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Nothing on earth justifies this.

Some of these people have more respect for their friends than their wives.

This could be one reason women become krakens when they get to uk.

franchasofficia:
Why beat your wife? That's poor man's attitude.


You can be earning big income and still be poor in heart.


Have you heard a President beating his wife? You are a king, if your wife offend you, simply walk away, go away for some time and if she doesn't change, plan and send her away or you leave her and go enjoy your life somewhere else with prettier, classier ladies that deserve you


Me, beat my wife? Over my dead body. I cant even imagine that no matter her offense, I rather walk away and go chill with some hot bootylicious chicks somewhere sensational than engage in physical assault with my wife, never

You have an outlet because you enjoy cheating due to your moral bankruptcy. lol. Not Everyman goes hooking up without emotion

nlfpmod:
Source:

Nigerian Lawyer, Opeyemi Mabawonku who works with PWC results to violently beating his wife, Abiola, former lead HR at Paystack right in front of their two daughters pic.twitter.com/o2ZGd5VPoL

— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) October 27, 2024

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LAboWIPyPNk?si=MO3bYgdE5qSEg778



Oluwafunmilayo @FunmiKolz

The male YouTuber commenting in the video is largely talking trash here! Some of his opinions are quite annoying. These kinds of YouTubers make unguarded comments with the intention of finally breaking up people's lives and relationships. First off, the lady made an allegation of infidelity against her PwC lawyer husband which he found offensive and CLEARLY denied in the video.

Women (married and unmarried) naturally tend to read body languages and get suspicious whenever they see other ladies with their men and so they begin to analyze and overanalyze situations in their heads. She made some rude or cutting statements in the video footage which triggered the lawyer's anger which then led him into throwing things at her from the dining table.

In any event, anger management is key here and he should have walked away. It seems he just came into the house from work fully dressed and must have been stressed up. He did well by telling his daughters to leave so as NOT to see him and his wife querelling. Women can test your patience a lot as a man but you have to also learn to understand them and talk thinks out firmly and calmly. Walk away even if she continues to "nag" about the issue and let a third party like her father know about the alleged false accusations she has made against you. All men have a healthy ego and don't like to be talked down upon relentless, and women have to get iron-clad evidence in these kinds of situations before leveling allegations of seeing another woman against any man.

If a man is presented with iron-clad evidence by his spouse that he's having an affair with another woman, he'll accept responsibility and apologize WITHOUT getting violent.

Both of them have to come together in the presence of trusted family members and iron things out now that the video of the CCTV footage is in the public domain. They must apologize to one another and the lawyer has to specially apologize to everyone because he was caught on camera throwing things in anger and ensure it NEVER happens again. If a man is tired of his wife and has no passion for her anymore then he should get separated from her and engage in co-parenting. Period.

I've always known since my childhood that fighting a woman is an abomination. This knowledge and that of years to spend in prison for raping a woman were my earliest knowledge about my responsibility as a man.


This guy should have controlled himself as one very dangerous thing a man can do himself now is to be seen hitting a woman at this age and time. Ask Jarus that his own case was without evidence like this. This guy no go travel again. And people from his tribe love to see Oyibo land oo

Too bad

ThierryJay:
It's very clear PwC will drop this guy like hot potato!

See how he dey practise shotput skills on his wife.

Brothers pls control your temper so you don't harm another man's daughter and throw away your future.

The Bawonku beast-dog has lost his job already

ThierryJay:
It's very clear PwC will drop this guy like hot potato!

See how he dey practise shotput skills on his wife.

Brothers pls control your temper so you don't harm another man's daughter and throw away your future.

@ the bolded. Certainly!

No corporate entity would want their brand image to be tarnished.

No 'winners' in this.

lebete3000:
And people will still say marriage is good. Good for what? One fool that didn't know how you struggled to get to where you are would just shake her smelly bumbum and ruin your life.
That's how one stupid girl almost put hand intentionally for my eye for inside bus this morning, unto say she dey with her guy.
I thank God say I don almost reach my bus stop cos I already knew what she was up to in the bus, and was able to restrain myself a little bit till I got down.
Make God just continue to help men in this world filled with these disgusting vermins called women.
Na only their womb dey useful for their body, everything else is trash meen.
Just realized women don't move me anymore nowadays.
Their ways are so daft and simple.
Na only slowpoke fit them

Who hurt you?

KnowledgePower7:
First of all, looking at the blogger talking

1. He has been paid to post this
2. Carrying private family dispute and putting it on social media to gain views
Private family matter should ALWAYS be solved PRIVATELY.

Na two of una swear in front of altar
Say for better for worse till death do apart
No be me and you do swearing
Noooo Na una two
So any dispute una get you solve it in private not the public

Back to the issue

When the man gave her gifts
Did we see any hidden video??

When the man made her happy
Did we see the video??

Nobody was hiding camera videoing them during their good times. Best times
When they were laughing kissing

But when one private issue happened
The video am
Post am to the world to see to judge the man

Who place the camera??
Who release private video to public

Una never talk una agenda

Back to the video

Who placed the video at that angle?
You people underestimate women


If you look closely you see that the man was in deep anger and was throwing objects blindly in rage missing almost all the things he threw.

That is the type of anger you display when you are really mad at someone you love.
If he wanted to kill her, he won't be throwing objects missing all his shots.

He could go and bring a weapon, stick or belt snd deal with her heavily
However you see in the video that his rage was short lived meaning he was deeply angry but still maintain his anger after throwing objects and missing them.

Now the question NOBODY including the simp blogger.

What did the woman do??

Abi the woman is an angel virgin mother Mary
My babe confess to me say she purposely wanted to make me angry just to see how I act when I'm angry. I swear on my life!!

Women are experts in doing that one thing that will annoy the living hell out of you.
Just to see how u will react.
Then they play victim like a harmless princess in danger
Meanwhile na she be the Chief instigator of the whole wahala.

Life is the greatest teacher!!!
Una go learn when you enter marriage.
Go ask UK brothers what the shege Dem see

I will humbly ask again
What did she do to provoke such anger??
For every ACTION there are 2 sides

The Cause and The Effect

We did not see the Cause of this action
The origin, the genesis of the issue
We are only seeing the Effect of this action.
So to isolate and focus on the effect while neglecting what caused it is a clear case of BIAS.
To get full judgement
First find out what caused this action
Then compare it with the effect of this action
Then you have a Solid Judgement.

King Solomon used this same principle to judge the woman that claimed another woman's child.
If that blogger was alive in king Solomon time
He will emotionally support the evil woman that tried to claim another woman's baby.

Mr. Blogger leave judgement for the wise.
Thank you

Obviously you're a supporter of abuse.

Truth is you some women can provoke a very reserved man to commit murder. But we're in a society where everything is favored towards the woman even if she sets the fire first.

tiswell:
Well,I won't blame him.
Maybe,he has endured enough

KnowledgePower7:
First of all, looking at the blogger talking

1. He has been paid to post this
2. Carrying private family dispute and putting it on social media to gain views
Private family matter should ALWAYS be solved PRIVATELY.

Na two of una swear in front of altar
Say for better for worse till death do apart
No be me and you do swearing
Noooo Na una two
So any dispute una get you solve it in private not the public

Back to the issue

When the man gave her gifts
Did we see any hidden video??

When the man made her happy
Did we see the video??

Nobody was hiding camera videoing them during their good times. Best times
When they were laughing kissing

But when one private issue happened
The video am
Post am to the world to see to judge the man

Who place the camera??
Who release private video to public

Una never talk una agenda

Back to the video

Who placed the video at that angle?
You people underestimate women


If you look closely you see that the man was in deep anger and was throwing objects blindly in rage missing almost all the things he threw.

That is the type of anger you display when you are really mad at someone you love.
If he wanted to kill her, he won't be throwing objects missing all his shots.

He could go and bring a weapon, stick or belt snd deal with her heavily
However you see in the video that his rage was short lived meaning he was deeply angry but still maintain his anger after throwing objects and missing them.

Now the question NOBODY including the simp blogger.

What did the woman do??

Abi the woman is an angel virgin mother Mary
My babe confess to me say she purposely wanted to make me angry just to see how I act when I'm angry. I swear on my life!!

Women are experts in doing that one thing that will annoy the living hell out of you.
Just to see how u will react.
Then they play victim like a harmless princess in danger
Meanwhile na she be the Chief instigator of the whole wahala.

Life is the greatest teacher!!!
Una go learn when you enter marriage.
Go ask UK brothers what the shege Dem see

I will humbly ask again
What did she do to provoke such anger??
For every ACTION there are 2 sides

The Cause and The Effect

We did not see the Cause of this action
The origin, the genesis of the issue
We are only seeing the Effect of this action.
So to isolate and focus on the effect while neglecting what caused it is a clear case of BIAS.
To get full judgement
First find out what caused this action
Then compare it with the effect of this action
Then you have a Solid Judgement.

King Solomon used this same principle to judge the woman that claimed another woman's child.
If that blogger was alive in king Solomon time
He will emotionally support the evil woman that tried to claim another woman's baby.

Mr. Blogger leave judgement for the wise.
Thank you

You just spoke my mind. The blogger and OP are either paid or have vested/selfish interest in the family matter.

Whilst I condemn the man for beating his wife, the Blogger obviously want the guy to lose his job, otherwise why posting people's home affairs online.

TheMostComplex1:
Obviously you're a supporter of abuse.

Nobody like abuse. I don't think that's his stand.

There are better ways the issue could have been resolved without posting it on social media. I don't know the special or vested interest the Blogger and OP have in the family dispute, but this singular action of posting it online definitely put more fuel in an already burning fire.

richie240:
Nor be matter of hatred bro.
It's just the frustration of a benefactor trying to cohabit with an unappreciative beneficiary.

If only they know that the ratio of their need for us to our need for them is at least 90% : 10%, den for borrow themselves (small) brain!

lol na God arrange am so.Its a mama responsibility to take care of not just his woman but people around.Thats where the feeling of a real man comes in.just pray you have people who appreciate

lebete3000:
Everyone I know says this by the way. I inherently dislike women and I know most men that know who women actually do too.

All those companionship bullshit are all fairytales you'll enjoy once in a while in marriage. The bulk of marriage is nothing but suffering for any sane man.

You have to be partially crazy to tame them, and you might end up landing yourself in trouble in the process if care is not taken.

My summary is they're just not worth it.

Pump and dump simple.

I'm a medical doctor as well and I can't tell you the several complaints most of my learned male colleagues have told me about their wives.

As I think say I hate women reach, one even referred to his wife in one derogatory term like that I was shocked to the bones.

No matter how old they are, they are all the same and will NEVER change.

Know this and know peace. Just pump and dump bro, that's all they're good for.

yea but at some point you need to have a woman at home.just be a guy man and don’t shut down your outside life.Make sure say you get beta side chic wey go Dey make u happy.na my formula be that.cos most times the house u have built won’t make u happy.I have one of the finest houses in my area but I stay outside most of the times.mariage favors only women

Even with a video evidence, see how they are twisting in all angles to logically defend the man. This is the type that will claim his wife accused him falsely and took his house in the UK. Whereas the woman is obviously trying to get away from his rage. Now she should have addressed him, not keep quiet like churches and everyone have taught women since 1602.


Just another day to thank God I am not their chosen woman... 🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️

cococandy:
Go and marry a domestic animal if you’re looking for who to tame

Are u better than a domestic animal prostitute that’s why they kill u girls for rituals greedy selfish self centered idiots don’t worry ur own time go come 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

jaksmillioniar:
I know d name I will see here dat will b crying as if he kill her. He Neva even beat her he just shout at her and stone her wat d guy did is wrong dat to try beat ur wife but wen a blog come out a woman kill her hubby dese animals here will silent as puppy if she seprated from him na d children go suffer. Na husband and wife fight dey settle in d rooms. If ur a man talking against dis man den I saw u dont have marriage experience

Exactly 👍🏽 people with no experience always think they can do better with faith 🤣🤣🤣

joseph1832:
ThEn you should have said "some" or "most" Nigerian men, not Nigerian men, and no, I'm not one of them and can never be one of them. I'm just piqued why you made such generalization when you obvious have a father, uncles, males cousins etc.

Good night.

It shows she has no respect for men at all maybe her father is uselsss and her uncles if u Check well I see that she is olosho too coming online to defend stupidity if the man was angry why didn’t the lady just apologize I pity the man

OOLUSEG:
You are a monster 💀 yourself...pls STFU.

And u are a puppy see your reaction to an Ordinary comment it shows ur a stupid person and am sure u don’t even have a gf and if u do she must be sucking dicks up and down 🤣🤣🤣🤣

lebete3000:
Dem sef know that one, na why dem always dey find man wey dem go leach off, or wey go fit tame them.

Their not well to be honest.

With most of them saying nonsense about them being unable to face their fellow men. How many muscular men behave like that to their fellow men?

You'll see bouncers bowing down for a midget like Nasir El-Rufai, but one tiny ant woman will be shouting ontop of her voice at a man.

Foolish creatures. Na Adam fvck up sha.

I really wonder how life would have been if he hadn't eaten that apple, Eve would have been sent away and we'll have been chilling with animals in peace.

I'll rather fvck a clean dog than a fallen woman like Eve. She'll have dey her dey and be riding Lucifer's díck in hell fire where dey both understand themselves well...

Don’t mind the idiots they want the best of everything at no expense to them all of them bother their mother o their sister o their aunties all looking for a foolish man to reap off hopeless things

Airlohim:
I pray that God sends an Angel to your little girl. This is so heartbreaking..

See scam format. You are begging with one moniker. You are praying for yourself to persuade people using another moniker.

Thief! I pity the fools that fall for thus scam.

Why is Nairaland allowing this?

sexiestharam:
Learn how to write coherently. I couldn't understand anything you wrote.

You are just a fool u know why? Because u can’t read between the lines but don’t worry u go chop breakfast one day 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lovelander:
Weak man, beating women is where people like him excels. What a shame

Say yourba men are weak

Cleanworld:
You need to question your thinking faculty if you still reason like this in 2024... is it not clear enough that it was the wife that ''planted'' the camera there? can't you see that she maintain that angle without doing 360" around the house? meaning the man has been DV her for a long time. she was practically begging that the kids are there and he shouldn't beat her. A lawyer should know that no one should provoke you to that extent. Okay, what if it was his first time as you insinuated and after throwing that objects, it hit her and she di£d? Walk away when you can.
let us reason together without the normal online keyboard bullies.

At least they will divorce now and the man can have his own life that’s the best thing that could ever happen let her go and find her MR RIGHT somewhere else ungrateful things

pocohantas:
Even with a video evidence, see how they are twisting in all angles to logically defend the man. This is the type that will claim his wife accused him falsely and took his house in the UK. Whereas the woman is obviously trying to get away from his rage. Now she should have addressed him, not keep quiet like churches and everyone have taught women since 1602.




Just another day to thank God I am not their chosen woman... 🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️

You go soon old you hear continue living in fools paradise remember women are like flowers once ur time pass all this ur stupid comment will be useless throw more somersault time is ticking

May God visit the same on your mama, Oloriburuku, werey.

KnowledgePower7:
First of all, looking at the blogger talking

1. He has been paid to post this
2. Carrying private family dispute and putting it on social media to gain views
Private family matter should ALWAYS be solved PRIVATELY.

Na two of una swear in front of altar
Say for better for worse till death do apart
No be me and you do swearing
Noooo Na una two
So any dispute una get you solve it in private not the public

Back to the issue

When the man gave her gifts
Did we see any hidden video??

When the man made her happy
Did we see the video??

Nobody was hiding camera videoing them during their good times. Best times
When they were laughing kissing

But when one private issue happened
The video am
Post am to the world to see to judge the man

Who place the camera??
Who release private video to public

Una never talk una agenda

Back to the video

Who placed the video at that angle?
You people underestimate women


If you look closely you see that the man was in deep anger and was throwing objects blindly in rage missing almost all the things he threw.

That is the type of anger you display when you are really mad at someone you love.
If he wanted to kill her, he won't be throwing objects missing all his shots.

He could go and bring a weapon, stick or belt snd deal with her heavily
However you see in the video that his rage was short lived meaning he was deeply angry but still maintain his anger after throwing objects and missing them.

Now the question NOBODY including the simp blogger.

What did the woman do??

Abi the woman is an angel virgin mother Mary
My babe confess to me say she purposely wanted to make me angry just to see how I act when I'm angry. I swear on my life!!

Women are experts in doing that one thing that will annoy the living hell out of you.
Just to see how u will react.
Then they play victim like a harmless princess in danger
Meanwhile na she be the Chief instigator of the whole wahala.

Life is the greatest teacher!!!
Una go learn when you enter marriage.
Go ask UK brothers what the shege Dem see

I will humbly ask again
What did she do to provoke such anger??
For every ACTION there are 2 sides

The Cause and The Effect

We did not see the Cause of this action
The origin, the genesis of the issue
We are only seeing the Effect of this action.
So to isolate and focus on the effect while neglecting what caused it is a clear case of BIAS.
To get full judgement
First find out what caused this action
Then compare it with the effect of this action
Then you have a Solid Judgement.

King Solomon used this same principle to judge the woman that claimed another woman's child.
If that blogger was alive in king Solomon time
He will emotionally support the evil woman that tried to claim another woman's baby.

Mr. Blogger leave judgement for the wise.
Thank you

Koni da fun iwo na. Awon werey Oloriburuku.

I need to be banned for 24 hours. Unless I no go sleep on top this issue.

CaptainFM1:
You just spoke my mind. The blogger and OP are either paid or have vested/selfish interest in the family matter.

Whilst I condemn the man for beating his wife, the Blogger obviously want the guy to lose his job, otherwise why posting people's home affairs online.

No be Shotput o... Na Baseball or Cricket dem dey throw like that

ThierryJay:
It's very clear PwC will drop this guy like hot potato!

See how he dey practise shotput skills on his wife.

Brothers pls control your temper so you don't harm another man's daughter and throw away your future.

TopeSanwolu:
You go soon old you hear continue living in fools paradise remember women are like flowers once ur time pass all this ur stupid comment will be useless throw more somersault time is ticking

Which one is I go soon old? I am already old. How does it affect you? Abi make I die young8 like you plan to? Marry the young ones and leave me biko. 🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️

Only weak men do this. No matter how much she provokes you she is no match to your strength. So just walk away stay out of the house if you have to. And in front of the kids ! Mr man is a Monster

TopeSanwolu:
You are just a fool u know why? Because u can’t read between the lines but don’t worry u go chop breakfast one day 🤣🤣🤣🤣

You are such a slowpoke and a blockhead.

Wetin that clown for the video the explain?