₦airaland Forum

dkidd:
Your matter strong o

1stDoggystyle:
She left with my child.

BabsYisa:
Time heals but the pains doesn't just go away...

"Women love opportunistically, men love idealistically." - Rational Male

"Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of." - Rational Male

"Our girlfriends, our wives, daughters and even our mothers are all incapable of this idealized love." - Rational Male

"I think what most men uniquely deceive themselves of is that they will ultimately be appreciated by women for their sacrifices. Learn this now, you won’t." - Rational Male

"Women fundamentally lack the capacity to fully realize, much less appreciate the sacrifices a man makes to facilitate her reality. Even the most enlightened, appreciative woman you know still operates in a feminine-centric reality." - Rational Male

"It is men who are the real romantics, not women, but it is the grand design of hypergamy that men believe it is women who are the romantic ones." - Rational Male

"All women exercise Hypergamy. It is a constant subroutine running in women’s background processes. It is part of women’s evolved mental firmware. However, few women ever optimize Hypergamy for themselves." - RM

"There is a separate standard of justice for women." - Rational Male

Bizmind95:
Nigerian girls don't love unconditionally like we men do...they are all fvcking OPPORTUNISTIC lovers...Know this and know peace!...if you must fvck as a man...then just find a girl in your league...fvck...pay and go your way...Never get emotionally attached to a Nigerian girl...that's akin to suicide!!! As for marriage...if you must marry as a man...then just find a small girl that is scared of you...someone you can easily control and wife her....But if the marriage no come work out for you...Then just quit and go your way for your sanity sake!...forget what people will say...you aren't the first and won't be the last divorcee!!!...and never breed like Rabbits...so you will be free of unnecessary commitments that bogs you down....besides, women sabi use kids tie a man down inside a useless troubled marriage...Finally, never marry for fake true love...that shit died way back in our parents' era!!!

1stDoggystyle:
Life is a mirror but that mirror is centered on perspectives. Men hardly want to talk about the wives that left.

She stayed when there was money to spend and "flashy to live". Then when I got out of job and was struggling, I kept coming home and saw her always thinking with her fist under her chin.

She'd start unnecessary fights and arguments: all those gimmicks. But I had so much worries that bothers me so I just take a long walk or sit outside.

One evening, I came back and saw my house empty. My set of chairs gone, my TV gone. Haa my generator too! Naa that one pain me pass cuz I have had it before I even met her.

One of my neighbours, called me to ask if we were moving out. I told him iam just getting home and surprised my house is empty.
Well, she left the camp gas and one student bed which I had bought since 2013.

My neighbour, an old man told me She and her mum and one young lady came to pack the things. While I was out trying to get things working, she was there packing my property to her newly rented home. She left with my child. I wonder what she and her mother's plans were.

These are parts we men don't get to talk about despite the pain and deep seated psychological rejection it brings. I reported her to my fam and they asked me not to call her. One day, she called me and I didn't want to pick but I felt like some magnetic wave pulled me to pick the call. It was my son that spoke "daddy hello, we don't have food and my school fees is not yet paid". I told him what his mother had done and all I have been doing. That day I sent some money to them.

Later on, one of my friends told me they saw where she lives. What do I want to go and do there?
Initially I was very angry that she left with my property and all that; I was hell bent on locating her but as time went on, I just kept laughing... Why do women do all these things?

Tallesty1:
Two things that happened recently in Bayelsa:

Man A wanted to relocate back to Nsukka, so he started selling his properties and belongings. Meanwhile, his wife was busy planning to “Japa” and he had no idea. Only his first son, who was her favorite, knew about her plans.

The woman took all the money and fled. People thought she was missing, and her family in Nsukka was already giving the man a hard time, say make he find their daughter for them. Months later, when the son she promised to bring over finally reached her by phone, she told him to “face his life” and stopped contacting him. The son then opened up to his dad about what had happened and later committed suicide.

Man B had a wife who was sleeping around like a rabbit. The mumu wouldn’t divorce her. Las las the wife hired people to kill him and kill him they did, they attacked him brutally. The news even made the papers. When the police called the wife to identify her husband she looked at what was left of him and casually said, “Yes, that’s him.” No tears, no emotion. The next thing she asked for was the key to his shop.

A policeman got angry and arrested her as suspect in the man's death, this triggered triggered an investigation. The deeper they went, the worse the story became. Soon, the Igbo chairman was invited by the police and told that some big people wanted the case dropped; and it was.

End of story for the man.

Women kill men all the time, but no one talks about it enough. Read Purple Hibiscus and see other ways they do it and go unpunished. Nigerians rarely bother with autopsies.

As a man, you’ve got to look out for yourself because no one else will. Don't wait until you're sick before you get a proper medical check-up. When they diagnose you with any illness or warn you of something likely to happen, ask the doctor what could have caused it, because some of these people will kill you slowly and then blame it on the life you led as a young man or the alcohol you drank.

We have a case at hand as I type this and he is alive today because someone suggested he stopped eating the wife's food.