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Apart from the crime of sleeping with other people's wives, why do people record themselves during intimacy?
I'm very curious

I'm sure this man have an aim for all what he did?

Do you think men who are very busy with work and other things, their wifes deserve this kind of man inorder to keep their marriage going, to avoid loneliness?

What's your opinion on this?


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No, they don’t unless their husband agrees to an open marriage. You are either committed or you aren’t. Either way, you should be open and honest.

Maeve7:
No, they don’t unless their husband agrees to an open marriage. You are either committed or you aren’t. Either way, you should be open and honest.

Does it mean once she's lonely, she should remain that way till the end of time? Alot men are occupied,having fun and no one is complaining. What happened to the lonely wife at home?

Missroyalluv:
Does it mean once she's lonely, she should remain that way till the end of time? Alot men are occupied,having fun and no one is complaining. What happened to the lonely wife at home?

She can ask for an open marriage or gracefully exit the non-existent one.

Besides, while her husband is busy making money, what is she doing with her life? No job? No kids? No hobbies? No friends?

Missroyalluv:
Does it mean once she's lonely, she should remain that way till the end of time? Alot men are occupied,having fun and no one is complaining. What happened to the lonely wife at home?

So, cheating is her own form of retaliation for her husband catching fun ahbi?
If this is how you reasons, I pity your children.
You never consider that she doesn't have a life to begin with, so she considers her husbands life hers, she is boring to the husband and couldn't be fun to him.

Missroyalluv:
Apart from the crime of sleeping with other people's wives, why do people record themselves during intimacy? I'm very curious I'm sure this man have an aim for all what he did? Do you think men who are very busy with work and other things, their wifes deserve this kind of man inorder to keep their marriage going, to avoid loneliness? What's your opinion on this?

What is a marriage and what is required to keep it going though? Answer this question and you will find that you already know the answer to your question there.

Missroyalluv:
■ Does it mean once she's lonely, she should remain that way till the end of time?
■ Alot men are occupied,having fun and no one is complaining.
■ What happened to the lonely wife at home?

If she is lonely or he is lonely in the marriage, he/she can simply get the Bleep out of the marriage since marriage. Divorce is not a crime.

2. The one not complaining is the woman who chooses to remain as wife to a cheater, right? That decision is wholly hers to make. She has the choice to divorce him but rather chooses to remain with him in all of his cheating. That is all on her.

3. If she is lonely in the marriage the sensible option, if no resolution in sight, is divorce. Divorce is a logical solution to loneliness in marriage. However, when a man or woman chooses to forgo that sensible solution to opt instead cheat on his spouse thereby violating the marriage agreement, it then falls on the other spouse to decide whether to condone such an act or seek divorce.

By the way, cheating does not resolve the problem of loneliness in marriage. It has been shown to exacerbate it and make the divide between spouses even more apparent for third parties.

Dis one dey find excuse to olosho.

tanigororo:
■ So, cheating is her own form of retaliation for her husband catching fun ahbi? If this is how you reasons, I pity your children.
You never consider that she doesn't have a life to begin with, so she considers her husbands life hers, she is boring to the husband and couldn't be fun to him.

The Husband wrong or cheating on her. If she is boring to him and couldn't be fun to him why didn't he simply divorce her rather than commit such evil against her? So, while you are castigating her for seeking revenge in that case, do the same to the man who committed evil against her and the marriage as well.

tanigororo:
So, cheating is her own form of retaliation for her husband catching fun ahbi?
If this is how you reasons, I pity your children.
You never consider that she doesn't have a life to begin with, so she considers her husbands life hers, she is boring to the husband and couldn't be fun to him.

My dear, I'm not justifying anyone here. You can't just read online and know the exact problem people go through secretly in their relationship.

Don't be too quick to pity people you don't know either. Besides, I don't know what pity children have to do with what I posted