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omooba969:
That would be financial abuse and it's not right.

Try and educate yourself.

But emotional and mental abuse from her is right?

yewit37486:
It's just shocking the way some people are using different angles to defend this man's actions, haba!!!! He was not only physically abusive, he was also verbally abusive, calling her a bas-tard if she doesn't call. She was also the one that mentioned the children are present before he hushed them away. Violent man with no iota of self control that can't manage himself not to talk of his home, what if one of the objects he threw at her entered her eye and turned her blind? World people will still say she provoked him. So many sick people around that don't even know they are sick. How can anyone justify this?!

Not justifying the man's action but why is she threatening his female colleague on LinkedIn? He was clearly telling her "do you want me to lose my job?"

lebete3000:
I no understand your slang jarey

like ur mind is made up on women lol

GloriousGbola:
WTF?

There is nothing to fu©k in this matter. I am sure she has been enduring his beatings since. I always tell people esp women, the first blow, leave. Even if you are foolish to forgive the first blow, leave at the second one. If they stay and chop more then I encourage their abusers to loud it. Remove all their teeth and maybe then they will move on.

Iamblessed85:
Hey i read your diary and almost shed a tear. I sent a pm if its okay. Maybe we can be efriends

What happened that you're almost shedding a tear? Same diary I always read?
Just say you're attracted by her picture you saw😂😂

Drella:
Not justifying the man's action but why is she threatening his female colleague on LinkedIn? He was clearly telling her "do you want me to lose my job?"

Threatening his colleague was definitely wrong, but that is something they both should have ironed out like ADULTS, not him violently throwing objects at her. This man with his temper and the vehemence with which he threw those objects can murder her in the blink of an eye - if his hands happened to be round her throat, he would certainly have killed her. You can see she was moving back, cos she probably knows what he is capable of and this is surely not his first time.

[quote author=Drella post=132632467]What happened that you're almost shedding a tear? Same diary I always read?
Just say you're attracted by her picture you saw😂😂

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yewit37486:
Threatening his colleague was definitely wrong, but that is something they both should have ironed out like ADULTS, not him violently throwing objects at her. This man with his temper and the vehemence with which he threw those objects can murder her in the blink of an eye - if his hands happened to be round her throat, he would certainly have killed her. You can see she was moving back, cos she probably knows what he is capable of and this is surely not his first time.

He obviously has his own fault. But I don't want us to neglect the fault of his wife too.
Imagine losing your job because of a jealous wife. You will then be forced to depend on your savings and the jealous wife; every man's nightmare.

iamtoofan:
how will he know, why will an abuse husband install a cctv .. can you handcuff yurself ?? thats a spy camera footage
A woman that spend her hard earn money to buy a spy camera, will ensure her "hard money" did not waste.
imagine d week you install the spy camera, your monster husband refuse to act what will you do go n watch 3rd marriage on youtube it is there

The man is "WRONG" no doubt, my concern is should the man lost is livelihood will that woman take responsibility b4 the choldren she destroyed him
A mere divorce could have suffice but she went xtreme

You're an illiterate aren't you? Have you never heard about people having CCTV in their homes? For security? It's obviously a new concept you can't grasp.

Illiterate talk say nah spy camera lol.

A mere "divorce" later people like you will turn around to say "Ashewo dey her eye"

Leave the kids out of your mouth, you don't care about them.

iamtoofan:
how will he know, why will an abuse husband install a cctv .. can you handcuff yurself ?? thats a spy camera footage
A woman that spend her hard earn money to buy a spy camera, will ensure her "hard money" did not waste.
imagine d week you install the spy camera, your monster husband refuse to act what will you do go n watch 3rd marriage on youtube it is there

The man is "WRONG" no doubt, my concern is should the man lost is livelihood will that woman take responsibility b4 the choldren she destroyed him
A mere divorce could have suffice but she went xtreme

The camera video is labelled camera 04.
There are at least 4 cameras in that house.
Well to do people with small children and househelps will put cameras all over the house.

Iamblessed85:
Hey i read your diary and almost shed a tear. I sent a pm if its okay. Maybe we can be efriends

Dey play!

Pocohantas wouldn't dare be friends with a nairalander...lol 🤣

E get why?

I will even give her the award of the 'Dumbest woman alive' if she did.

Drella:
But emotional and mental abuse from her is right?

That's not evident in the video.

GloriousGbola:
The camera video is labelled camera 04.
There are at least 4 cameras in that house.
Well to do people with small children and househelps will put cameras all over the house.

If thats the case even tho i still have my doubts, then we have the most foolish man of the year 2024.

there is also possibility more cctv was installed not to miss out any angle he goes violence in the house


i cant be a serial wife beater nd think of installing cctv where i turn well he should go n face the music

iamtoofan:
If thats the case even tho i still have my doubts, then we have the most foolish man of the year 2024.

there is also possibility more cctv was installed not to miss out any angle he goes violence in the house


i cant be a serial wife beater nd think of installing cctv where i turn well he should go n face the music

Yes, because you can stealth install high resolution cameras around your house at ceiling height. The woman must be a regular MacGyver.

1Sharon:
You're an illiterate aren't you? Have you never heard about people having CCTV in their homes? For security? It's obviously a new concept you can't grasp.

Illiterate talk say nah spy camera lol.

A mere "divorce" later people like you will turn around to say "Ashewo dey her eye"

Leave the kids out of your mouth, you don't care about them.

and where did i dispute people dont or cant have a cctv at home,

A man cant commit crime in front of a cctv and graciously leave it, knowing what he stands to lose except the man is a retard
...

why am i indifferent if the man had installed the cctv he will have "primary" access to feeds and he would have deleted asap ...

the woman had undenied access to the footage cos she planted it .. however justice be serve

Post it. Why are you so afraid to post my so called post history? Afraid it'll show you're guilty of what I labeled you: the whelp of generalization?

1Sharon:
I've seen your post history. Hypocrite. Fvck off back to the red pill thread.

Would have been my pleasure to fvck off inside your vagina, but seeing your posts and how it reeks of generalization, I'm afraid I have to politely decline.

[quote author=omooba969 post=132634019]Dey play!

Pocohantas wouldn't dare be friends with a nairalander...lol 🤣

E get why?

I will even give her the award of the 'Dumbest woman alive' if she did. [/quote

Christ4ever:
Nairaland has turned to Gossip mill.

Husband and wife should be be handled at Domestic violence agency.

We don't need it here.

I believe something like this:
NATIONAL COMMISSION AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE (NCADV)
under the Presidency and to be headed by ..........
36 Commissioners for each state
779 Local governments coordinators

iamtoofan:
and where did i dispute people dont or cant have a cctv at home,

A man cant commit crime in front of a cctv and graciously leave it, knowing what he stands to lose except the man is a retard
...

why am i indifferent if the man had installed the cctv he will have "primary" access to feeds and he would have deleted asap ...

the woman had undenied access to the footage cos she planted it .. however justice be serve

Why then were you making it seem unfathomable that the husband could install CCTV in his own home?

He is indeed a retard. People tend to forget the cameras are even there. Go and watch crime documentaries, people have been nabbed by the CCTV cameras they placed in their own homes. It's not uncommon.

I'm not suprised this is the stupid take you lot are having, if there was no proof, you'd ask for proof. Now there is video evidence, you want it quashed.

joseph1832:
Post it. Why are you so afraid to post my so called post history? Afraid it'll show you're guilty of what I labeled you: the whelp of generalization? ;DWould have been my pleasure to fvck off inside your vagina, but seeing your posts and how it reeks of generalization, I'm afraid I have to politely decline.

Fvck off back to the red pill thread. How do I know you're from there?

1Sharon:
Why then were you making it seem unfathomable that the husband could install CCTV in his own home?

He is indeed a retard. People tend to forget the cameras are even there. Go and watch crime documentaries, people have been nabbed by the CCTV cameras they placed in their own homes. It's not uncommon.

I'm not suprised this is the stupid take you lot are having, if there was no proof, you'd ask for proof. Now there is video evidence, you want it quashed.

You are getting me outside my context, the possibilities surrounding these situationship is that

1. that is not the 1st time he will assault her
2. he is a serial abuser

if these two are correct, it is unfathomable why such a man will install cctv inside.

humans dont care if God is watching But BBnaija as taught me people are very weary of cameras esp. when they know its ON ... that man didnt make contact with the camera angle through out ... its means he is oblivion of it, the woman installed it, No p !

You dont have to get ruffled, its not out of place for people to ask questions its only norm every crime is subjected to investigation and fair hearing

Men, please, don't beat your wife under any circumstance. Women, please, don't use derogatory words for your husband under any circumstance.
Don't try to intimidate him with your father. It is never a restraining factor on an angry man. Instead, you are directly challenging his ego. If he chickens out because you threatened to call your father he would look at himself as a wimp afterwards. Trust me, he'll rather go ahead and damn the consequences.
Learn to thrash issues without using abusive words, like 'iwa osi' (stupid behaviour) that I heard the woman say in that video. etc. It takes two people to keep a sane home, please.

iamtoofan:
You are getting me outside my context, the possibilities surrounding these situationship is that

1. that is not the 1st time he will assault her
2. he is a serial abuser

if these two are correct,]it is unfathomable why such a man will install cctv inside.[/

humans dont care if God is watching But BBnaija as taught me people are very weary of cameras esp. when they know its ON ... that man didnt make contact with the camera angle through out ... its means he is oblivion of it, the woman installed it, No p !

You dont have to get ruffled, its not out of place for people to ask questions its only norm every crime is subjected to investigation and fair hearing

As I said before, go and watch crime documentaries, you have alot to learn.

1Sharon:
As I said before, go and watch crime documentaries, you have alot to learn.

when you are ready to enroll i will join you ..

highchief1:
like ur mind is made up on women lol

You're right on that...

omooba969:
That's not evident in the video.

You either don't understand Yoruba or the voiceover impaired your hearing of their conversation.

omooba969:
Dey play!

Pocohantas wouldn't dare be friends with a nairalander...lol 🤣

E get why?

I will even give her the award of the 'Dumbest woman alive' if she did.

You clearly don't know her enough.

iamtoofan:
when you are ready to enroll i will join you ..

So you can watch wack yoruba movies on yt but you refuse to watch documentaries that can actually teach you something. Lol.

1Sharon:
So you can watch wack yoruba movies on yt but you refuse to watch documentaries that can actually teach you something. Lol.

since when did ruth kadiri show yoruba movies, ... women !!
biggest netblusters movies in Nigeria na yoruba .. olodo

Documentaries are educative but Movies are all in one i.e educative, inspiring, entertaining and correctional e.t.c

like i said, sit ur bumbum down n watch "3rd marriage" then come nd tell me you do not want to be a better wife ... abi o nii data nii

Na full Dey marry , marriage is a scam by women

As a lawyer, he should know what he did is very wrong, he can't try this abroad.