur self happiness 😌

Everything is not religion ☯️
Everything is not spiritual 🙏
MANY PRBOEMS HUMAN ATE FACING TODAY IS DUE TO THE LACK OF INSIGHT TO CREATE SELF AWARENESS AND HAPPINESS 😌.

BUT.RELIGION WILL ALWAYS SAY GOD IS IN CONTROL 😢 UNTIL U WILL TURN 80 😡

UET DEPRESSION WILL BE SHOWING YOU PEPPER 😢😭
Sorry to say it's not too late though just get a man to impregnate u and forget Abt marriage .

It's well ❤️‍🩹

Which part of the bible says you can have a child out of wedlock for self happiness?

achimendy:
Which part of the bible says you can have a child out of wedlock for self happiness?

You can see what am saying 😂

Before Bible and d Quran are people not living on earth??

Who told u Bible is being used worldwide .
We have about 500 religions worldwide and Bible(christainty) is part of it .

Must Bible determine ur happiness 😊

If u were born and brought up in Indian till date u Wil have ur own idol 🤔

But is because u are born and brought up in Nigeria and u are taught Christian way or life that's why u are asking this question 🤔

THIS IS LIFE NO ONE HAS PERFECT CALCULATION FOR IT .
CREATE HAPPINESS FORGET MARRIAGE 😞 GET A KID DUE TO YOUR OLD AGE .
U NEED SOMEONE TO PLAY AROUND YOU AND HELP YOU ..

all the people that created technology phone, internet, cars etc are not religious people 🤔 if they follow d Bible alone they won't create all what we are enjoying till date .so

EVERYTBING IS NOT RELIGION

CodeTemplarr:
Is that stud tears or catarrh on her nose. She is using bruteforce advertisement techniqu and reversed psychology.

you are a wicked smart dude, you caught her Red handed

I no longer pity single women over 30 years, go watch Nons miraj show and see how single ladies rubbish guys

boxypane:
And that's where the mistake is... Most women believe they are most responsible for the upbringing of a child because they are probably present almost all the time, forgetting that the father figure is irreplaceable, that man whether wealthy or not that ensures food on the table, clothes on the body, bills are paid, security is assured or the battles he has to endure out there, is not really that important. Then you guys claim stability!!! What good is stability when a woman is a shrew? what exactly do they Instill in a child when they disrespect the husband...
Aunty because them teach us to man up no mean say we no dey cry deep inside. Of course their are good women out their, that's the reason most men probably cheat. When you're looking for home while you're home. let us just keep it that way.

All these issues and yet you guys quickly rush into another marriage in case of a divorce or death of spouse. Most of you even dream of marrying more than one wife or marry multiple wives. I’m crying for you.

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Why cry?
There are millions of them in Nigeria and millions being added above 30 annually with nothing to show except perhaps paper certificates and degrees. Sadly some people do not understand life. There are some internal struggles that material things cannot fulfill.

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