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Myrrhis:
It is not the op's fault that you feel inadequate/underachieved.

That's on you, not me. If you're feeling less than, maybe take a look at yourself first instead of thinking someone's underachieve.
Àwon Omo wèrè 😂

delpee:
@OP
God bless your home more. Joy, love, peace, fruitfulness, prosperity will never depart from your home. Amazing grace and divine favor always.

Amen...

Trendtips:
Your Home is blessed and I celebrate your union and look forward to more anniversaries
God bless you

Thanks much

Tonnyray:
GOD bless your home bro.

Amen sir

Softmirror:
My father did for all of us when we were to go on holidays in Canada. It's just an advice. This is called a SHOW OFF it is not a celebration.

...may I ask why mention Canada, isn't this a proof you're the show off culprit??You come here spew gibberish coz I celebrated 6yrs of marriage. How much of this a pain in your aZz?

koife:
Hey guys, we just turned 6 years in marriage and for us, today is a memorable day. Please share in our joy.....Prayers are welcomed as well

I pray you will not cheat on your wife like egungun

A lots of comments here are just too funny. Well, this is what you get when you can't keep your life private. Must everything be celebrated on social media?

cococandy:
See how you guys are gleefully being mean to another guy like you. If a collection of women did this unprovoked (might I add) to another woman, you all would call them witches.
What should we call you now?
What is it about his happy marriage that biting your butt?

No one is being mean to anyone

What op is getting is the aftermath of seeking needless online validity for his family

Most of us here don't know him or his family...most of here weren't there when he married his wife and aren't there when they are going through the ups and downs in their marriage...most of us did not witness d circumstances leading to the birth of those kids..Most of us have no business knowing the op and his family....so why the op thinks we should know his family is beyond me

Now imagine that someone who his wife probably had an affair with sees these kids online and discovers that they look more like him than their supposed father... meanwhile the woman has foisted the kids on the man she is married to without his knowledge or even input on the matter...and the fellow is very interested in claiming his offspring....Na so Kasala go burst everywhere just because op was seeking online attention like an Instagram Bandit

We are mostly strangers to the op here...why he will seek our validity on his family is rather mind boggling..Now he has gotten the attention he seeks, along with the attention he definitely isn't seeking...

He is lucky someone hasn't even said he knows his wife, and he knows she is married to his neighbor or relative, not the op....he won't be the first man to discover that he isnt the only one who has been married to his wife.it might be said mischievously, or truthfully..but the fact is if he hadn't come attention-seeking online, he would have shielded bis family from such negative energy, be it mischievous or factual.


Privacy of family life is a very precious thing that should be guarded jealously, especially in these social media times where negative energy is abundantly available online.

buygala:
No one is being mean to anyone

What op is getting is the aftermath of seeking needless online validity for his family

Most of us here don't know him or his family...most of here weren't there when he married his wife and aren't there when they are going through the ups and downs in their marriage...most of us did not witness d circumstances leading to the birth of those kids..Most of us have no business knowing the op and his family....so why the op thinks we should know his family is beyond me

Now imagine that someone who his wife probably had an affair with sees these kids online and discovers that they look more like him than their supposed father... meanwhile the woman has foisted the kids on the man she is married to without his knowledge or even input on the matter...and the fellow is very interested in claiming his offspring....Na so Kasala go burst everywhere just because op was seeking online attention like an Instagram Bandit

We are mostly strangers to the op here...why he will seek our validity on his family is rather mind boggling..Now he has gotten the attention he seeks, along with the attention he definitely isn't seeking...

He is lucky someone hasn't even said he knows his wife, and he knows she is married to his neighbor or relative, not the op....he won't be the first man to discover that he isnt the only one who has been married to his wife.it might be said mischievously, or truthfully..but the fact is if he hadn't come attention-seeking online, he would have shielded bis family from such negative energy, weda simply mischievous or factual.


Privacy of family life is a very precious thing that should be guarded jealously, especially in these social media times where negative energy is abundantly available online.

...in summary, the motive of this long epistle is what really??

Zonefree:
You met her a virgin?

If Yes, Ignore the DNA test.
If No, the Lord is your strength.

What's really going on in that southern Nigeria. The promiscuity is too much. You guys need to return to the teachings of your religion. Its strange here to be talking about dna. How can a married woman be sleeping outside. Married women here in the north will even hardly answer your greeting talkless of smiling with you

buygala:
No one is being mean to anyone

What op is getting is the aftermath of seeking needless online validity for his family

Most of us here don't know him or his family...most of here weren't there when he married his wife and aren't there when they are going through the ups and downs in their marriage...most of us did not witness d circumstances leading to the birth of those kids..Most of us have no business knowing the op and his family....so why the op thinks we should know his family is beyond me

Now imagine that someone who his wife probably had an affair with sees these kids online and discovers that they look more like him than their supposed father... meanwhile the woman has foisted the kids on the man she is married to without his knowledge or even input on the matter...and the fellow is very interested in claiming his offspring....Na so Kasala go burst everywhere just because op was seeking online attention like an Instagram Bandit

We are mostly strangers to the op here...why he will seek our validity on his family is rather mind boggling..Now he has gotten the attention he seeks, along with the attention he definitely isn't seeking...

He is lucky someone hasn't even said he knows his wife, and he knows she is married to his neighbor or relative, not the op....he won't be the first man to discover that he isnt the only one who has been married to his wife.it might be said mischievously, or truthfully..but the fact is if he hadn't come attention-seeking online, he would have shielded bis family from such negative energy, weda simply mischievous or factual.


Privacy of family life is a very precious thing that should be guarded jealously, especially in these social media times where negative energy is abundantly available online.

I totally agree with you. It beats me to see grown men seek validity from strangers. Not even a single picture of any member of my family Is on any social media. Not even my Instagram where I put enough privacy setting and only admit people I physically know. My WhatsApp too, if I post a picture of my wife or child, it's only my family members that see it. My siblings, my parents, her parents and some very close friendly cousins and aunties. No one else.

So why do people not mind the world of strangers viewing and passing comments on their private life. If you place your calabash in the market, someone will definitely step on it and break it. What was he expecting to see? All good wishes? Iow old is he? Is he new on the Internet? Hasn't he heard of the evil eyes? Hes just over excited. After this let him post his daughters and sisters and be expecting a standing ovation. From the comments I even think he initially posted his daughters.

I don't support thr evil, but I know it exist and work with reality.

FRANCISTOWN:
A man who does not doubt a woman is a weak and a finished man

coming from a man abi na boy who is begging a gurl to date him...

koife:
Hey guys, we just turned 6 years in marriage and for us, today is a memorable day. Please share in our joy.....Prayers are welcomed as well

If to say i dey near ur house, I for don d finger bang ur wife for open places d bang her also for ur house when u no dey

Softmirror:
My father did for all of us when we were to go on holidays in Canada. It's just an advice. This is called a SHOW OFF it is not a celebration.

I understand that your father did not meet your mother a virgin and even while they are married she was a community hole so your father doing DNA for all of you is understandable.

But ops wife is not your mother, before you get get out of your teens please mix up with functional families it will make you realize that not all families are broken without repair like yours.

Softmirror:
Because we know what men do to their fellow men.

I don drill like 6 of my guys babes
no regret
3 neighbors wives kpekus ma don go down

Offpoint1:
The seed is saw already, no matter how strong he is... His mind has been feed and won't remain the same.

He should have posted this on his social media page and not public forum.

Why won't his mind remain the same? Everyone is not in a bad marriage and relationships like some of you guys.

People are so broken and pained. I pray you all continue in your pain while others are flexing their happy families.

koife:
...in summary, the motive of this long epistle is what really??

is that you should learn to keep your family private if you don't want online strangers poking their noses into whether your wife's kids are also yours

IyanAtiEgusi:
If to say i dey near ur house, I for don d finger bang ur wife for open places d bang her also for ur house when u no dey

Marriage bliss is one fruit you will never experience untill you repent. By the authority of he who instituted marriage and gave a command that no man should put asunder to God's covenant, intentional plan to thwart that will be you declaring war with authority behind the great command.

princepee:
I swear mad people full this platform.
For your mental health, don't bring your issues to nairaland.
If this man is not strong he may start doubting his wife.

i swear completely mad people dey here

koife:
Hey guys, we just turned 6 years in marriage and for us, today is a memorable day. Please share in our joy.....Prayers are welcomed as well

Una dey too take this marriage thing too serious. No wonder pastors dey use am chop una office.

Love one another, quit the lies and deceit, curate friendship and be your spouse's partner in everything. E no hard.

debbydams:
coming from a man abi na boy who is begging a gurl to date him...

Wishful thinking

Sultty:
you guys should stop derailing this thread and put your opinion on baltasar ebang egonga related threads. It's not hard to do, try to at least congratulate this couple. Btw did the op complained to you on the paternity of his kids?? Busy body people

Na me tell am make e go run DNA?

Softmirror:
Because we know what men do to their fellow men.

.....through the vessels of dishonour.

koife:
...may I ask why mention Canada, isn't this a proof you're the show off culprit??You come here spew gibberish coz I celebrated 6yrs of marriage. How much of this a pain in your aZz?

learn from this experience. The Internet is quite a wild and wooly world. You won't find all your ideals here. Those who keep family business away from public are not entirely stupid. It's because they know what to expect. Some people even go ahead to call numbers or bully your loved ones if they can reach at them. People are sick out there. Even celebrities bleed for their fame. They pay a heavy price. There is something called privacy you must observe for the safety of your wife and kids. Never again should you do this kind of thing whatever your intentions were. It can go very bad.

IyanAtiEgusi:
I don drill like 6 of my guys babes
no regret
3 neighbors wives kpekus ma don go down

Are you related to Balthazar?! 😁

iamL:
I understand that your father did not meet your mother a virgin and even while they are married she was a community hole so your father doing DNA for all of you is understandable.

But ops wife is not your mother, before you get get out of your teens please mix up with functional families it will make you realize that not all families are broken without repair like yours.

DNA is a requirement for Canadian Visa if you want to travel with your family.

FRANCISTOWN:
Wishful thinking

yeye

koife:
...may I ask why mention Canada, isn't this a proof you're the show off culprit??You come here spew gibberish coz I celebrated 6yrs of marriage. How much of this a pain in your aZz?

It's a requirement if you want to get a family VISA to Canada. Lol . Just a little taunting of you guys on NL. You guys do worst to ladies on NL. 😂

Darlingme

koife:
Marriage bliss is one fruit you will never experience untill you repent. By the authority of he who instituted marriage and gave a command that no man should put asunder to God's covenant, intentional plan to thwart that will be you declaring war with authority behind the great command.

ask Baltasar
where the authority been dey?

Softmirror:
DNA is a requirement for Canadian Visa if you want to travel with your family.

Person wey dey under bridge dey claim Canada. A person whose life is going fine wont be bitterly trolling a man who posted his anniversary.

Awon Canada. Pained people.

Too many sick and demented folks on Nairaland. The funny thing is most of these guys shouting DNA up and down are old fools with a sad life

iamL:
Person wey dey under bridge dey claim Canada. A person whose life is going fine wont be bitterly trolling a man who posted his anniversary.

Awon Canada. Pained people.

God bless you