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Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Tradepunter2: 12:10pm On Dec 02, 2024
diamond68:
some good points though they don’t have to be ethnically the same Chinese. These people build strong institutions not powerful men
Deceive yourself.... China is built on strong men.... Every institution is to wipe the lower rank into line.... CHINA IS A STRONG MAN COUNTRY FROM MOA TO XI.... IF YOU ARE NOT STRONG... THE MILITARY WITH OLIGARCHS FROM THE GENERATION OF FOUNDING FATHERS OF COMMUNIST CHINA WILL DISPOSE YOU...

Xi is the only one that don't come from the Princeling line..... It's why he's purged the military 5 times since Corona virus period
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Bayajjidda: 12:11pm On Dec 02, 2024
diamond68:
Now it's no secret among Nigerians living in the UK that the hardest time you will get in the UK will be from a fellow Nigerian. They bone you on the street, look at you in anger, you greet them they don't greet back, you work with them they try to get you fired, they see you in a train and don't want to sit next to you etc etc. It's very fascinating to observe this behaviour . So why does this happen ?

It's very important to understand that the landmAss called Nigeria is just a geographic location like everywhere else on the planet. If you evicted all 200 million Nigerians from that location and filled it up with whites or Chinese, in under 50 years Nigeria will be transformed to a first world paradise and the whole world would want to japa into Nigeria because imagine a first world country that's blessed with that much resources and it's managed well ? It would be the ultimate pAradise on earth. Nigeria has the potential to be the ultimate pAradise on earth . So it's not the country that's the problem, it's the people.

When someone japas out of Nigeria he is running away from the people not the country. And when he sees the same people in the UK he trieS to run away from them. He tries to japa from them. He does not want to associate with them. It's the same people he japA from in Africa. In his mind he associates these people with corruption and violence and brashness and mismanagement and stealing and incompetence. So the Nigerian tries to japa from the Nigerian everywhere he sees him outside of Nigeria
Word! The same way I japa from them whenever I see them on international spaces—they have a way of trying to fight you when try to confront someone from another country that is sitting on your nerves, as means of asslickimg to favor them.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by nedekid: 12:11pm On Dec 02, 2024
justwise:
Most, not all Nigerians, i have experienced both good and bad attributes, some Nigerians ladies especially are not friendly, they related to other nationalities than their Nigerian brothers.

A senior manager((A Nigerian lady) in a place i work turned her nose down on me, i mean i say hello with smile to her and she will keep a straight face, then i stopped greeting her completely till the day she left the company.

This is common among those chasing papers and freeloads , so if a brother can not offer any of that then you are not useful to them.
You said it all.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Starzo: 12:18pm On Dec 02, 2024
cococandy:
He broke the rules

Bye
He did not break any rules

You just didn't like his comment, understandably so. But he did not break any rules

If mods start shutting people up for saying things that don't sit well with them, nobody go talk again.

Infact it would be a dictatorship. Make we see truth dey talk.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Starzo:
Ishilove:
There are an uncountable number of active female users on this forum, and calling them names is insulting and provocative
There are a very large portion of Christians on this site. And everyday they see their religion constantly being attacked and denigrated by members and mods who push mostly negative posts to fp.

Why are the people who insult every pastor and Christians not shushed also?

PS. I would have included insults on Muslims/Islam too but you mods already created a swearing page before anyone could comment on islam...

Where is your neutrality and accountability?
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Desusi: 12:22pm On Dec 02, 2024
Let it be known to the op that this is not peculiar to UK alone, but, all over Europe.some Nigerians especially Benin boys can be very naughty in doing this.l remembered working with a German company in Aachen.In those days it was a rare privilege, for a black man working in a viable company in Germany. My colleagues back home in kalterherberg went to report me to the foreign home that l have working. I was reported to police. Fortunately, when police came home,l wasn't at home. My colleagues called me, "where are you? Police is looking for you oo. Wetin you do?" I said nothing, then they told me,if they born you well come home now! Till today, l could not return to my village in kalterherberg.l left all my belongings except my certificates that were brought by a friend outside the home.My clothes and other property were shared. Nigerians! I salute ooo.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by mizGene(f): 12:23pm On Dec 02, 2024
justwise:
Most, not all Nigerians, i have experienced both good and bad attributes, some Nigerians ladies especially are not friendly, they related to other nationalities than their Nigerian brothers.

A senior manager((A Nigerian lady) in a place i work turned her nose down on me, i mean i say hello with smile to her and she will keep a straight face, then i stopped greeting her completely till the day she left the company.

This is common among those chasing papers and freeloads , so if a brother can not offer any of that then you are not useful to them.
Hmm Justwise, I'm surprised you are saying this...ok let me give you my own story being a woman in senior management.
I was the only Nigerian in my team so when they employed another one, I reached out to welcome him and offer my support for his settling in into the role. I told him to let me know if he needs help settling in and the silly boy told me to bring him some jollof rice! I was shocked and in my mind I was like "sebi na me find trouble come".
He probably didn't know my role/level. But even if I was his mate, should that be the response to a professional offer to help? A lot of our men still see women as kitchen occupiers and still speak in manners that are not acceptable here.
These bad encounters turn well meaning ppl off. If I wasn't who I am, that will be the last time I give a newbie a chance. People don't like to suffer fools twice.

Thankfully since then, I've had the pleasure of meeting other junior Nigerians who were sensible and didn't give me regrets.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Mcslize: 12:24pm On Dec 02, 2024
OgaTheTop2:
Nigerians in UK are the "I mind my business...mind your business" type. Negative social lives, very boring place with bad weather. Managed to stay couple of years and then japa danu. Omo, I hate that place angry

** I speak for myself.

Iree o!
Where then are you currently? Where you japa go from there.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by BigDawsNet:
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Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Greattha: 12:25pm On Dec 02, 2024
You hit the nail on the head.
It's about what you can offer. Especially for the female folk.

Nothing as good as having papers o. You legit, you thrive, you're hotcake

justwise:
Most, not all Nigerians, i have experienced both good and bad attributes, some Nigerians ladies especially are not friendly, they related to other nationalities than their Nigerian brothers.

A senior manager((A Nigerian lady) in a place i work turned her nose down on me, i mean i say hello with smile to her and she will keep a straight face, then i stopped greeting her completely till the day she left the company.

This is common among those chasing papers and freeloads , so if a brother can not offer any of that then you are not useful to them.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Starzo: 12:25pm On Dec 02, 2024
diamond68:
nah brAh you are understating the reason. Someone does not get angry and bone you because of I pass my Neighbor. Am talking about strangers in trains or buses or on the street etc. These people hate your guts because you are Nigerian. You are who they ran away from in Nigeria. They don't want to see or associate with you in a new land. You represent chaos and corruption and madness
They also represent same things

The bad belle wey make them nor fit come together to fight make their land Betta, na the same evil character them still carry abroad.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Starzo: 12:27pm On Dec 02, 2024
mizGene:
Hmm Justwise, I'm surprised you are saying this...ok let me give you my own story being a woman in senior management.
I was the only Nigerian in my team so when they employed another one, I reached out to welcome him and offer my support for his settling in into the role. I told him to let me know if he needs help settling in and the silly boy told me to bring him some jollof rice! I was shocked and in my mind I was like "sebi na me find trouble come".
He probably didn't know my role/level. But even if I was his mate, should that be the response to a professional offer to help? A lot of our men still see women as kitchen occupiers and still speak in manners that are not acceptable here.
These bad encounters turn well meaning ppl off. If I wasn't who I am, that will be the last time I give a newbie a chance. People don't like to suffer fools twice.

Thankfully since then, I've had the pleasure of meeting other junior Nigerians who were sensible and didn't give me regrets.
Person nor fit follow you play again?....he probably was just trying to make a joke but you turn am to something else

Na the pride wey we dey talk about be this
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Free2Fly: 12:30pm On Dec 02, 2024
Ishilove:
Rule 2
Rule 2 is about insults/abuses/attacks directed to NAIRALAND MEMMERS.
It says nothing about gender related insults in general.
The guy didn't insult/abuse/bully/provoke, etc, any nairaland member in particular.
Laws/rules are not interpreted with sentiments

cc: Justwise
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by 9japride(m): 12:30pm On Dec 02, 2024
fuck419:
This is very true because someone who was very bias and a tribal racist in Nigeria, even when the person travel outside, he or she would still be the same person.

So, I don't blame those who run away from their fellow Nigerians or Africans, because the problem is with the people and not Nigeria as a geographical location.

We need to have a change of character, especially this hate of a thing. The hate is going to destroy 9ja very soon. When a generation gets it wrong, war could burst out to wipe out the generation of vipers as we have today in Nigeria.

Those that would survive the war, would learn to respect other people and understand that you are not the only one living within a shared geographical space.

You that believe your religion is superior to that of others, the war will send you to meet with your god with immediate effect.

Nonsense.
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I don't blame those that try to avoid their fellow countrymen.
Imagine seeing those misfit and tribalistic entities here in nairaland for example who hates the south east and Igbos in general in a foreign country, it's best to avoid them at all cost.
One who wishes a fellow country man not to have a good time shouldn't be brought closer.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Free2Fly: 12:33pm On Dec 02, 2024
Omoawoke:
What I or you think does not matter…
What matters is the rule
Unfortunately that’s how the world works.

What I would say is you tell Seun to update the nairaland rules to capture that… other than that, there’s no rule broken here
Exactly.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Mcslize: 12:35pm On Dec 02, 2024
Omoawoke:
2. Don't abuse, bully, deliberately insult/provoke, fight, or wish harm to Nairaland members OR THEIR TRIBES.

I believe you were an Mod,

How can we complain of not having a good justice system in the country when even the nairaland justice is based on your personal sentiments..

Tell me how he insulted anybody’s tribe or any nairaland members? If you want to update nairaland rules, then go ahead and do so!

Mods act on their sentiments rather than facing facts.

This is the same attitude that translates to the society where people act without order and unleash jungle justice.
This is total misuse of power
Seun really needs to look into the way some mods handle issues here . It is high time he gave the role to more unbaised individuals that are not sentimental. I will prefer Seun to give the mod roles to men because some of the females mods are abusing their powers. And most times, we can see some levels of nepotism in their dealings.

Seun, I want to use this opportunity to draw your attention to the nepotism and biased ways some of the females you gave moderators roles are handling issues inappropriately.

We all founded niaraland together. I can handle moderator role more than some of these females without being sentimental or using my emotions.

Please, kindly look into this issues as we already have too much corruption ravaging us in this country. We shouldn't condole such in this platform where female moderators will be abusing their transient powers. They are becoming power drunk carrying out their roles.

All over the world, women are hardly allowed to be at the hem of affairs because they use emotions to handle issues. And the day a woman becomes a world power president, that's the day the world will end. Please, give moderator role to men and release the females of this sensitive role to prevent many things going wrong in this platform. A man will never apply emotion when handling issues. But women will. Think about this carefully.

Please, kindly look into this.

Cc: Seun
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Kelechi009: 12:36pm On Dec 02, 2024
Mariangeles:
Hehehehehe cheesy

Happy weekend to you, Sukkot.
(I don't think I'll stop addressing you as Sukkot any time soon)
So that is Sukkot lmao, after discouraging people from japa'ing. He has now disguised to changed his username grin
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Laturuturu: 12:37pm On Dec 02, 2024
In the uk there is competition among NGrians. You will hear talks like bolu has five houses in Abuja. Emeka has 7 houses in imo. The competition is so much that instead of a fellow NG to tell you about a job opening he will choose to t ell a Pakistan.
Also if you are doing shit...a fellow Nigeria will snitch on u.
It's like that
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Kelechi009: 12:38pm On Dec 02, 2024
Mcslize:
Seun really needs to look into the way some mods handle issues here . It is high time he gave the role to more unbaised individuals that are not sentimental. I will prefer Seun to give the mod roles to men because some of the females mods are abusing their powers. And most times, we can see some levels of nepotism in their dealings.

Seun, I want to use this opportunity to draw your attention to the nepotism and biased ways some of the females you gave moderators roles are handling issues inappropriately.

We all founded niaraland together. I can handle moderator role more than some of their females. Please, kindly look into this issues as we already have too much corruption ravaging us in this country. We shouldn't condole such in this platform where female moderators will be abusing their transient powers. They are becoming power drunk carrying out their roles.

Please, kindly look into this.
You & who founded the Nairaland together, how many lines of Nairaland code or documentation did you write.

If I am a moderator, I would have deleted your account grin
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by rafcrown(m): 12:39pm On Dec 02, 2024
Only good at reporting fellow Nigerians to Management/Authority.
Fear them.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by TheRealestGuy(m): 12:44pm On Dec 02, 2024
mizGene:
Hmm Justwise, I'm surprised you are saying this...ok let me give you my own story being a woman in senior management.
I was the only Nigerian in my team so when they employed another one, I reached out to welcome him and offer my support for his settling in into the role. I told him to let me know if he needs help settling in and the silly boy told me to bring him some jollof rice! I was shocked and in my mind I was like "sebi na me find trouble come".
He probably didn't know my role/level. But even if I was his mate, should that be the response to a professional offer to help? A lot of our men still see women as kitchen occupiers and still speak in manners that are not acceptable here.
These bad encounters turn well meaning ppl off. If I wasn't who I am, that will be the last time I give a newbie a chance. People don't like to suffer fools twice.

Thankfully since then, I've had the pleasure of meeting other junior Nigerians who were sensible and didn't give me regrets.
The same classism disease cheesy

Your level and seniority is so precious to you init.

From just this post, your leadership skills are seriously questionable if you're talking about your colleagues outside the workplace from a senior/junior POV.

Your ego is off the charts and you need to reign it in because it will ruin you in the long run.

Cheers.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 12:54pm On Dec 02, 2024
Desusi:
Let it be known to the op that this is not peculiar to UK alone, but, all over Europe.some Nigerians especially Benin boys can be very naughty in doing this.l remembered working with a German company in Aachen.In those days it was a rare privilege, for a black man working in a viable company in Germany. My colleagues back home in kalterherberg went to report me to the foreign home that l have working. I was reported to police. Fortunately, when police came home,l wasn't at home. My colleagues called me, "where are you? Police is looking for you oo. Wetin you do?" I said nothing, then they told me,if they born you well come home now! Till today, l could not return to my village in kalterherberg.l left all my belongings except my certificates that were brought by a friend outside the home.My clothes and other property were shared. Nigerians! I salute ooo.
crazy sttuff
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Blackdisciple(m): 12:56pm On Dec 02, 2024
It only happens within Nigerians who went aboard to hustle but not within the big Nigerians grin grin Some even went aboard and be doing cultism
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 12:58pm On Dec 02, 2024
Starzo:
They also represent same things

The bad belle wey make them nor fit come together to fight make their land Betta, na the same evil character them still carry abroad.
lmaooo
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 12:58pm On Dec 02, 2024
Blackdisciple:
It only happens within Nigerians who went aboard to hustle but not within the big Nigerians grin grin Some even went aboard and be doing cultism
true
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by travelzcruix: 1:01pm On Dec 02, 2024
In that case, I no need book flight na, I will just have some me time in one evil forest in this same Nigeria.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Aaaaarghmed(m): 1:05pm On Dec 02, 2024
Una get time dey find Naija to relate with abroad o,if u hail me,I hail u,if u carry face,I carry face ,no biggie.infact nothing concern me with Naija lady abroad,my oyibo ladies don too many sef.when they see me with my snow bunny,na so dem go dey gaze grin.infact any African party that we go,I always take my oyibo babe with me mk dem know say.i no get their time
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by SemperFid: 1:08pm On Dec 02, 2024
when i japa eeh see anybody in black skin i wont even talk to u
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by HellVictorinho9: 1:08pm On Dec 02, 2024
diamond68:
of course NOT ALL. There are no absolutes in life. i appreciate your contribution
then which one is remove 200 million out of whatever

is that not generalizing

mtchw
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Mcslize: 1:13pm On Dec 02, 2024
Kelechi009:
You & who founded the Nairaland together, how many lines of Nairaland code or documentation did you write.

If I am a moderator, I would have deleted your account grin
Lol. I am a Nairaland ancestor. I remember when Seun used to create posts and engage in discussions on Nairaland with members back then.

We were among those that contributed massively to the growth of Nairaland. Nairaland wouldn't have become what is it today if it were not our joint efforts in engaging in the platform.

Mods don't want us to engage again and any little thing they will misuse their powers. We won't condole this. Everybody needs to speak up or else they will turn this beautiful platform to a dictorhship platform.

Seun needs to look into this and we all need to speak up before it is too late. If it is possible, I will advise Seun to review his moderators every 5 years and release some of their roles and take in new people that have not been found wanting.

If Seun must give a female a mod role, she should be the type that is neutral in both religion and gender power tussle. No feminist should be given the role of a moderator. They will always be biased and abuse that power trust me.

We all need to speak up and draw the attention of Seun to this.
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