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Kobicove:
This type of agreement should always be in writing although Nigerians hardly ever even abide by written agreements but it's still better than just a verbal agreement

KingintheNorth:
What's your Advice and opinion about this.
This is actually true life scenario and I'm posting for someone anonymously.

A guy and a lady planned to travel to the UK on a student visa together they contributed and paid the deposit. The plan and agreement was that the guy will study then the lady will work to help with the tuition fee payment of £18k 50-50. then after school everyone will go their way.

Before they traveled, the lady was subtly catching feelings for the guy but the guy was having none of it because it's just contract for him.

When they got to the UK last year, they both moved to different cities , the guy started school and she got a job and started working.

When it was time to pay the balance of the tuition, the lady refused to contribute to the payment. Claiming she doesn't have money and if she must pay it, she will have to move in with him and start acting like his wife.

The guy refused and reminded her about the agreement. She insisted on her own ideas. When she saw that the guy was not bulging she blocked him on all social media so he was not able to reach her for sometime.

When the pressure from school became too much , the guy started hustling day and night breaking his back and still covering his lectures and assignments.

The guy was tempted to remove her from his visa because he's the main visa holder and she's the dependant but he didn't , hoping that she will still fulfill her own part of the agreement.

She remained incommunicado untill the guy managed to pay off all the tuition, passed all his courses and finished school.

Few months after he finished school , she reached out and was acting all friendly. Apparently the company she was hoping to get a sponsorship from disappointed her so she was trying to buy her way into jumping on the 2 years post graduate visa the guy was about to apply for.

Remember, out of the £18k tuition , she only contributed £2k for the deposit and refused all further payments. Now she wants to give the guy £2k to take him on his post graduate visa.

The guy refused and removed her from his visa because of her wickedness and untrustworthiness.
Her visa expired and as she was not able to see a sponsor,she was asked to leave the country .now she's in Nigeria swearing for the guy. Threatening to report him to her village juju etc.

Do you think he did the right thing??

Sucre6:
You don't get the point, she's the one that was put in the front with the visa preparation and everything and the guy tagged along with the agreement of paying 50/50 but the guy literally paid for everything, her contribution was less than 5% on the agreement that when they get to uk he will be schooling and she will be working and paying back her own 50% gradually so that he uses it to fund his studies, which she refused and blocked the guy on the condition that they live together. She's already plotting to blackmailing the guy not to pay her own end of the deal should they have lived together. But the guy outsmarted her 100%

advanceDNA:
Try dey calm down when u wan read ...

Sucre6:
U way calm down, drop your own version

advanceDNA:
The original version is up there ....u dont need my version .....just calm down dey read

galantjoe:
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Village juju works base on equity

Provided that it was exactly what happened was narrated here. The gal has no case against to the guy

KingintheNorth:
There's nothing to back it up. The whole process was legit. It was just a verbal agreement.

idahme:
You think such deal is usually signed? You are a novice, they went to UK as common law partner. If you can't do something don't take part, the guy would necessarily be the one to sponsor everything and then she just pays her flight ticket. Can she use flight ticket of 700 pounds to travel to UK if she has to do it all by herself? A lot of people are so greedy, you see someone who has made things easier for you but you want to be smart .

advanceDNA:
An arrangement based on fake union should be put in writing?? As in...why would u even think a fraud will have integrity to hold up the end of the bargain??


Sounds like a man that collabo with his babe to kill her husband and take his money..

Sucre6:
Omo, U don't get the gist at all 😂😂

eazzzy1:
If after school they both go their own way, what is the benefit of the arrangement to the girl? Should she not start schooling while the guy pays half of her tuition too?

She should have exposed the scam to the home office before they told her to leave the country. They both would have been sent home.

emmy512:
When that guy arrives Nigeria, he will understand the mistake he made by marrying her legally.

Right now she is his wide , and she can do and undo him when he comes to Nigeria.

How does he want to marry again in court when this one has not been dissolved.

eazzzy1:
I don’t know how UK immigration works, but the fact they didn’t live together and she was removed from the visa after he graduated is sufficient backup.

eazzzy1:
The agreement was skewed to favour only the guy. They were going to part ways after school whether she paid up or not. The op said they both paid the initial deposit, now you are talking of 700 pounds. You are just adding and subtracting from the initial story to support the guy.

At the end of the day she would never have been on his post graduate visa because the agreement was they would move on after his schooling. She saved £7000 by wising up. She didn’t lose anything that she would not have lost anyways.

Silentgroper:
All the u k needs to see is a legal document showing they're married.. whether they live together is none of their business

KingintheNorth:
What's your Advice and opinion about this.
This is actually true life scenario and I'm posting for someone anonymously.

A guy and a lady planned to travel to the UK on a student visa together they contributed and paid the deposit. The plan and agreement was that the guy will study then the lady will work to help with the tuition fee payment of £18k 50-50. then after school everyone will go their way.

Before they traveled, the lady was subtly catching feelings for the guy but the guy was having none of it because it's just contract for him.

When they got to the UK last year, they both moved to different cities , the guy started school and she got a job and started working.

When it was time to pay the balance of the tuition, the lady refused to contribute to the payment. Claiming she doesn't have money and if she must pay it, she will have to move in with him and start acting like his wife.

The guy refused and reminded her about the agreement. She insisted on her own ideas. When she saw that the guy was not bulging she blocked him on all social media so he was not able to reach her for sometime.

When the pressure from school became too much , the guy started hustling day and night breaking his back and still covering his lectures and assignments.

The guy was tempted to remove her from his visa because he's the main visa holder and she's the dependant but he didn't , hoping that she will still fulfill her own part of the agreement.

She remained incommunicado untill the guy managed to pay off all the tuition, passed all his courses and finished school.

Few months after he finished school , she reached out and was acting all friendly. Apparently the company she was hoping to get a sponsorship from disappointed her so she was trying to buy her way into jumping on the 2 years post graduate visa the guy was about to apply for.

Remember, out of the £18k tuition , she only contributed £2k for the deposit and refused all further payments. Now she wants to give the guy £2k to take him on his post graduate visa.

The guy refused and removed her from his visa because of her wickedness and untrustworthiness.
Her visa expired and as she was not able to see a sponsor,she was asked to leave the country .now she's in Nigeria swearing for the guy. Threatening to report him to her village juju etc.

Do you think he did the right thing??

flokii:
He deserves a medal biko.. I'm surprised he had that level of patience sef.
Some women are very wicked, na why guys no dey like help them.. o fe ma doko ofe.

correctyourself:
The guy did not do well because at a point the lady wants them to be together and the guy refused! I think rhe story is more than what you wrote here.

The guy was not mature in handling this issue because students in UK also work while schooling the authority encouraged them to do so, lazy guy waiting for the Lady to pay all that money, contract can be amended base on situations. Black man's mentality of entitlement
We need to hear the Lady's side of the story!

Silentgroper:
It's Nigeria bruh ... It's not that hard ... He doesn't even need a divorce to get another wife ...

Namaster:


It tickles me when a SHITTY person gets their comeuppance.

She VIOLATED their agreement, blindsided and BLOCKED the guy whose Visa she DEPENDED on.

If the guy had NOT been a resourceful person, she'd have DESTROYED his life and jeopardised his future.

He would have been the one looking for Village Juju.

Tell the guy to block the UNGRATEFUL bitch and ANYBODY who advocates for her.

He did the RIGHT thing!

idahme:
People like you is the reason why most women aren't accountable, frotge story you can't see that the lady didn't do her own part of the bargain and you are using the issue of the woman wanting to date him as an escuse for her not doing her own bargain. Make una dey slget sense small , why not remove your prejudices and look at story from what it is and not what is in your head?

A man must enter into a relationship because a woman is wooing him?what sought of thought process is this? What happened to fulfilling her contract without wooing him? Did the contract say they will date? You think every man is like you that will jettison his goal just to please a woman? You better learn.

emmy512:
He does not.

But if his new wife wants court marriage and he accepts.
The records would show he's is married.

And if his first legal wife wants to show him shege.
E go still bad

Cos in the eyes of the law she is the only legally recognised wife

eazzzy1:
If after school they both go their own way, what is the benefit of the arrangement to the girl? Should she not start schooling while the guy pays half of her tuition too?

She should have exposed the scam to the home office before they told her to leave the country. They both would have been sent home.

correctyourself:
The guy did not do well because at a point the lady wants them to be together and the guy refused! I think rhe story is more than what you wrote here.

The guy was not mature in handling this issue because students in UK also work while schooling the authority encouraged them to do so, lazy guy waiting for the Lady to pay all that money, contract can be amended base on situations. Black man's mentality of entitlement


People like you have not been to the border yet talk like you know what you saying,

For student visa, you are allowed to work 20 hours per week. Minimum wage is 11.44 per hour, multiple by 20. In a month you earn less than 1k pounds, Shared room apartment alone not a full house is 500 pounds per month, you sef calculate the bills

We need to hear the Lady's side of the story!