₦airaland Forum

I must be honest that due to the harsh situation of the country, it has become difficult to find my type of woman. My experience has taught me that a typical Nigerian lady is not ready to stay with a guy
who is still struggling, not to mention the really pretty ladies that I like to admire.

However, I have plans to relocate to the U.S. I'm beginning to give up on marrying a lady brought up in Nigeria unless I decide to settle for less.

I believe that overseas, women are not as materialistic as they are here. So, I ask what's the true picture of my choices?

The older I've grown,now I've realized and understood why my late uncle married a crippled lady back then..... Perhaps,the competition was just too unbearable by him

Balenciagabrain:
I must be honest that due to the harsh situation of the country, it has become difficult to find my type of woman. My experience has taught me that a typical Nigerian lady is not ready to stay with a guy
who is still struggling, not to mention the really pretty ladies that I like to admire.

However, I have plans to relocate to the U.S. I'm beginning to give up on marrying a lady brought up in Nigeria unless I decide to settle for less.

I believe that overseas, women are not as materialistic as they are here. So, I ask what's the true picture of my choices?

Everything depends.

Women by nature are hypergamous. The want to be with a guy who is better than them socially, and economically and even physically.


So if you are depending on your woman for something, it's natural that she will look down you...even in America.

Nevertheless, Nigerian girls are deeply materialistic and most times superficial
and actually treat with contempt any guy still trying to find his feet.

If the American lady will accept to come base with me in Nigeria, me no just like anything about foreign land...