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1stDoggystyle:
Life is a mirror but that mirror is centered on perspectives. Men hardly want to talk about the wives that left.

She stayed when there was money to spend and "flashy to live". Then when I got out of job and was struggling, I kept coming home and saw her always thinking with her fist under her chin.

She'd start unnecessary fights and arguments: all those gimmicks. But I had so much worries that bothers me so I just take a long walk or sit outside.

One evening, I came back and saw my house empty. My set of chairs gone, my TV gone. Haa my generator too! Naa that one pain me pass cuz I have had it before I even met her.

One of my neighbours, called me to ask if we were moving out. I told him iam just getting home and surprised my house is empty.
Well, she left the camp gas and one student bed which I had bought since 2013.

My neighbour, an old man told me She and her mum and one young lady came to pack the things. While I was out trying to get things working, she was there packing my property to her newly rented home. She left with my child. I wonder what she and her mother's plans were.

These are parts we men don't get to talk about despite the pain and deep seated psychological rejection it brings. I reported her to my fam and they asked me not to call her. One day, she called me and I didn't want to pick but I felt like some magnetic wave pulled me to pick the call. It was my son that spoke "daddy hello, we don't have food and my school fees is not yet paid". I told him what his mother had done and all I have been doing. That day I sent some money to them.

Later on, one of my friends told me they saw where she lives. What do I want to go and do there?
Initially I was very angry that she left with my property and all that; I was hell bent on locating her but as time went on, I just kept laughing... Why do women do all these things?

1stDoggystyle:
Life is a mirror but that mirror is centered on perspectives. Men hardly want to talk about the wives that left.

She stayed when there was money to spend and "flashy to live". Then when I got out of job and was struggling, I kept coming home and saw her always thinking with her fist under her chin.

She'd start unnecessary fights and arguments: all those gimmicks. But I had so much worries that bothers me so I just take a long walk or sit outside.

One evening, I came back and saw my house empty. My set of chairs gone, my TV gone. Haa my generator too! Naa that one pain me pass cuz I have had it before I even met her.

One of my neighbours, called me to ask if we were moving out. I told him iam just getting home and surprised my house is empty.
Well, she left the camp gas and one student bed which I had bought since 2013.

My neighbour, an old man told me She and her mum and one young lady came to pack the things. While I was out trying to get things working, she was there packing my property to her newly rented home. She left with my child. I wonder what she and her mother's plans were.

These are parts we men don't get to talk about despite the pain and deep seated psychological rejection it brings. I reported her to my fam and they asked me not to call her. One day, she called me and I didn't want to pick but I felt like some magnetic wave pulled me to pick the call. It was my son that spoke "daddy hello, we don't have food and my school fees is not yet paid". I told him what his mother had done and all I have been doing. That day I sent some money to them.

Later on, one of my friends told me they saw where she lives. What do I want to go and do there?
Initially I was very angry that she left with my property and all that; I was hell bent on locating her but as time went on, I just kept laughing... Why do women do all these things?

Thunderfayamods:
Some mother in-law are just terrible like mine. They will assist in causing damage to their daughter's marriage. I don't advise people to get married again it doesn't worth all the troubles.

lebete3000:
The earlier men realized women are cursed the better. It might seem a very strong word to use, but it's just what it is.
Nothing more.
If you like include my mama and my sisters, dem sef join too for the curse

Tallesty1:
Two things that happened recently in Bayelsa:

Man A wanted to relocate back to Nsukka, so he started selling his properties and belongings. Meanwhile, his wife was busy planning to “Japa” and he had no idea. Only his first son, who was her favorite, knew about her plans.

The woman took all the money and fled. People thought she was missing, and her family in Nsukka was already giving the man a hard time, say make he find their daughter for them. Months later, when the son she promised to bring over finally reached her by phone, she told him to “face his life” and stopped contacting him. The son then opened up to his dad about what had happened and later committed suicide.

Man B had a wife who was sleeping around like a rabbit. The mumu wouldn’t divorce her. Las las the wife hired people to kill him and kill him they did, they attacked him brutally. The news even made the papers. When the police called the wife to identify her husband she looked at what was left of him and casually said, “Yes, that’s him.” No tears, no emotion. The next thing she asked for was the key to his shop.

A policeman got angry and arrested her as suspect in the man's death, this triggered triggered an investigation. The deeper they went, the worse the story became. Soon, the Igbo chairman was invited by the police and told that some big people wanted the case dropped; and it was.

End of story for the man.

Women kill men all the time, but no one talks about it enough. Read Purple Hibiscus and see other ways they do it and go unpunished. Nigerians rarely bother with autopsies.

As a man, you’ve got to look out for yourself because no one else will. Don't wait until you're sick before you get a proper medical check-up. When they diagnose you with any illness or warn you of something likely to happen, ask the doctor what could have caused it, because some of these people will kill you slowly and then blame it on the life you led as a young man or the alcohol you drank.

We have a case at hand as I type this and he is alive today because someone suggested he stopped eating the wife's food.

Fiscus105:
Wen you guys are going for big yanch, round bobby, curve asses, supper classic babes, you won't remember to tell us, how you are enjoying marathon bedmatic affairs......but wen a street girl start showing you the streetness" in her, you would be rushing gragra to faceless forum to weep endlessly.

......that is if the entire story is not even figment of your own imagination!

nasbiafra:
i once heard of a lady in lagos,forgot her tribe,she was married to an igbo man,this lady always put grinded glass in this man food for some years and the man died with two much accumulated glass his body that slowly killed him,she had no child for the man but the family of the man did not agree to her when she was trying to claim the man properties that was when they started digging deep to the mans death and they find her guilty after so many investigation she confessed to the crime.


Story story ;Dstory

qtx:
No man can both scientifically and spiritually understand or explain that gender. Do you know why? When they were been created , man was commanded to sleep very deeply, which he did. So as men we just have to do our best to provide and also save for the reigning days. See, don’t let anyone decieve u to buy this and buy that when things are rosy. Save, save , save bc if it happens they will start seeing how bad, stingy, urgly etc u are and find a reason to dump you. Only men stay when things are bad, not them. I wish you a quick restoration.

SeriouslySense:

TheBillyonaire:
There should be a at least 10 years age gap between the age of a husband and a wife. If you do not own a house, you should not be married no matter how old you are.

Renting a house is not the original plan for married couples. Renting a home is for bachelors who are working hard to make a life.
No single lady is supposed to rent a house, she is supposed to live with parents/siblings until marriage.

The western ideologies and the focus on material success of women are causing problems globally. Women were designed to be nurturers, mothers and home keepers. Men were designed to be providers, adventurers and warriors.

In a world where the standards of nature are not understood or known, a human must learn the ways of nature.

You have no business living in a city, if you do not have meaningful employment that keeps you there, if you have a business that can work remotely, move to a village and buy internet access and enjoy nature with solar systems.

Enjoy the music of plants, birds and raise some animals and enjoy afternoon sleep, aka siesta.

Life is beautiful, yet people make it ugly.

Kamalex2:
Hahaha your own too small, mine was just left about an hour ago, but Alhamdulilah

Tallesty1:
Two things that happened recently in Bayelsa:

Man A wanted to relocate back to Nsukka, so he started selling his properties and belongings. Meanwhile, his wife was busy planning to “Japa” and he had no idea. Only his first son, who was her favorite, knew about her plans.

The woman took all the money and fled. People thought she was missing, and her family in Nsukka was already giving the man a hard time, say make he find their daughter for them. Months later, when the son she promised to bring over finally reached her by phone, she told him to “face his life” and stopped contacting him. The son then opened up to his dad about what had happened and later committed suicide.

Man B had a wife who was sleeping around like a rabbit. The mumu wouldn’t divorce her. Las las the wife hired people to kill him and kill him they did, they attacked him brutally. The news even made the papers. When the police called the wife to identify her husband she looked at what was left of him and casually said, “Yes, that’s him.” No tears, no emotion. The next thing she asked for was the key to his shop.

A policeman got angry and arrested her as suspect in the man's death, this triggered triggered an investigation. The deeper they went, the worse the story became. Soon, the Igbo chairman was invited by the police and told that some big people wanted the case dropped; and it was.

End of story for the man.

Women kill men all the time, but no one talks about it enough. Read Purple Hibiscus and see other ways they do it and go unpunished. Nigerians rarely bother with autopsies.

As a man, you’ve got to look out for yourself because no one else will. Don't wait until you're sick before you get a proper medical check-up. When they diagnose you with any illness or warn you of something likely to happen, ask the doctor what could have caused it, because some of these people will kill you slowly and then blame it on the life you led as a young man or the alcohol you drank.

We have a case at hand as I type this and he is alive today because someone suggested he stopped eating the wife's food.

BabsYisa:
As-salamu Alaykum, Mu’minina wal Mu’minat
Good morning, my daddies, mothers, brothers, and sisters in Islam.

Please I need your help.

I'm using this medium to appeal to everyone that comes across this post to consider me, please. I'm not going to lie so I can be pitied, so I'll just be completely honest.

I'm here to beg so I can get something to eat. Any good person should help me with anything he or she can; I'll appreciate any amount, please.

I'm begging everyone in the name of Almighty Allah. I've exhausted every option I have, and that's why I'm here now. I have not eaten anything since yesterday morning. This is due to the fact that I was evicted from where I was squatting. I have been running helter-skelter looking for where I can get a temporary place to stay.

Please, I am totally broke. I don't have any money; I will appreciate it if anyone can help me with any amount just for me to get something to eat today. Please don't let me die of this hunger! I swear to Almighty Allah, I've never done this before, and this is the last thing I want to do, but I have no other option now.

Please have mercy on me and help me.

My bank details are:

Bank: OPay
Account Number: 6104 835 216
Account Name: Sikiru Yisa


May Allah Subhanna Wataala continue to bless you and your family. May you never lack any good things in life. May Almighty Allah continue to protect you and your family. Ameen

If by Maghrib, I don't get help, I will sell my phone. But it will affect me a lot.

id4sho:
There are herbal mixtures. Trust me on this 💯

LordIsaac:
If only life were as distinct as black or white, your hypothesis would have held true. 70% of men who owned houses today acquired same after marriage!

nams77:
You mean to tell me say E get juju wey woman dey put for food wey dey kill slowly?
Abeg explain more

prophetfire:
You should thank God that she's gone so that when you pull yourself together you can enjoy your life well without a pretender who never appreciates you.
Rejoice that she's gone. Just be taking care of your child from where you are and when he's old enough, reconnect.

Tradepunter2:
Na there are some prescriptions drugs.... That will degenerate the liver and kidneys... Once those stop functioning health problems sets in.... I once handle a case... the this person came to us since police couldn't really do anything... because he knew my boss... We sent the blood samples to top hospital in South Africa.... Na so we set the woman up to catch her in the act.... Omoo I come dy wonder assume this family nu get money... Na so this story for just be another normal one...

nams77:
Lord have mercy! I dey woman every day by day now!

Fiscus105:
Abi oooo, I guess you will also advise people not to enter public transport again, because of rampart one chance robbery.

Tallesty1:
Two things that happened recently in Bayelsa:

Man A wanted to relocate back to Nsukka, so he started selling his properties and belongings. Meanwhile, his wife was busy planning to “Japa” and he had no idea. Only his first son, who was her favorite, knew about her plans.

The woman took all the money and fled. People thought she was missing, and her family in Nsukka was already giving the man a hard time, say make he find their daughter for them. Months later, when the son she promised to bring over finally reached her by phone, she told him to “face his life” and stopped contacting him. The son then opened up to his dad about what had happened and later committed suicide.

Man B had a wife who was sleeping around like a rabbit. The mumu wouldn’t divorce her. Las las the wife hired people to kill him and kill him they did, they attacked him brutally. The news even made the papers. When the police called the wife to identify her husband she looked at what was left of him and casually said, “Yes, that’s him.” No tears, no emotion. The next thing she asked for was the key to his shop.

A policeman got angry and arrested her as suspect in the man's death, this triggered triggered an investigation. The deeper they went, the worse the story became. Soon, the Igbo chairman was invited by the police and told that some big people wanted the case dropped; and it was.

End of story for the man.

Women kill men all the time, but no one talks about it enough. Read Purple Hibiscus and see other ways they do it and go unpunished. Nigerians rarely bother with autopsies.

As a man, you’ve got to look out for yourself because no one else will. Don't wait until you're sick before you get a proper medical check-up. When they diagnose you with any illness or warn you of something likely to happen, ask the doctor what could have caused it, because some of these people will kill you slowly and then blame it on the life you led as a young man or the alcohol you drank.

We have a case at hand as I type this and he is alive today because someone suggested he stopped eating the wife's food.

Tradepunter2:
Don't be afraid bro.... Just be principled on what you want... Meaning throw out what you don't want.... Before I married my wife I dated beautiful women but I noticed they all had narcissistic behaviors... Subtle manipulation and subtle victim hood mindset.... My saving grace is that I am trained professional in the security sector.... So I can recollect events as far back as 15 years.... That was a major plus cuz when these ladies start throwing tantrums you can connect it to events.... Or when they want to lie I knew.... My wife now of 10 years+ is very principled.. as if God drop am personally for me.... A woman that will say we will take care of our grandkids when I get worried of things sometimes... And do things when I don't expect it....Na angel be that... So bro dont give up hope.... All these conversations are just lesson notes...

If you nu fit tell your woman when you dating I don't have money so na garri I won chop... and she nu follow you chop the garri... Run

id4sho:
I lost my Father to his wife(step). You said deeper things that few men know. My eyes are open as fu<k

1stDoggystyle:
Life is a mirror but that mirror is centered on perspectives. Men hardly want to talk about the wives that left.

She stayed when there was money to spend and "flashy to live". Then when I got out of job and was struggling, I kept coming home and saw her always thinking with her fist under her chin.

She'd start unnecessary fights and arguments: all those gimmicks. But I had so much worries that bothers me so I just take a long walk or sit outside.

One evening, I came back and saw my house empty. My set of chairs gone, my TV gone. Haa my generator too! Naa that one pain me pass cuz I have had it before I even met her.

One of my neighbours, called me to ask if we were moving out. I told him iam just getting home and surprised my house is empty.
Well, she left the camp gas and one student bed which I had bought since 2013.

My neighbour, an old man told me She and her mum and one young lady came to pack the things. While I was out trying to get things working, she was there packing my property to her newly rented home. She left with my child. I wonder what she and her mother's plans were.

These are parts we men don't get to talk about despite the pain and deep seated psychological rejection it brings. I reported her to my fam and they asked me not to call her. One day, she called me and I didn't want to pick but I felt like some magnetic wave pulled me to pick the call. It was my son that spoke "daddy hello, we don't have food and my school fees is not yet paid". I told him what his mother had done and all I have been doing. That day I sent some money to them.

Later on, one of my friends told me they saw where she lives. What do I want to go and do there?
Initially I was very angry that she left with my property and all that; I was hell bent on locating her but as time went on, I just kept laughing... Why do women do all these things?