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greypencils:
Genius! For her to set up a camera , it means this incidence wasn't the first. He has been assaulting her for a while. What is wrong is wrong. Stop defending nonsense.

I am not putting up a defense for the man, ofcus thats not the 1st time hence why she premeditated and setup the man

i just believe even in justice their must be fairness, as we see the man true nature did we see the woman true nature.

iamtoofan:
I am not putting up a defense for the man, ofcus thats not the 1st time hence why she premeditated and setup the man

i just believe even in justice their must be fairness, as we see the man true nature did we see the woman true nature.

True nature being she is quarrelsome, If he cant stand her, he should break with her. Is that too hard?

Drella:
You keep defending the woman. But your brain did not tell you provocation can bring out the monster in anybody.

The man was wrong for hitting her in the first instance, but why did she first provoke and keep provoking him? Even in his fury, she kept nagging and murmuring seemingly provocative words.

When you're having conversations with your friends and it gets to a heated argument - is that how you react to provocation from your friends?

Serves her right. Let him beat her and remove all her teeth. If a woman can't make conscious decision to leave an abusive man then she gets whatever he dishes. I pity the kids she is traumatizing because of her love for his penis.

delishpot:
Serves her right. Let him beat her and remove all her teeth. If a woman can't make conscious decision to leave an abusive man then she gets whatever he dishes. I pity the kids she is traumatizing because of her love for his penis.

WTF?

greypencils:
Will u stand there while your mother is being hit by another man? Simple question. You wont. Simple answer. Do the right thing and stop being an hypocrite. There is no justification whatsoever to hit a woman. If You cant stand her, walk away from the marriage. Full stop.

what if the person that beat my mama is bigger than me or looks stronger

On a curious note, why did the woman not walk out of the toxic marriage, she could have left but she waited, just for what

If a man is toxic, simply walk away without taking his life cos whoever takes food from a man's mouth as planned to kill him

no justification manslaughter

Lovelander:
Weak man, beating women is where people like him excels. What a shame

beating women does not mean weak.....
never had a family with bros that beat you for effing...?
once it's man to woman , our sentimental emotional caps blink red.....
he made a bad choice.......
they are both blacks, so it's the slavery thing

folake4u:
When you're having conversations with your friends and it gets to a heated argument - is that how you react to provocation from your friends?

Maturity has taken over, we don't throw fists.

Now, this man was probably able to hit her because he knows she can't fight back. I have already condemned the man.
But why will you as a woman, who is incapable of defending yourself from masculine physical attack, trigger a man's probable physical attack?

The rationale is simple. Men, don't hit your wives; women, don't provoke your husbands to the point of hitting you.

highchief1:
for the rest of my life bro.I am not running to the bush.i am running to another home.as a married man make sure you have two houses

For the rest of your life? That sounds like slavery.

Even illegal immigrants abroad don't run for the rest of their lives.

Drella:
Maturity has taken over, we don't throw fists.

Now, this man was probably able to hit her because he knows she can't fight back. I have already condemned the man.
But why will you as a woman, who is incapable of defending yourself from masculine physical attack, trigger a man's probable physical attack?

The rationale is simple. Men, don't hit your wives; women, don't provoke your husbands to the point of hitting you.

What happened to walking away?

Igbo ladies of these generation are very insultively provocative,it takes a Godly man with peace of God not to pour that anger against recurring provocation on their wives.

folake4u:
What happened to walking away?

IT TAKES THE PEACE OF GOD IN YOU T WALK AWAY.

LilMissFavvy:
You cheat on your wife, and Still have the guts to beat her? Some women are really low and can take anything from this gender in the name of marriage. What if the objects he threw blinded her eyes? Children, learn to protect your mother's from assault.

Not her fault entirely if she stays.

After two kids and at that age, she's doesn't have much leverage in the dating pool.
Except she's leaving the marriage not to marry again.

folake4u:
What happened to walking away?

What happened to not provoking your husband to the point whereby he has to decide between hitting you and walking away?

As an advocate of the walking away decision myself, I know a man can only walk away for so long. A time is coming when he will get tired of walking away from his provocative wife and the result will be what this woman in question faced, or more.

helinues:
End time lawyer

This one no even dey practice what he's practicing as a profession

Btw, only cowards beat women. There are ways of punishing then far more than beating. Are you not the same person still providing the bills, wait for her there

That would be financial abuse and it's not right.

Try and educate yourself.

pocohantas:
Even with a video evidence, see how they are twisting in all angles to logically defend the man. This is the type that will claim his wife accused him falsely and took his house in the UK. Whereas the woman is obviously trying to get away from his rage. Now she should have addressed him, not keep quiet like churches and everyone have taught women since 1602.


Just another day to thank God I am not their chosen woman... 🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️

It's just shocking the way some people are using different angles to defend this man's actions, haba!!!! He was not only physically abusive, he was also verbally abusive, calling her a bas-tard if she doesn't call. She was also the one that mentioned the children are present before he hushed them away. Violent man with no iota of self control that can't manage himself not to talk of his home, what if one of the objects he threw at her entered her eye and turned her blind? World people will still say she provoked him. So many sick people around that don't even know they are sick. How can anyone justify this?!

NoToPile:
Exactly @bolded.

She kept quiet and ducked under table wahala if she had shouted with the same energy it would have been double wahala.

NL boys sha, despite video and audio evidence oo. It is well.

Very small boys, no iota of maturity or sense in a lot of them.

cococandy:
Na for woman hand you go die last last.

Lol 😆, easy lady...easy!

Sparrk007:
This Na family matters, the man is angry and[b] he don't want to physically abused her the reason he throws some plastic cups on her[/b], you can see the man when he grab the flower vase it heavy and he had to drop it back on the table. People wen don settle dey knack on a steady... make everybody rest abeg

Throwing those items at her IS part of physical abuse!! Physical abuse is any act of hurting or injuring a person on purpose; it is a violent treatment of another person that causes them physical harm.

Any of the items he threw at her could have hit her eye and turned her blind.

greypencils:
True nature being she is quarrelsome, If he cant stand her, he should break with her. Is that too hard?

If someone is beating you, no be you go run is that not common sense

you know the woman could have just walk away,

Suffering has really affected many Nigerian’s conscience. How can people support this animal’s action in any way?
Well , I’m glad the right-thinking Nigerians have made him very popular.
Aye bobo yen ti baje raurau

dominique:
Their mantra used to be she's was running her mouth leading to DV. Now video evidence has shown that their the no.1 at running their mouth now the new song is she wants to destroy her husband. His fellow alfa males should come and get him out of the mess he put himself in. Nobody will cover-up for animalistic men anymore.

All you just have to is picture yourself in a situation you are trying to expose your man as toxic,

will you in that situatuon be reactive or meek.

the man is a beast, But the woman we cant tell

Drella:
For the rest of your life? That sounds like slavery.

Even illegal immigrants abroad don't run for the rest of their lives.

slavery na mindset bro.I built the houses.Furnished them well,I’m protecting my mental health you see it as slavery.

highchief1:
lol your mind Dey back.

I no understand your slang jarey

iamtoofan:
All her actions in that video is invalid .... she knows the cctv is on , she chose that angle, she is the one recording you dont expect her to react in any way that will limit her chances to gather empathy nd nail the man

it reminds me of Ruth kadiri movie, 3rd marriage 🤣 watch if you can
someone like cococandy wil neva watch a movie like that

You be mumu. So the husband doesn't know the camera is there? What if it was his idea to install it?

Did she tell him to put his hands on her?

I thought you people always says you want proof? Even with the evidence, you've still managed to twist it so you can justify it.

joseph1832:
You're certain? If I ask you to prove this so called certainty of yours, by showing the posts I've liked and shared generalizing women, I hope you won't go about making another general comment, like you always do? Lol.

You're damaged goods, woman. What a shame.

I've seen your post history. Hypocrite. Fvck off back to the red pill thread.

PARADIZEPRIEST:
IT TAKES THE PEACE OF GOD IN YOU T WALK AWAY.

Only when it comes to a woman.

jaksmillioniar:
learn to use ur brain u dirty thing

I am neater than your entire generation.

jaksmillioniar:
learn to use ur brain u dirty thing

Learn to use your brain, you dirty thing. You will learn grammar by force here. I have your time.

TopeSanwolu:
You are just a fool u know why? Because u can’t read between the lines but don’t worry u go chop breakfast one day 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Silence is the best answer for you. Infer who you are.

[quote author=pocohantas post=132623221]Which one is I go soon old. I am already old. How does it affect you? Abi make I die young like you plan to? Marry the young ones and leave me biko. 🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️[/quote.

1Sharon:
You be mumu. So the husband doesn't know the camera is there? What if it was his idea to install it?

Did she tell him to put his hands on her?

I thought you people always says you want proof? Even with the evidence, you've still managed to twist it so you can justify it.

how will he know, why will an abuse husband install a cctv .. can you handcuff yurself ?? thats a spy camera footage
A woman that spend her hard earn money to buy a spy camera, will ensure her "hard money" did not waste.
imagine d week you install the spy camera, your monster husband refuse to act what will you do go n watch 3rd marriage on youtube it is there

The man is "WRONG" no doubt, my concern is should the man lost is livelihood will that woman take responsibility b4 the choldren she destroyed him
A mere divorce could have suffice but she went xtreme