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Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by lekonso: 12:23pm On Oct 27, 2024
Urgent1Million:
You people are unbelievable!
Somebody is already starving and you want her to fast again?
What organ of your body do you use to think?
The flesh cannot understand the things of the Spirit. What the guy is saying is far, far beyond your understanding.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by okven: 12:27pm On Oct 27, 2024
Ikegwuru !!!!
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Lithiumite: 12:30pm On Oct 27, 2024
immortalcrown:
If you are not the joker, tell us why self control should not be practiced as often as necessary.
You should try staying away from your partner for 3 years and let's see how much resolve you got......self control my black arse,it's easier said than done.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by tnerro1(m): 12:30pm On Oct 27, 2024
Yes ooo, Abeg fire the pvssy well well with the toys, it is better than cheating with another man with the unfortunate consequences of it.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by VHILL: 12:41pm On Oct 27, 2024
You will be captured from the moment you use it. Trust me! That's a trap to a new world of suffering and agony for you.
By having such notion, it means that you haven't given your Life completely to Christ.
The scripture warned us that we are not like those that drawback but if anyone draw backwards my spirit is not in him.

New Living Translation
Heb:10:39
But we are not like those who turn away from God to their own destruction. We are the faithful ones, whose souls will be save
Be warned or go back to the street. Maybe that's where you belong.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by OOLUSEG(m): 12:45pm On Oct 27, 2024
Righthussle:
Let me answer like righteousness

No. Use intimacy gadgets and kiss your mansion in heaven goodbye. If you use those things, you'll go to HELL after death where fire will burn you.


Foolish woman, you want answers on how to use your own body from people that use their body the way they like.
__________________________________________________________


Most african women have low IQ. The easiest way you can identify a woman with low IQ is to ask her the simple question below.

Do you agree that whatever or whoever is behind the existence of the universe is a male?

If she agrees, then she is a woman with low IQ.
Thank you for your advice...son of a very low IQ mother.....like mother like son👍
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Askme2020(m): 12:46pm On Oct 27, 2024
GothamCities:
She should discuss her needs with her husband. If he permits her to use toys, she should go ahead.
Perfect.. but on the long run the husband should look and study it very before he accepts or agree to what he may later regret
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by SirWisy: 12:48pm On Oct 27, 2024
There is nothing wrong with ADULTS using toys. But as a married woman, discuss this with your husband
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by ncoolsome(m): 12:51pm On Oct 27, 2024
Pochettino:
How did you end up marrying a [b]church man [/b]when you know you have a high libido?

It is a recipe for adultery because your insatiable desire will always win.

I think you may have married the man due to the money and benefits you saw and now you are thinking of returning to where you truly belong - the streets.


So a man that has been overseas for 5yrs hustling his way to send money down to his family here and maybe bring his wife over there is now a church man ?

Good luck.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by uptownemmygee(m): 12:53pm On Oct 27, 2024
In case if the vibrator didn't satisfy you well, call me I'm available zero seven zero four four seven seven eight nine six eight
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Ubdavis(m): 12:56pm On Oct 27, 2024
AuntieGO:
Women should learn to take their minds off their insatiable lust by engaging in work
And main should not
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by noskcid(m): 1:00pm On Oct 27, 2024
Before the invention of adult toys, sincerity was the order of the day.

The devil is playing on you to send your soul to hell
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Aboki99(m): 1:08pm On Oct 27, 2024
Do the xtians of today have any boundaries?


Stop deceiving yourself.

The Globalists have finished up destroying xtianity.

The only faith they struggle to destroy without any success is Islam.

However, it's sad that in the fight to liberalize and destroy Islam (like they did with xtianity), the nominal xtians that remain are willing tools in the Globalists' hands!
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by VULCAN(m): 1:15pm On Oct 27, 2024
Good idea but even better if they do it at agreed upon times together over videochat.

The spiritual problem of masturbation is in the holding of images of one you are not married to.

But whereby they are doing it together as a married couple there is no sin because both parties are focused on each other.

GothamCities:
She should discuss her needs with her husband. If he permits her to use toys, she should go ahead.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by lereinter(m): 1:16pm On Oct 27, 2024
this one na caricature born again Christian 🤣

Maybe na Sulieman preach to her

Why you let your husband travel when you can't hold body?

You can eat your cake and have it
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by bentenny(m): 1:17pm On Oct 27, 2024
Adult toys only increases a lady's urge in wanting the real thing!
It's only a matter of time!
But why would a lady with a high libido and a former 'loose babe' marry a guy who is abroad and hasn't shown up for 3 yrs?
That's a recipe for disaster!
Well I won't be surprised if she has gone back to her 'loose life' even if it's temporary!
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by 7arrows: 1:17pm On Oct 27, 2024
Daejumong:
Hello Daejumong! Can I use intimacy gadgets as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with passion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Pastors and Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!
You both can have phone intimacy. But if he's forming over spiritual he might not want to. My dear help yourself to it so long as you don't go to the next level. Many people women inclusive do it even when their partner is around. However masturbation is very addictive it can replace your man place, Even when he's around.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by ViceGovernor: 1:18pm On Oct 27, 2024
intimacy gadget.
Vs
Real priik.

As a husband to be, I know i may prefer my wife to use the former in my absence.

The latter is not even an option as somebody could lose a life for it.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by 7arrows: 1:19pm On Oct 27, 2024
immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.
I like your last paragraph.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Nobody: 1:21pm On Oct 27, 2024
Righthussle:
Let me answer like righteousness

No. Use intimacy gadgets and kiss your mansion in heaven goodbye. If you use those things, you'll go to HELL after death where fire will burn you.


Foolish woman, you want answers on how to use your own body from people that use their body the way they like.
__________________________________________________________


Most african women have low IQ. The easiest way you can identify a woman with low IQ is to ask her the simple question below.

Do you agree that whatever or whoever is behind the existence of the universe is a male?

If she agrees, then she is a woman with low IQ.
Ironically, you just displayed that you are the guy with the lowest IQ.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by CrossRhodes: 1:23pm On Oct 27, 2024
Daejumong:
Hello Daejumong! Can I use intimacy gadgets as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with passion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Pastors and Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!
NO
It is masturbation
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Urgent1Million: 1:23pm On Oct 27, 2024
lekonso:
The flesh cannot understand the things of the Spirit. What the guy is saying is far, far beyond your understanding.
I know.
It's a mystery right?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by 7arrows: 1:23pm On Oct 27, 2024
Righthussle:
Let me answer like righteousness

No. Use intimacy gadgets and kiss your mansion in heaven goodbye. If you use those things, you'll go to HELL after death where fire will burn you.


Foolish woman, you want answers on how to use your own body from people that use their body the way they like.
__________________________________________________________


Most african women have low IQ. The easiest way you can identify a woman with low IQ is to ask her the simple question below.

Do you agree that whatever or whoever is behind the existence of the universe is a male?

If she agrees, then she is a woman with low IQ.
Your response shows that you are biased. She asked a simple question instead of giving advice you are casting her like the pharisees do. How R u sure your wife doesn't indulge in secret masturbation?
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by heffem(m): 1:29pm On Oct 27, 2024
Special advicers... God's secretary...... Una well done
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Righthussle: 1:29pm On Oct 27, 2024
Maysdevices:
All men except for you believe it is a man that is behind the existence of the universe

Does this mean all men except for you have low iq?
Stop making these kind of bogus statements. All men don't believe it is a man that is behind the existence of the universe. Some men believe the being behind the existence of the universe is neither a man nor woman.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by biggie73(m): 1:41pm On Oct 27, 2024
A sin is a sin. Go buy that. Your sin will be forgiven.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by biggy00000(m): 1:42pm On Oct 27, 2024
You Christians just choose your sin.

Your hubby is abroad Illegally -- and you somehow convinced yourself that it's not a sin.
Sure he didn't lie to at point of entry to get in?

Oga, stop selecting your sin. Sin Na sin.

To your issue, talk to your hubby if you can also do as h did to be with him .
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by MrSly(m): 1:45pm On Oct 27, 2024
Righthussle:
Let me answer like righteousness

No. Use intimacy gadgets and kiss your mansion in heaven goodbye. If you use those things, you'll go to HELL after death where fire will burn you.


Foolish woman, you want answers on how to use your own body from people that use their body the way they like.
__________________________________________________________


Most african women have low IQ. The easiest way you can identify a woman with low IQ is to ask her the simple question below.

Do you agree that whatever or whoever is behind the existence of the universe is a male?

If she agrees, then she is a woman with low IQ.
I think you are the one with low IQ, abysmally low.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by MrSly(m): 1:46pm On Oct 27, 2024
Pochettino:
How did you end up marrying a church man when you know you have a high libido?

It is a recipe for adultery because your insatiable desire will always win.

I think you may have married the man due to the money and benefits you saw and now you are thinking of returning to where you truly belong - the streets.

Good luck.
Did you read the post at all?
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by immortalcrown(m): 2:02pm On Oct 27, 2024
Lithiumite:
You should try staying away from your partner for 3 years and let's see how much resolve you got......self control my black arse,it's easier said than done.
You have not answered my question.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by immortalcrown(m): 2:04pm On Oct 27, 2024
tctrills:
This is simply your personal opinion and not the word of God. I advise that we depend only on what has been revealed in answering questions.
Remember, there is a big curse on anyone who will add or subtract from the Word of God.
1.
What did I add or remove?

2.
Is it right for Christians to use intimacy gadgets?
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