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immortalcrown:
Hmmm!

How old is the marriage?

Stricker321:
Over 10 years

immortalcrown:
For how long have you suffered the starvation?

brain54:
Reason I always talk about sexual compatibility in relationships...

God forbid marrying a person that will frustrate someone sexually.

It seems so demeaning to feel unwanted by your partner that you have to beg always.

Some people won't understand what the op is going through... They will conclude "after all it's just sex."

But it's more than that!

VeryWickedBro:
Wetin 17 year old boys don tire to dey collect from tight bannies na wetin full grown man dey beg serial abortionist for


Only a foolish simp gets married
Take it or you leave it

Stricker321:
How do married men cope with this situation? My wife wants sex like max of once a week. If she can even reduce it to twice a month she will do it. Even the once a week is usually a struggle. At night, she will say she is tired, in the morning, she will say I am disturbing her sleep.

This has caused quarrels, we have discussed, but before the blink of an eye, she has returned to her old way. I am determined not to sleep with another woman, but the struggle has been terrible.

I am just wondering why it has to be this tough and stressful to have access to my wife?

Stricker321:
How do married men cope with this situation? My wife wants sex like max of once a week. If she can even reduce it to twice a month she will do it. Even the once a week is usually a struggle. At night, she will say she is tired, in the morning, she will say I am disturbing her sleep.
This has caused quarrels, we have discussed, but before the blink of an eye, she has returned to her old way. I am determined not to sleep with another woman, but the struggle has been terrible. I am just wondering why it has to be this tough and stressful to have access to my wife?

Greystone:
Lol.
I don't even fuss about it.

Stricker321:
How do married men cope with this situation? My wife wants sex like max of once a week. If she can even reduce it to twice a month she will do it. Even the once a week is usually a struggle. At night, she will say she is tired, in the morning, she will say I am disturbing her sleep.

This has caused quarrels, we have discussed, but before the blink of an eye, she has returned to her old way. I am determined not to sleep with another woman, but the struggle has been terrible.

I am just wondering why it has to be this tough and stressful to have access to my wife?

Kobojunkie:
Are you here to have us advise you to rape your wife or something? I really don't understand the meaning or reason behind this thread.

Even monkeys have learned that sexual energy is just energy and can be spent on more productive endeavors than sex and reproduction. 🤨

Kingsasian:
We are in the same shoes bro. I don't even know who to tell

Stricker321:
This thing is not funny at all. I don't even know what to do again. I am tired.

Stricker321:
🥲 What is your point? So I should just accept the situation as it is?

Kingsasian:
We are in the same shoes bro. I don't even know who to tell

Stricker321:
How do married men cope with this situation? My wife wants sex like max of once a week. If she can even reduce it to twice a month she will do it. Even the once a week is usually a struggle. At night, she will say she is tired, in the morning, she will say I am disturbing her sleep.

This has caused quarrels, we have discussed, but before the blink of an eye, she has returned to her old way. I am determined not to sleep with another woman, but the struggle has been terrible.

I am just wondering why it has to be this tough and stressful to have access to my wife?

Kobojunkie:
You shouldn't tell anyone because if at this age you still don't know that sexual energy can be expended in other non-sexual ways, then the problem is most likely born of your general immaturity.

brain54:
I have always known you have a problem... What it is in particular is what I don't know. You are psychological weirdo!

Kobojunkie:
Again, You shouldn't tell anyone because if at this age you still don't know that sexual energy can be expended in other non-sexual ways, then the problem is most likely born of your general immaturity.

brain54:
Weido you are over simplifying a normal...
Human biological process. You are also trying to guilt shame people for expressing that normal human biological behavior.
Sexual energy is a normal behavior and suppressing or diverting it can have underlying consequences like unresolved tension and even psychological and emotional issues... (I suspect that is partly the problems you suffer from. The solution to your Weido tendencies and outbursts might just be good sex) Redirecting sexual energy to other things as you suggest may not be effective or sustainable for everyone. People differ in temperament, personality and coping mechanisms play a big role.
Expression of consentual sexual emotions is vital for well-being. And chanelling sexual energy to other things doesn't solve the root cause of the problem. You always come up with weird perspectives kobo... Get some sex. Don't let your pinchiloty get wrinkled and covered in cobwebs.It's good for your psychological, mental and emotional well-being!

Stricker321:
How do married men cope with this situation? My wife wants sex like max of once a week. If she can even reduce it to twice a month she will do it. Even the once a week is usually a struggle. At night, she will say she is tired, in the morning, she will say I am disturbing her sleep.

This has caused quarrels, we have discussed, but before the blink of an eye, she has returned to her old way. I am determined not to sleep with another woman, but the struggle has been terrible.

I am just wondering why it has to be this tough and stressful to have access to my wife?

Kobojunkie:
Again, You shouldn't tell anyone because if at this age you still don't know that sexual energy can be expended in other non-sexual ways, then the problem is most likely born of your general immaturity. 🤨

brain54:
Why repeating yourself...? Get some sex weirdo!

Kobojunkie:
Again, You shouldn't tell anyone because if at this age you still don't know that sexual energy can be expended in other non-sexual ways, then the problem is most likely born of your general immaturity. 🤨

Stricker321:
So how do you cope?