₦airaland Forum

1Sharon:
Are you blind? Where did I do that?
When people say men built the world, do you come out and say not all?

Below is were you made that nonsense general statement.

1Sharon:
Notice how she ignored him & only wanted a 3rd party involved when she became threatened. Nigerian men have constantly asserted they beat their wives because she frustrated him. Here she's doing everything to get away from him, but he's not allowing her. Shiorrrr.

Now you should ask yourself: are you blind? Or are you suffering from memory loss?

joseph1832:
Below is were you made that nonsense general statement.
Now you should ask yourself: are you blind? Or are you suffering from memory loss?

That statement is for those that beat their wives, or are you one of them?

IHate9jerianss:
LOL!!
Words like these are what gives the poorly raised women today in the world the impetus to speak and behave anyhow towards men.
Luckily,that rubbish does not work on me.
Let any BASTARD woman speak or treat me anyhow...insha Allah...I SHALL BEAT HER TO DEATH

Looking at your monicker shows you are a useless fellow...
Meanwhile beat her to death and go to jail..

MadPolitician:
Tgat is what they taught you.
If she turns into a terrorist at home and acts like a wild hyena, she has to be tamed somehow. Some of them become something else because they know you have no intention of hitting back.

this I know very well. So why allow them lure you into beating some of them, when you know they're doing it on purpose?

IHate9jerianss:
LOL!!
Words like these are what gives the poorly raised women today in the world the impetus to speak and behave anyhow towards men.
Luckily,that rubbish does not work on me.
Let any BASTARD woman speak or treat me anyhow...insha Allah...I SHALL BEAT HER TO DEATH

Baba there's honestly no need for that. They don't deserve the mercy of death from your hands in any form at all.

It's better we find ways to break their hearts into pieces, and let them drink sniper themselves.

That'll be the coolest thing to watch meen

This man will lose his job and his family. In this economy? Congratulations Sir.

The man is a bastard.
Very useless man!


Stupid goat

1Sharon:
That statement is for those that beat their wives, or are you one of them?

ThEn you should have said "some" or "most" Nigerian men, not Nigerian men, and no, I'm not one of them and can never be one of them. I'm just piqued why you made such generalization when you obvious have a father, uncles, males cousins etc.

Good night.

MadPolitician:
Only God knows what she has done.
The man might also be the victim here

Which stupid victim? If he can't stand the woman he married, he should walk out of the marriage. This is far worse turning his home into hell for both his wife and children. He is not only traumatizing his wife, he is traumatizing his children also.

cococandy:
Go and marry a domestic animal if you’re looking for who to tame

A woman should behave like a woman.
A man can not be paying the rent, the food, the childrens school fees, pays for the transport fair and house bills, then when he gets home, you start barking at him like a wild dog.

I will fling you out of the window.

I did not come to this world to be your slave and endure your madness. Leave the house the day you can't respect me anymore. Not squaring up at the man like you are the new John Cena, only for you to be circulating the video of the beat down that followed for sympathy.

sexiestharam:
This man will lose his job and his family. In this economy? Congratulations Sir.

if he lose his job who will suffer from d video he only shout at her and destroy ting see nobody in dis life dat don't get angry is how to control it

lebete3000:
The bitter truth is ALL women no get head.

They're all like minded, that's why you can see 1 single man dating 5 ladies at the same time, and dem go dey mumu dey go.

Something that's almost impossible to happen to a man.

yea na as God take work dem.great men don’t take women seriously.I am a use and dump person.dem no get head

de play ,hide de beat your wife one de e go cast

Christ4ever:
Nairaland has turned to Gossip mill.

Domestic issues or husband and wife should be be handled at Domestic violence agency.

We don't need it here.

joseph1832:
ThEn you should have said "some" or "most" Nigerian men, not Nigerian men, and no, I'm not one of them and can never be one of them. I'm just piqued why you made such generalization when you obvious have a father, uncles, males cousins etc.

Good night.

Most?😂

Yet I'm certain you've liked and shared posts generalising women. I've seen your post history.

Good night and I hope the bed bugs bite.

musicwriter:
If he works with Paystack, he should be forgiven. The company and zenith bank has been misbehaving for a while now and the staff would be under serious stress[b]. It took them about one month to pay my earnings instead of two days. [/b]He probably wrongly carried over the stress of work to the wife.

I won't even beat a girlfriend, let alone a wife. I'll rather divorce a woman than beat her.

Hmmm, this one dey fear me oh! My money wey I safe-lock for Piggyvest and na Paystack dem sef dey use...

MadPolitician:
Tgat is what they taught you.
If she turns into a terrorist at home and acts like a wild hyena, she has to be tamed somehow. Some of them become something else because they know you have no intention of hitting back.

No matter how mad a woman is, there are ways to control her without resulting to violence. Please, don't ever get married with the mindset of beating your wife to control her. Just stay single. Don't get married.

greypencils:
Guys! Imagine that woman being your sister, imagine that woman being your mother, imagine that woman being your daughter, can you take it watching someone else beat your mother, your sister, your daughter, can you?

That is exactly how it feels doing that to someone else daughter. If you know you can't control your anger, PLEASE DONT GET MARRIED. Remain a male LovePeddler fucking whores. If you don't value your woman she has others who would value her.

The last thing you should do is hurt a woman this way. If you need advice on how to totally control a woman without hitting her, contact me. I will give a free master class. But domestic violence is not it. Let's do better PLEASE.

Oya open a thread and teach us oh wise one

IHate9jerianss:
LOL!!
Words like these are what gives the poorly raised women today in the world the impetus to speak and behave anyhow towards men.
Luckily,that rubbish does not work on me.
Let any BASTARD woman speak or treat me anyhow...insha Allah...I SHALL BEAT HER TO DEATH

AND YOU WILL BE SENTENCED TO DEATH. Google Akolade Arowolo

lebete3000:
Oya open a thread and teach us oh wise one

I will. Before I do so, I will just give a few pointers.

1. The first thing is to change that mindset of beating a woman to control her. If you are resolved in your heart that there is no other way, there is NOTHING I can say to convince you. Have that mindset and make that resolve not to hit your wife irrespective of the provocation

2. Realize that you as the man of the house, You are in full control of your home. No be your surname she dey bear? She is your 'property' to love and to cherish and to discipline if need be. The issue now is how to discipline your wife without hitting her.

These are some ways.
A. BE A GOOD PERSON. Love your wife, don't tell her, show her. Spend time with her. Provide what you can and help around the house. You can't command authority or respect from your wife when you are night crawling, going round the clubs with girls instead of spending time with her and your children. You can't come home drunk at 3.00am smelling of another woman's perfume and expect her to stay silent as the loyal submissive wife you expect her to be. You can't expect her to respect you WHEN YOU ARE BEING IRRESPONSIBLE. It is irresponsibility to club SERIALLY leaving your wife and children entering your house at odd hours of the night. No woman with self respect will stand for that. You are a married man with a family. If you know you can't leave the night life alone, marry a dunce who will take all your excesses without question. Unfortunately for you, they don't exist, they demand accountability, be accountable. That is the meaning of being responsible.


B. Read A again & practice it.

C. Once A & B is established, your wife knows you are a rare breed and she will do EVERYTHING you ask her to do. I PROMISE YOU. Those times when she is being very quarrelsome, remind her of your GOOD nature, remind her that girls are out there to grab you if she ever let's you go with her bad behavior.

D. If she is still being quarrelsome, leave the house. WHAT I DO is to tell my wife I LOVE HER but I CANT STAY IN THE SAME HOUSE WITH HER WITH THAT ATTITUDE. I say that every time before I walk out even with me brimming with anger. I always come back late at night to meet a sober wife.

E. I haven't tried this before because I haven't had to. Refuse her food. Simple. She will feel some other woman is feeding you. This makes her feel she is about to lose you. She will align and behave better.

F. If that doesn't work, move out of the house for a few days. Take only a few things. Let her know you are leaving not because you have another woman you want to sleep with. Rather you are leaving because of her quarrelsome attitude. She will come around begging you.

If none of the above breaks her, move out permanently. She is not supposed to be your wife. STAY SEPARATED. You may remarry if you so wish.

If the house she is staying is yours, sell it while she is still there. Na your house. Just make sure your children are either in boarding school, with you or away at a relatives place when the new owners want to take possession of the house. She will either sort herself or come running to you.

bestman09:
Though I don't support domestic violence but some women are extremely evil. Some women have pushed their husbands to become monsters.

The video seemed to have been taken from the CCTV by the woman and the blogger is doing the job he was paid to do, to destroy the man, his career and the home.

I always counsel my daughters not to turn their husbands into monsters as I know they did not meet them as monsters.

You are a monster 💀 yourself...pls STFU.

greypencils:
Which stupid victim? If he can't stand the woman he married, he should walk out of the marriage. This is far worse turning his home into hell for both his wife and children. He is not only traumatizing his wife, he his traumatizing his children also.

Maybe the gangsta grizzle he married was traumatising him all year long.
You worry about the childrens traumatic experience, you worry about the female hyena being traumatised. Who worries about the hardworking men being traumatised by these colonies of jezebels and beelzebubs?
She should go back to her mothers house if she has grown tired of the man!

highchief1:
yea na as God take work dem.great men don’t take women seriously.I am a use and dump person.dem no get head

Dem sef know that one, na why dem always dey find man wey dem go leach off, or wey go fit tame them.

Their not well to be honest.

With most of them saying nonsense about them being unable to face their fellow men. How many muscular men behave like that to their fellow men?

You'll see bouncers bowing down for a midget like Nasir El-Rufai, but one tiny ant woman will be shouting ontop of her voice at a man.

Foolish creatures. Na Adam fvck up sha.

I really wonder how life would have been if he hadn't eaten that apple, Eve would have been sent away and we'll have been chilling with animals in peace.

I'll rather fvck a clean dog than a fallen woman like Eve. She'll have dey her dey and be riding Lucifer's díck in hell fire where dey both understand themselves well...

lebete3000:
Dem sef know that one, na why dem always dey find man wey dem go leach off, or wey go fit tame them.

Their not well to be honest.

With most of them saying nonsense about them being unable to face their fellow men. How many muscular men behave like that to their fellow men?

You'll see bouncers bowing down for a midget like Nasir El-Rufai, but one tiny ant woman will be shouting ontop of her voice at a man.

Foolish creatures. Na Adam fvck up sha.

I really wonder how life would have been if he hadn't eaten that apple, Eve would have been sent away and we'll have been chilling with animals in peace.

I'll rather fvck a clean dog than a fallen woman like Eve. She'll have dey her dey and be riding Lucifer's díck in hell fire where dey both understand themselves well...

ah ur own hatred for them pass my own o bros.

lebete3000:
Hmmm, this one dey fear me oh! My money wey I safe-lock for Piggyvest and na Paystack dem sef dey use...

Only USD payout is affected, so your money is safe

What is the woman is paying ? Can she bark like a wild dog then?

MadPolitician:
A woman should behave like a woman.
A man can not be paying the rent, the food, the childrens school fees, pays for the transport fair and house bills, then when he gets home, you start barking at him like a wild dog.

I will fling you out of the window.

I did not come to this world to be your slave and endure your madness. Leave the house the day you can't respect me anymore. Not squaring up at the man like you are the new John Cena, only for you to be circulating the video of the beat down that followed for sympathy.

He lost his cool and did something crazy. I even feel deep down he did not want the objects he was throwing to hit her, he was just so mad . The issue was not well managed by both parties. The video should not have gotten outside. I suspect the wife released it to shame the father of her kids to lose his job and shame him.

Most people just looking at it one way

Anger is madness.

Two things i could glean from the information is the approach of the wife was dismissive when the man told her do you want to make me lose my job because base on the conversation i suspect the lady was s3nding text to possibly her husband co worker who she suspect her husband was dating......

Also, the man felt emanciated in the midst of the anger when she threatened to call her dad. The wife could have continued with the conversation or ask the kids to leave so she could explain her own side. She did not deescalate the situation and the man felt gaslighted.

What the woman did by releasing the video is worse She has shamed her kids , her self, her family. Why not separate temporarily or divorce if all else fails?

greypencils:
Which stupid victim? If he can't stand the woman he married, he should walk out of the marriage. This is far worse turning his home into hell for both his wife and children. He is not only traumatizing his wife, he his traumatizing his children also.

One thing is certain, that marriage is gone. If the man is able to escape going to charges he'll move on to marry another woman and start a new life.

The woman on the other hand I'm not so sure.

The children at the same time would have it rough atleast emotionally.

A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish one tears it down with her own hands.

Congratulations woo-man.

nlfpmod:
Source:

Nigerian Lawyer, Opeyemi Mabawonku who works with PWC results to violently beating his wife, Abiola, former lead HR at Paystack right in front of their two daughters pic.twitter.com/o2ZGd5VPoL

— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) October 27, 2024

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LAboWIPyPNk?si=MO3bYgdE5qSEg778



Oluwafunmilayo @FunmiKolz

Video presenter/prosecutor.
How did you know from the video that the man beating a woman was Barr. Opeyemi Mabowonku?

Video presenter, stop putting your finger in your eyes to bring out substances from your eye to see what they are.
Even online, you did that.

Let them talk long enough and they’ll tell you who they are

lebete3000:
I'll rather fvck a clean dog than a fallen woman like Eve.

Akfrenzy:
That tribe and beating of women are inseparable 😆😆😆 tribal bigots will attack me now bcuz I'm saying the bitter truth 😂

You're right
Same way the east and ss tribe women too do hookup in marriage

MadPolitician:
A woman should behave like a woman.
A man can not be paying the rent, the food, the childrens school fees, pays for the transport fair and house bills, then when he gets home, you start barking at him like a wild dog.

I will fling you out of the window.

I did not come to this world to be your slave and endure your madness. Leave the house the day you can't respect me anymore. Not squaring up at the man like you are the new John Cena, only for you to be circulating the video of the beat down that followed for sympathy.

The day you realize ALL women ALL over the world are the same, I hope you are still going to be interested in that thing called marriage.

Here's what a Pastor who's also a Doctor sent to me when I had similar complaints.

And you shouldn't have responded to that fool up there, she'll drag you into her mud of stupidity like the pig that she is r, and beat you with experience.

I also stylishly avoided her response to my post. I don't mingle with pigs.

cococandy:
What is the woman is paying ? Can she bark like a wild dog then?

No!
Try respecting him for once.
He is the man. Don't bark at him. That he is expected to show a lot of self control does not translate to the lady acting like she is the new satan. Stop seeing being aggressive and rude as some cool hobbies.

Be feminine for once. Allow yourself to be what God created you to be; a woman. All these squaring up with a man to prove you are tough, can easily lead to a fracas.

Everyone looses it at a point