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Can we quickly talk about this guys ?

This post is for guys only.

The over "Real man-ification. That happens to guys like me.

You'll hang out with your fellow guys and because you chose to take a soft drink or at most, one small bottle of a very low alcohol beer, they claim you're a Jew man.

Talmabout "You no be man o. Why you go dey drink malt? Na ordinary 1 bottle dey high you"

The cold is crazy and I'm boiling water, and all you can come say it "Nawa o. Why you dey do like woman? Na only women dey boil water to baff"

Very gutter behavior. You want me to do stupid things all in the name of being a real man?

Because I want to be known as a real man, I should take the risk of swimming "without fear", when I know I can't swim?

I should take 10 bottles of beer just to cement my place in the "Real man" hall of Fame??

Let me not even talk about smokers.

Why??

It really crazy!

Real men die earlier and faster

You didn't add the female aspect of this "real-man" gaslight: with statements like "A real man will carry the world on his shoulders and not look for a partner that can support him".
I tell anyone around me who cares to listen: I don't stake my ego on the alter of anyone's validation. I do whatever I want to do that I have deemed best for me.

Don't listen to anyone trying to make u uncomfortable because you're not doing what they're doing. Being a man is enough.
You don't have to go through hard life or place yourself in uncomfortable situation before you can prove to be real.

Just do what makes you happy and if the company you keep is making you uncomfortable, leave them all.

To me, the realest man is one who has the ability to make decisions for himself without external influence.

A real man is a stupid man


That's why most women wants a real man

All you have to do is change your circle of friends. It's as sumolyas that.

Na whinnying.

I'm not in that category

That's why I fly Solo

Meaning of "real" in context .. (that is on the tip of the tongue but still eludes) is that real means truth... If u take coke instead of beer , does it diminish your truth? . We're u made for beer? If u use hot instead of cold.. were u made to use hot? When u ignore a function for validation.. u re not real. However u re creator of the function

Tekashi89:
Can we quickly talk about this guys ?

This post is for guys only.

The over "Real man-ification. That happens to guys like me.

You'll hang out with your fellow guys and because you chose to take a soft drink or at most, one small bottle of a very low alcohol beer, they claim you're a Jew man.

Talmabout "You no be man o. Why you go dey drink malt? Na ordinary 1 bottle dey high you"

The cold is crazy and I'm boiling water, and all you can come say it "Nawa o. Why you dey do like woman? Na only women dey boil water to baff"

Very gutter behavior. You want me to do stupid things all in the name of being a real man?

Because I want to be known as a real man, I should take the risk of swimming "without fear", when I know I can't swim?

I should take 10 bottles of beer just to cement my place in the "Real man" hall of Fame??

Let me not even talk about smokers.

Why??

It really crazy!

Why walk in circles with assholez?
So if they engage in money rituals..they will eventually influence you into doing it just for you be a man to them

Be yourself and do what works for you. Life is too short to worry about what others want you to do to impress them.

lol same here.
I don’t take alcohol, drugs , smokes and I don’t party too… but but I like woman.
And take it from me, I am one of the realest OG you’ll come by.

Nwaokunkpara:
A real man is a stupid man


That's why most women wants a real man

There’s a difference between being real & being stupid..

Our forefathers were real hardcore men but they were never stupid. Tho, majority of men we have these days are not so worthy of being called a man. They’re just sissy in men’s body..

Another example is wizkid. He’s a real man that most ladies want but his he stupid? No!

Real men are otherwise known as mumu men . It's even worse when women call you a real man it means you are a finished man but when guys do same to you it means you are a man of principle that don't defy your principles no matter whose ox is gored.

If men call you that it means you are actually doing well, I love it when guys say you are not a real man it's my own barometer to check myself if I'm on track and that's an affirmation that I'm on track.

Herd mentality is what has taken dudes and humans to the position they don't envisaged. You are doing well bro and there is nothing like real man it's only used by people of low critical thinking skills to shame others into doing what they do which most times it's isn't in the best interest of the one they try to shame. Maintain frame at all times.

seanwilliam:
lol same here.
I don’t take alcohol, drugs , smokes and I don’t party too… but but I like woman.
And take it from me, I am one of the realest OG you’ll come by.

If you don’t do any of those, you can’t understand the word real.