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Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Hotguy27: 2:25am On Dec 05, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.
The woman is wise.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by smallsmall: 3:45am On Dec 05, 2024
Ibkay32:
You have a good and amazing woman, but it seems like your low self-esteem is clouding your perspective. You think she’s trying to dominate you, but that’s not the case. Why not collaborate with her and build something great together? Women like her are rare, and honestly, she’s the kind of partner I’ve been looking for. If not for the fact that you already have a child together, I’d have asked for her number—I just want to ask her something. 🤠
Thunder fire you dea!
I dislike Men like you, who eye the Wife of other Men, for whatever reason, always waiting in the wings, to take advantage of any small misunderstanding between the spouses. angry angry

Of all the Women in this Country, it is someone's Wife that interest you.
You have been looking for her kind of Partner yet, you have not found one, maybe such women are not even for your type.
But be kiaful, one day you fit climb Magun, if you dont control your long-throat for other people's wife.

Na so dem dey warn one junior Police Officer l knew as a young man, he wont listen until he died on-top of a married woman in a Hotel, one Sunday afternoon like that. If a Woman is married, give her her respect and behave yourself around her, there are millions of Single ladies out there!
Do not covet another man's Wife, says the Holy Bible.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Taiwo20(m): 6:02am On Dec 05, 2024
Some involving the military in civil matters. You should involve the police instead. You wife has her reasons and has done well.

The idea to involve the military in civil matter shows an oppressive tendency.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Jacksparrow7(m): 6:42am On Dec 05, 2024
how was your son attacked? was it bad how did it happen?
Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Ibkay32(m): 6:46am On Dec 05, 2024
smallsmall:
Thunder fire you dea!
I dislike Men like you, who eye the Wife of other Men, for whatever reason, always waiting in the wings, to take advantage of any small misunderstanding between the spouses. angry angry

Of all the Women in this Country, it is someone's Wife that interest you.
You have been looking for her kind of Partner yet, you have not found one, maybe such women are not even for your type.
But be kiaful, one day you fit climb Magun, if you dont control your long-throat for other people's wife.

Na so dem dey warn one junior Police Officer l knew as a young man, he wont listen until he died on-top of a married woman in a Hotel, one Sunday afternoon like that. If a Woman is married, give her her respect and behave yourself around her, there are millions of Single ladies out there!
Do not covet another man's Wife, says the Holy Bible.
See this foolish man crying... Your type have the post "Birds of the same feather flock together." It's not even hard to tell the kind of home you came from.

The truth is, some people only realize the value of what they had after it's gone. A good woman, or any good partner, is a blessing. Taking them for granted often leads to regret when it’s too late. If a husband lets go of a good woman without a genuine reason, another man will value and cherish her.

So, I don’t see why you’re upset about my comment. Most of you regret losing good people because you failed to appreciate them when it mattered most.

The lesson? Cherish and nurture the good people in your life before someone else does.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Clazzone(m): 7:39am On Dec 05, 2024
God bless you, but this man will never understand that his wife is more civilised and better exposed than him.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Ombre(m): 8:19am On Dec 05, 2024
Your wife, if I was her CO, will be recommended for a letter of commendation to the Commander.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Lovelydaisies: 8:52am On Dec 05, 2024
hotelMan:
Your plan to tame a feminist failed woefully and now you are crying b!ood grin You want to rubbish her integrity because you can’t be her.

Do you think she got to the position of a Lieutenant by being a troublemaker? Yeye Dey smell! Hopefully you get your introduction money back. Poor you that couldn’t even afford to give the bride price. You called her mother because her father already saw through you.

People advise your sisters and daughters to not marry down to avoid this kind of stories. I hope the next time you go out making trouble you are dealt with.
grin grin grin cheesy
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Mryacks: 9:33am On Dec 05, 2024
pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.
True...civil cases are for the Police. It is only in this climes that people just call other Armed or security agencies anyhow all to just oppress or show others their 'might'
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by PARADIZEPRIEST: 11:00am On Dec 05, 2024
SHE IS MORE THAN GOLD, A SOLDIER OF HONOUR AND EXAMPLE FOE ALL ARMY TO EMULATE IN THIS NATION,NOT TO USE THEIR MILITARY UNIFORM TO HARRASS CIVILIANS. GOD BLESS THE FEMALE SOLDIER smiley
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by dododawa1: 12:02pm On Dec 05, 2024
Civil matters

Called


Police, amotekun,opc,bakassi and ipob
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by iInjureHerYansh: 3:14pm On Dec 05, 2024
You sef why are you always getting into trouble evrytime. Na only you Waka comehuh
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by iInjureHerYansh: 3:19pm On Dec 05, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
d idiots that beat nd bullied my boy nd was nearly beaten to death. I don't need police to handle this, i don't even need any soldier to handle it, since she can't handle it, we are done.

I will snap d boy's pictures @d hospital tomorrow
You're such an emotional man. See as you just dey cast your marriage online. If I didn't read the story I'd think you're a woman. Eeww angry
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Testimony1988(m): 4:29pm On Dec 05, 2024
She's a good officer, she does not want to deal with unofficial matters due to her position in the military.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by jessylaurel(f): 6:46pm On Dec 05, 2024
luminouz:
Let's see the roles reversed and we'll see if you will still be laughing ..
Hypocrite oshi!
Ozuooor😂 oshiiiiiii
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by luminouz(m): 6:55pm On Dec 05, 2024
jessylaurel:
Ozuooor😂 oshiiiiiii
Jesus...na me you abuse like this? You think I'm your mate... Oya beg me or elseee....
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by MsIjeoma(f): 7:51pm On Dec 05, 2024
Oga your wife no be vigilante. She's not your personal bodyguard. If she doesn't wish to involve herself in wahala, it's her business. You get mouth, use am talk. You get hand, use am fight. You're a man. No drag innocent woman enter your mess.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by themanderon: 4:28am On Dec 06, 2024
luminouz:
Mûmû...so her son can be beaten to death and she will be happy.

It's either the boy is never her child or she never loved her husband. There is no woman on earth that will be so indifferent to her family affairs like that. So what dafuq you talking about, pûnk?
I don't respond to compound idiots.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by luminouz(m): 6:59am On Dec 06, 2024
themanderon:
I don't respond to compound idiots.
But you already responded which makes you a mega-compound mûmû.

Comprehension is far from you sha
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by jessylaurel(f): 2:29pm On Dec 06, 2024
luminouz:
Jesus...na me you abuse like this? You think I'm your mate... Oya beg me or elseee....
Oya no vex madam 😂
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by luminouz(m): 11:19pm On Dec 06, 2024
jessylaurel:
Oya no vex madam 😂
Lol...clown
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by zumbigbo(m): 12:39am On Dec 07, 2024
Have you asked Uncle Balto?
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by worworbabe: 9:26am On Dec 08, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
u don't know how it feels...

Marrying a woman that is a feminist and woke. Always right and wants to be in charge of u like u are a baby. Tells u how to do and undo things yet she can never stage an arrest for u.
It is obvious you can’t behave yourself. You go out looking for trouble expecting your wife to be your man-in-shining armour.

She must be tired of the marriage too. No woman likes to be married to another woman.

When will you step us and be a real man.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Chinny024(f): 4:23pm On Dec 14, 2024
Ibkay32:
Some men would rather lose amazing women simply because their success surpasses theirs. But life doesn’t have a single formula, why not support your wife’s career? In the end, it’s not a competition; it’s about shared happiness, peace, and the unique journey you choose together.

I would have to carry on 😂 but make e no be like say I too fast
Abeg my beautiful sister if you see someone like her to connect me with, my DM is always open..
😉😉😉..Na which state be ur target 🤔...U hv any particular place in mind?..
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Ibkay32(m): 8:33pm On Dec 14, 2024
Chinny024:
😉😉😉..Na which state be ur target 🤔...U hv any particular place in mind?..
As long as she's Nigerian, there's a chance to build a deep connection rooted in the richness and diversity of our cultures and traditions. There are endless opportunities to learn, grow, and appreciate each other's heritage. We're all set!

Sister, if you have someone in mind, I'm always here.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Chinny024(f): 8:36pm On Dec 14, 2024
Ibkay32:
As long as she's Nigerian, there's a chance to build a deep connection rooted in the richness and diversity of our cultures and traditions. There are endless opportunities to learn, grow, and appreciate each other's heritage. We're all set!

Sister, if you have someone in mind, I'm always here.
When I see aha..Are u a believer or non believer?..😉😉😉
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Ibkay32(m): 9:09pm On Dec 14, 2024
Chinny024:
When I see aha..Are u a believer or non believer?..😉😉😉
A believer of Christ 🙏
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