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Baltasar Ebang: Why Relapses Shouldn't Break Your Resolve To Quit Masturbation

I opened a recent thread advising people against rushing to view leaked sex videos, and I saw several persons admitting how watching the leaked sex videos of the recent sex scandal, resulted in relapses after going several months without masturbation, and I wasn't surprised.

That's actually the concept.

It's a prepared script that's playing out, and the intended targets are those who otherwise won't view such pornographic content.

Who else do you think the videos were being made for, and how do you think they were leaked if they were in the custody of the police who were said to have raided his house and discovered the sex videos?

That's how they also deliberately leaked the nude and sex videos of celebrities who stored such videos and photos on icloud.

They want to get to those who ordinarily wouldn't watch pornographic videos, using the massive appeal and popularity of those celebrities involved as a bait.

They know that once such ones were drawn to those leaked sex videos and photos, their resistance against sexual sins, including masturbation, would be broken.

That's the only way they could gain access into their lives and do them whatever damage they intended - through sin.

I have been there myself before, where after I had managed to stay away from masturbation for several weeks, even months, all it took to break my resistance was a pornographic video or photo or anything that could arouse my sexual urges via my eyes.

That's how all my efforts to quit masturbation would usually come crashing down and I would have to start afresh from ground zero, and that's how it continued for many years. It seemed I would never be able to achieve that goal.

But today that's no longer the case as I have been able to overcome by the help and power of God, so matter what temptations that is brought my way, whether it be on social media, where I preach the Gospel, that they were constantly bringing half naked photos of girls, in the name of "people you may know', it never worked on me until they gave up, and this has been the case for many years now.

That's why I urge those who suffered setbacks in their determination to quit masturbation and other sexual sins, not to quit but to keep striving, because I have been in their shoes before so I know what it feels like, but if I gave up, I don't think I will be here testifying today.

Even though it's been a very long time since i won that battle over the flesh, It still remain very fresh on my mind how tough the battle was and the mighty great work that God did for me that I will continue to remain ever grateful to Him.

If He did it for me, He can also do it for you.

Hence I urge you not to give up regardless but continue to strive and pray earnestly to God to give you the ability to overcome such temptations, and I believe He would do it for you just as He did for me.

God bless.

God is able!

You see this masturbation of a thing, na one of the world's strongest and most dogged addiction. Between masturbation and betting, I no know which one dey stronger because I don do both. White betting go give you the illusion say you go become millionaire one day if you dey forecast right, masturbation go give you the impression say you no dey fornicate, r*p*e or sleep around. Both of dem na from the bottomless pit of hell. If you decide to quit at a point and you mistakenly go relapse, you go come back worse than previously. But one good thing be say, both can be overcome if you get a very strong will. As for masturbation, no go porn sites and try to dey with people or dey busy. But how can a tech guy like some of us wey always dey alone with laptop wan take overcome? Laslas sha, we all go dey alright. Forget whatever the media paints to you, masturbation no good, bros. You feel so so so so weak after ejaculation, unlike when you get normal sex. Laslas, we all go dey alright
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

I nor understand this thread self

Na you go maturabate.

Pastor don use me preach on a Sunday morning

Life is too much pain and work. Whether you masturbate or you don't, one day we'll all be nothing and nowhere.

I won't say Masturbation is natural, but it is a reaction to lack of sexual intimacy.

Honestly the number of people that fell into that traps in recent times is unimaginable.

You're insane. There's no prepared script to leak nudes.

making excuses until the screw cap falls off......
try another name like sperm jerk, and the boredom'll kill ya

Holy crap!!

See reasoning!!

Many are mentally unstable, few are roaming the streets. The rest must be in nairaland

When you have constant supply of kpekus, you won't think of masturvating. At least this is true to a great extent, 99% of humans.
.lack of sex is the sole cause of addiction to masturbation

That's actually the concept.

It's a prepared script that's playing out, and the intended targets are those who otherwise won't view such pornographic content.

Who else do you think the videos were being made for, and how do you think they were leaked if they were in the custody of the police who were said to have raided his house and discovered the sex videos?

That's how they also deliberately leaked the nude and sex videos of celebrities who stored such videos and photos on icloud.

This sounds true...

How can something in the hands of the law enforcement be "leaked"? ... Abegi..

Something dey inside....

What a stupid post. Who sent you?

With or without Sex and masturbation, the man's body always look for ways to eject semen. It is natural.

relapses are part of the process and learning curve.

@op after reading ur post.. who are "they"??

It is well

Mtcheeeewwww. Masturbation and watching of porn is a thing of the mind. I actually watched the video and I didn't masturbate. I had quit masturbation for almost 3yrs now and it stays like that. In as much I have my wife that I have access to for sex, Y would I go back to masturbation after almost 3yrs of quitting it just because I watched a leaked sex tape. I just made my mind strong after watching it and told myself I would never watch the video again. Me wey no even like to dey have porn video on my phone. I just see it irritating and irresponsible. So those that went back to masturbate after watching the sex tape, na dem Sabi. Lolzzzzz

OP

Y'all should stop already

If masturbation is still a problem bedeviling you in Nigeria,

then it's clear that Tinubu isn't dealing enough with you lot. 😏😁🤣

Hopefully, I'd bang one pussy today........But no matter how I bang, I can never bang more than eBANG!!!

Realdeals:
With or without Sex and masturbation, the man's body always look for ways to eject semen. It is natural.

Them never hear of "wet dream" before.


When it happens to the OP, pls let him try and return the sperm back into his scrotum.

Very dumb mentality,,, person go just dey,, carry phone begin type rubbish

Why is masturbation the biggest sin?

Why is bad goverment not a bigger sin?

Why is not using a condom and bringing children into this world to come and suffer not a bigger sin?


Well said:

Roycemadeit:
The church finds it challenging to truly advocate for the people because, at its core, it is a construct shaped by governing authorities. It operates in a way that often aligns with the interests of those in power rather than the interests of the people it claims to serve. Through the framework of sin and morality, the church imposes limitations on the human experience, subtly guiding and restricting individuals' choices and behaviors. This influence is not just about spiritual guidance; it becomes a means of social control, shaping what people perceive as acceptable or forbidden, often diverting them from questioning broader systems of power. In doing so, the church may inadvertently serve as an instrument for maintaining established order rather than liberating the human spirit.

Ok