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Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 6:16am On Nov 15, 2024
Seunomobo:
Oloriburuku, and who told you that she's not making money for herself, them tell u say the job wey person get for this present economy dey enough to survive, not to talk of feeding 3 extra mouths..
Onyioshi onyiberibe, so u think say because you don rush to condemn my sis now, I go rush to go fight am say make she leave the man, werey , I tell you say she no fit leave the man, she no fit leave her helper, if you want die make you die quick now grin[right][/right] grin grin.
Oloshi
You can cuss me all you want but I know my words hit you bad. So a married man is your sister's helper and he doesn't fûck her abi? In essence he helps her with money and she gives him pûnani! Which is a refined form of prostitution. That you came out to say this shows that shamelessness runs in your family. Haba! See wetin a grown ass man is saying publicly about his family.

N.B I don't usually get annoyed on NL but this story of yours is an eyesore. What dafuq would make a man come online and denigrate his family like this?
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 6:18am On Nov 15, 2024
Seunomobo:
Everyone cannot appeal to you.
Live with that reality werey cheesy
Please...just go away. I'm so disappointed a man would rather break his elder sister's marriage only to sell her off to a married man ..for money. Yet you are also a man!!!

Eleyi ga o
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by spiceadole(f): 6:55am On Nov 15, 2024
With the way you men hate women,if a woman leaves you..you should be celebrating.

But no.
You get angry,sad..sulk...and quickly get another woman.

Funny
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by KashMa0961: 9:35am On Nov 15, 2024
Similar thing happened to my childhood friend in Epe two weeks ago, the wife Japa with her lover after selling all his properties, my guy died of depression after six months
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by Seunomobo: 10:05am On Nov 15, 2024
luminouz:
Please...just go away. I'm so disappointed a man would rather break his elder sister's marriage only to sell her off to a married man ..for money. Yet you are also a man!!!

Eleyi ga o
Break which marriage.
Okay let me ask you, what did you want her to stay put and do in the marriage..??
Don't be deceived, marriage is like our 9-5pm job, if the job no longer serves you, you quit and find another one, or you fit do ja ma JAMA to survive..
Don't forget , life is a transaction, but you're too emotional to see it in this light.
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by Seunomobo: 10:10am On Nov 15, 2024
luminouz:
You can cuss me all you want but I know my words hit you bad. So a married man is your sister's helper and he doesn't fûck her abi? In essence he helps her with money and she gives him pûnani! Which is a refined form of prostitution. That you came out to say this shows that shamelessness runs in your family. Haba! See wetin a grown ass man is saying publicly about his family.
N.B I don't usually get annoyed on NL but this story of yours is an eyesore. What dafuq would make a man come online and denigrate his family like this?
Your words hit me bad ke grin grin angry grin grin angry
Me wey no get shame na him words go hit bad grin grin grin grin..
You think I wasn't expecting these forms of reply when I declared all I did up there.
Ogbeni, I say again, my sister dey with her helper oooo, he helps with money for her and the children and she gives him pussy once in six months when they see...
If you want die now , make you die oooooo cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin cos she still dey with the man oooo.
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by Seunomobo: 10:15am On Nov 15, 2024
luminouz:
Now I see why your life is like that...you and your sister.

So it's ego for me to ask you not to sell off your sister for money? Ego to ask her to work for her money and stop depending on married men?

Ego to say the truth?

God will cure you of your mádness!!!
Haha hahahaha.
I say a big Amen to your prayer.... cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy.
As far as na God go cure me and not a dondi like you..
If all my support to my sister to have a better life through the man's care and kindness is what you call madness, may I be mad forever ...I talk am with my full chest cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy.
Now you fit go die oooo, cos my sister will continue to be the man's ashawo grin angry grin
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 10:34am On Nov 15, 2024
Seunomobo:
Haha hahahaha.
I say a big Amen to your prayer.... cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy.
As far as na God go cure me and not a dondi like you..
If all my support to my sister to have a better life through the man's care and kindness is what you call madness, may I be mad forever ...I talk am with my full chest cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy.
Now you fit go die oooo, cos my sister will continue to be the man's ashawo grin angry grin
Kai....shameless man
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 10:35am On Nov 15, 2024
Seunomobo:
Your words hit me bad ke grin grin angry grin grin angry
Me wey no get shame na him words go hit bad grin grin grin grin..
You think I wasn't expecting these forms of reply when I declared all I did up there.
Ogbeni, I say again, my sister dey with her helper oooo, he helps with money for her and the children and she gives him pussy once in six months when they see...
If you want die now , make you die oooooo cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin cos she still dey with the man oooo.
Nah nigga....you clearly had no shame. I hope you don't ever get broke because your own wife has a template to follow
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 10:37am On Nov 15, 2024
Seunomobo:
Break which marriage.
Okay let me ask you, what did you want her to stay put and do in the marriage..??
Don't be deceived, marriage is like our 9-5pm job, if the job no longer serves you, you quit and find another one, or you fit do ja ma JAMA to survive..
Don't forget , life is a transaction, but you're too emotional to see it in this light.
Sure ...yahoo yahoo and rituals are 9-5 jobs too I guess...

A man without morals or principles is nothing but a rabid animal..
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 10:41am On Nov 15, 2024
KashMa0961:
Similar thing happened to my childhood friend in Epe two weeks ago, the wife Japa with her lover after selling all his properties, my guy died of depression after six months
Your friend died two weeks ago?
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 10:42am On Nov 15, 2024
spiceadole:
With the way you men hate women,if a woman leaves you..you should be celebrating.

But no.
You get angry,sad..sulk...and quickly get another woman.

Funny
What's doing this chicken?

Spiceapunk
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by Seunomobo: 10:57am On Nov 15, 2024
luminouz:
Sure ...yahoo yahoo and rituals are 9-5 jobs too I guess...

A man without morals or principles is nothing but a rabid animal..
Yes,I'm a rabid animal grin grin grin
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by Seunomobo: 10:58am On Nov 15, 2024
luminouz:
Nah nigga....you clearly had no shame. I hope you don't ever get broke because your own wife has a template to follow
If I get broke make my wife leave me aseee..
You think life is ran on emotions or sentiments.
I say again, if I go broke ,make she leave me ...Asee
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by Seunomobo: 10:59am On Nov 15, 2024
luminouz:
Kai....shameless man
With my full chest cheesy cheesy cheesy

I say again, no be an he- goat like you go tell me how to advice my sister about her family...
Now common get out of here and go and die....
Dignity, pride and honour kill you dia..anofia cheesy
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 11:14am On Nov 15, 2024
Seunomobo:
With my full chest cheesy cheesy cheesy

I say again, no be an he- goat like you go tell me how to advice my sister about her family...
Now common get out of here and go and die....
Dignity, pride and honour kill you dia..anofia cheesy
Lol...you can laugh all you want...

We shall soon see who laughs at the end
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 11:15am On Nov 15, 2024
Seunomobo:
Yes,I'm a rabid animal grin grin grin
I love that about you...

Now carry your rabies far from me.
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 11:15am On Nov 15, 2024
Seunomobo:
If I get broke make my wife leave me aseee..
You think life is ran on emotions or sentiments.
I say again, if I go broke ,make she leave me ...Asee
Lol... Nigga is adding emojis to disguise his pain
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by Seunomobo: 11:18am On Nov 15, 2024
luminouz:
Lol... Nigga is adding emojis to disguise his pain
Werey ..I'm not pained
Laughing this way is my lifestyle.. grin cheesy cheesy cheesy
Because I don't do what the society dictates...
This to me is true freedom cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy.
I'm shameless I say again cheesy
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by Seunomobo: 11:19am On Nov 15, 2024
luminouz:
I love that about you...

Now carry your rabies far from me.
I don use the rabies body hit you just now. hahahah wink
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by Seunomobo: 11:23am On Nov 15, 2024
luminouz:
Lol...you can laugh all you want...

We shall soon see who laughs at the end
The end of man is death ..
There's no such thing as laugh at the end my dear grin
As my sister dey laugh now, she fit cry later and then laugh again ooo, that one sef dey.
As you dey like this, oya lie say u never cry before...

All man will cry , laugh and die...
So Mr pride, honour and dignity, gtf out of here, cos you'll face everything I've typed up there....didinrin , ode
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 11:43am On Nov 15, 2024
Seunomobo:
The end of man is death ..
There's no such thing as laugh at the end my dear grin
As my sister dey laugh now, she fit cry later and then laugh again ooo, that one sef dey.
As you dey like this, oya lie say u never cry before...

All man will cry , laugh and die...
So Mr pride, honour and dignity, gtf out of here, cos you'll face everything I've typed up there....didinrin , ode
K
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 11:43am On Nov 15, 2024
Seunomobo:
Werey ..I'm not pained
Laughing this way is my lifestyle.. grin cheesy cheesy cheesy
Because I don't do what the society dictates...
This to me is true freedom cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy.
I'm shameless I say again cheesy
K
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by EmperorCaesar(m): 4:29pm On Nov 15, 2024
Seunomobo:
Oloriburuku, and who told you that she's not making money for herself, them tell u say the job wey person get for this present economy dey enough to survive, not to talk of feeding 3 extra mouths..
Onyioshi onyiberibe, so u think say because you don rush to condemn my sis now, I go rush to go fight am say make she leave the man, werey , I tell you say she no fit leave the man, she no fit leave her helper, if you want die make you die quick now grin[right][/right] grin grin.
Oloshi
You cant be a guy

You're obviously a woman

Cause a man that thinks this low would have been castrated at age 5 and forced to grow up living a...

I'm cool with your stance, Aunty
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by emmaodet: 6:37pm On Nov 15, 2024
galadima77:
When you hear reality is stranger than fiction, you go dey wonder how ba?
Pray life doesn't happen to you, or better still, develop the capacity to absorb and move on....else you'd realize movies barely scratch surfaces of reality as Life is deeper than our imagination can handle.
Hmmmmmm
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by emmaodet: 6:41pm On Nov 15, 2024
luminouz:
Your sister is a side chick to a married woman and you are happy?

Werey ni e sha

Did they curse your sister not to be productive or is she dead, blind or dumb not to stand alone and make money for herself?

You are not a man..you are shameless...
grin grin cheesy
I wanted to reply the guy but just got tired and decided to let it go.
Have seen his mindset and it's not worth the back and forth.
My prayer is that may God let us avoid people and family like his.... Amen
I
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by luminouz(m): 6:55pm On Nov 15, 2024
emmaodet:
grin grin cheesy
I wanted to reply the guy but just got tired and decided to let it go.
Have seen his mindset and it's not worth the back and forth.
My prayer is that may God let us avoid people and family like his.... Amen
I
I was so surprised myself

And as a man, I expected him to know better.
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by Seunomobo: 9:44pm On Nov 15, 2024
EmperorCaesar:
You cant be a guy

You're obviously a woman

Cause a man that thinks this low would have been castrated at age 5 and forced to grow up living a...

I'm cool with your stance, Aunty
Yeah, just be cool with my stance , that's all I want.
cheesy cheesy.. Taiiiink Youu
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by CodeTemplarr:
Tallesty1:
Two things that happened recently in Bayelsa:

Man A wanted to relocate back to Nsukka, so he started selling his properties and belongings. Meanwhile, his wife was busy planning to “Japa” and he had no idea. Only his first son, who was her favorite, knew about her plans.

The woman took all the money and fled. People thought she was missing, and her family in Nsukka was already giving the man a hard time, say make he find their daughter for them. Months later, when the son she promised to bring over finally reached her by phone, she told him to “face his life” and stopped contacting him. The son then opened up to his dad about what had happened and later committed suicide.

Man B had a wife who was sleeping around like a rabbit. The mumu wouldn’t divorce her. Las las the wife hired people to kill him and kill him they did, they attacked him brutally. The news even made the papers. When the police called the wife to identify her husband she looked at what was left of him and casually said, “Yes, that’s him.” No tears, no emotion. The next thing she asked for was the key to his shop.

A policeman got angry and arrested her as suspect in the man's death, this triggered triggered an investigation. The deeper they went, the worse the story became. Soon, the Igbo chairman was invited by the police and told that some big people wanted the case dropped; and it was.

End of story for the man.

Women kill men all the time, but no one talks about it enough. Read Purple Hibiscus and see other ways they do it and go unpunished. Nigerians rarely bother with autopsies.

As a man, you’ve got to look out for yourself because no one else will. Don't wait until you're sick before you get a proper medical check-up. When they diagnose you with any illness or warn you of something likely to happen, ask the doctor what could have caused it, because some of these people will kill you slowly and then blame it on the life you led as a young man or the alcohol you drank.

We have a case at hand as I type this and he is alive today because someone suggested he stopped eating the wife's food.
As i m typing this, within the last 24hr, "na different people dey teleport dey come hail me".

All based on this woman matter.
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by CodeTemplarr: 6:29am On Nov 16, 2024
nams77:
You mean to tell me say E get juju wey woman dey put for food wey dey kill slowly?
Abeg explain more
There is a show on DSTV RealityTV channel those days. Ot is about forensic crime investigations. Go and watch it to have better understanding why they do it slowly. It is a global phenomenon.
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by Myer(m): 6:39am On Nov 16, 2024
1stDoggystyle:
Life is a mirror but that mirror is centered on perspectives. Men hardly want to talk about the wives that left.

She stayed when there was money to spend and "flashy to live". Then when I got out of job and was struggling, I kept coming home and saw her always thinking with her fist under her chin.

She'd start unnecessary fights and arguments: all those gimmicks. But I had so much worries that bothers me so I just take a long walk or sit outside.

One evening, I came back and saw my house empty. My set of chairs gone, my TV gone. Haa my generator too! Naa that one pain me pass cuz I have had it before I even met her.

One of my neighbours, called me to ask if we were moving out. I told him iam just getting home and surprised my house is empty.
Well, she left the camp gas and one student bed which I had bought since 2013.

My neighbour, an old man told me She and her mum and one young lady came to pack the things. While I was out trying to get things working, she was there packing my property to her newly rented home. She left with my child. I wonder what she and her mother's plans were.

These are parts we men don't get to talk about despite the pain and deep seated psychological rejection it brings. I reported her to my fam and they asked me not to call her. One day, she called me and I didn't want to pick but I felt like some magnetic wave pulled me to pick the call. It was my son that spoke "daddy hello, we don't have food and my school fees is not yet paid". I told him what his mother had done and all I have been doing. That day I sent some money to them.

Later on, one of my friends told me they saw where she lives. What do I want to go and do there?
Initially I was very angry that she left with my property and all that; I was hell bent on locating her but as time went on, I just kept laughing... Why do women do all these things?
Life without Christ is crises upon crises.
Until man buries his ego and seeks help from God, he can't face the enemy of mankind, Satan alone.
Repent and put God first, he will work things out in your life and every thing will begin to add up. Matthew 6:33
Re: The Part Men Don't Talk About by virginboy1(m): 10:29am On Nov 27, 2024
Bizmind95:
Nigerian girls don't love unconditionally like we men do...they are all fvcking OPPORTUNISTIC lovers...Know this and know peace!...if you must fvck as a man...then just find a girl in your league...fvck...pay and go your way...Never get emotionally attached to a Nigerian girl...that shit is akin to suicide!!! As for marriage...if you must marry as a man...then just find one small girl that is scared of you...someone you can easily control and wife her(that's why our wise ancestors married girls as young as 16 for controlling and respecting sake)....But if the marriage no come work out for you...Then just quit and go your way for your sanity sake!...forget what people will say...you aren't the first and won't be the last divorcee on Earth!!!...And never breed like Rabbits...so you will be free of unnecessary commitments that bogs you down when it's time to quit....cus women sabi use plenty kids tie a man down inside a useless troubled marriage...Finally, never marry for fake true love...that shit died way back in our parents' era!!!
Words of wisdom
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