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Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by advocatejare(m): 9:16am On Oct 27, 2024
Ok
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by femi4: 9:17am On Oct 27, 2024
AuntieGO:
Women should learn to take their minds off their insatiable lust by engaging in work
That’s not lust, that's lack of sex
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by immortalcrown(m): 9:17am On Oct 27, 2024
chudez0147:
What nonsense entitlement?? Hope you can say same for the husband
1.
What is the nonsense in my comment?

2.
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Honestey: 9:18am On Oct 27, 2024
No to toys, there are guys around who can help her apply free anointing oil to the right spot. Halleluuuujah!
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by jaxxy(m): 9:18am On Oct 27, 2024
if u cannot hold body and with the permission of ur husband I don't see nothing wrong. its better than infidelity.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by wealthpreach(m): 9:19am On Oct 27, 2024
AuntieGO:
Women should learn to take their minds off their insatiable lust by engaging in work
For how long? Our genes are wired uniquely, making some of us have a higher-than-usual urge. In cases like this, work from morning till night 247—you wouldn't still be able to get your mind off.

The best thing here was to settle with someone with a similar urge.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by 1nigeriamyfoot: 9:20am On Oct 27, 2024
Honestey:
No to toys, there are guys around who can help her apply free anointing oil to the right spot. Halleluuuujah!
grin

Hell is real bro
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Faposky95: 9:20am On Oct 27, 2024
immortalcrown:
As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.
it's relative....
the power of konji.....
mi lady, use the gun when the robbers come, not against the rats.....
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by macphilip: 9:21am On Oct 27, 2024
Madam, Discuss this your hubby.
You can video sex with him while also masturbating with toys
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by VinnyBaba: 9:21am On Oct 27, 2024
Thegoodone13:
Don't use it. If you start using it, it will reach a stage you will not like it and you will feel like see a man.
It's like you don't know what intimacy gadgets are. sad

Try Watch those Girly American films.

Sex gadgets give intense pleasures to women.

Any lady that uses intimacy gadgets will not see need for Penis again. undecided
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by bluebay(m): 9:23am On Oct 27, 2024
Am speechless .
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Jcash90: 9:23am On Oct 27, 2024
Cope with it until he returns that's the for better or worse
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Taiwojon(m): 9:23am On Oct 27, 2024
Though not married yet I have to say this

Don't engage with any intimacy gadget just to satisfy fleshy lust rather engage in work.
Learn to be busy
Look away from any romantic film, book, discussion, serminar and look to Jesus

Though it might be hard for you but see it as your own cross for the sake of God and heaven.

Fixed your mind on Christ and return your mind to your childhood days when sex and pleasure wasn't your way.
Even with high libido, you should not engaged in such becaus mastubation is a sins to God, so doing that is sins.

Lastly
Why didn't you follow your husband overseas.

Husband and wife are meant to be together to avoid temptation and questions like this.

Don't engaged in intimacy gadget (mastubation)
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Urgent1Million: 9:24am On Oct 27, 2024
NinjaMetahuman:
Sexual sin is the dumbest most restrictive thing religions have ever created.

Imagine wanting to poop but you can't because one guy in the sky will get angry you didn't poop a certain way.

What's the point of giving sexual desire if you don't want people to meet them. grin grin


God will be easier to worship, if there is less h0rny people worrying about what God will do to them if they satisfy their horniness.
Religion is the most useless thing ever invented by man.
If any man leaves my sister for even six months, I'll be the one to arrange a guy with a big cock to fourk her till she cums
What nonsense!!
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by KINGsXchange(m): 9:27am On Oct 27, 2024
immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

You still haven't answer the question yet.. the question said, how will she control herself when her husband is away for 3 years and more
In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by itu404(m): 9:27am On Oct 27, 2024
Your question reeks of bias against Christians. Why use the word christian wife? do you imply other religion permits it? Sunday when this platform should edify Christians, encourage them in their walk with God, some of you [TARES] come here to throw a spanner on christian ways of living, something that other religion do not experience here. Go read this scripture Galatians 6:7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by godofuck231: 9:28am On Oct 27, 2024
I bought it for her and as her chief priest, she has my permission, am answerable to God myself , so as a soldier who kills when at war , she lets me know the latest and I buy the fvking thing for her , wtf are you guys still living in the dark ages ?
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Illusioneffect(m): 9:29am On Oct 27, 2024
The Bible never said masturbation is a sin, some women still touch themselves when they’re having sex with their partner
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Danabu(m): 9:29am On Oct 27, 2024
immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.
Please support this your opinion with biblical references
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by doggedfighter(f): 9:29am On Oct 27, 2024
C2Ok:
So in this case, Masturbation is okay?
Yes it is.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Illusioneffect(m): 9:30am On Oct 27, 2024
Urgent1Million:
Religion is the most useless thing ever invented by man.
If any man leaves my sister for even six months, I'll be the one to arrange a guy with a big cock to fourk her till she cums
What nonsense!!
Let her come to me- I can help her so far she has big knock*rs
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by immortalcrown(m): 9:31am On Oct 27, 2024
Danabu:
Please support this your opinion with biblical references
Not necessary until someone presents a biblical reference against my opinion.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Adoborn: 9:32am On Oct 27, 2024
Nooooooo! She can only use Holy water. That's all that is permitted. tongue
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by billyG(m): 9:32am On Oct 27, 2024
Do female feel d need for been pounded?
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Urgent1Million: 9:32am On Oct 27, 2024
Illusioneffect:
Let her come to me- I can help her so far she has big knock*rs
Can you last for 2 hours?
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by chudez0147(m): 9:32am On Oct 27, 2024
immortalcrown:
1.
What is the nonsense in my comment?

2.
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.
Well said!
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by grandiose4ever: 9:33am On Oct 27, 2024
There's one solution and it's for you to engage in regular fastings, prayer and word study.

Commit your time away from your husband and use it to gain deeper depth in Christ.

As you are gaining depth the Holy Spirit will regulate your sexual appetite - and make it normal. Currently, your sexual appetite is untamed and it's likely a product of your past.

This is something I have seen the Lord do for me when I commit myself to him. My sexual appetite is regulated to normalcy.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Trendtips(f): 9:33am On Oct 27, 2024
Yes please cheesy
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Illusioneffect(m): 9:33am On Oct 27, 2024
Taiwojon:
Though not married yet I have to say this

Don't engage with any intimacy gadget just to satisfy fleshy lust rather engage in work.
Learn to be busy
Look away from any romantic film, book, discussion, serminar and look to Jesus

Though it might be hard for you but see it as your own cross for the sake of God and heaven.

Fixed your mind on Christ and return your mind to your childhood days when sex and pleasure wasn't your way.
Even with high libido, you should not engaged in such becaus menstubation is a sins to God, so doing that is sins.

Lastly
Why didn't you follow your husband overseas.

Husband and wife are meant to be together to avoid temptation and questions like this.

Don't engaged in intimacy gadget (menstubation)
Stfu - masturbation is not a sin
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Fiscus105(m):
immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.
Abi oooo, because you are a devoted Christian or Muslim, all your body anatomy would not function as it supposed to be.

God himself that designs body, he knows that body must respond to appropriate, and it has nothing to be with ur closeness to God, sex is physiological needs and no amount of holy spirit can remove it from body.

Many of you are just following religion without even knowing what it entails.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Urgent1Million: 9:35am On Oct 27, 2024
grandiose4ever:
There's one solution and it's for you to engage in regular fastings, prayer and word study.

Commit your time away from your husband and use it to gain deeper depth in Christ.

As you are gaining depth the Holy Spirit will regulate your sexual appetite - and make it normal. Currently, your sexual appetite is untamed and it's likely a product of your past.

This is something I have seen the Lord do for me when I commit myself to him. My sexual appetite is regulated to normalcy.
You people are unbelievable!
Somebody is already starving and you want her to fast again?
What organ of your body do you use to think?
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