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One Malami Gebawa of Durbawa village in Kware Local Government Area of Sokoto State has allegedly broken the right leg and hand of his wife for attending a clinic without his permission.

Narrating her ordeal, the victim, Malam Halimatu Sadiya, who is currently on admission at Wamakko Orthopaedic Hospital, said her husband broke her leg and hand because he saw drugs in her bag after she returned from her sick mother’s home.

“I have been sick for about four months. I know he (her husband) did his best by calling a health worker who came and administered drips on me but the sickness persisted.

“I had been pleading with him to allow me to go to the hospital but he declined. There was even my relative, who volunteered to take me to the hospital but he refused.

“So, when I went to see my sick mother, I consulted the health personnel, who was attending to her and he gave me some drugs.

“When I came back home and he saw the drugs, he started arguing with me that I went to the hospital without his permission. I told him it was the health worker that was attending to my mother who gave me the drugs.

“He then insisted on seeing the health worker and I agreed to take him to him.

“While I was dressing up in my room, he came in, locked the door and started beating me with his vigilante’s stick until I fainted.

“When he realised that he had broken my leg and hand, he started crying, pleading with me not to tell anybody what happened between us and in case somebody ask me I should say I was knocked down by an Okada man”.

The husband, Malami, while confessing to his offence, described it as an act of the devil.

Her offence, he said, was that she went to the hospital without his permission despite all the efforts being made to cater for his family members who fall sick.

“When she came back from seeing her sick mother, I saw something concealed in the bucket she came home with and inquired about its contents, which she refused to disclose to me.

“I insisted on seeing the contents. Then, I snatched the bucket and attempted to run away with it but she held my cloth from behind and tore it. When I checked the bucket I saw a hospital card, some drugs and plastic kettles.

“I then asked her why she went to the hospital without telling me and she knew I always cater for their medical needs because even last week I brought a health worker who treated her of diarrhoea,” he said.

Malami, however, denied beating her with stick, saying it was when she was pursuing him to get back her bucket that she fell down and sustained fractures on her leg and hand.

“After breaking her leg and hand, I brought a traditional bone setter who set her bones back and later her relatives brought another bone setter, who I gave N50,000 to reset the bones and spent another N25,000 on drugs.

“I am now providing for her and the woman looking after her despite my lean resources because I am a farmer and a leader of the vigilantes group in my community,” he said

Malami, who was regretting his actions, admitted that, “I caused her injury and I am ready to bear the consequences of my actions.

“But please don’t let her leave me because I love her so much and I know she loves me too. What happened is an act of a devil. Please try and convince her not to leave me.”

On why he was not allowing his family members to attend hospital, he said “Because there is no functional clinic in our area”.

Our reporter learnt that the husband had since been arrested and brought to the Sokoto State Police Command.

But the spokesman for the command, ASP Ahmad Rufa’I, said he was not yet briefed about the incident.

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MadamVanessa:





That man is sick, but I hesitate to blame him entirely. His actions seem to be influenced by a religious ideology that, in my view, diminishes the status of women, effectively treating them as slaves. I acknowledge that expressing this opinion may lead some to assume I'm motivated by a bias against the religion. However, I'm committed to speaking my truth and highlighting what I perceive as an injustice.

I recently watched a true crime story by Ray Williams on TikTok, which highlighted a disturbing case from Kazakhstan. A man brutally murdered his wife, and at the time, Kazakhstan lacked laws against domestic violence, which makes the man go Scot free. This was too painful to me. Notably, Kazakhstan is an Islamic nation. This incident underscores a broader concern, the subjugation of women. Unfortunately, many women in such societies seem to accept their circumstances as normal, believing it's a male dominated world where women have no place.

I implore the Sokoto State Government to take immediate and decisive action on this man. Ignorance, whether born of illiteracy or religious misguidance, is no justification for such behavior.

MadamVanessa:





That man is sick, but I hesitate to blame him entirely. His actions seem to be influenced by a religious ideology that, in my view, diminishes the status of women, effectively treating them as slaves. I acknowledge that expressing this opinion may lead some to assume I'm motivated by a bias against the religion. However, I'm committed to speaking my truth and highlighting what I perceive as an injustice.

I recently watched a true crime story by Ray Williams on TikTok, which highlighted a disturbing case from Kazakhstan. A man brutally murdered his wife, and at the time, Kazakhstan lacked laws against domestic violence, which makes the man go Scot free. This was too painful to me. Notably, Kazakhstan is an Islamic nation. This incident underscores a broader concern, the subjugation of women. Unfortunately, many women in such societies seem to accept their circumstances as normal, believing it's a male dominated world where women have no place.

I implore the Sokoto State Government to take immediate and decisive action on this man. Ignorance, whether born of illiteracy or religious misguidance, is no justification for such behavior.