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I've come across too many believers online crying about their marriages, especially men who are seemingly interested in pleasing God.

One of the huge red flags people don't deal with between themselves is keeping "close" friends of the opposite sex (as buddies; as in: as a man you have "close" female friends).

That will most likely lead to emotional cheating sooner or later. And emotional cheating is like an early stage of infidelity and then divorce.

I think many are always offended by this fact but it's very true.

Above all, put Jesus first in all things. Repent, love him above all, obey him according to the new testament.

He says he will honour, those who honour Him.

And for those who are already in any type of mess, pray, repent, obey Jesus and then Have faith in God. He can do all things.

God bless

So you meant a person should do away with close friends of the opposite sex once they're married? Please!

Reminds me of one person telling me the other day that it's wrong to still be speaking on the phone with a friend who was married. That's maximum insecurity IMHO.

You could say it's wrong to be visiting them alone. But talking to them on the phone? Abegi.

Moresalt:
➜I've come across too many believers online crying about their marriages, especially men who are seemingly interested in pleasing God. One of the huge red flags people don't deal with between themselves is keeping "close" friends of the opposite sex (as buddies; as in: as a man you have "close" female friends). That will most likely lead to emotional cheating sooner or later. And emotional cheating is like an early stage of infidelity and then divorce. I think many are always offended by this fact but it's very true. Above all, put Jesus first in all things. Repent, love him above all, obey him according to the new testament. He says he will honour, those who honour Him. And for those who are already in any type of mess, pray, repent, obey Jesus and then Have faith in God. He can do all things.
God bless

You believers no dey like talk true as per wetin dey do una. Believers dey cheat at the same rate and in many of the same ways that those outside of that circle do. What does that tell you of your claim to be a believer then? It should tell you that there are no advantages except for the ones you imagine in your mind.

Kobojunkie:
You believers no dey like talk true as per wetin dey do una. Believers dey cheat at the same rate and in many of the same ways that those outside of that circle do. What does that tell you of your claim to be a believer then? It should tell you that there are no advantages except for the ones you imagine in your mind.

Hmm... That's because there are more hypocrites than the real ones.

For me, my focus is now on reality not nominalism as common in churches and outside.

I was also a nominal christian Until 2010 when God allowed some major calamities to wake me up. Then I began to see difference between light and darkness, reality and hypocrisy, the life of Jesus and a form of religion.

If you want reality and eternal life in God's Kingdom and escape damnation due to sin, seek Jesus not men, esp. so-called pastors.


God bless.

Moresalt:
➜Hmm... That's because there are more hypocrites than the real ones. For me, my focus is now on reality not nominalism as common in churches and outside.
➜I was also a nominal christian Until 2010 when God allowed some major calamities to wake me up. Then I began to see difference between light and darkness, reality and hypocrisy, the life of Jesus and a form of religion. If you want reality and eternal life in God's Kingdom and escape damnation due to sin, seek Jesus not men, esp. so-called pastors.
God bless.

That sounds more like a convenient excuse you lay down to keep yourself deluded! It seems instead that your God is not interested in your marriage dealings since your believer marriages don't come up any different from the marriages of those who know nothing or care about your God.

2. You see the difference between light and darkness, etc, yet your words sound no better than that of a deluded being desperately trying to make sense of the same world that we all live in. Better check yourself before you wreck your own mental health by all of this.

By the way, I don't believe in your God so stop throwing his mention around for cheap.

Kobojunkie:
That sounds more like a convenient excuse you lay down to keep yourself deluded! It seems instead that your God is not interested in your marriage dealings since your believer marriages don't come up any different from the marriages of those who know nothing or care about your God.

2. You see the difference between light and darkness, etc, yet your words sound no better than that of a deluded being desperately trying to make sense of the same world that we all live in. Better check yourself before you wreck your own mental health by all of this.

By the way, I don't believe in your God so stop throwing his mention around for cheap.

All right, take care.

Moresalt:
➜All right, take care.

Open your eyes so you can see the world as it really is. Your lives and concerns are no less impacted by the same issues and problems that plague those outside of your believer circles. Doesn't that simply mean that your God is either not working for you or you simply don't even understand who it is you claim to be your God?