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Submission to one’s husband means you should respect and adore him. This you have to do whether he is rich or not. Whether “to you” he is irresponsible because he is currently unable to provide for you because of his current financial status.

Once a woman is married she has accepted the man as her head. Regardless of how they were while they were dating or in courtship. If you disrespected him or saw him as your equal while you were dating or in courtship that should change once you are married to him.

If you do not respect and honor your husband it will affect your relationship inside and it will extend to your family, friends and neighbors. They will also make attempts to indirectly or directly disrespect you husband. You might be fine with the disrespect in the beginning of your marriage but by the time you start to see your husband as your partner you will not be happy with the disrespect.

Decision making is where submission becomes very important. Submission in marriage means you don’t downplay or attack whatever decisions your husband makes in your home. You are welcome to deliberate with him and suggest to him but do not attack his decisions. A man as a husband is the leader of the family and it is his responsibility to lead the family positively.

Even though cooking, washing and doing “motherly” chores are signs of submission, disrespect and arguing with one’s husband counters them and render them null void. Some women kneel whenever they want to serve their husbands food. He won’t remember those actions when you are always aggressive whenever its time to make decisions at home.

Remember if you put a man in a decision making or leadership position in the family he has no choice but to rise to the occasion. This doesn’t mean you cannot correct your husband whenever he does something wrong but do it with love and respect.

Lastly if you disrespect your “responsible” husband because he is unable to provide adequately for the family because of his current situation it will backfire on you especially if you plan on remaining in that marriage. Nobody ever forgets how they were treated when they were down and remember no condition is permanent. When his financial status changes you wont view him as the same man you once knew. He will take care of you and your family financially but the emotions will be gone.

tunnyl:
Submission to one’s husband means you should respect and adore him. This you have to do whether he is rich or not. Whether “to you” he is irresponsible because he is currently unable to provide for you because of his current financial status.

Once a woman is married she has accepted the man as her head. Regardless of how they were while they were dating or in courtship. If you disrespected him or saw him as your equal while you were dating or in courtship that should change once you are married to him.

If you do not respect and honor your husband it will affect your relationship inside and it will extend to your family, friends and neighbors. They will also make attempts to indirectly or directly disrespect you husband. You might be fine with the disrespect in the beginning of your marriage but by the time you start to see your husband as your partner you will not be happy with the disrespect.

Decision making is where submission becomes very important. Submission in marriage means you don’t downplay or attack whatever decisions your husband makes in your home. You are welcome to deliberate with him and suggest to him but do not attack his decisions. A man as a husband is the leader of the family and it is his responsibility to lead the family positively.

Even though cooking, washing and doing “motherly” chores are signs of submission, disrespect and arguing with one’s husband counters them and render them null void. Some women kneel whenever they want to serve their husbands food. He won’t remember those actions when you are always aggressive whenever its time to make decisions at home.

Remember if you put a man in a decision making or leadership position in the family he has no choice but to rise to the occasion. This doesn’t mean you cannot correct your husband whenever he does something wrong but do it with love and respect.

Lastly if you disrespect your “responsible” husband because he is unable to provide adequately for the family because of his current situation it will backfire on you especially if you plan on remaining in that marriage. Nobody ever forgets how they were treated when they were down and remember no condition is permanent. When his financial status changes you wont view him as the same man you once knew. He will take care of you and your family financially but the emotions will be gone.

Take this advice to your female relations they need it more

Especially those particular women that are under their husband but her children are starving and she too is going through the effect of living with an irresponsible man

You can also not provide for your wife and starve your family and also remind her to honour you.

A responsible husband doesn't beg for respect from his wife, he earns it

frozen70:
Take this advice to your female relations they need it more

Especially those particular women that are under their husband but her children are starving and she too is going through the effect of living with an irresponsible man

You can also not provide for your wife and starve your family and also remind her to honour you.

A responsible husband doesn't beg for respect from his wife, he earns it

Am glad my post is compelling enough to make you emotional