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Why do some women get pregnant and allow themselves with the pregnancy even when they have nothing to cater for the baby, then start begging immediately they put to birth?

And men on the other hand, watch their partner all through the period of nine months without any plan or penny, then once she put to birth, they start begging for baby clothes and food?

I know God does provide, but is it not too risky not to plan towards decision in one's life?
How do we call this?
What's your idea towards people who get pregnant and give birth without any means of survival?

See example

Hmmmm... God gives children, and he will take care of his children

Na wa. Maybe they're competing with someone as to who'd have more children!
And instead of people asking them WHY another child when you already have 6 you can't take care of, they'd be saying "congrats". Congrats my ass!

It's MADNESS!
Madness and entitlement.

ONLY excuse for unwanted pregnancy in 2024 is STARK illiteracy.

By that, I mean the kind of illiteracy where you don't even know the first letter of your own name.

Other than that, there is no excuse for bringing a child into your MISERY.

If a man and a woman combines their mind and resources together and still STRUGGLE to feed themselves, then bringing a child into that kind of situation is MADNESS and WICKEDNESS.

Birth control measures are SURPLUS!

You have condoms, spermicides, morning after pills, etc YET you chose to have a kid you CANNOT afford.

That's MADNESS!

Everything to nature a child from inception to death at an old age has been provided by nature , the problem is that the new generation are un aware of the resources nature has gifted them, our ancestors did well to 150 years without vaccines and pampers

Lol.....Have u ever seen a woman admit she intentionally wanted to get pregnant..they always claim they were menstruating until the fifth month before they realized they were pregnant...

Even the fvck seff...it's never their fault....
It's either she was deceived by a man against her will, raped, the sperm flew in btw jer legs through the window or it was emailed to her via the internet...

And

"Babies are a blessing" is the greatest scam ever after "I LOVE YOU" from a Nigerian banny............

SilentEmma:
Hmmmm... God gives children, and he will take care of his children

Story story

One has to be careful in these matters. .....

Some lose jobs while pregnant and some were poor to begin with such that they just have to marry and give birth within that circumstance or else spend their lives childless and still penniless.

For me, wealth is a trial and poverty is a trail. Why would you help?

You help because you are grateful that you are not tested with poverty and that it is not you that has to beg and that you may earn goodness from your wealth.

So many have worked hard and still not received wealth and not all who are wealthy got it from good means.

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@origin, I understand. But I'm surprised how many sensible woman and men get pregnant through the period of nine months only to beg for the baby's clothes, food even hospital bills. What happened to planing ahead? And why should anyone have a baby when she / he can not even feed himself not to talk of feeding a baby? What's that?

SilentEmma:
Hmmmm... God gives children, and he will take care of his children

if u talk that thing near me I go enter u

Do u know how many children have suffered badly due to their parents believing this your lie

Godwin4444:
if u talk that thing near me I go enter u

Do u know how many children have suffered badly due to their parents believing this your lie

Tell your papa to buy knive switch

Ibos go suffer

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EhWhoBeThat:
Tell your papa to buy knive switch

Ibos go suffer

😂😂😂

one thing that baffles me about u is this

U are trolling me n creating madness around everywhere simply because I don't vote your obi

One thing I think about anytime I see u quote me is that I know either u like it or not me n u will see face to face one day n I promise u it's very soon

So I am thinking about d excuses u will give me for your madness

Maybe u will tell me sorry or u will tell me it's d handiwork of d devil or u will b crying cos one thing I can assure u is that, that moment u will regret all these madness n wish u never did it

Till u are caught, enjoy

Godwin4444:
one thing that baffles me about u is this

U are trolling me n creating madness around everywhere simply because I don't vote your obi

One thing I think about anytime I see u quote me is that I know either u like it or not me n u will see face to face one day n I promise u it's very soon

So I am thinking about d excuses u will give me for your madness

Maybe u will tell me sorry or u will tell me it's d handiwork of d devil or u will b crying cos one thing I can assure u is that, that moment u will regret all these madness n wish u never did it

Till u are caught, enjoy

Tell your father to buy Nigerian wire



Ibos go suffer


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I know a woman who had 2 kids and went on to birth two more after her husband lost her job. In her words: "So, I shouldn't give birth because my husband is jobless?" Guess what? She later lost her husband and was left with the burden of taking care of 4 kids instead of two.

In Nigeria, people are living in abject poverty not because they are poor per se, but because their income cannot cater for the number of kids they have. An average Nigerian family can live comfortably if they have lesser number of kids, but couple will prefer to have 7 children knowing full well that their income can only cater for 1 kid.

The people who coined the mantra that 'poverty is a disease', knew exactly what they were saying. Poverty affects all sense of reasoning and cause people to think with their private parts rather than use their brains.

A lady once told me. Guy I really need a baby from you. I will be the father and the mother at the same time. I was like WTF. A PHD holder o. The moment a lady chooses to be 5tupid no matter the advice she receives she will end up acting more foolish.

We4all:
I know a woman who had 2 kids and went on to birth two more after her husband lost her job. In her words: "So, I shouldn't give birth because my husband is jobless?" Guess what? She later lost her husband and was left with the burden of taking care of 4 kids instead of two.

In Nigeria, people are living in abject poverty not because they are poor per se, but because their income cannot cater for the number of kids they have. An average Nigerian family can live comfortably if they have lesser number of kids, but couple will prefer to have 7 children knowing full well that their income can only cater for 1 kid.

The people who coined the mantra that 'poverty is a disease', knew exactly what they were saying. Poverty affects all sense of reasoning and cause people to think with their private parts rather than use their brains.

very correct. Imagine someone that can not afford a healthy meal for herself/himself, having children he will still not be able to cater for? 5tupid decision

Nicepoker:
A lady once told me. Guy I really need a baby from you. I will be the father and the mother at the same time. I was like WTF. A PHD holder o. The moment a lady chooses to be 5tupid no matter the advice she receives she will end up acting more foolish.

In her own case, maybe she could afford it.

Dainy1:
Why do some women get pregnant and allow themselves with the pregnancy even when they have nothing to cater for the baby, then start begging immediately they put to birth?

And men on the other hand, watch their partner all through the period of nine months without any plan or penny, then once she put to birth, they start begging for baby clothes and food?

I know God does provide, but is it not too risky not to plan towards decision in one's life?
How do we call this?
What's your idea towards people who get pregnant and give birth without any means of survival?

I don't understand o, initially I thought maybe it was ignorance or totally out of their control.
Couple of years ago, a lady was busy telling me it's so bad for me to stop at 3 but, a year after she came to beg me for baby stuffs and I was shocked but didn't have the mind to remind her of the statement she made .