₦airaland Forum

Dear young women, Marry one of those suitors coming for your hand in marriage now!!!

The world is revolving, stop waiting for rich and successful men, the number of them that want to get married is becoming less on daily basis, cause the generation of wealthy men we have now prefer having baby mamas up and down than a wife.

Stop waiting till you build that your career and business to a good height as a woman before settling down with a man, this is digital world, get married along the line, no wise man will stop his partner from achieving thier dream career or business, so your marriage will not be an hindrance.

That nkechi get married to a rich men, does not mean you will marry a rich man at a go..

My own biological father married my mother when he is very wealthy and successful as young man, but time comes, the all money disappeared, the business connections he has was shattered, he started selling his properties in order to settled his servants (boyi boyi apprenticeship) the destructive wind that blow out his affluence and pull off the roof covering his castle of wealth still kept him and my mother perplexed till date, it was beyond their control.. everything has gone!!!

My intuition is still telling me that God or nature has a way blessing every marriage, so get into it with that man that is seeking one from you, stop checking whether he is poor or rich, any man that is brave enough to marry you, can take care of you..That poor man can become rich in the nearest future, while the rich man can become poor tomorrow.

If I were to be a lady, I will not turn down that first man that come to seek for my hand in marriage!! This may be spiritual to me because some of you will not understand.

Marry as early as you can, stop hallucinating!!!

Marry that young man without a child outside and have a peace of mind, that is the best marriage that will produce a better family, except you want to marry a widower.

Remember bear children and do things within your capacity!!

Forget gra gra, everyone need a companion, na just age will tell.

This kind of talk is why Nigeria is the poorest country in the world with all the oil reserve.

Men always have some sort of advice for women as if we asked them their opinions in the first place.

Its like me sef I will go and start a topic advising bachelors to marry the first ugly overweight woman that shows interest in them. After all the fine girl they marry today will still grow old and wrinkled in future.

CHoccolaTE:
Men always have some sort of advice for women as if we asked them their opinions in the first place.

Its like me sef I will go and start a topic advising bachelors to marry the first ugly overweight woman that shows interest in them. After all the fine girl they marry today will still grow old and wrinkled in future.

Op just calm down write rubbish chai

Him con spoil him matter him say make girls dey marry every first man wey wan marry them

Jesus truly wept

thinkaxis:
This kind of talk is why Nigeria is the poorest country in the world with all the oil reserve.

Age will tell ..

Depression is rolling in gradually

The Bad paragraph is " they should marry every first man " 😡 ❌
The best paragraph is " Forget gra gra, everyone need a companion, na just age will tell. " 🤝 💕

May God bless you

Tayorshd87:
Age will tell ..

Depression is rolling in gradually

You quoted me so I will quote you, I know you same person as the OP. An inexperienced unexposed fellow. You think married people dont get depressed?
So because of Age people that are mentally unstable and lack parental qualities should go and marry? This mindset is why Nigeria is battling with Boko haram, terrorists, bandits, poverty and so on. Be wise.

thinkaxis:
You quoted me so I will quote you, I know you same person as the OP. An inexperienced unexposed fellow. You think married people dont get depressed?
So because of Age people that are mentally unstable and lack parental qualities should go and marry? This mindset is why Nigeria is battling with Boko haram, terrorists, bandits, poverty and so on. Be wise.

Yes I know d angle u are coming from but it is what it is ..man cannot have it all in life.
So part of what can make u happy is giving birth and seeing your offspring .
U cant be poor wrecked and also don't have kid or find happiness connected to your life.

Tayorshd87:
Yes I know d angle u are coming from but it is what it is ..man cannot have it all in life.
So part of what can make u happy is giving birth and seeing your offspring .
U cant be poor wrecked and also don't have kid or find happiness connected to your life.

you don't need marriage to have kids. There are several ways of having kids including adoption. Married people also get depressed. Some Married men and women are lonely even at old age. You want a girl to accept any idiot that comes her way for marriage? Nothing we no go see for nairaland

You're truly unexposed.