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Abi na marriage God abeg 🙏

Karlman:
I mean it's terrible how some people will stay in such a relationship, is it about money or what?

bro, it's about money and material things.... Some people don't just like themselves

Looking at this man, there something my mind is telling me.

IjeBos:
Difference between you and I, I think my life is worthy of value, respect and dignity.
I live in a place where most police officers would be fired for slapping someone like that.
When you normalize this type of behavior you become a country like Nigeria currently is.

You just know how to blow grammar but lack basic comprehension.
Where did I say or imply that what the man did is normal?

beeblack:
This is the result u get if u marry agbero.

No mind that lady na agbero she marry

riverbird:
You knew he was a beast and you still decided to stay with him for 15 years, you are even lucky that it didn't cost you your life.

Don't mind her she is still there because of money or material things

This woman with nose ring well make I no talk but na the kind thing some of this women dey like for real life

At times hand suppose dey touch these naija women.
Them too dey do. Them go think say na abroad.

Tayorshd87:
Don't mind her she is still there because of money or material things

Hahaha..... reminds me of the saying "NO PAIN NO GAIN"......

Mrexcell:
Very common with only nigerian women I don't think ladies in civilised countries tolerate such.

This is not true, I once was in a Civil court in the UK (long story how I ended up there ) where the family of this woman had pressured her into getting an injunction against a semi professional footballer (he played for England C, their semi pro international team) who had been repeatedly abusive and cheated several times on her.

Even at the hearing before proceedings started, the bọbọ had somehow isolated the babe and
was charming her like crazy until a family member noticed and physically dragged her away.

They got the injunction but the smile on the guys first suggested the woman, seriously pretty babe ó, was going to spend the night with him.

If the sex is good or the money is flowing, women, regardless of how powerful, beautiful or rich they are, will still accept nonsense. This is a world wide truism.

Look at the Johnny Depp trial a few years ago.

Hmmmmm2024:
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Is that why your mother slept with that native doctor ? Just to get wealthy

Being an animal yourself, definitely your mother is worst than an animal who don't even know the particular animal that fukkkked the disaster that you are into her miserably useless womb. May your days be damned, including that of your father, your mother and the rest of your generations!

Fish brain.....them tie your legs with ropes,abi..

Dem roast my padi, zico5 for here,nor be small
Ojigbijigbijigbi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Houseofglam7:
You waited 15 years to know he’s a beast??
🤦🏽‍♀️

I taya...

You saw a man who looks like that, and who had wives before you, and thought you would be married to a used up /overused divorce and single product like that? Why didn't you ask the other wives why they left him? Did you think you were somewhat special? Or did you help him unseat the last one and now you are in her shoes?

Some women will marry anything.

SilentEmma:
E pain me say the guy no damage the two eyes o, a whole 15 years... And u still dey inside ... Rubbish...

The moment you sense any form of abusive behaviour from your partner, you don't need to think twice before leaving...

There's nothing like e go change or e go better... Who don bad don bad

How far with your loans? Have you settled them? Are they still calling you? What's the update?

bolu96:
How far with your loans? Have you settled them? Are they still calling you? What's the update?

lolz bro, i am surprised you are really following my situation o...

wow!!! shows people really care...

anyway... i have left everything to fate o, the advise i got from many people here really helped me, so many of them still calls me, but i dont pick... all their numbers are unique, so its easy for me to know when they are the ones calling, anytime i have money i will call them and negotiate how much i should pay, for now i went with the advise i got here, that i should not bother myself (which to a large extent has helped me)

i cant kill myself brother, and no one of my contacts have called me that they defamed me neither have i seen any defamation from them... (over 3 months of defaulting now)

though i think it depends on the loan apps i am owing... probably they are the nice ones...

so thats the update for now

SilentEmma:
lolz bro, i am surprised you are really following my situation o...

wow!!! shows people really care...

anyway... i have left everything to fate o, the advise i got from many people here really helped me, so many of them still calls me, but i dont pick... all their numbers are unique, so its easy for me to know when they are the ones calling, anytime i have money i will call them and negotiate how much i should pay, for now i went with the advise i got here, that i should not bother myself (which to a large extent has helped me)



i cant kill myself brother, and no one of my contacts have called me that they defamed me neither have i seen any defamation from them... (over 3 months of defaulting now)

though i think it depends on the loan apps i am owing... probably they are the nice ones...

so thats the update for now

Yes, I am. Hmmm, its well. I guess the advice given is the best for now. As far as they haven't defamed you, I guess it's a good thing. I really wish I could help.
Are you owing palmpay too?

What was she doing in an abusive relationship for 15 years?

How come I didn't see this news since November, I feel like laughing, but I will not laugh. Ladies, always have a source of income, so that laziness will not make you stay till a man kills you. Also learn to have self control, self control can be developed. When you are a lazy woman who cannot feed herself, you will stay in an abusive situation. When you also lack self control, you will stay and still collect a public peni$ just as this $tupid woman stayed. With one eyes, I wonder what the future holds for her.

bolu96:
Yes, I am. Hmmm, its well. I guess the advice given is the best for now. As far as they haven't defamed you, I guess it's a good thing. I really wish I could help.
Are you owing palmpay too?

no i owe only
1. fairmoney
2. okash
3. new credit
4. xcross cash

though i feared 2-4 would call my contacts and defame me but none has so far...

i am living my life like no worries... like i said what i am owing them is 5 times more than what they have benefitted as extravagant interest from me in the past...

so if they defame me... the money is gone totally, for now i no get money to pay

it's well bro... Thanks for the concern

SilentEmma:
no i owe only
1. fairmoney
2. okash
3. new credit
4. xcross cash

though i feared 2-4 would call my contacts and defame me but none has so far...

i am living my life like no worries... like i said what i am owing them is 5 times more than what they have benefitted as extravagant interest from me in the past...

so if they defame me... the money is gone totally, for now i no get money to pay

it's well bro... Thanks for the concern

Bro, I just saw your post now. I'm also in the same dilemma as you. I'm currently owing
Palm pay- 120k. Was due yesterday and they have been sending nastymessages.

Tloan- 50000 plus overdue charges, was due on Fri and now they have been calling seriously and have threatened to message my contacts, my greatest fear. Their incessant call is driving me crazy.

Okash - this is in stages, the first will be due on mon- 16k

Others are Alend, snappy credit
due next year. I'm going to be paid but that is on the first week of January. My worry is it's not going to be enough as the money coming in is only 150k.

I've put my WhatsApp on privacy mode, people can't know when I view their status or reply their messages. My phone is also currently on DND because of the fear of defamation. That's my greatest worry.

I don't know what to do.

gagashuffle2:
Bro, I just saw your post now. I'm also in the same dilemma as you. I'm currently owing
Palm pay- 120k. Was due yesterday and they have been sending nastymessages.

Tloan- 50000 plus overdue charges, was due on Fri and now they have been calling seriously and have threatened to message my contacts, my greatest fear. Their incessant call is driving me crazy.

Okash - this is in stages, the first will be due on mon- 16k

Others are Alend, snappy credit
due next year. I'm going to be paid but that is on the first week of January. My worry is it's not going to be enough as the money coming in is only 150k.

I've put my WhatsApp on privacy mode, people can't know when I view their status or reply their messages. My phone is also currently on DND because of the fear of defamation. That's my greatest worry.

I don't know what to do.

Bro I was in this situation of yours, infact the difference between u and I currently is not the amount of money we are owing, cause me self still dey owe them...

Nah the mind wey I don get so far, my fears has totally reduced... E no get wetin Fairmoney never take threaten me... But I no send them...

I followed advice here to restrict them all from my contacts and also go to Google contacts and delete all contacts which I did, and no one of my contacts has called me yet, though I still get calls from them, I don't pick cause if they call I know they are the one...

Baba no kill yourself o, if u don't have money to pay ... Relax yourself, just as they told me... NIGERIA still dey owe ... We still dey kampe

SilentEmma:
Bro I was in this situation of yours, infact the difference between u and I currently is not the amount of money we are owing, cause me self still dey owe them...

Nah the mind wey I don get so far, my fears has totally reduced... E no get wetin Fairmoney never take threaten me... But I no send them...

I followed advice here to restrict them all from my contacts and also go to Google contacts and delete all contacts which I did, and no one of my contacts has called me yet, though I still get calls from them, I don't pick cause if they call I know they are the one...

Baba no kill yourself o, if u don't have money to pay ... Relax yourself, just as they told me... NIGERIA still dey owe ... We still dey kampe

Bro, thank you for the encouragement.
At the bolded, how does it work? You mean you deleted all your contacts?

gagashuffle2:
Bro, thank you for the encouragement.
At the bolded, how does it work? You mean you deleted all your contacts?

Yes I backup my contacts into a file... Copied the file and saved it somewhere, then deleted the duplicate from Google contacts....

SilentEmma:
Yes I backup my contacts into a file... Copied the file and saved it somewhere, then deleted the duplicate from Google contacts....

Alright, thank you.

My Situation is like you people own. Stupid me that is Jobless was now borrowing from one to pay the other hoping for Breakthrough.
Right now I have reached the tipping point. I can't borrow no more and in serious debt.
Here is what I am owing currently

Branch 40k due 5 days ago
Okash 119k due today.
Easemoni 144k due on Monday.
Fairmoney 280k due on Jan 5
Palmcredit 158k due on Jan 5
Annd New Credit 158k due on Jan 5

Please abeg, I hope none of this apps call contacts and do shaming. Branch hasn't called my contacts but I hope Okash and Easemoni is like them. At this point, I don't know what to do again.

Right now, I am looking for Job to clear this debts.

Nigeriahasfutur:
My Situation is like you people own. Stupid me that is Jobless was now borrowing from one to pay the other hoping for Breakthrough.
Right now I have reached the tipping point. I can't borrow no more and in serious debt.
Here is what I am owing currently

Branch 40k due 5 days ago
Okash 119k due today.
Easemoni 144k due on Monday.
Fairmoney 280k due on Jan 5
Palmcredit 158k due on Jan 5
Annd New Credit 158k due on Jan 5

Please abeg, I hope none of this apps call contacts and do shaming. Branch hasn't called my contacts but I hope Okash and Easemoni is like them. At this point, I don't know what to do again.

Right now, I am looking for Job to clear this debts.

It's well. Branch is a good app, won't call your contacts. The worst of them is Pamcredit. Those people can disturb oo.

By the way, how are you able to borrow that much from these apps because they usually just give small money at the begining?

Cc SilentEmma

una know where una dey c all these type of men.. this one wey be like agberos for oshodi under bridge

gagashuffle2:
It's well. Branch is a good app, won't call your contacts. The worst of them is Pamcredit. Those people can disturb oo.

By the way, how are you able to borrow that much from these apps because they usually just give small money at the begining?

Cc SilentEmma

My Brother Since I have borrowed before and paid back when things were good, my credit score was high.

Now that score is dropping faster than stone 😥

Nigeriahasfutur:
My Brother Since I have borrowed before and paid back when things were good, my credit score was high.

Now that score is dropping faster than stone 😥

Oh, I see. It's well.
How far with Okash? Have they called you?

Nigeriahasfutur:
My Situation is like you people own. Stupid me that is Jobless was now borrowing from one to pay the other hoping for Breakthrough.
Right now I have reached the tipping point. I can't borrow no more and in serious debt.
Here is what I am owing currently

Branch 40k due 5 days ago
Okash 119k due today.
Easemoni 144k due on Monday.
Fairmoney 280k due on Jan 5
Palmcredit 158k due on Jan 5
Annd New Credit 158k due on Jan 5

Please abeg, I hope none of this apps call contacts and do shaming. Branch hasn't called my contacts but I hope Okash and Easemoni is like them. At this point, I don't know what to do again.

Right now, I am looking for Job to clear this debts.

Come and see this, SilentEmma