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Righthussle:
Let me answer like righteousness

No. Use intimacy gadgets and kiss your mansion in heaven goodbye. If you use those things, you'll go to HELL after death where fire will burn you.




Foolish woman, you want answers on how to use your own body from people that use their body the way they like.

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immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

Self control for 3 years!! You joking, right?

grandiose4ever:
There's one solution and it's for you to engage in regular fastings, prayer and word study.

Commit your time away from your husband and use it to gain deeper depth in Christ.

As you are gaining depth the Holy Spirit will regulate your sexual appetite - and make it normal. Currently, your sexual appetite is untamed and it's likely a product of your past.

This is something I have seen the Lord do for me when I commit myself to him. My sexual appetite is regulated to normalcy.

How will fasting cure your sexual desires? You guys with your AI generated useless solutions like you haven't had sex before. Is it the Holy Spirit that'll come down and cure her sexual desires?

shortgun:
The Bible calls it sexual immorality and it's a sin before God.
Marriage means two people coming together,staying together and becoming one.
Many marriages today just like yours are not marriages but two people deceiving each other.

Apart from masturbating, pls mention another form of sexual immorality as "quoted" in the bible

immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

As a Christian, I am compelled to respond to you.
It is too hasty to say using intimacy gadgets is outrightly a sin.
Also if you study the meaning of adultery right, you will find using intimacy gadgets does immediately qualify. Adultery simply means breaking wedlock, often by a woman. She's still in wedlock and until she leaves the husband, whether physically by divorce, sleeping with another man, having another man constantly on her mind or just simply walking out of the marriage.
The gospel of Christ shouldn't be used to condemn people and definitely shouldn't be about what sin is and is not.
Lastly, in my opinion, if the husband is aware and gives approval, it's okay for her not to burn in passion.
If you are still not ok, respond to this so we open the Bible.

Pochettino:
How did you end up marrying a church man when you know you have a high libido?

It is a recipe for adultery because your insatiable desire will always win.

I think you may have married the man due to the money and benefits you saw and now you are thinking of returning to where you truly belong - the streets.

Good luck.

Anyone telling her to stay celibate for 3 yrs not even knowing when the husband is coming back will burn in the hottest part of hell for deceiving her.

Illusioneffect:
Stfu - masturbation is not a sin

Mastubation is a sin

Husband is not supposed to leave the wife for that long and vice verse. That's why the Bible say "Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband."

Marriage is for companionship. 3 years is too long

Daejumong:
Hello Daejumong! Can I use intimacy gadgets as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with passion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Pastors and Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!

Please share the woman's contact with me. It's urgent.

Urgent1Million:
Can you last for 2 hours?

Why would a sane person have sex for 2 hours- is it a football match

Discuss it with your man... If you are truthful to each other... Seek his permission. He could as well recommend a friend pastor. Lol

shortgun:
The Bible calls it sexual immorality and it's a sin before God.
Marriage means two people coming together,staying together and becoming one.
Many marriages today just like yours are not marriages but two people deceiving each other.

For your information, sexual immorality encompasses, activities that go against the natural use of our Instruments: Mouth Action, anal, plate licking, rimming, etc

AuntieGO:
Women should learn to take their minds off their insatiable lust by engaging in work

Nature would always prevail no matter how hard you try and the psychological effects of a woman not letting off her sexual steam is worse.....we see them everyday!!

There is nothing wrong with her touching herself.

Intimacy wasn't designed to be paused once initiated...

Gadgeting is actually Masturbation and has no place in the life of a Christian! Use gadget and your husband wont be able to satisfy you again.

Staying without sex for 3yrs...hmmm. Me that can't survive 2weeks without it as a married man.

God is your strength!

May God bless couples with money to japa together!

Satan will be in one corner now laughing and sipping orange juice...

Taiwojon:
Mastubation is a sins

Is this English or Spanish bro?

Illusioneffect:
Stfu - masturbation is not a sin

If it is not a sin

Can you do it in the present of your
Mom, dad, child, your bossom friends and neighbour

If you cannot do so openly why do it secreting?
Note
Even in secret God see the evil that men do.

So better repent and put a stop to it

grandiose4ever:
There's one solution and it's for you to engage in regular fastings, prayer and word study.

Commit your time away from your husband and use it to gain deeper depth in Christ.

As you are gaining depth the Holy Spirit will regulate your sexual appetite - and make it normal. Currently, your sexual appetite is untamed and it's likely a product of your past.

This is something I have seen the Lord do for me when I commit myself to him. My sexual appetite is regulated to normalcy.

In other words, holy spirit can help you to overcome, starving, thirsty, going to toilet, because all of above are physiological needs just as sex.

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

Isoright...

Grab my weed on a Sunday morning sit in the uncompleted building close to my house to drag my weed while I read people's comments on this issue

You must be living in those low class neighbourhoods....I thought you were a big time azaman!!

Thegoodone13:
Don't use it. If you start using it, it will reach a stage you will not like it and you will feel like see a man.

So what shd she do?

she can use them even when I'm at home

Illusioneffect:
Is this English or Spanish bro?

I have corrected myself bro.

Thank you

Zannix:
Intimacy wasn't designed to be paused once initiated...

Gadgeting is actually Masturbation and has no place in the life of a Christian!

Staying without sex for 3yrs...hmmm. Me that can't survive 2weeks without it as a married man.

God is your strength!

May God bless couples with money to japa together!

Satan will be in one corner now laughing and sipping orange juice...

No one has told me where in the Bible it is written masturbation is a sin since even during sexual intercourse - women touch themselves to arouse themselves better

bomsilaga:
As a Christian, I am compelled to respond to you.
It is too hasty to say using intimacy gadgets is outrightly a sin.
Also if you study the meaning of adultery right, you will find using intimacy gadgets does immediately qualify. Adultery simply means breaking wedlock, often by a woman. She's still in wedlock and until she leaves the husband, whether physically by divorce, sleeping with another man, having another man constantly on her mind or just simply walking out of the marriage.
The gospel of Christ shouldn't be used to condemn people and definitely shouldn't be about what sin is and is not.
Lastly, in my opinion, if the husband is aware and gives approval, it's okay for her not to burn in passion.
If you are still not ok, respond to this so we open the Bible.

I admit that classifying the use of an intimacy gadget as adultery may be wrong.

But you are wrong for saying that the use of the gadget is right with the husband's approval.

Illusioneffect:
Is this English or Spanish bro?

Hybrid

Lithiumite:
Self control for 3 years!! You joking, right?

If you are not the joker, tell us why self control should not be practiced as often as necessary.

Taiwojon:
If it is not a sin

Can you do it in the present of your
Mom, dad, child, your bossom friends and neighbour

If you cannot do so openly why do it secreting?
Note
Even in secret God see the evil that men do.

So better repent and put a stop to it

So you can have sex with your wife in front of your child and you're telling me I'm the immoral one or is having sex a sin too? wtf

AuntieGO:
Women should learn to take their minds off their insatiable lust by engaging in work

Abi ooo, even defecation, uniration, starving, thirsty, they must off their minds, because all above are physiological needs just the way sex is.

Can you ask and post this sort of question to the Moslem brethren as one of the Friday Juma’at post??

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

Isoright...

Grab my weed on a Sunday morning sit in the uncompleted building close to my house to drag my weed while I read people's comments on this issue

Haha My guy Slawwwomir Baba I de come join you oo.. But I haven't heard lack of sex killed anyone.

Yes she can.

Illusioneffect:
No one has told me where in the Bible it is written masturbation is a sin since even during sexual intercourse - women touch themselves to arouse themselves better

Masturbation is a sin oo.....children of God should allow their spouse do the pleasuring.

If you pleasure yourself na masturbation e be.

It is well, l will not advice you indulge yourself in such act. Discussing your sexual pressures with your hubby sincerely will help ease your sexual urge.

Since you are a child of get yourself involved in activities that would distract that sexual urge, and the Grace of God will keep you strong in Jesus Name.

Secondly you and your hubby should have a visible plan on how you can unite the family back again.

All will be well.