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That why I like the alfas. If any wife messed up.
Another wife is readily available.

GreatAchiever1:
And that's because they have feminized the church. They don't call out women sins.

I am convinced this thing is a mental illness at this point. And you guys are not just preaching for the sake of 'correcting' anything in women, if at all you wanted to and women were 'crooked'.

You guys love the sound of your own voices so much. Just like the woke people you point fingers at, you're just as guilty of a performance of morality. You nitpick on women's perceived or real flaws to feel better about yours. You don't actually care to be a good person or a better friend or lover, just spew a bunch on words online, condemn others, and you go about your day, feeling like a good person, and making no actual measured change, after having projected your own shortcomings to an 'object' apart of you.

THIS is literally a thread of a man calling out women's 'bad behaviour' but it actually is not enough for you. You're still saying that no one points out women's sins.

Nine out of ten times when this man trends, it is because he has said something derogatory about women.

Off the top of my head, these are times preachers (men) have gone viral online in the past weeks for preaching to women:

- Iren compared women to cellotapes

- One told women to confess righteousness, abi it is faithfulness out of their cheating husbands

- One told women to stop addressing their husbands as "baby." Because appaz, a pet name undermines his position as a head.

- Another was of a woman basically policing what women wear.

Kingsley Okonkwo and his wife are there too, with their feminism-tackling posts.


Is it today that these things started? From Eve to Jezebel to Vashti to witch trials, there has never been a time when you people haven't hammered on women being inherently bad.


Mind you, your kind of women have equally existed, if not more than the "bad women", but it'll never be enough. Until all women are robots only catering to a single purpose as you wish. But I know even a world of perfectly conditioned and programmed women will not still make y'all content. No, given your proclivity to "forcing" sexual expression out of women and affirming your virility as a man, you'd much rather there remain a sub group of unpartnered women to cater to your sexual whims.

And it's also funny when y'all see changed women.

There is no time a woman who was living a 'fast' or depraved life changes, and turns her lifestyle and beliefs around that you people will not be seething and throwing tantrums. For the way you rail against women living recklessly, one would think you'd glad about women who quit doing so, just exactly as you wanted, but no. You'll call her a hypocrite. Say a leopard doesn't change its spots. Says she'll forever be what she once was. One wonders what the point of your pontification is then if you still despise women who've turned new leaves.

There is no room for redemption in your worldview. Women are inherently bad and they must ultimately suffer, eternally for it. Even Jesus nor do pass una. He preached righteousness and salvation in equal dose, but you people will be parading yourselves as conservative followers of His, while solely focusing on a message that crucifies and kills the spirit.

You just want to take and take and punish and continue to have women suffering for never being moral enough. You'll actually extend more grace to a "repented rapist" than to a woman who used to be in the porn industry.


Shame on all of you.

Magnoliaa:
Every other day this man is always coming out to drag women. Using his position of authority to be peddling misogynistic narratives.

Does he not rest?!


Women this, women that, women here, women there.


Is he not enjoying his own marriage? Abi kini gan? He should stop with all the projection if it's about his own marriage o. Haba.

My dearrrrrrrrrr.

I'm even tired of his BS. Stopped watching his movies when I attained adulthood too.

He should shut da feck up.

dominique:
You shut up. So women wake up and start frustrating their husbands? Go through the romance section and see the amount of bile and toxicity your fellow men spew over there and women are the problem? How many women open threads lamenting about men the way you shameless men do? If you look within yourselves and see you have no fault or blame in anything, then YOU are the problem!

Bitch, men opening threads to lament about the evils you're doing is a testament to your horrible nature. There's nothing wrong with lamentations in the face of persistent evil. God himself would have been lamenting too if he ever had a wife, and that's probably the reason he didn't create one for himself.

If you don't know how wicked, arrogant, oppressive, aggressive, cantankerous and hateful your gender is, look at how they treat the housemaids, servants, gatemen, etc, under them, including their own children, sometimes!
They extend these same attitudes to their husbands once they get the slightest opportunity to do so.
If not for the sake of bearing children, i don't think any normal man would entangle himself or have anything to do with people of your gender.

You creatures are horrible, devil's incarnates.

Magnoliaa:
I am convinced this thing is a mental illness at this point. And you guys are not just preaching for the sake of 'correcting' anything in women, if at all you wanted to and women were 'crooked'.

You guys love the sound of your own voices so much. Just like the woke people you point fingers at, you're just as guilty of a performance of morality. You nitpick on women's perceived or real flaws to feel better about yours. You don't actually care to be a good person or a better friend or lover, just spew a bunch on words online, condemn others, and you go about your day, feeling like a good person, and making no actual measured change, after having projected your own shortcomings to an 'object' apart of you.

THIS is literally a thread of a man calling out women's 'bad behaviour' but it actually is not enough for you. You're still saying that no one points out women's sins.

Nine out of ten times when this man trends, it is because he has said something derogatory about women.

Off the top of my head, these are times preachers (men) have gone viral online in the past weeks for preaching to women:

- Iren compared women to cellotapes

- One told women to confess righteousness, abi it is faithfulness out of their cheating husbands

- One told women to stop addressing their husbands as "baby." Because appaz, a pet name undermines his position as a head.

- Another was of a woman basically policing what women wear.

Kingsley Okonkwo and his wife are there too, with their feminism-tackling posts.


Is it today that these things started? From Eve to Jezebel to Vashti to witch trials, there has never been a time when you people haven't hammered on women being inherently bad.


Mind you, your kind of women have equally existed, if not more than the "bad women", but it'll never be enough. Until all women are robots only catering to a single purpose as you wish. But I know even a world of perfectly conditioned and programmed women will not still make y'all content. No, given your proclivity to "forcing" sexual expression out of women and affirming your virility as a man, you'd much rather there remain a sub group of unpartnered women to cater to your sexual whims.

And it's also funny when y'all see changed women.

There is no time a woman who was living a 'fast' or depraved life changes, and turns her lifestyle and beliefs around that you people will not be seething and throwing tantrums. For the way you rail against women living recklessly, one would think you'd glad about women who quit doing so, just exactly as you wanted, but no. You'll call her a hypocrite. Say a leopard doesn't change its spots. Says she'll forever be what she once was. One wonders what the point of your pontification is then if you still despise women who've turned new leaves.

There is no room for redemption in your worldview. Women are inherently bad and they must ultimately suffer, eternally for it. Even Jesus nor do pass una. He preached righteousness and salvation in equal dose, but you people will be parading yourselves as conservative followers of His, while solely focusing on a message that crucifies and kills the spirit.

You just want to take and take and punish and continue to have women suffering for never being moral enough. You'll actually extend more grace to a "repented rapist" than a woman who used to be in the porn industry.


Shame on all of you.

When men don't have a woman, they post the post atrocious things about them. They don't grow up beyond nursery school in their brains when it comes to anything female.

Once they get one, it's like their brains reset. That's what happened to the noisiest misogynists—they got married or finally realized their sermons won't get them one. They try to shame and bully women into settling for them with these posts of theirs.

Free2Fly:
Bitch, men opening threads to lament about the evils you're doing is a testament to your horrible nature. There's nothing wrong with lamentations in the face of persistent evil. God himself would have been lamenting too if he ever had a wife, and that's probably the reason he didn't create one for himself.

If you don't know how wicked, arrogant, oppressive, condescending, aggressive, cantankerous and hateful your gender is, look at how they treat the housemaids, servants, gatemen, etc, under them, including their own children, sometimes!
They extend these same attitudes to their husbands once they get the slightest opportunity to do so.
If not for the sake of bearing children, i don't think any normal man would entangle himself or have anything to do with people of your gender.

You creatures are horrible, devil's incarnates.

Posted online, offline begging for the cookie. Bachelors are funny AF.

skuribeebo:
That why I like the alfas. If any wife messed up.
Another wife is readily available.

One man, so many women. What will be left of him after each woman has had her share of whatever little masculinity he possessed at the start?

A man who marries many wives because of a flaw in one of them is a coward and gets pretty empty.

pansophist:
Growing up, I use to wonder why some couples looks unfitting.

About twenty years ago in my church, there was this fine, tall banker, just imagine Ramsey Noah but taller and finer. A Yoruba guy.

All the spinster then will dress fine and sit in front row, so he sees them (he was the head choir). Girls threw themselves at him until he shocked the whole church when he shared his wedding invitation.

A girl from another church, average looking and not someone most men will turn their head to look twice. Back then, I didn't understood why he skipped this fine girls in church.

But when I think about that event now, I understand. The lady gave him peace, love him for him, probably a virgin and a home maker. He lives in the UK now with her and they are still together.

I'm saying this to point out that one should realise why some couples that might seen unfitting might actually knows what truly matters. If we judge by looks only, then we missed the point of marriage.

Probably they have seen the shitshake that makes up the dating scene, and choose peace. In a time when women will spend millions on their external looks, while letting the internal character to rot, one has to choose wisely.

Fantasy on the Mount. He needed someone to feel superior to, someone who adore be him because she was ugly and he was handsome.

Yet another vanity project marriage. He would never give as much as he took. The type of selfish marriage bachelors love to preach. If she gave him all those things, what could he possibly be giving her? As usual, she will give him everything. What he brings? Only the fantasizer can tell.

I'm glad these stories don't work on Gen z girls. Because they are meant to make girls malleable to men's desires, not who they were meant to be.

BRATISLAVA:
Posted online, offline begging for the cookie. Bachelors are funny AF.

Begging for which cookie? That dirtiest stuff in the whole universe? How many of it in Nigeria doesn't have that fishy smell??

Magnoliaa:
I am convinced this thing is a mental illness at this point. And you guys are not just preaching for the sake of 'correcting' anything in women, if at all you wanted to and women were 'crooked'.

You guys love the sound of your own voices so much. Just like the woke people you point fingers at, you're just as guilty of a performance of morality. You nitpick on women's perceived or real flaws to feel better about yours. You don't actually care to be a good person or a better friend or lover, just spew a bunch on words online, condemn others, and you go about your day, feeling like a good person, and making no actual measured change, after having projected your own shortcomings to an 'object' apart of you.

THIS is literally a thread of a man calling out women's 'bad behaviour' but it actually is not enough for you. You're still saying that no one points out women's sins.

Nine out of ten times when this man trends, it is because he has said something derogatory about women.

Off the top of my head, these are times preachers (men) have gone viral online in the past weeks for preaching to women:

- Iren compared women to cellotapes

- One told women to confess righteousness, abi it is faithfulness out of their cheating husbands

- One told women to stop addressing their husbands as "baby." Because appaz, a pet name undermines his position as a head.

- Another was of a woman basically policing what women wear.

Kingsley Okonkwo and his wife are there too, with their feminism-tackling posts.


Is it today that these things started? From Eve to Jezebel to Vashti to witch trials, there has never been a time when you people haven't hammered on women being inherently bad.


Mind you, your kind of women have equally existed, if not more than the "bad women", but it'll never be enough. Until all women are robots only catering to a single purpose as you wish. But I know even a world of perfectly conditioned and programmed women will not still make y'all content. No, given your proclivity to "forcing" sexual expression out of women and affirming your virility as a man, you'd much rather there remain a sub group of unpartnered women to cater to your sexual whims.

And it's also funny when y'all see changed women.

There is no time a woman who was living a 'fast' or depraved life changes, and turns her lifestyle and beliefs around that you people will not be seething and throwing tantrums. For the way you rail against women living recklessly, one would think you'd glad about women who quit doing so, just exactly as you wanted, but no. You'll call her a hypocrite. Say a leopard doesn't change its spots. Says she'll forever be what she once was. One wonders what the point of your pontification is then if you still despise women who've turned new leaves.

There is no room for redemption in your worldview. Women are inherently bad and they must ultimately suffer, eternally for it. Even Jesus nor do pass una. He preached righteousness and salvation in equal dose, but you people will be parading yourselves as conservative followers of His, while solely focusing on a message that crucifies and kills the spirit.

You just want to take and take and punish and continue to have women suffering for never being moral enough. You'll actually extend more grace to a "repented rapist" than a woman who used to be in the porn industry.


Shame on all of you.

After reading your lengthy post, I couldn't find a single argument that holds water, just a series of straw man fallacies scattered throughout.

Here’s the issue: every time there's a sudden critique or, let’s say, a call-out of women for their shortcomings, you immediately resort to the blame game. You mentioned something about us wanting women to be "programmed." Who said that? Who wants women to be "programmed"? Simply because we emphasize that women should be submissive and show utmost reverence for their husbands, you and your feminist cohort claim that this equates to treating women as programmed beings, doormats or whatever nonsense. That accusation couldn’t be further from the truth.

Submission, (in Greek hupotassō) as described in the Bible, is a military term. Just as a subordinate respects and submits to their commander, would you say that subordinate is "programmed"? Likely, your issue lies with fearing men’s headship and authority in all areas, an idea that your feminist ideology has drilled into you, suggesting it inevitably leads to abuse or vilification of women. This is precisely why I advocate for morally upright men to lead. The Bible clearly states that men are meant to be the heads of their households, churches, and governments.

Now, have I seen feminists change from their current beliefs to becoming loving wives who respect and revere their husbands? Yes, I have, online, no less. And how do I believe this? When their husbands can genuinely attest to it and there is a mental shift from what they used to believe to want they now believe. It’s possible for a woman, even the most radical feminist, to change. However, I firmly believe such transformation is only possible through the Spirit and grace of God. Our culture is actively working to dismantle the family unit amongst others, and if no one speaks out against this, it’s only a matter of time before it’s entirely obliterated.

Regarding your claim that I believe only women are inherently evil, another straw man. Have you ever heard of the doctrine of original sin? No one is righteous; no one does good. Both men and women are sinners in need of a Savior. Through Christ, we become new creatures. So, please, spare me the straw man arguments. Your response to my post was entirely irrelevant and misrepresentative of my points.

Finally, I couldn’t help but notice that in all your ramblings here, you completely ignored the issue of pastors’ wives disobeying their husbands, which Bamiloye rightly pointed out. Instead, you focused on attacking men and others while failing to reprimand those women who disobey/disrespect their husbands. Typical. Instead of holding women accountable, you paint them as infallible angels who can never do wrong. And if they do, somehow, it’s always the man’s fault. Wake up. Call a spade a spade. Call out nonsense when you see it instead of deflecting or shifting blame.

I "love" the OP. He/she craftly cut out the most controversial aspect of his message to avoid online attacks. Make sure that part never makes it to Nairaland else...

I like Mike Bamiloye, but his takes these days ehn! I like to believe he has always been like that, but social media made it possible for our fathers' generation to be less critical.

These days, you can't hide your political and social views for too long. Something must push you to say exactly what you've in your heart. And this is why many older folks are struggling to sustain the respect they earned in their early days.

Free2Fly:
Begging for which cookie? That dirtiest stuff in the whole universe? How many of it in Nigeria doesn't have that fishy smell??

Ah ah bros, na dat musty, borderline fishy smell dey make am sweet die nau.

If it starts smelling of roses, you would not like it as much surely.

aswani:
Ah ah bros, na dat musty, borderline fishy smell dey make am sweet die nau.

If it starts smelling of roses, you would not like it as much surely.

Tufiakwa

ednut1:
Yet people take marital issues to same pastors

There are sane pastors. Bring ya wife matter to me. Let me examine her.

Magnoliaa:
Every other day this man is always coming out to drag women. Using his position of authority to be peddling misogynistic narratives.

Does he not rest?! Women this, women that, women here, women there. Is he not enjoying his own marriage? Abi kini gan? He should stop with all the projection if it's about his own marriage o. Haba.

Religion when assessed using modern day women's ideological leanings is misogynistic. What is funny is how women cling so much to it and adore its leaders.

Your Favourite Road Side Analyst,

What is funny is how a typical Nigerian woman would want a "God fearing man", but would drag her feet in marrying a pastor.

The term sef "God fearing" when used by a Nigerian denotes fraud and dishonesty.

BRATISLAVA:
When men don't have a woman, they post the post atrocious things about them. They don't grow up beyond nursery school in their brains when it comes to anything female.

Once they get one, it's like their brains reset. That's what happened to the noisiest misogynists—they got married or finally realized their sermons won't get them one. They try to shame and bully women into settling for them with these posts of theirs.

See like I was properly pissed.


Like imagine a building was on fire, you've called the firefighters, and they've come. Brought out their hoses and everything, and they're already facing the fire. Yet one person is still running amok, shouting "fire, fire, where are the firefighters?"

Is everything okay?

You'd be shocked that they still hate the women they eventually get into a relationship with. It's a never ending circle of misery.

One South African dude went viral on Twitter some months ago for a creating a "that moment when you start hating your girlfriend" thread.

https://x.com/sk1tguru/status/1708897294207082668?t=Kd56ifhItOZ2ZTJ2TryKYg&s=19

It was the vilest thing ever.

Acidosis:
I "love" the OP. He/she craftly cut out the most controversial aspect of his message to avoid online attacks. Make sure that part never makes it to Nairaland else...

I like Mike Bamiloye, but his takes these days ehn! I like to believe he has always been like that, but social media made it possible for our fathers' generation to be less critical.

These days, you can't hide your political and social views for too long. Something must push you to say exactly what you've in your heart. And this is why many older folks are struggling to sustain the respect they earned in their early days.

Cue Wole Soyinka. E.A. Adeboye.


Osino it is prayers that is stopping a dollar from hitting 10,000 naira.

Magnoliaa:
Cue Wole Soyinka. E.A. Adeboye.


Osino it is prayers that is stopping a dollar from hitting 10,000 naira.

Gerrard59:
Religion when assessed using modern day women's ideological leanings is misogynistic. What is funny is how women cling so much to it and adore its leaders.

Your Favourite Road Side Analyst,

If you as a pastor wants to be liked by your female audience, leave out modern controversial topics. Dem go love you. Just started calling out their issues and watch them hate and drag you.

In those days, I think the religious leaders don't usually dwell on those topics because the false modern ideologies wasn't in vogue, hence no need to dwell much on those. But now, that the mainstream media is feeding us with lies about the family unit, one needs to stand up with courage and call it out, otherwise... Well we have already started seeing the result.

Gerrard59:
Religion when assessed using modern day women's ideological leanings is misogynistic.


Your Favourite Road Side Analyst

I am glad you're proudly wearing the tag, because nothing else suits you better 👍.

And this is one of the symptoms of your intelligence acquired from newspapers soiled with suya meat residue - twisting words or deliberately misinterpreting one's stand.

My comment was clearly addressing the man alone.

Does he not hold a position of authority? Will people not be inclined to taking his opinions as the gospel truth? Is this the first time he's in the news for saying things against women? So to any commonsensical person, that someone is always setting up women's behaviours as the catalyst to failed or unhappy marriages is what?

When a wife is miserable, it's a feminine nature.
When a husband is miserable, the wife is responsible.

Did I mention religion in that post of mine or did I bring in Christianity?


That said, if you think religion does not play a role in perpetuating women's subservience or gender-based violence... I don't even know what to say to you. But I will not be addressing that further with you.

https://naijafeministsmedia.org.ng/religion-the-guardian-of-patriarchy-and-gender-inequality/

You can hold onto to your biases or not.

What is funny is how women cling so much to it and adore its leaders.

I know, right?

Isn't it funny, too, the way Tinubu has die-hard supporters amongst the poorest of people in this country?

They will come online to shout Akanbi and death to all P.O. supporters, log offline to face a NEPA-induced darkness in a one-room apartment. They are Renewed Hope crooners Monday to Friday, and Internet almajiris on weekends. I know it is so so hard for you to understand how something that is evidently detrimental to a person's well-being can continue to be used as a crutch/narcotic.

Magnoliaa:
I am convinced this thing is a mental illness at this point. And you guys are not just preaching for the sake of 'correcting' anything in women, if at all you wanted to and women were 'crooked'.

You guys love the sound of your own voices so much. Just like the woke people you point fingers at, you're just as guilty of a performance of morality. You nitpick on women's perceived or real flaws to feel better about yours. You don't actually care to be a good person or a better friend or lover, just spew a bunch on words online, condemn others, and you go about your day, feeling like a good person, and making no actual measured change, after having projected your own shortcomings to an 'object' apart of you.

THIS is literally a thread of a man calling out women's 'bad behaviour' but it actually is not enough for you. You're still saying that no one points out women's sins.

Nine out of ten times when this man trends, it is because he has said something derogatory about women.

Off the top of my head, these are times preachers (men) have gone viral online in the past weeks for preaching to women:

- Iren compared women to cellotapes

- One told women to confess righteousness, abi it is faithfulness out of their cheating husbands

- One told women to stop addressing their husbands as "baby." Because appaz, a pet name undermines his position as a head.

- Another was of a woman basically policing what women wear.

Kingsley Okonkwo and his wife are there too, with their feminism-tackling posts.


Is it today that these things started? From Eve to Jezebel to Vashti to witch trials, there has never been a time when you people haven't hammered on women being inherently bad.


Mind you, your kind of women have equally existed, if not more than the "bad women", but it'll never be enough. Until all women are robots only catering to a single purpose as you wish. But I know even a world of perfectly conditioned and programmed women will not still make y'all content. No, given your proclivity to "forcing" sexual expression out of women and affirming your virility as a man, you'd much rather there remain a sub group of unpartnered women to cater to your sexual whims.

And it's also funny when y'all see changed women.

There is no time a woman who was living a 'fast' or depraved life changes, and turns her lifestyle and beliefs around that you people will not be seething and throwing tantrums. For the way you rail against women living recklessly, one would think you'd glad about women who quit doing so, just exactly as you wanted, but no. You'll call her a hypocrite. Say a leopard doesn't change its spots. Says she'll forever be what she once was. One wonders what the point of your pontification is then if you still despise women who've turned new leaves.

There is no room for redemption in your worldview. Women are inherently bad and they must ultimately suffer, eternally for it. Even Jesus nor do pass una. He preached righteousness and salvation in equal dose, but you people will be parading yourselves as conservative followers of His, while solely focusing on a message that crucifies and kills the spirit.

You just want to take and take and punish and continue to have women suffering for never being moral enough. You'll actually extend more grace to a "repented rapist" than to a woman who used to be in the porn industry.


Shame on all of you.

This is nothing but the truth and it's so sad 😢

BRATISLAVA:
One man, so many women. What will be left of him after each woman has had her share of whatever little masculinity he possessed at the start?

A man who marries many wives because of a flaw in one of them is a coward and gets pretty empty.

Continue.

just to at the end type shame on you all na you right this long message,una get time ooo

Magnoliaa:
I am convinced this thing is a mental illness at this point. And you guys are not just preaching for the sake of 'correcting' anything in women, if at all you wanted to and women were 'crooked'.

You guys love the sound of your own voices so much. Just like the woke people you point fingers at, you're just as guilty of a performance of morality. You nitpick on women's perceived or real flaws to feel better about yours. You don't actually care to be a good person or a better friend or lover, just spew a bunch on words online, condemn others, and you go about your day, feeling like a good person, and making no actual measured change, after having projected your own shortcomings to an 'object' apart of you.

THIS is literally a thread of a man calling out women's 'bad behaviour' but it actually is not enough for you. You're still saying that no one points out women's sins.

Nine out of ten times when this man trends, it is because he has said something derogatory about women.

Off the top of my head, these are times preachers (men) have gone viral online in the past weeks for preaching to women:

- Iren compared women to cellotapes

- One told women to confess righteousness, abi it is faithfulness out of their cheating husbands

- One told women to stop addressing their husbands as "baby." Because appaz, a pet name undermines his position as a head.

- Another was of a woman basically policing what women wear.

Kingsley Okonkwo and his wife are there too, with their feminism-tackling posts.


Is it today that these things started? From Eve to Jezebel to Vashti to witch trials, there has never been a time when you people haven't hammered on women being inherently bad.


Mind you, your kind of women have equally existed, if not more than the "bad women", but it'll never be enough. Until all women are robots only catering to a single purpose as you wish. But I know even a world of perfectly conditioned and programmed women will not still make y'all content. No, given your proclivity to "forcing" sexual expression out of women and affirming your virility as a man, you'd much rather there remain a sub group of unpartnered women to cater to your sexual whims.

And it's also funny when y'all see changed women.

There is no time a woman who was living a 'fast' or depraved life changes, and turns her lifestyle and beliefs around that you people will not be seething and throwing tantrums. For the way you rail against women living recklessly, one would think you'd glad about women who quit doing so, just exactly as you wanted, but no. You'll call her a hypocrite. Say a leopard doesn't change its spots. Says she'll forever be what she once was. One wonders what the point of your pontification is then if you still despise women who've turned new leaves.

There is no room for redemption in your worldview. Women are inherently bad and they must ultimately suffer, eternally for it. Even Jesus nor do pass una. He preached righteousness and salvation in equal dose, but you people will be parading yourselves as conservative followers of His, while solely focusing on a message that crucifies and kills the spirit.

You just want to take and take and punish and continue to have women suffering for never being moral enough. You'll actually extend more grace to a "repented rapist" than to a woman who used to be in the porn industry.


Shame on all of you.

Why on earth will a woman make a commited man of God not enjoy a God given institution like marriage?

Benbellamor:
Why on earth will a woman make a commited man of God not enjoy a God given institution like marriage?

Sinful nature.

GreatAchiever1:
Sinful nature.

then what stops such a man not to pick a second wife? that can give him peace he deserves? we sevrve God to make our lives better, and not to be ruined by adamant nature of some unrepentant woman

GreatAchiever1:
If you as a pastor wants to be liked by your female audience, leave out modern controversial topics. Dem go love you. Just started calling out their issues and watch them hate and drag you.

In those days, I think the religious leaders don't usually dwell on those topics because the false modern ideologies wasn't in vogue, hence no need to dwell much on those. But now, that the mainstream media is feeding us with lies about the family unit, one needs to stand up with courage and call it out, otherwise... Well we have already started seeing the result.

It is sad.
These days many professed Christians just go with emotions rather than the scriptures.
One even said that emphasizing scriptural doctrine would hinder the flow of the spirit.This is exactly what the devil wants.

Benbellamor:
then what stops such a man not to pick a second wife? that can give him peace he deserves? we sevrve God to make our lives better, and not to be ruined by adamant nature of some unrepentant woman

marrying more than one wife is not the design of God for marriage.

Steep:
marrying more than one wife is not the design of God for marriage.

God's original design too was that: Man should not be in fear of Animals including ravenous wolves, serpent, Lion & cheetars which Adam lived with for hundreds of years.....but you dare not near such animals today because their orientation has been corrupted, same way the traditional women formerly groomed to support their husbands are fast changing to modern women, feminists etc.

moses took a second wife cushite, after Ziporah his first wife left for a long time, but he did not divorce the first wife Ziporah...and God said he approves Moses as his True servant despite the fact that he took a second wife. Numbers 12:1-end