₦airaland Forum

descarado:
Oh, it didn't just start.
Was so missed off with his entitlement mentality that I didn't bother checking his other threads.

cococandy:
Are you interested in being the primary parent? That’s an option you can explore. She can leave the kids with you (as soon as you settle what the old man spent) and take the kids since they are now too much for her to handle full time.

Afodot0022:
I will never settle any bill or payment. I never approved her taking those kids there and will never give him a dime. If he wants to keep them ,let him keep them and keep feeding them, when the right time comes, na him go beg me to come and carry my kids. They are just been foolish and stupid. A dime will not come from my pocket even though I can afford to give him but I won't do that.

1Sharon:
That place is their grandparents house and she has every right to take them there. Do the kids only belong to him?

verminnel:
Deadbeats!!!

BigYash:
Them the so called grandpa should not complain of the money he spent on the kids,since the kids doesn't belong to him alone. The so called grandpa telling him to pay for taking care of his grandkids show the kind of greedy and stupid home or family op married from. Make una dey run deep check before una marry ,una go say no. See the home of devils you married from now.. I pray your kids doesn't end up with the kind of mind their grandpa and mother possess.

Smilleydr:
you are right though but my pain s just for her not allowing me speak with my daughter.

pocohantas:
They only love the kids for as much as they love the mother. That is why a man can abandon his biological kids, fall in love with another woman with kids and take care of them.

When women understand this, they will know to have as much as they can handle if push comes to shove, because once they are scorned, they will PUNISH YOU WITH THOSE KIDS.

This OP has been parading his young ex-virgin gf. He was convinced it would be easy for him to move on as a MALE divorcee. It obviously didn't work out as his young gf started to show him shege. Now he is in pains and trying to wizard-hunt his ex-wife. I love that she is applying pressure on his ego.

Look at him running mouth. Someone that entered a relationship in 2 weeks just because he couldn't keep up with his basic house chores. Yet he is raising the roof over his ex-wife needing help. I thought he claimed he is buoyant? GenZs never show am shege. Na just Round 1 be this. When they are done with him, he would beg his supposed cheating ex-wife. 😂

Afodot0022:
She has right to take them their own my consent or approval. She took them their for months and not just a regular visit... Months and you think the right thing to do is not to inform me for doing that untop of kids am taking responsibility on . Pls say something else abeg

pocohantas:
No, it didn't. His brothers here convinced him that young virgin career-minded girls would be rushing him in no time. Yet he didn't bother to ask why none of them have hooked these girls. NL RP guys always know the good women but have none...

Maeve7:
Could you leave your kids with this kind of a person?

pocohantas:
Gbam! No matter how you explain CHILD SUPPORT to them, they INTENTIONALLY refuse to get it. All because they have no access to the mum. Even primary custody, when they fight for the kids, it is to PUNISH the mum. This OP intended fighting for custody - go check his threads. He clearly stated he would handover the upbringing to his mum and sister. It is right there in his past thread! It is always one woman or the other. He can't do it alone either. Yet they open mouth waaa to ask what women bring to the table.

Afodot0022:
You can say whatsoever you want to say. For me to want to reconcile with a cheats is nothing but because I want those kids future to be guaranteed. If to reconcile with her will give the kids that, maybe I won't mind but as it is now, I have cancel that reconcile part and I don't care what happens henceforth. I am dealing with a useless, slothful and irresponsible woman that is dumb and foolish. I will leave her to her ruins and whatsoever she what's her life and the kids life to be. Yes I moved on and I have the right to do that as a man. What do you expect a man that his wife committed adultery to do. Yes I complained about the women I met and why should that be a problem, should I condone rubbish character from women because I want to be with them. You don't have a point neither a day. I never find it difficult to move on, I have done that but am doing this because of those kids, they shouldn't suffer for all this. ... .

Afodot0022:
So you have a problem me taking my kids to my mom and sister but you don't have issues her taking the kids to her own father and her step mom . You women just need to up your senses. You women will want to eat your cake and have it. I don't have issues with child support, but kids I can't talk to or have access to, I will never pay any child support for such.. I am not foolish and not a simp.

pocohantas:
No, it didn't. His brothers here convinced him that young virgin career-minded girls would be rushing him in no time. Yet he didn't bother to ask why none of them have hooked these girls. NL RP guys always know the good women but have none...

folake4u:
We don't like men that are evening newspapers please. They have low ROI and not economically beneficial to us.

Thank you.

cococandy:
Honey I’m not surprised. I wasn’t expecting you to say otherwise.
In 5 years you’ll come and tell us how they turned your kid against you. Na today.🙄

Afodot0022:
You are deluded. Am not at loss and will never be, am a man and if I want kids now, I will get another. She is the one that will loss cos with all her stress on those kids, when they grow older, they will look for their father and by then, the truth will be waiting for them, it will be all her loss. Am doing all these cos am a responsible man and want to do what am expected to do as a father to my kids. Most men won't even bothered about them and will move on, but am doing this cos I want to do the right thing. With what she did, it's enough reason for me to abandon those kids and move on but despite that, am still looking back and not considering her stupidity.

Afodot0022:
They have already done that and as it is now, I don't fuc.king care no more. Whatsoever they want to do, let them do it. We wait for the future and she herself will regret everything she is doing now. I have records and evidence of everything and they have all been archived. When the kids grow and look for their father, I will be their to give my own explanation to the. She thinks she is doing me, she is doing herself

cococandy:
They’re not going to look for you.

Afodot0022:
Thank you.. I believe they are still sensible people here and not those that think with their anus. If he is a good father, he would have advice his daughter to call me before bringing the kids down to him. He has no right over my kids and can't make decisions over them. He is just a useless grandfather. Which grandfather ask for refunds on money he spent on his grand kids. That family I married from are cursed and I regretted I married from such unfortunate family

pocohantas:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Afodot0022:
. I don't have issues with child support, but kids I can't talk to or have access to, I will never pay any child support for such.. I am not foolish and not a simp.

pocohantas:
No, it didn't. His brothers here convinced him that young virgin career-minded girls would be rushing him in no time. Yet he didn't bother to ask why none of them have hooked these girls. NL RP guys always know the good women but have none...

folake4u:
We don't like men that are evening newspapers please. They have low ROI and not economically beneficial to us.

Thank you.

pocohantas:
No, it didn't. His brothers here convinced him that young virgin career-minded girls would be rushing him in no time. Yet he didn't bother to ask why none of them have hooked these girls. NL RP guys always know the good women but have none...

pocohantas:
Sadly all the NL broloshos are banking on marrying from your generation and the ones after you. Let's see how it goes.

folake4u:
I wish them the best in their pursuit, as my generation and the next ones will pour hot atarodo in their eyes.

GloriousGbola:
: - you have been bringing your personal issues to this platform since 2021.

all you are going to do is provide entertainment and engagement.

you will not solve any of your issues

i cannot tell you how you will solve this - but i can tell you the answers are not here

know however that there are children involved and your actions will affect them and will affect how they turn out.

mistakes have been made, and you are going to have to live with those mistakes.

your focus should be providing the best you can for your children by being there physically and financially

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders fam.
Majority of people here have idea about my story and if you don't, you can go through my previous post to get a glimpse.

This month made it one year and seven months have been Separated and living apart from my ex wife due to infidelity and cheating from my ex wife part. Since then, my two daughter aged 8 and 7 had been living with her and I do take responsibility of them until this January 2024 when my wife took my kids to her father and step mom place because there was this course she was order to go for 6months officially outside lagos state. I was so angry because she never seek my permission or approval before taking them there and because of this, I stop sending money or paying their fees till now. I[b] saw it as a act of disrespect if I the father can't be informed of where my [/b]kids are been taking to for a long period of time. She already took them there before informing me.

She was supposed to finish her course outside the state by June and since then, she never called me to inform me she is back until yesterday when I put a call to her and she told me she got back since June. I asked about the kids and to my shock, she told me the kids are still there with her father and step mom. How can you leave the kids at your parents place while the father and mother are available, I got so upset and the discussion resulted to insult and curse on phone. She told me she had a serious issue at work and she couldn't combine the kids stress to what she is going through presently. To be honest, I was even thinking to reconcile with her cos of the kids despite she cheated but the way she behave and talks on phone shows she is not remorse or even care if the family is back together or ready for any reconciliation despite the fact she was at fault. Now my kids are my focus but I don't know how to go about this.

The information I got from her dad was that he will not release the kids to either me or her on less the money he had spent on them is refunded back to him. This is already looking like a kidnap and abduction case which I told her that if she doesn't pick those kids before weekend, I will file a case of child kidnap and abduction against her and her father. Pls I need advice on how to go about this and those that have first class experience with such should assist with advice. Thank you all

pocohantas:
The upcoming generation(s) should be called D'AVENGERS. They are here to avenge all the years of endurance of Nigerian women.

GloriousGbola:
your focus should be providing the best you can for your children by being there physically and financially