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immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

Did Jesus, Paul or any of the apostles preach that masturbation or use of gadget is a sin?

Let me tell you something, the reason why you can't go to God directly except through Jesus is because all your righteousness is like a filthy rags before God. Who is righteous on Earth, non.

I appreciate your effort, but make it known as your candid opinion to the topic not a generalized answer

Illusioneffect:
I'm not changing any topic - masturbation shouldn't be done in the public view of any other person the same thing with sex because it's a sexual act.
You have never had sex and you're trying to advice people that do 😆

Abeg repent

Daejumong:
Hello Daejumong! Can I use intimacy gadgets as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with passion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Pastors and Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!

It is sinful! It engenders carnality. What satisfaction you get from intimacy gadgets will drive a man near death to continually give you in marriage when you eventually live together. The thing is not to be separated from your wife.

VitalSocialNEWS:
If He Doesn't Repents, And It Gets Late, What Will Happen To Him Please ?

Hell

Eternity in Hell
That is why Jesus died for you and him so that you will not perish and go to hell.
Repent, accept the gift of God (Jesus) and be saved

Why not? Enjoyment is for everyone

Righthussle:
Let me answer like righteousness

No. Use intimacy gadgets and kiss your mansion in heaven goodbye. If you use those things, you'll go to HELL after death where fire will burn you.


Foolish woman, you want answers on how to use your own body from people that use their body the way they like.
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Most african women have low IQ. The easiest way you can identify a woman with low IQ is to ask her the simple question below.

Do you agree that whatever or whoever is behind the existence of the universe is a male?

If she agrees, then she is a woman with low IQ.

not making sense at all, she asked for advice not insult.

Woman, your husband is not coming anytime soon!

Better divorce the basted & start a fresh with a man that will be with you & fulfil your "sexual" needs.

All these religious beeches sef.

& na dem dey do bad bad bad tins!

Taiwojon:
Mastubation is a sin

if masturbation is a sin, then sex is a sin too, infact urinating, excretion is also a sin, eating, drinking, sleeping are all sins

Jesus told the woman caught in the act of adultery "neither do I condemn you " which means he doesn't condemn you even if you have engaged in the usage of sexual experience enhancers or even in the act of adultery.
He created the universe and knows our shortcomings hence his sacrificing himself for all our sins,past,present and future.
Get intimate with Christ through the knowledge of his word and the more you know him,the less the gravitational pull of sin as you ascend in righteousness.
The pull of sin doesn't disappear cos we are still on this side of eternity,but remember that even if you fall,the one that died for you and who only is qualified to judge you says he doesn't condemn you.
Hebrews 4:16 encourages us to approach our heavenly father with boldness in our low and vulnerable times cos it is where we both receive his mercy for wrongs done and grace to help surmount our future mountains.

AfonjaConehead:
Yes I admit that's a very sensible reply from you but common sense should teach us about self service and the likes...

If everyone is just using common sense, religion would not exist. It's actually common sense to pleasure yourself - people have been pleasuring themselves since man could walk

Illusioneffect:
If everyone is just using common sense, religion would not exist. It's actually common sense to pleasure yourself - people have been pleasuring themselves since man could walk

That ain't God's design... When the bible talked about females dressing like males and males doing same,the bible talked about common sense, about our heats condemning us or not....it talked about Nature teaching us.

I have been around for too long to believe that people always do what they say. Even you typing this will cheat if your husband/wife leaves you for 3-5yrs. Some do it after 6 months of absence, some 1 year and others 5 years depending on the temptation thrown around you. The bible asked us to get married to avoid temptation yet you will marry and abandon your spouse in another country and go to hustle. what do you think will happen? some go as far as putting the spouse in their parents' house. While this might be good for creating things to do and people to spend time with, it reduces the urge but eventually, the urge will envelop you.

immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

If you're busy as a wife working, you won't even have the time to have the urge let alone think about sex. An idle mind is the devil's workshop.

For how long? Will you work continuously for 3 years? even if she does so continuously, what if she has a neigbour that always help her put on generator, run errands and general house stuff, one day na day e go happen. It is just human nature.

AuntieGO:
Women should learn to take their minds off their insatiable lust by engaging in work

Druss:
You are projecting from a position of ignorance and lack of experience. You have also attempted in your ignorance to interpret my words in a wrong manner. Who said anything about a woman's body being her man or her own? I have spoken based on my own experience. I leave it to her to make her choice.

Have you masturbated in your life? Do you have experience of the effects? The answer is clearly no. I will wait for those who are willing to speak more of their experience to come and share.

Sex is far healthier for your body than masturbation. I would advise myself if I could go back in time to run away from masturbating.

Yes 👍 sex is healthier than masturbation also masturbation is not bad for your body in any way - you were just doing too much and watching porn and you got addicted to it instead of doing something more productive with your time. We're talking about a married woman who has been sex starved by her husband - she has two options - masturbation or disloyalty. Masturbation is better.

The problem with sexual toys is that she will enjoy it for a while but after she will be seeking the real thing and then could give in to temptation. If the husband is not coming anytime soon they should just divorce so she does not feel guilty about satisfying her sexual urge elsewhere.

kushe:
Jesus told the woman caught in the act of adultery "neither do I condemn you " which means he doesn't condemn you even if you have engaged in the usage of sexual experience enhancers or even in the act of adultery.
He created the universe and knows our shortcomings hence his sacrificing himself for all our sins,past,present and future.
Get intimate with Christ through the knowledge of his word and the more you know him,the less the gravitational pull of sin as you ascend in righteousness.
The pull of sin doesn't disappear cos we are still on this side of eternity,but remember that even if you fall,the one that died for you and who only is qualified to judge you says he doesn't condemn you.
Hebrews 4:16 encourages us to approach our heavenly father with boldness in our low and vulnerable times cos it is where we both receive his mercy for wrongs done and grace to help surmount our future mountains.

She can call me ,I will be there for her, help your neighborhood

Righthussle:
Let me answer like righteousness

No. Use intimacy gadgets and kiss your mansion in heaven goodbye. If you use those things, you'll go to HELL after death where fire will burn you.


Foolish woman, you want answers on how to use your own body from people that use their body the way they like.
__________________________________________________________


Most african women have low IQ. The easiest way you can identify a woman with low IQ is to ask her the simple question below.

Do you agree that whatever or whoever is behind the existence of the universe is a male?

If she agrees, then she is a woman with low IQ.

All men except for you believe it is a man that is behind the existence of the universe

Does this mean all men except for you have low iq?

immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

Egbon..allow her to use intimacy gadgets oh before everywhere go burst.

To everyone advocating that we do as our senses please,what if you are wrong about God and his judgment?
He created us,created the standards and when we couldn't meet his standards,he not only lowered his barriers but totally removed them by sacrificing himself.
We express appreciation to him for what he has done by obeying his instructions and by the way disobeying harm us because of our human nature ( e.g maturation and self pleasing )

Yes.

Illusioneffect:
Yes 👍 sex is healthier than masturbation also masturbation is not bad for your body in any way - you were just doing too much and watching porn and you got addicted to it instead of doing something more productive with your time. We're talking about a married woman who has been sex starved by her husband - she has two options - masturbation or disloyalty. Masturbation is better.

I think it is best I stop discussing this with you. Your statements are not based on experience. They are based on your projections. Have a good day.

Satan always popping up depravity in people's head. GOD will have mercy on you for letting the devil birth this filthy imagination in your heart.

You for tell us say you wan masturbation

AfonjaConehead:
That ain't God's design... When the bible talked about females dressing like males and males doing same,the bible talked about common sense, about our heats condemning us or not....it talked about Nature teaching us.

Wtf are you saying? Your heart condemning you to do something is not nature.
Someone could do something and not feel bad in any way until you guys turn to keyboard Warriors online on the person's matter.
We're in a society where everyone is so separate and people are afraid to get married and if everyone's following your definition of 'nature's teachings' 75% of adult humans right now will never get to experience the concept of sex or anything close to it. Humans change nature - they did for marriage. Marriage was never natural until humans made it so. So so far it's not breaking any rules or hurting anybody, it's up to the human being to discover what's natural to him or her not YOURSELF

Procashtips:
Nice point.

Yes, SEE:
https://www.nairaland.com/8251014/open-letter-president-tinubu-hardworking#132612093

immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

This is simply your personal opinion and not the word of God. I advise that we depend only on what has been revealed in answering questions.
Remember, there is a big curse on anyone who will add or subtract from the Word of God.

What else do you expect her to use?

Druss:
I think it is best I stop discussing this with you. Your statements are not based on experience. They are based on your projections. Have a good day.

You don't have to experience war before you've a say on it just like the issue of masturbation. Yes 👍 they're based on my projection and also a lot of medical professionals too. Doctors have not said it's bad for your health in any way but everyone knows addiction to anything is bad for you. Masturbation is not addiction. Have an awesome day

Hmm this is a serious issue I think u need counseling on these... I have high libido also we can talk better on this 08037782248 Whatsapp only

AfonjaConehead:
There are lotss of stuff to keep one busy... watching TV/movies,internet,novels, job (if employed),...then you can come to nairaland,look for a certain whining koneheaded structured zico5 and have a good laff reading his posts of weeping and lamentations after supporting same person to become president last year (you dare not criticise the bulaba back then when he was around) 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

It is Movies and Internet that even add pepper to injury, her body will move uncontrollable. You will learn alot of shit and experiences on Nairaland, you will become pro without practice

No advice for a woman that is on a very high libido. Even if she is a pastor, she will lose her confidence and knack the knack. Who knows is she already in the acts...abeg I moved