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Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by DyshApp(op): 1:54am On Nov 06, 2024
A Nigerian man recently shared a post on social revealing that a family member asked him to pay the school fees for one of their child because he does not have children of his own.

In his post, the man recounted receiving a call from this family member, whom he described as someone he barely communicates with.

He expressed his disbelief at the request, stating, “I just remembered this family member from my mom’s side I don’t even talk to called me to tell me that since I don’t have any kids and don’t pay school fees, why don’t I pay for one of her kids? Stupid woman.”

He also mentioned that when he informed his father about the incident, his father was ready to confront the woman, saying, “I told my poppy, and he wanted to go fight.”

Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by Lalami3232(m): 2:37am On Nov 06, 2024
cheesy
Use the money for sponsoring a DNA test for the man instead.
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by AllBlack: 5:33am On Nov 06, 2024
Lalami3232:
cheesy
Use the money for sponsoring a DNA test for the man instead.
why should he spend his money on any of that at all? ghosting entitled people is wonderful abeg.
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by DyshApp(op): 11:40pm On Nov 06, 2024
Lalami3232:
cheesy
Use the money for sponsoring a DNA test for the man instead.
Lol
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by ecomalchemistt(m): 6:19pm On Nov 07, 2024
Entitlement mentality
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by TOPCRUISE(m):
See wicked parasite of a woman.
The leech doesn’t want him to progress. Looks like she bore plentiful children.
She is obviously targeting those who are not married so as to take advantage of their situation
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by ednut1(m): 6:19pm On Nov 07, 2024
Poor people and having children like rats
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by HitSong: 6:20pm On Nov 07, 2024
This terrible economy will soon change the way people live grin

- Home schooling will increase

- Wives must work from home, do home schooling and take care of the house and children etc.

The money parents pay for school fees, after school lessons, daycare, house help etc is OUTRAGEOUS AND NOT SUSTAINABLE.

ANYONE EARNING LESS THAN 500K IN THE CITY WITH FAMILY OF 2-4 CAN'T LEAVE A DECENT COMFORTABLE LIFE AGAIN.

TINUBU ECONOMICS IS EVIL.
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by Felabrity: 6:20pm On Nov 07, 2024
If you check am, the woman na tinubu supporter
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by Numerouno94(m): 6:21pm On Nov 07, 2024
Most stories on X are made up.
This too ridiculous to b true. If it actually happens to b true, it shows the woman obviously called to mock him abt being childless.
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by Fenomenal124(m): 6:21pm On Nov 07, 2024
Just legonu.... Entitlement spirit!!
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by owiko(m): 6:22pm On Nov 07, 2024
Her request wasn't out of place, since the guy confirmed she's a relative. But her approach made her sound stupid and entitled
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by IceLip:
Hmmm
Check ur sef

Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by Obakoolex(m): 6:23pm On Nov 07, 2024
Felabrity:
If you check am, the woman na tinubu supporter
Politics and election loss has turned some of you people brain down.
Why not just laugh and pass undecided
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by nairalanda1(m): 6:23pm On Nov 07, 2024
Lalami3232:
cheesy
Use the money for sponsoring a DNA test for the man instead.
Oga, if the woman you loved dissapointed you, just get over it and move on.


Instead of littering this site with posts about dna, virgins and women being all evil unfaithful witches or something.


Honestly, the way you hate women, it's like you were not born by a woman
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by YoungLionken(m):
Saw this earlier on and I was like "werey wonders don start but nor gree end" cheesy..

There is a reason why some people (after their plus and minus in calculation) thought it wise not to give birth now. But you would see someone, especially our women with myopic views and lack of purpose about life, giving births like rabbits. I know a (former primary school classmate) mother of one, just few years later, she now has four kids with not even a proper marriage. I believe she was expecting me to "drop something" but for where. Me way dey calculate life nor get sense or to create football team dey hard me!??
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by We4all: 6:24pm On Nov 07, 2024
Kini big deal? He even reported to his daddy, a proof of his foolishness.
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by Algold: 6:24pm On Nov 07, 2024
You go pay o. It like someone sowing a seed of having children in the future.
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by Kobicove(m): 6:24pm On Nov 07, 2024
I see nothing wrong in helping if you can afford it comfortably. undecided

Last term I helped one of my distant cousins with 4 kids pay the school fees of one of them.

It was very obvious he was struggling to meet up with his expenses in this terrible economy
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by madridguy(m): 6:24pm On Nov 07, 2024
Online validation have turned many Nigerians to loudest people on earth. If I may ask him the noise maker what exactly in wrong in paying for the child school fee?

I am surprised many people calling it entitlement mentality. I believe the woman sees him as someone who is capable with little burden hence she asked him.

If people like Bill Gates, Tony Elumelu and other individuals offering scholarship many people won't rise. If you have anyone trying to get educated, trying to acquire any skill, please if you have the power assist him or her.
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by NaijaCover(m): 6:24pm On Nov 07, 2024
Inukwa ooooo
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by vanunu: 6:24pm On Nov 07, 2024
Thnubu don catch poor people
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by tunjijones(m): 6:25pm On Nov 07, 2024
That thing is so crazy... The entitlement mentality. In my former office my colleagues will be telling me that "shey you are not married, you don't have any responsibility, come and borrow me 100k. Money whey be say he go cause quarrel las las cos them no go wan pay you back. You go come dey stress yourself always following up for them to pay back. (Some people sef no sabi to ask people for moni whey them borrow them cos they will be expecting the person to pay back with them asking. They are shy to ask for their money)

Na me tell Una to go get responsibility? Or na because of Una I come this town come hustle?
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by straighttalk(m): 6:25pm On Nov 07, 2024
Why the shock?
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by englishmart(m): 6:25pm On Nov 07, 2024
My friend called me to support her transportation to my brother's wedding. I mean, she already has her to and fro ticket booked o. I had to remind her it's not my wedding.
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by We4all: 6:25pm On Nov 07, 2024
Felabrity:
If you check am, the woman na tinubu supporter
Dude ain't even a Nigerian.
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by Gamezi(m): 6:25pm On Nov 07, 2024
I go just ask him to send account and block the weyrey.. week later na to call family meeting and warn the idiot never try such again
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by franchasng: 6:26pm On Nov 07, 2024
Every family need this kind wehrey to keep the family pyscologically balanced shocked
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by kennyz247(m): 6:26pm On Nov 07, 2024
Pay if you can ,e better pass dashing your pastor monthly fee,that is 100times richer than you
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by Mopolchi: 6:26pm On Nov 07, 2024
Tpain caused it; penury looms everywhere in the country.
Re: Man In Shock As Family Member Asks Him To Pay School Fees For Her Child by TrackerSK: 6:26pm On Nov 07, 2024
nairalanda1:
Oga, if the woman you loved dissapointed you, just get over it and move on.


Instead of littering this site with posts about dna, virgins and women being all evil unfaithful witches or something.


Honestly, the way you hate women, it's like you were not born by a woman
But that DNA test he said is important
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