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Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by ednut1(m): 1:13pm On Dec 25, 2024
Inspire to perspire
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by Josbreed: 2:26pm On Dec 25, 2024
Factcheck0001:
that still doesn't make u a better person

U might have a flaw that will even ruin u eventually

Life has no manual n no best way to approach it
You mentioned flaw, like say the post is about being flawless. Them say to be a better person o, simple English you cannot understood? Not to be perfect or flawless, just a better person next year. Chai!
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by Factcheck0001: 2:29pm On Dec 25, 2024
Josbreed:
You mentioned flaw, like say the post is about being flawless. Them say to be a better person o, simple English you cannot understood? Not to be perfect or flawless, just a better person next year. Chai!
oga what I am saying is that one flaw can damage anyone doing all these religiously

A gambler who does all this is going nowhere
A drug addict who does all this will fail n so on

No manual to life
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by galantjoe(m): 3:18pm On Dec 25, 2024
Wonderful thought provoking advice
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by faceland: 4:29pm On Dec 25, 2024
I planted the seed

I know my next would be great.


I made some money in the last 2 months but I threw everything back into the system. January I make the last sacrifice and start harvesting (by God Grace).
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by faceland: 4:35pm On Dec 25, 2024
Factcheck0001:
oga life has no manual

Someone can still do all these n b successful than d one who don't do it

With what I have seen in life, life doesn't have a way to approach it best
You have a point but also try not to be negative as pointed out.... Search on YouTube for "the science of luck". If you understand that, you seems to be luckier (sometimes because you believe you are, & also prepare for it).
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by Factcheck0001: 4:48pm On Dec 25, 2024
faceland:
You have a point but also try not to be negative as pointed out.... Search on YouTube for "the science of luck". If you understand that, you seems to be luckier (sometimes because you believe you are, & also prepare for it).
I don't follow YouTube

I follow real life experiences, if I tell u d story of Me n my friends many of u will humble n agree truly life has no manual

Let me give u an hint

One guy when we were in d university around 2007, one of our friends he was d definition of a bad boy that everyone believe won't last in life

Joined cult
Smoked
Did yahoo
Did JuJu
Bath soap
Beat girl
Fight security
Had tattoo

He's a multimillionaire in d USA now whereas our friend who follows rules of life n use to tell us things d op posted is still a private school teacher till this day with less than 100k salary

Another one my papa doctor will always advice him not to do this, not to do that so he can live long
.
D doctor don die now e don pass 10 years n my papa still dey


If u observe,smokers are liable to die young is written on d cigar cigarette pack, some smokers live longer than people who avoid smoking


I have seen things in life that made me believe life has no manual

My guy did strong JuJu in university (another one from d guy mentioned up there) e confided in me that na coffin them use do am n e Dey fear for his life

Almost 20 years after d guy is rich n still balling but people wey dey fear to do JuJu don die tey tey

Guy when u see things u will understand life has no manual, just let people do anything that pleases them

That u try to do all those things op listed doesn't mean u will still have it good at d end
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by adeoyekay(m): 5:40pm On Dec 25, 2024
Factcheck0001:
I don't follow YouTube

I follow real life experiences, if I tell u d story of Me n my friends many of u will humble n agree truly life has no manual

Let me give u an hint

One guy when we were in d university around 2007, one of our friends he was d definition of a bad boy that everyone believe won't last in life

Joined cult
Smoked
Did yahoo
Did JuJu
Bath soap
Beat girl
Fight security
Had tattoo

He's a multimillionaire in d USA now whereas our friend who follows rules of life n use to tell us things d op posted is still a private school teacher till this day with less than 100k salary

Another one my papa doctor will always advice him not to do this, not to do that so he can live long
.
D doctor don die now e don pass 10 years n my papa still dey


If u observe,smokers are liable to die young is written on d cigar cigarette pack, some smokers live longer than people who avoid smoking


I have seen things in life that made me believe life has no manual

My guy did strong JuJu in university (another one from d guy mentioned up there) e confided in me that na coffin them use do am n e Dey fear for his life

Almost 20 years after d guy is rich n still balling but people wey dey fear to do JuJu don die tey tey

Guy when u see things u will understand life has no manual, just let people do anything that pleases them

That u try to do all those things op listed doesn't mean u will still have it good at d end
Have been following your post since, you are making sense

Those aforementioned instances are true, I have observed that before

Let me come from this angle "life is unfair"

Three days ago I saw something on Instagram which baffled me a lot I was even questioning God why life is like this. It is just about two sisters I know very well one was bad girl always smoke, tatto, expose her self nudely on Instagram while the other sister is from the same church of mine she is a decent girl, good girl,a lady that every man will prefer to have.

I know the table might still turn around ooo but currently it is in other ways round to the good girl as she has not attained the peak with the other bad girl in terms of maritally, financially. She always depressed, why her life is like that.

The bad girl has money, child, good husband and enjoy the goodies of life despite her perverse ways


Life is just complex on its own , no approach you can use to face life
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by Factcheck0001: 6:12pm On Dec 25, 2024
adeoyekay:
Have been following your post since, you are making sense

Those aforementioned instances are true, I have observed that before

Let me come from this angle "life is unfair"

Three days ago I saw something on Instagram which baffled me a lot I was even questioning God why life is like this. It is just about two sisters I know very well one was bad girl always smoke, tatto, expose her self nudely on Instagram while the other sister is from the same church of mine she is a decent girl, good girl,a lady that every man will prefer to have.

I know the table might still turn around ooo but currently it is in other ways round to the good girl as she has not attained the peak with the other bad girl in terms of maritally, financially. She always depressed, why her life is like that.

The bad girl has money, child, good husband and enjoy the goodies of life despite her perverse ways


Life is just complex on its own , no approach you can use to face life
life is truly unfair

With things wey I don see I no dey counsel any young lad again

Just go out there n do what pleases u cos even those we think live right end up badly most times n those we think live wrong end up good

If tinubu can become president despite his life n shits he did n still live to see old age Wetin come remain?
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by Kriskonnect(m): 6:42pm On Dec 25, 2024
Oh good old days of 10 things
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by faceland:
Factcheck0001:
I don't follow YouTube

I follow real life experiences, if I tell u d story of Me n my friends many of u will humble n agree truly life has no manual

Let me give u an hint

One guy when we were in d university around 2007, one of our friends he was d definition of a bad boy that everyone believe won't last in life

Joined cult
Smoked
Did yahoo
Did JuJu
Bath soap
Beat girl
Fight security
Had tattoo

He's a multimillionaire in d USA now whereas our friend who follows rules of life n use to tell us things d op posted is still a private school teacher till this day with less than 100k salary

Another one my papa doctor will always advice him not to do this, not to do that so he can live long
.
D doctor don die now e don pass 10 years n my papa still dey


If u observe,smokers are liable to die young is written on d cigar cigarette pack, some smokers live longer than people who avoid smoking


I have seen things in life that made me believe life has no manual

My guy did strong JuJu in university (another one from d guy mentioned up there) e confided in me that na coffin them use do am n e Dey fear for his life

Almost 20 years after d guy is rich n still balling but people wey dey fear to do JuJu don die tey tey

Guy when u see things u will understand life has no manual, just let people do anything that pleases them

That u try to do all those things op listed doesn't mean u will still have it good at d end
It is still the same thing. Like why politicians are billionaires while a righteous man is fasting and praying for ₦2k... Don't just assume because someone is bad, he doesn't have principles about finances or have very strong support system. An holy man might make heaven but lacks some principles in life that would gain him success (here on earth).

There is always an element of pure LUCK sha, but most lucky people made their own luck (knowingly or unknowingly), it just that it is private matter, so they don't have to fully gist strangers how they did it.


I know smoking cause cancer but I have never met someone with lung cancer (may be because they die quickly within 6 months) and cigarette join is filled with old papas (may be it is the smoking that dry them to look old ).


I get your point, it iw reality but it is not an absolute constant. Man must go through life intentionally o.

I know a Sunday school teacher and intellectual since I was a kid. It is possible he has never smoked in his life, eat healthy, brilliant, he died of different type of cancer this year. Instantly my first thought was; it's not fair.
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by faceland: 7:18pm On Dec 25, 2024
Factcheck0001:
I don't follow YouTube

I follow real life experiences, if I tell u d story of Me n my friends many of u will humble n agree truly life has no manual

Let me give u an hint

One guy when we were in d university around 2007, one of our friends he was d definition of a bad boy that everyone believe won't last in life

Joined cult
Smoked
Did yahoo
Did JuJu
Bath soap
Beat girl
Fight security
Had tattoo

He's a multimillionaire in d USA now whereas our friend who follows rules of life n use to tell us things d op posted is still a private school teacher till this day with less than 100k salary

Another one my papa doctor will always advice him not to do this, not to do that so he can live long
.
D doctor don die now e don pass 10 years n my papa still dey


If u observe,smokers are liable to die young is written on d cigar cigarette pack, some smokers live longer than people who avoid smoking


I have seen things in life that made me believe life has no manual

My guy did strong JuJu in university (another one from d guy mentioned up there) e confided in me that na coffin them use do am n e Dey fear for his life

Almost 20 years after d guy is rich n still balling but people wey dey fear to do JuJu don die tey tey

Guy when u see things u will understand life has no manual, just let people do anything that pleases them

That u try to do all those things op listed doesn't mean u will still have it good at d end
My brother, one of the biggest problem of my life is the uselessness of some experience. Meaning knowing what I know now, if I can go back to 2008, I would be a millionaire in dollars but I can't use that knowledge now/today. They say hindsight is 20/20 (very clear)... So this means that right now, there is answer to all our prayers but we can't see the opportunity (tunnel-vision on the irrelevant, maybe due to circumstances). That is where that "The Science of Luck" video trys to explain.

There is no doubt in my mind that there is an opportunity right now that can answer all my prayers but unfortunately I can't see it.
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by Smilleydr(m): 9:02pm On Dec 25, 2024
Factcheck0001:
there's no manual to living long bro

My father's doctor that use to advice him not to eat swallow, egg n co don die but my papa still dey
. kiss kiss kiss kiss kissthis one shock me ooo
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by Smilleydr(m): 9:03pm On Dec 25, 2024
Factcheck0001:
can u b happy without money n material possessions?
Tor e be like say me self no know waiting I dey talk ooooo
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by Factcheck0001: 10:02pm On Dec 25, 2024
Smilleydr:
but did you know you can av money, materials things and not still be happy huh

Happiness s very important brof, when you are happy you will have a rest of mind, and there will be nothing bordering you.
if u are happy n u never pay rent, when landlord knock on your door u will understand

If u are happy n u fall sick n u need money for drugs u will understand

If your mama owe debtor n them Dey shout on top her head n she call u to bail her out n u self no get transport fare then u will know money brings happiness 90%

Majority of things we count as village people is just lack of money

With 90% money even village people will want to b your friend

Obi cubana ,davido, blord n co will never think of any village people, they will rather use all their money to solve d problem

If u know how lack of money don humiliate n shatter life of people u will understand

Pastor wey win 10 million naira bet money come leave church work japa, u think say e no wise?
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by adeoyekay(m): 10:09pm On Dec 25, 2024
Factcheck0001:
if u are happy n u never pay rent, when landlord knock on your door u will understand

If u are happy n u fall sick n u need money for drugs u will understand

If your mama owe debtor n them Dey shout on top her head n she call u to bail her out n u self no get transport fare then u will know money brings happiness 90%

Majority of things we count as village people is just lack of money

With 90% money even village people will want to b your friend

Obi cubana ,davido, blord n co will never think of any village people, they will rather use all their money to solve d problem
Guy you are 100% on point
Your points is valid

Money is a spirit, and it brings happiness

Most actrocities people are committing today is as a result of lack of money

To religion level, if you get money THE CHURCH will value you even the so called holiness is our watchword

In this life just have money 90% of your problem is solve
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by ucheagu(m): 11:14pm On Dec 25, 2024
There's nothing like a better person
Humans were not created for that
Any role you find yourself playing in life be good at it
If you are a bad person be really good at it
If you are a good person be the best
This world needs good, bad, chaos, war, peace, love, hate, violence, harmony to move
Remember you don't matter so nothing matters... We are all travelers
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by Smilleydr(m): 3:19am On Dec 26, 2024
Factcheck0001:
if u are happy n u never pay rent, when landlord knock on your door u will understand

If u are happy n u fall sick n u need money for drugs u will understand

If your mama owe debtor n them Dey shout on top her head n she call u to bail her out n u self no get transport fare then u will know money brings happiness 90%

Majority of things we count as village people is just lack of money

With 90% money even village people will want to b your friend

Obi cubana ,davido, blord n co will never think of any village people, they will rather use all their money to solve d problem

If u know how lack of money don humiliate n shatter life of people u will understand

Pastor wey win 10 million naira bet money come leave church work japa, u think say e no wise?
hummmmmm no be lie shaaa
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by CosmicJames(m): 10:16am On Dec 26, 2024
adeoyekay:
Guy you are 100% on point
Your points is valid

Money is a spirit, and it brings happiness

Most actrocities people are committing today is as a result of lack of money

To religion level, if you get money THE CHURCH will value you even the so called holiness is our watchword

In this life just have money 90% of your problem is solve
No, money is not a spirit. Money is powerful.
Re: If You Really Want To Become A Better Person Next Year, Say Goodbye To These 10 by CosmicJames(m): 10:43am On Dec 26, 2024
Factcheck0001:
life is truly unfair

With things wey I don see I no dey counsel any young lad again

Just go out there n do what pleases u cos even those we think live right end up badly most times n those we think live wrong end up good

If tinubu can become president despite his life n shits he did n still live to see old age Wetin come remain?
I don't think life is unfair. We I do think is that we have limited knowledge of life or nature. So we don't really understand the manifestation of things and why?

Each time I wondered about life and it's manifestations, my conclusion is always one thing: "Destiny ". I strongly suspect destiny as a major factor that is driving life's manifestations
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