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Sonnobax15:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders......Hope y'all are having a nice day + flexing on the harmattan season that's already gotten it's aroma allover the place?

So, recently,I was added to my primary school WhatsApp group......It's been over 20 years since we left primary school and it was indeed a good time to have a flashback of the memories of how and who we used to be back then as kids,under the same roof of the same classroom as classmates....

The reason for the reunion came about as a result of the fact that one of our classmates was about getting married....It was indeed a fun-filled moment as we were already vibing and reminiscing on our past

Suddenly,I began to notice how some guys were showcasing and boasting about how they have made it in life.....Some were even posting pictures of their expensive cars and beautiful houses....I was really happy for them,at least for seeing those whom I grew up with making it to the top...It actually gave me joy as I hoped to make it like them someday too


But then again,what really killed my joy was when one of them started to call out the names of those who used to take from the first to third positions in class ...The annoying part was that he sent it via voice note and was like mocking us about not being successful yet like those of them who were considered as the dullards back then in school.....I felt really pissed off😡. The fun was brutally murdered instantly and I began to notice how many people started to exit the group one after the other 😔. I wasn't left out cuz I also made sure I dusted my shoes and left too before they would post the pictures of me riding my keke ...what was supposed to bring us together only ended up disintegrating us further and made us felt like we were losers . As a matter of fact, I've vowed never to be a member of any WhatsApp group from henceforth . Cuz it seems these guys are only out to add more pains to people's depression

Have anyone experienced this kind of scenario before?

Sonnobax15:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders......Hope y'all are having a nice day + flexing on the harmattan season that's already gotten it's aroma allover the place?

So, recently,I was added to my primary school WhatsApp group......It's been over 20 years since we left primary school and it was indeed a good time to have a flashback of the memories of how and who we used to be back then as kids,under the same roof of the same classroom as classmates....

The reason for the reunion came about as a result of the fact that one of our classmates was about getting married....It was indeed a fun-filled moment as we were already vibing and reminiscing on our past

Suddenly,I began to notice how some guys were showcasing and boasting about how they have made it in life.....Some were even posting pictures of their expensive cars and beautiful houses....I was really happy for them,at least for seeing those whom I grew up with making it to the top...It actually gave me joy as I hoped to make it like them someday too


But then again,what really killed my joy was when one of them started to call out the names of those who used to take from the first to third positions in class ...The annoying part was that he sent it via voice note and was like mocking us about not being successful yet like those of them who were considered as the dullards back then in school.....I felt really pissed off😡. The fun was brutally murdered instantly and I began to notice how many people started to exit the group one after the other 😔. I wasn't left out cuz I also made sure I dusted my shoes and left too before they would post the pictures of me riding my keke ...what was supposed to bring us together only ended up disintegrating us further and made us felt like we were losers . As a matter of fact, I've vowed never to be a member of any WhatsApp group from henceforth . Cuz it seems these guys are only out to add more pains to people's depression

Have anyone experienced this kind of scenario before?

mekleelex200:
My guy, some groups are not meant to bring anyone together ooo, to avoid your mental health remove yourself from that group.

Some people have inferiority complex lack of money or having money will not wash it away.
But, guy you have to build yourself to the stage nothing in life can move you.

Build yourself to that stage, but it comes with experience. There is nothing I will see in this life that will move me. I have seen many things but the good, the bad and the ugly. We only live once, why will another person's lifestyle erode on who you are . Is not easy but man up, even if na 1kobo you have enjoy it like you have millions it will emit positive vibes in you that even people with millions will envy you.

Sonnobax15:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders......Hope y'all are having a nice day + flexing on the harmattan season that's already gotten it's aroma allover the place?

So, recently,I was added to my primary school WhatsApp group......It's been over 20 years since we left primary school and it was indeed a good time to have a flashback of the memories of how and who we used to be back then as kids,under the same roof of the same classroom as classmates....

The reason for the reunion came about as a result of the fact that one of our classmates was about getting married....It was indeed a fun-filled moment as we were already vibing and reminiscing on our past

Suddenly,I began to notice how some guys were showcasing and boasting about how they have made it in life.....Some were even posting pictures of their expensive cars and beautiful houses....I was really happy for them,at least for seeing those whom I grew up with making it to the top...It actually gave me joy as I hoped to make it like them someday too


But then again,what really killed my joy was when one of them started to call out the names of those who used to take from the first to third positions in class ...The annoying part was that he sent it via voice note and was like mocking us about not being successful yet like those of them who were considered as the dullards back then in school.....I felt really pissed off😡. The fun was brutally murdered instantly and I began to notice how many people started to exit the group one after the other 😔. I wasn't left out cuz I also made sure I dusted my shoes and left too before they would post the pictures of me riding my keke ...what was supposed to bring us together only ended up disintegrating us further and made us felt like we were losers . As a matter of fact, I've vowed never to be a member of any WhatsApp group from henceforth . Cuz it seems these guys are only out to add more pains to people's depression

Have anyone experienced this kind of scenario before?

kuntash:
its Not about whatsapp but the way individuals process information. There are lots of positivity that can be derived from the use of whatsapp or other online resource as that.
People can be who they are. Rules should be set and actions taken to deter future occurrence whats not been agreed upon making such rules.

Adexvivacity:
Ur action is that of a coward, including those that left. Will you leave the world cos many crazy people roam there? In any gathering, you dont let the madness of one person decide for you. Just like someone telling me that he stopped coming to nairaland cos people are tribalistic here....U aint ready.

Ten06:
Your opinion is myopic. Don’t you know that issue like this can cause depression for those who has not made it? Everyone is not supposed to make it in life at the same time. That is why those who has made it shouldn’t make fun of those who are still struggling

Mrwhite09:
who send u enter that kind of group? anyway u learn your lesson

WantsandMore:
don’t be pissed off my nikkah considering time and Chance happens to us all.

“The race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, nor bread to the wise, nor riches to the intelligent, nor favor to those with knowledge, but time and chance happen to them all” Ecclesiastes 9:11

Sonnobax15:
. I'm out of it and I'm out for good,at least for the sake of my sanity . I can't be managing my life small small with my keke and somebody from nowhere will now come and be making me feel less of a human

Adexvivacity:
Ur action is that of a coward, including those that left. Will you leave the world cos many crazy people roam there? In any gathering, you dont let the madness of one person decide for you. Just like someone telling me that he stopped coming to nairaland cos people are tribalistic here....U aint ready.

Sonnobax15:
. Bro,feel free to call me a coward anytime you like ,I don't care......

But you see me, I'm the kind of person whose emotions can easily be altered by what people say.....That's one main reason why I don't like being in a gathering where hate and insults are being shared..

WantsandMore:
exactly. Focus on your grind. They have got what they could afford at the moment, so what? Keep grinding, learn new high income skills and break out of poverty. That should be your goal for life.

frank317:
the primary school is the first place where people unknowingly get their self esteem bruised, the thing about is that most do not know that they have been bruised, the childish personality allows us to easily push it into our subconsious and move on as we grow.

Forming the primary school class group only formed a reminder for many especially those were affected by certain events in primary school, hence the ego and show off.

while this is childish and immature, it is a flaw in human DNA.

truth is best friends are not formed it primary school, it is hardly when self awareness has been build.

Secondary school groups are much better and friendships are usually the best at this period hence the groups are usually easily managed (they will still be some immaturity though.)

dont even try university cause that also hardly works.

The fact is that it was better u leave, u were not going to gain anything from it. while some will boast, remember some are dead, some are crippled and some maybe in prison... trust me, if u see ur primary school classmate, u will hardly call them even after u collect their numbers... thats just the way the cookie crumbles

Sonnobax15:
. Bro,feel free to call me a coward anytime you like ,I don't care......

But you see me, I'm the kind of person whose emotions can easily be altered by what people say.....That's one main reason why I don't like being in a gathering where hate and insults are being shared..

CJStarz:
U needn't explain to this guy.
Ur mental health is of utmost priority

Adexvivacity:
Ur action is that of a coward, including those that left. Will you leave the world cos many crazy people roam there? In any gathering, you dont let the madness of one person decide for you. Just like someone telling me that he stopped coming to nairaland cos people are tribalistic here....U aint ready.

Sonnobax15:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders......Hope y'all are having a nice day + flexing on the harmattan season that's already gotten it's aroma allover the place?

So, recently,I was added to my primary school WhatsApp group......It's been over 20 years since we left primary school and it was indeed a good time to have a flashback of the memories of how and who we used to be back then as kids,

Have anyone experienced this kind of scenario before?

Sonnobax15:
. Bro,feel free to call me a coward anytime you like ,I don't care......

But you see me, I'm the kind of person whose emotions can easily be altered by what people say.....That's one main reason why I don't like being in a gathering where hate and insults are being shared..

Sonnobax15:
. Bro,feel free to call me a coward anytime you like ,I don't care......

But you see me, I'm the kind of person whose emotions can easily be altered by what people say.....That's one main reason why I don't like being in a gathering where hate and insults are being shared..