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He left Nigeria for Europe.
Stayed and worked there for twenty years.
While away, he kept sending money to his wife to help build a befitting house for him in Nigeria.
But when he returned, he saw what shocked him.
In anger, he has arrested the wife for explanations. And sadly, he is now begging Nigerians for assistance.

Na dyslexic bricklayer do the house?

"As a man, Don't ever see your woman as your best friend".

Many men been victims of this kinda shiit right from time,both from siblings and wives....

So painful.....

Heard of a similar story where the brother didn't even develop the Land . Na so my guy faint when the werey of a brother carry am go show the empty land with invisible mansion

TRUST NO BODY....

Just complete the house and move on , at least there is something to start on .

Some people story worst pass this one

Who carry our Christmas chicken..

Asin, he no knack the woman for twenty years? She dey chop the money with who dey help knack am for the twenty years na

Not trying to be unsympathetic, but I find this hard to believe.
For 20 years, he was away from his wife. Not a girlfriend o, wife. And in that 20 years, he did not come home once to see her or any member of his family.

He should thank his star that he met something on ground.

The man was never at fault for sending money to his wife to build house for him. He saw her as part of him, not known that distance do reduce feelings that a couple had for each other.

My question is that what of his own family &friends ? I know that half of the money goes to her family and friends ,Party with friends and one guys that us helping her to oil the place

We need to hear from the woman too

This is a Skitts..
Nigerian youths should get more creative. Dullard

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Skit

Skit.

Was he in jail

Even if it's skit ,e dey happen real life..

Some men can be very stupid. I know of one who is above 50. He sold all his inherited lands ,left his three kids and wife,and travel to Europe.. Kids he no train,wife he no take care of .

Back to this skit like story .

20years.. Who dey nack your wife was also chopping the money..

In other words ,who was doing the nacking job was getting paid by you indirectly..

If you save the money ,till you enter niaja start the project and complete it yourself,you go die?

Trust nobody in this life . Humans can change in sec. Not to talk of women,who are loyal to their emotions..

Very bad

Upritman:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=azSFQ4-eBog?si=iT2hjat5-GdA5ZVT

He left Nigeria for Europe.
Stayed and worked there for twenty years.
While away, he kept sending money to his wife to help build a befitting house for him in Nigeria.
But when he returned, he saw what shocked him.
In anger, he has arrested the wife for explanations. And sadly, he is now begging Nigerians for assistance.

So he kept a woman alone for 20years. He should be arrested

How can a so called husband abandon his wife in Nigeria for 20yrs? He may have married another woman abroad and his wife knew about it, so wife decided to channel the money he sends to to also build a house for herself or businesses, so that she could have something to fall back on.

The person I'm seeing here doesn't look like somebody that has been married for 20 years

Trust Nigeria woman at your own detrimental detriment

Hello everyone, I'm reaching out in desperation and hope that someone can offer guidance or support. I've recently discovered that my husband may have gotten married to another woman in the UK without my knowledge or consent.

I'm in Nigeria and feeling helpless. I'd appreciate any advice or information on how to verify this situation and what steps I can take next.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post. Any guidance or support would be greatly appreciated.

God bless.

Bankowner:
Not trying to be unsympathetic, but I find this hard to believe.
For 20 years, he was away from his wife. Not a girlfriend o, wife. And in that 20 years, he did not come home once to see her or any member of his family.

Being away for 20yrs don't mean he has been married for 29yrs...maybe he even got married a couple of years ago ... people marry without being present ... he started to send money to her after marriage for the house

dominique:
The person I'm seeing here doesn't look like somebody that has been married for 20 years

Where did he say he was married for 20yrs ??

LilMissFavvy:
How can a so called husband abandon his wife in Nigeria for 20yrs? He may have married another woman abroad and his wife knew about it, so wife decided to channel the money he sends to to also build a house for herself or businesses, so that she could have something to fall back on.

I don't know how u guys even pass exams ... he was away for 20yrs. Now how does that mean that he was away for 20yrs... people get married in absentia....

cr7lomo:
Where did he say he was married for 20yrs ??

He doesn't look like someone that has been in Europe for 20 years either. What kind of assistance is he begging for? Nigerians should contribute money for him to complete the house? I won't be surprised if this is another scam gimmick. He should post receipts of all the money he sent to the said wife (that's if she exists) over the years. Anybody can carry camera to an uncompleted building

dominique:
He doesn't look like someone that has been in Europe for 20 years either. What kind of assistance is he begging for? Nigerians should contribute money for him to complete the house? I won't be surprised if this is another scam gimmick. He should post receipts of all the money he sent to the said wife (that's if she exists) over the years. Anybody can carry camera to an uncompleted building

Now , if this ur take on this topic...then I agree with u... it could just be another scam , skit or clout

If you plan to build a house as a man or woman and you're outside the country, stop sending your money to any wife,husband,brother or sister. It will many times end in premium tears.come to nigeria yourself when you can to do it yourself. Poverty has made a lot of Nigerians wicked and psychopathic.if you give them money to help you build house,most times they'll use it to solve their family issues and when you get them arrested they'll come with emotional blackmail of you know he's your brother,she's your wife,she's the one that wash your bombom when you were 2 years,he's the one that bought your first school uniform.just save your money while you work and take leave whenever you can,come to nigeria and let them do whatever building they'll do in your eyes.

If you like allow anyone emotionally manipulate you (Nigerians are good at that) you will learn the hard way.be working hard under harsh conditions make person dey use your money pay their children's school fees or chop suya with oloshos.anu re semi

In Poco lees voice,'' u go dey trust woman, woman!... U never c anything "