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Omodua:
You do not know the taboos guiding our traditional marriage.

Once kola is broken and taken to the gods of the Land,it certifies the marriage. The woman, under whatever circumstances, can't go outside to cheat. The consequences is very,very severe and deadly. The woman could lose her life if she does it. In most cases, through abnormal sicknesses or gradual death.

The woman could be insulated from such cultural taboos if she calls off the marriage. In this case, various rituals are done and the bride prize returned. Then, she's are free to have sex with whoever pleases her. But not under matrimonial oath.

This marriage system is Very effective and checks infidelity among the women. A man could travel and leave the wife for over a year without slightest worry that the wife will cheat on him.

Hmm. This is new 🤔

Rooneyx:
Nothing like that. Na mutual respect sha cos she sef go check mine. No shaking. To check your babe phone on a regular no bad bro. Na to dey on guard. Normally no be bad thing. If e go still chest at least y see am first than to dey overthink like OP. Greeting bro

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Crestaria:
Hmm. This is new 🤔

well, you could say it's new. But it's not new.

I know persons who got married through this cultural and traditional systems over 40yrs ago and the marriage still kicking fine.

Problem of crashed marriages is as a result of infidelity from the woman because it's not properly consummated and has no grassroot orientation.

Omodua:
well, you could say it's new. But it's not new.

I know persons who got married through this cultural and traditional systems over 40yrs ago and the marriage still kicking fine.

Problem of crashed marriages is as a result of infidelity from the woman because it's not properly consummated and has no grassroot orientation.

I see!! Okay na. Any male/female who is married and still sleep around should take whatever comes out of it. That's what they signed up for.

Crestaria:
I see!! Okay na. Any male/female who is married and still sleep around should take whatever comes out of it. That's what they signed up for.

No! It's only applicable to the women. Not Men.

By nature, Men are polygamous. They could marry multi wives if they have the capacity. Not so to women because this part of the world don't practice polyandry.

Omodua:
No! It's only applicable to the women. Not Men.

By nature, Men are polygamous. They could marry multi wives if they have the capacity. Not so to women because this part of the world don't practice polyandry.

Okay

For those wey no get this taboo, and for others wey still dey doubt the tradition, wetin OP dey fear na im don claim another man life.

See the front page post:
https://www.nairaland.com/8270544/man-caught-widow-2-days

Take it or leave it, women always cheat...

No need to ask any questions because even under your nose they will still cheat

Latakia:
is that why you and your father doesn't trust your wife and mother just because she kept her body counts and refused to answer your una whether she sleep around or not

Is that why your olosho mama still transferred has miserable wayward life character to you?