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Illusioneffect:
Please ask them o 😂 if you as a woman touch yourself when you're even bathing - you're going to hell wtf!

don't mind them.
Alarmist people.
They are always the one to say this is the same as that.

Like they already understand everything spiritual finish.

Christians wey get different types and divisions.

And na same bible Dem dey read o.

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For 3 years,her husband celibate abroad?
Hahahahaha!

Anyway,I can stay without sex all my life but if I were to be a sex freak,in the same shoes as her,I will use intimacy gadgets or outrightly cheat.

Danabu:
Please support this your opinion with biblical references

Common sense should teach you.

Would you clap for your child for taking cocaine simply cos "it is not in the bible?"

The so called Christian wife can suffer as long as she wishes herself to

ufotunang:
.. what about konji..she is a human being..not a firevood

And Konji na bastard

Am a Christian but eeh if na this mindsets wey I dey see for this comment section Christians dey really suffer,I pity people who will miss these great pleasures of life, Am not your kind of Christian

There are lotss of stuff to keep one busy... watching TV/movies,internet,novels, job (if employed),...then you can come to nairaland,look for a certain whining koneheaded structured zico5 and have a good laff reading his posts of weeping and lamentations after supporting same person to become president last year (you dare not criticise the bulaba back then when he was around) 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

AfonjaConehead:
Common sense should teach you.

Would you clap for your child for taking cocaine simply cos "it is not in the bible?"

Comparing cocaine to masturbation is like comparing poison to food. Maybe they're the same to you

[quote author=Daejumong post=132599069]Hello Daejumong! Can I use intimacy gadgets as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with passion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Pastors and Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister![

It is a sin against your own body as a Christian. But a Muslim lady can use it...

AfonjaConehead:
There are lotss of stuff to keep one busy... watching TV/movies,internet,novels, job (if employed),...then you can come to nairaland,look for a certain whining koneheaded structured zico5 and have a good laff reading his posts of weeping and lamentations after supporting same person to become president last year (you dare not criticise the bulaba back then when he was around) 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Looks like you've never had sex if you're comparing sex to watching movies

Illusioneffect:
Comparing cocaine to masturbation is like comparing poison to food. Maybe they're the same to you

Is sniffing coke in the bible as sin?

Use ya common sense,nahhh

immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

Everybody is saying is a sin, which is true. But you all fail to put it in missing it for 3years which is a longtime for anybody talk less of person of high libido with past stories.

As it a sin for her to satisfy her needs with other things, it also righteous in religion perspective for her to divorce the husband in absentia and get marry to another man who will answer her call. Since the goal is heavenly gain, and not to have sex with other person or things than her husband.


It easy to say don't do it but practical is hard.

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AfonjaConehead:
Is sniffing coke in the bible as sin?

Use ya common sense,nahhh

Sniffing cocaine is a sin because you'd not only be killing yourself slowly but you'd also be going against governmental laws. Jesus said you should obey the laws of a country, nahhh🤷🏽‍♂️ be smart oga

OP is this street? Is that your house at the right hand side?

My advice is simple and short. Do not use intimacy gadget, it will increase the desire for the real thing. Stay contained and keep your mind on other important things, like multiplying the money he sends to you.

Lanre1st:
Everybody is saying is a sin, which is true. But you all fail to put it in missing it for 3years which is a longtime for anybody talk less of person of high libido with past stories.

As it a sin for her to satisfy her needs with other things, it also righteous in religion perspective for her to divorce the husband in absentia and get marry to another man who will answer her call. Since the goal is heavenly gain, and not to have sex with other person or things than her husband.


It easy to say don't do it but practical is hard.

It's not a sin ma- she's married and can engage in sexual activities so far she's not being unfaithful to her husband. Married Women even touch themselves when they bathe - if they touch themselves a little and are aroused, are they going to hell too?

immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

Your note was very key.

Any unnatural act of sex is a sin. Satisfying yourself sexually is a sin, you have pray for a self control as a Christian. Sister, don't use that intimacy gadgets, go and burn them to ashes. God bless you.

The lady is going to end up cheating with a pastor or a brother in her church or an ex. Let's stop deceiving ourselves. It's written all over her.

All I see is opinions. Because you gave an opinion does not mean you are correct. If you can't back your opinion with scripture, you have not said anything. She can do however the heart leads.

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GothamCities:
She should discuss her needs with her husband. If he permits her to use toys, she should go ahead.

Wisdom

Illusioneffect:
💀💀💀💀 hold on - how does masturbation damage your body and 'hurt your future partner'? If masturbation damages your body - sex does the same thing, brother.
In hindsight, you're saying a woman's body doesn't belong to her but her husband - that's sexist and not true.
You could claim masturbation is a sin when you're not married but it is definitely not when you are.

You are projecting from a position of ignorance and lack of experience. You have also attempted in your ignorance to interpret my words in a wrong manner. Who said anything about a woman's body being her man or her own? I have spoken based on my own experience. I leave it to her to make her choice.

Have you masturbated in your life? Do you have experience of the effects? The answer is clearly no. I will wait for those who are willing to speak more of their experience to come and share.

Sex is far healthier for your body than masturbation. I would advise myself if I could go back in time to run away from masturbating.

Lanre1st:
And Konji na bastard

..but you cannot run away from konji...🙄

Illusioneffect:
Sniffing cocaine is a sin because you'd not only be killing yourself slowly but you'd also be going against governmental laws. Jesus said you should obey the laws of a country, nahhh🤷🏽‍♂️ be smart oga

Yes I admit that's a very sensible reply from you but common sense should teach us about self service and the likes...

GothamCities:
She should discuss her needs with her husband. If he permits her to use toys, she should go ahead.

true

BABANGBALI:
The lady is going to end up cheating with a pastor or a brother in her church or an ex. Let's stop deceiving ourselves. It's written all over her.

I pray she doesn't and that GOD grants her the strength and will power to overcome temptation. She is not in an enviable position with regards to sex life. She and her husband need to have a discussion on their sex life.

Thr biggest problem with the toys is that you may get addicted and lose desire for your husband also. I suggest don't go that route please. You kept yourself for 3years, you can still hold on.

Righteousness2 should draw his wife closer to this thread..

It'll be helpful by the time he goes on that journey of no return with the invading terrorist Israelis when Iran eventful turn them to dust