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Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by bestman09(m): 10:43pm On Oct 27, 2024
OOLUSEG:
You are a monster 💀 yourself...pls STFU.
Take your frustrations elsewhere. Are you married and for how long?
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by TheBreastSucker(m): 10:45pm On Oct 27, 2024
cococandy:
Na for woman hand you go die last last.
Your temperature is very high, bring your breasts for sucking so your temperature will come down grin
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by Schlumeinstein: 10:46pm On Oct 27, 2024
Tolerate RUBBISH...SEND HER TO HER FATHER'S HOUSE
lebete3000:
The day you realize ALL women ALL over the world are the same, I hope you are still going to be interested in that thing called marriage.

Here's what a Pastor who's also a Doctor sent to me when I had similar complaints.

And you shouldn't have responded to that fool up there, she'll drag you into her mud of stupidity like the pig that she is r, and beat you with experience.

I also stylishly avoided her response to my post. I don't mingle with pigs.
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by MarketDispatch: 10:46pm On Oct 27, 2024
tiswell:
Well,I won't blame him.
Maybe,he has endured enough sad
The man has allowed his wife take him to ground zero. .The wife does not care if the man is sacked from work.

Why didn't she just pack out and go to her dad's house after the episode in the CCTV and show it to her parents rather than social media..
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by richie240:
I would've said the same thing like you are saying before-before.

Presently I'm living in a compound where one of my married neighbors quarrel almost on a daily basis.
The wife - whom he disvirgined - is a perfect definition of the word 'toxicity'.
Asin ehn, if u google 'toxicity' na her name and face go show!

She has fought with almost everybody - me inclusive. She has insulted her father in-law and mother-in-law. She has absolutely no regard for anyone. As small/tiny as she is, she can destroy a whole village with the menstrual blood words that drops from her mouth.

Jesus Christ spent close to 34 years for this world and e nor marry; e get why!
cool
nolzautoz:
If no be you disvirgin her, please don’t marry her. You will regret it
Woman matter plenty pass 'virginity' or no virginity bro
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by lebete3000: 10:49pm On Oct 27, 2024
highchief1:
ah ur own hatred for them pass my own o bros.
Bros, I'm trying to channel that hatred appropriately.

I might not set them on fire, but I surely won't piss on fire to save them if I see them burning.

I won't mind drinking my own urine to see them burn into ashes.

Passive-Aggressive and Expert Inactivity is the way I'm trying to utilize henceforth.
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by 1Sharon(f): 10:53pm On Oct 27, 2024
chinchum:
He lost his cool and did something crazy. I even feel deep down he die not want the objects he was throwing to hit her, he was just so mad . The issue was not well managed by both parties. The video should not have gotten outside. I suspect the wife released it to shame the father of her kids to lose his job and shame him.

Most people just looking at it one way

Anger is madness.

Two things i could glean from the information is the approach of the wife was dismissive when the man told her do you want to make me lose my job because base on the conversation i suspect the lady was s3nding text to possibly her husband co worker who she suspect her husband was dating......

Also, the man felt emanciated in the midst of the anger when she threatened to call her dad. The wife could have continued with the conversation or ask the kids to leave so she could explain her own side. She did not deescalate the situation and the man felt gaslighted.

What the woman did by releasing the video is worse She has shamed her kids , her self, her family. Why not separate temporarily or divorce if all else fails?
Pls explain to me how she didn't handle the situation well? Didn't you see where she tried to walk away silently and he stopped her?

Didn't you see that she only spoke up when he pushed her violently?

Is there another way to de-escalate a situation aside walking away? 🤔 Pls teach us.

You just spinned and twisted this scenario to make sense in your eyes. I salute your mental gymnastics.
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by Housing(m): 10:54pm On Oct 27, 2024
Very bad behaviour. He must be a bully from young age. Will he raised his hand if a fellow man that he knows he can't overpower accused him even wrongly.

Parents train your children never go physical even when provoked with words. At worst talk your own back or walk away.
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by Schlumeinstein: 10:55pm On Oct 27, 2024
sexiestharam:
This man will lose his job and his family. In this economy? Congratulations Sir. wink
HE WILL NOT LOSE HIS JOB.....BLEEDING GENDER........WE KNOW A NIGERIAN WOMAN MOST HAPPY MOMENT IS WHEN SHE BRINGS A MAN DOWN..........
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by richie240: 10:57pm On Oct 27, 2024
Hehehehehe.....'captain save-a-hoe', we sight you. grin

Just pray u don't get to that 'bridge' yourself.
grin
joseph1832:
it doesn't matter what she did or did not do, you never raise your hand on a woman, never.
Nobody plans to do evil beforehand.
Eve didn't plan to betray Adam.
Delilah never had it beforehand to betray samson.
This man didn't marry this woman with the expectation say e go beat am one day..

Just pray u don't get to that 'bridge'
cool

Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by lebete3000: 10:58pm On Oct 27, 2024
highchief1:
ah ur own hatred for them pass my own o bros.
Everyone I know says this by the way. I inherently dislike women and I know most men that know who women actually do too.

All those companionship bullshit are all fairytales you'll enjoy once in a while in marriage. The bulk of marriage is nothing but suffering for any sane man.

You have to be partially crazy to tame them, and you might end up landing yourself in trouble in the process if care is not taken.

My summary is they're just not worth it.

Pump and dump simple.

I'm a medical doctor as well and I can't tell you the several complaints most of my learned male colleagues have told me about their wives.

As I think say I hate women reach, one even referred to his wife in one derogatory term like that I was shocked to the bones.

No matter how old they are, they are all the same and will NEVER change.

Know this and know peace. Just pump and dump bro, that's all they're good for.
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by lebete3000:
musicwriter:
Only USD payout is affected, so your money is safe
Haa, thank God. Their flex dollar abi?
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by chinchum(m): 11:00pm On Oct 27, 2024
1Sharon:
Pls explain to me how she didn't handle the situation well? Didn't you see where she tried to walk away silently and he stopped her?

Didn't you see that she only spoke up when he pushed her violently?

Is there another way to de-escalate a situation aside walking away? 🤔 Pls teach us.

You just spinned and twisted this scenario to make sense in your eyes. I salute your mental gymnastics.
she took an action that provoked the man. A better way to descalate was to at least address the immediate concern of the man. A simple " i am not trying to make you lose your job, lets talk about this when the kids are not here" will go a long way.

I am not asking you to agree with me to continue argument, i am providing real life skill that can be useful if you are married.

Telling the man he was going to call her Dad also triggered him, it is a gaslighting move to further provoke the man.
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by delpee(f): 11:00pm On Oct 27, 2024
Great pity! Posting the video isn't a wise move. Especially because of the children. They should have gone for counselling if they can't reconcile on their own. "I will tell my daddy " hardly helps in a situation like this.

Both men and women need to understand the natural instincts of each other better. One major thing is that men are usually focused on one issue at a time while women are natural multi taskers. That often leads to higher expectations by the women while the man already feels overwhelmed.
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by sexiestharam(f): 11:03pm On Oct 27, 2024
Schlumeinstein:
HE WILL NOT LOSE HIS JOB.....BLEEDING GENDER........WE KNOW A NIGERIAN WOMAN MOST HAPPY MOMENT IS WHEN SHE BRINGS A MAN DOWN..........
Mehn, you are so stupid!
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by sexiestharam(f): 11:04pm On Oct 27, 2024
jaksmillioniar:
if he lose his job who will suffer from d video he only shout at her and destroy ting see nobody in dis life dat don't get angry is how to control it
Learn how to write coherently. I couldn't understand anything you wrote.
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by Schlumeinstein: 11:04pm On Oct 27, 2024
FEAR WHO NO FEAR NIGERIAN WOMEN..........I PREFER GHANAIAN WOMEN....
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by Schlumeinstein: 11:06pm On Oct 27, 2024
sexiestharam:
Mehn, you are so stupid!
FOOLISH BLEEDING FOOL.....YOU BETTER GO AN PACK....
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by cococandy(f): 11:06pm On Oct 27, 2024
It seems like you don’t understand that no one should be barking at their spouse anyway. Be it the woman or the man. Whether they are the bread winner or not. Mutual Respect is non-negotiable.

That’s the point I was kindly and gently leading you to. Hoping you’d pick it up along the way.

I guess all we can do is try.
MadPolitician:
No!
Try respecting him for once.
He is the man. Don't bark at him. That he is expected to show a lot of self control does not translate to the lady acting like she is the new satan. Stop seeing being aggressive and rude as some cool hobbies.

Be feminine for once. Allow yourself to be what God created you to be; a woman. All these squaring up with a man to prove you are tough, can easily lead to a fracas.

Everyone looses it at a point
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by Mftivi: 11:06pm On Oct 27, 2024
KnowledgePower7:
First of all,just looking at the blogger talking
1. He has been paid to post this
2. Carrying private family dispute and putting it on social media to gain views

When the man gave her gifts
Did we see the video??

When the man made her happy
Did we see the video??

Nobody was hiding camera videoing them during their good times. Best times
When they were laughing kissing

But when one private issue happened
The video am
Post am to the world to see to judge the man

Who place the camera??
Who release private video to public

Una never talk una agenda

Back to the video

Who placed the video at that angle?
You people underestimate women grin grin


If you look closely you see that the man was in deep anger and was throwing objects blindly in rage missing almost all the things he threw.

That is the type of anger you display when you are really mad at someone you love.
If he wanted to kill her, he won't be throwing objects missing all his shots.

He could go and bring a weapon, stick or belt snd deal with her heavily
However you see in the video that his rage was short lived meaning he was deeply angry but still maintain his anger after throwing objects and missing them.

Now the question NOBODY including the simp blogger.

What did the woman dohuh??

Abo the woman is an angel virgin mother Mary

What did she do to provoke such anger??

Until una answer that one make una go sleep
Nonesense!!!
okay someone here actually can think critically.
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by richie240: 11:09pm On Oct 27, 2024
lebete3000:
Everyone I know says this by the way. I inherently dislike women and I know most men that know who women actually do too.

All those companionship bullshit are all fairytales you'll enjoy once in a while in marriage. The bulk of marriage is nothing but suffering for any sane man.

You have to be partially crazy to tame them, and you might end up landing yourself in trouble in the process if care is not taken.

My summary is they're just not worth it.

Pump and dump simple.

I'm a medical doctor as well and I can't tell you the several complaints most of my learned male colleagues have told me about their wives.

As I think say I hate women reach, one even referred to his wife in one derogatory term like that I was shocked to the bones.

No matter how old they are, they are all the same and will NEVER change.

Know this and know peace. Just pump and dump bro, that's all they're good for.
If we (men) are truthful to ourselves, we'll see that the number 1 reason we rush like unherded cows to marriage is bcus of either (or both) of two things:
1) t's time to get married/my mates are getting married"
2) the delusion of the availability of legitimate 'free sex', not knowing that the milk isn't worth the squeeze.

Na when he marry her finish he go realize say the sex is far more expensive than anticipated.
Na d day he nor drop money for that bag/wig and madam close leg he go realize say he don enter one chance!

Let's look at it: apart from (legitimate) orgasm and children, what other thing can they offer that can't be outsourced??
cool
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by lebete3000: 11:09pm On Oct 27, 2024
Schlumeinstein:
Tolerate RUBBISH...SEND HER TO HER FATHER'S HOUSE
Abi oh, who knows how long this man don tolerate till he lost it.

Na tolerate he tolerate till e lose am so oh cheesy
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by TheBreastSucker(m): 11:09pm On Oct 27, 2024
1Sharon:
Most?😂

Yet I'm certain you've liked and shared posts generalising women. I've seen your post history.

Good night and I hope the bed bugs bite.
LepaSharon what brought bed bugs into the discussion?

Come over let me suck your breasts like before so your temperature can come down grin
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by lebete3000: 11:11pm On Oct 27, 2024
MadPolitician:
No!
Try respecting him for once.
He is the man. Don't bark at him. That he is expected to show a lot of self control does not translate to the lady acting like she is the new satan. Stop seeing being aggressive and rude as some cool hobbies.

Be feminine for once. Allow yourself to be what God created you to be; a woman. All these squaring up with a man to prove you are tough, can easily lead to a fracas.

Everyone looses it at a point
You no dey hear word. No worry you go hear one day cheesy
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by Abelino(m): 11:14pm On Oct 27, 2024
You re just too evil and disgusting. May God have mercy on your evil soul.
KnowledgePower7:
First of all,just looking at the blogger talking
1. He has been paid to post this
2. Carrying private family dispute and putting it on social media to gain views

When the man gave her gifts
Did we see the video??

When the man made her happy
Did we see the video??

Nobody was hiding camera videoing them during their good times. Best times
When they were laughing kissing

But when one private issue happened
The video am
Post am to the world to see to judge the man

Who place the camera??
Who release private video to public

Una never talk una agenda

Back to the video

Who placed the video at that angle?
You people underestimate women grin grin


If you look closely you see that the man was in deep anger and was throwing objects blindly in rage missing almost all the things he threw.

That is the type of anger you display when you are really mad at someone you love.
If he wanted to kill her, he won't be throwing objects missing all his shots.

He could go and bring a weapon, stick or belt snd deal with her heavily
However you see in the video that his rage was short lived meaning he was deeply angry but still maintain his anger after throwing objects and missing them.

Now the question NOBODY including the simp blogger.

What did the woman dohuh??

Abo the woman is an angel virgin mother Mary

What did she do to provoke such anger??

Until una answer that one make una go sleep
Nonesense!!!
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by ukaface(f): 11:15pm On Oct 27, 2024
bestman09:
Though I don't support domestic violence but some women are extremely evil. Some women have pushed their husbands to become monsters.

The video seemed to have been taken from the CCTV by the woman and the blogger is doing the job he was paid to do, to destroy the man, his career and the home.

I always counsel my daughters not to turn their husbands into monsters as I know they did not meet them as monsters.
Mtcheew
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by Mftivi: 11:15pm On Oct 27, 2024
greypencils:
Guys! Imagine that woman being your sister, imagine that woman being your mother, imagine that woman being your daughter, can you take it watching someone else beat your mother, your sister, your daughter, can you?

That is exactly how it feels doing that to someone else daughter. If you know you can't control your anger, PLEASE DONT GET MARRIED. Remain a male LovePeddler fucking whores. If you don't value your woman she has others who would value her.

The last thing you should do is hurt a woman this way. If you need advice on how to totally control a woman without hitting her, contact me. I will give a free master class. But domestic violence is not it. Let's do better PLEASE.
I will imagine both sides, if he's not been a guy who's violent towards my family I'll know she did something to set him off. While I will warn him sternly I must hear from him.
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by lebete3000: 11:17pm On Oct 27, 2024
richie240:
If we (men) are truthful to ourselves, we'll see that the number 1 reason we rush like unherded cows to marriage is bcus of either (or both) of two things:
1) t's time to get married/my mates are getting married"
2) the delusion of the availability of legitimate 'free sex', not knowing that the milk isn't worth the squeeze.

Na when he marry her finish he go realize say the sex is far more expensive than anticipated.
Na d day he nor drop money for that bag/wig and madam close leg he go realize say he don enter one chance!

Let's look at it: apart from (legitimate) orgasm and children, what other thing can they offer that can't be outsourced??
cool
My major worry now is to have kids, not to get married, that's why their womb is what I need, not their companionship.

When it comes to sex I'll simply pump and dump, while my children take care of me.

I'll pay close attention to my male child and teach him the ways of women. I'll try my best to work on my daughter for blood sake. If her hormones no let am hear word, it's her life. I wish her well.
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by 1Sharon(f): 11:17pm On Oct 27, 2024
chinchum:
she took an action that provoked the man. A better way to descalate was to at least address the immediate concern of the man. A simple " i am not trying to make you lose your job, lets talk about this when the kids are not here" will go a long way.

I am not asking you to agree with me to continue argument, i am providing real life skill that can be useful if you are married.

Telling the man he was going to call her Dad also triggered him, it is a gaslighting move to further provoke the man.
Oh really? So women should no longer keep silent, they should address the immediate concerns? You can turn around to claim provocation?

That man was not looking for any response, he wanted a fight from the getgo.

Why are you putting the onus on the woman to get the man to act reasonable in front of their children? No be the man's body dey hot?


She only threatened to call her dad when it got physcial. She was pushed to wall and needed help!
Re: Opeyemi Mabawonku Caught Beating His Wife In Front Of Their Children by Harddiskng(m):
Bluezy13:
"I will call my dad" hmmm...
Make I no talk wetin dey my mind sha but say no to violence.
Bruh may we never have a wife we have no control over as the Head of the house

You dey your husband house and you wan call your Papa. Just kuku marry your father naa.

All these HR corporate bunnies ehn. Just like yesterday one at ARM allegedly tried to blackmail an innocent man for money. Now this one bring private matter con social media. It is like wisdom just finds a way to elude them, a foolish and senseless wife would give you hell!

No one is support of rape or domestic violence but this i always say there is always more to the story.. lipsrsealed,


*********

The blogger/person casting the story, if you check well it could be the guy the wife is even having an affair with. Fear women.

******

Omo if you marry wrong it has be for you. From the video, this guy was visibly mad about something she did, see as she is still behaving lackadaisically. He even exercised restraint, cuz he picked up the larger object (vase) he didn’t throw it at her. Apart from small objects, he didn’t touch her.

Any sensible woman - would have gone: “my husband don’t be angry…..”. 2 seconds baba for don calm - (Soft word turnth away anger). Of cuz she knew what she wanted to do with the clip - the guy rightly stated it in the video: she wanted him to lose his job. I hope she is happier as a single mother undecided

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